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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve read some threads on here but thought I’d start a new one and get some thoughts on the subject.
So I’m actually looking to meet someone like minded, who is sexually openminded and liberated, loves to have sex but also with someone who your in a relationship with.
I’ve struggled to find a partner via the conventional dating avenues and meet someone who’s into the occasional swinging or attending clubs etc, first time you mention this that’s the last time you see that person lol
So I thought fab would be an ideal platform to find someone who’s interested in a relationship or at least to date with a view to settle down long term with someone and still be able to enjoy together as a couple the occasional swinging or clubs etc..
What’s everyone’s thoughts on the subject? Is Fab the wrong place for me and anyone else looking for the same?
I’d love to hear what’s other fabbers think on the subject. Oh and any women reading this wanting the same please feel free to drop me a Pvt msg  lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks to all that took the time to read and share their thoughts.
So I’m not wasting my time on fab?
It’s so hard to find people who are likeminded unless your on a site like fab, I hope to meet that one person soon!
I think fab should have ‘dating’ sister page for people like myself who are interested in the lifestyle with someone they are in a relationship with!? |
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"I met my ex on here although we didn’t swing together.
May I be nosey and ask if you was swinging together if you’d still be together?x"
Of course. No that wasn’t the reason for the breakup, neither of us were actually interested in swinging once we were in a relationship. |
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"I met my ex on here although we didn’t swing together.
May I be nosey and ask if you was swinging together if you’d still be together?x
Of course. No that wasn’t the reason for the breakup, neither of us were actually interested in swinging once we were in a relationship."
That’s interesting you mention that. I’d like to meet someone for a relationship not necessarily for swinging but for the face that you both would be sexually openminded and be able to explore each other’s fantasies etc and IF you wanted to have the occasional swing then you both would be open to it, or at least be able to discuss without fear of the other person thinking your a perv!lol
Would you say swinging works for some and not all relationships?x |
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"I met my ex on here although we didn’t swing together.
May I be nosey and ask if you was swinging together if you’d still be together?x
Of course. No that wasn’t the reason for the breakup, neither of us were actually interested in swinging once we were in a relationship.
That’s interesting you mention that. I’d like to meet someone for a relationship not necessarily for swinging but for the face that you both would be sexually openminded and be able to explore each other’s fantasies etc and IF you wanted to have the occasional swing then you both would be open to it, or at least be able to discuss without fear of the other person thinking your a perv!lol
Would you say swinging works for some and not all relationships?x"
To be honest, swinging in a relationship would never work for me, and I don’t think for him either. We both said that we’d feel very possessive/ jealous and the thought of the other with someone else would make us ill!
We did always speak about our wants/ needs and I would say that meeting on here helped us out that way as there was never any judgement. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I met my ex on here although we didn’t swing together.
May I be nosey and ask if you was swinging together if you’d still be together?x
Of course. No that wasn’t the reason for the breakup, neither of us were actually interested in swinging once we were in a relationship.
That’s interesting you mention that. I’d like to meet someone for a relationship not necessarily for swinging but for the face that you both would be sexually openminded and be able to explore each other’s fantasies etc and IF you wanted to have the occasional swing then you both would be open to it, or at least be able to discuss without fear of the other person thinking your a perv!lol
Would you say swinging works for some and not all relationships?x
To be honest, swinging in a relationship would never work for me, and I don’t think for him either. We both said that we’d feel very possessive/ jealous and the thought of the other with someone else would make us ill!
We did always speak about our wants/ needs and I would say that meeting on here helped us out that way as there was never any judgement. "
That’s exactly what I think! Meeting someone from Fab would be ideal as you could be in a relationship with someone whom you can discuss sexual fantasies and wants/needs etc without the fear of the person thinking your a perv and you end up loosing that person especially if your in a relationship that’s going somewhere and it has the potential for something long term.
It’s so hard to find someone like minded these days |
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It can happen, but in my opinion you can't *look* for a relationship, they just happen - all you can do is put yourself in a position to meet new people and hope that you find someone that you click with. Fab is just another medium to meet new people that are likely to have similar interests and/or outlooks, so I'd say it's as good a place as any. |
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"It can happen, but in my opinion you can't *look* for a relationship, they just happen - all you can do is put yourself in a position to meet new people and hope that you find someone that you click with. Fab is just another medium to meet new people that are likely to have similar interests and/or outlooks, so I'd say it's as good a place as any. "
Good advice! Oh and when I say looking for. I mean open to and with a view to a relationship with the right person ofcourse. Not with any Tom dick and Harry lmao lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It can happen, but in my opinion you can't *look* for a relationship, they just happen - all you can do is put yourself in a position to meet new people and hope that you find someone that you click with. Fab is just another medium to meet new people that are likely to have similar interests and/or outlooks, so I'd say it's as good a place as any. "
Exactly this. If you're open in your profile and approach you should at least out those who are not looking for anything deep, after that it becomes normal dating.
My partner and I met here and for a while came off and worked on building us. As we became more comfortable and secure we came back on the site and swing together. Swinging isn't a massive part of our lives but it is very nice to be open and honest, to be able to admit that she/he looks hot and to enjoy attention from others.
I guess like most swinging couples it has taken its time for us to figure our boundaries and learn how to push these safely together.
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