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"When someone publicly presents themselves one way when in actual fact behind the scenes they are the complete opposite. For me, it's a case of be you, people either value and respect that or they don't. But when someone presents an image, says what they think others want to hear to make them socially acceptable , to fit in and you know otherwise what then...hmmm" We all present an image....its an image based site if your talking about this place? X | |||
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"I'm different with different people. That's how I roll. I don't do it to deceive anyone. " | |||
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"I'm different with different people. That's how I roll. I don't do it to deceive anyone. " Me too. I think most people are | |||
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"When someone publicly presents themselves one way when in actual fact behind the scenes they are the complete opposite. For me, it's a case of be you, people either value and respect that or they don't. But when someone presents an image, says what they think others want to hear to make them socially acceptable , to fit in and you know otherwise what then...hmmm" You cant dictate how other people are, so in answer to what then, I step away from it. | |||
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"When someone publicly presents themselves one way when in actual fact behind the scenes they are the complete opposite. For me, it's a case of be you, people either value and respect that or they don't. But when someone presents an image, says what they think others want to hear to make them socially acceptable , to fit in and you know otherwise what then...hmmm" Fab life. So many disingenuous folk. Also lots of nice people. Much like the real world really. I guess it's just a case of learning. | |||
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"When someone publicly presents themselves one way when in actual fact behind the scenes they are the complete opposite. For me, it's a case of be you, people either value and respect that or they don't. But when someone presents an image, says what they think others want to hear to make them socially acceptable , to fit in and you know otherwise what then...hmmm Fab life. So many disingenuous folk. Also lots of nice people. Much like the real world really. I guess it's just a case of learning." O I clocked it. | |||
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"Some people allow their ego to represent them rather than their true self. " Not so much ego, more jekyl amd hyde | |||
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"When someone publicly presents themselves one way when in actual fact behind the scenes they are the complete opposite. For me, it's a case of be you, people either value and respect that or they don't. But when someone presents an image, says what they think others want to hear to make them socially acceptable , to fit in and you know otherwise what then...hmmm Fab life. So many disingenuous folk. Also lots of nice people. Much like the real world really. I guess it's just a case of learning. O I clocked it. " I didn't mean to seem patronising if I came across that way. You're in the south, so if it's someone from the forum I could probably guess out of 5 people is all. | |||
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"When someone publicly presents themselves one way when in actual fact behind the scenes they are the complete opposite. For me, it's a case of be you, people either value and respect that or they don't. But when someone presents an image, says what they think others want to hear to make them socially acceptable , to fit in and you know otherwise what then...hmmm Fab life. So many disingenuous folk. Also lots of nice people. Much like the real world really. I guess it's just a case of learning. O I clocked it. I didn't mean to seem patronising if I came across that way. You're in the south, so if it's someone from the forum I could probably guess out of 5 people is all." No you didn't 
No noone in the south that I've come across | |||
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"When someone publicly presents themselves one way when in actual fact behind the scenes they are the complete opposite. For me, it's a case of be you, people either value and respect that or they don't. But when someone presents an image, says what they think others want to hear to make them socially acceptable , to fit in and you know otherwise what then...hmmm Fab life. So many disingenuous folk. Also lots of nice people. Much like the real world really. I guess it's just a case of learning. O I clocked it. I didn't mean to seem patronising if I came across that way. You're in the south, so if it's someone from the forum I could probably guess out of 5 people is all." Oooh you can't leave us hanging like that!!  | |||
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"When someone publicly presents themselves one way when in actual fact behind the scenes they are the complete opposite. For me, it's a case of be you, people either value and respect that or they don't. But when someone presents an image, says what they think others want to hear to make them socially acceptable , to fit in and you know otherwise what then...hmmm" Maybe they have changed | |||
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"I'm not sure about jekyll & hyde, but speaking for myself I can be quite shy in person, depite getting nekkid sometimes on here.." No sweetie, not that sort. More the smile sweetly whilst pinching you real hard  | |||
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"When someone publicly presents themselves one way when in actual fact behind the scenes they are the complete opposite. For me, it's a case of be you, people either value and respect that or they don't. But when someone presents an image, says what they think others want to hear to make them socially acceptable , to fit in and you know otherwise what then...hmmm Fab life. So many disingenuous folk. Also lots of nice people. Much like the real world really. I guess it's just a case of learning. O I clocked it. I didn't mean to seem patronising if I came across that way. You're in the south, so if it's someone from the forum I could probably guess out of 5 people is all. Oooh you can't leave us hanging like that!! "1. ScarletSeduction 2. ClemFandango 3. Lib. 4. Wothisface 5. Wotsherface Nailed it. | |||
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"I'm not sure about jekyll & hyde, but speaking for myself I can be quite shy in person, depite getting nekkid sometimes on here.. No sweetie, not that sort. More the smile sweetly whilst pinching you real hard "Oh plenty of those around..never mind the pinch, it's the knife in your back that you have to watch out for! | |||
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"I'm not sure about jekyll & hyde, but speaking for myself I can be quite shy in person, depite getting nekkid sometimes on here.. No sweetie, not that sort. More the smile sweetly whilst pinching you real hard
Oh plenty of those around..never mind the pinch, it's the knife in your back that you have to watch out for! "It is like a playground sometimes. | |||
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"People will always do and say what they need to achieve their objectives. That's why you don't take anything at face value but try to get to know them better. Unless of course you just want a quick shag. " Jeez no! Defo don't want to shag them haha! I don't take things at face value, well not this kind of stuff, I generally get a good read on people, amd theres some you just steer clear of  | |||
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"I'm not sure about jekyll & hyde, but speaking for myself I can be quite shy in person, depite getting nekkid sometimes on here.. No sweetie, not that sort. More the smile sweetly whilst pinching you real hard
Oh plenty of those around..never mind the pinch, it's the knife in your back that you have to watch out for!
It is like a playground sometimes."100% agreed. | |||
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"I'm not sure about jekyll & hyde, but speaking for myself I can be quite shy in person, depite getting nekkid sometimes on here.. No sweetie, not that sort. More the smile sweetly whilst pinching you real hard
Oh plenty of those around..never mind the pinch, it's the knife in your back that you have to watch out for! "Well i thought that, but its far more covert than a knife lol | |||
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"When someone publicly presents themselves one way when in actual fact behind the scenes they are the complete opposite. For me, it's a case of be you, people either value and respect that or they don't. But when someone presents an image, says what they think others want to hear to make them socially acceptable , to fit in and you know otherwise what then...hmmm Fab life. So many disingenuous folk. Also lots of nice people. Much like the real world really. I guess it's just a case of learning. O I clocked it. I didn't mean to seem patronising if I came across that way. You're in the south, so if it's someone from the forum I could probably guess out of 5 people is all. Oooh you can't leave us hanging like that!!
1. ScarletSeduction
2. ClemFandango
3. Lib.
4. Wothisface
5. Wotsherface
Nailed it."Dont forget whatsamacallit, oojamaflip and matey | |||
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"I'm not sure about jekyll & hyde, but speaking for myself I can be quite shy in person, depite getting nekkid sometimes on here.. No sweetie, not that sort. More the smile sweetly whilst pinching you real hard
Oh plenty of those around..never mind the pinch, it's the knife in your back that you have to watch out for!
Well i thought that, but its far more covert than a knife lol"Some make it blatantly obvious but when called out they are the first to spout "be kind" | |||
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"I've been tolder I'm a lot nicer in real life. I was obviously dissapointed, but it's probably true. "Well hello Mr half face, or should i call you the Phantom? that wasn't there before was it? I think it's a lovely suprise when someone is nicer than you initially thought. It's like a little secret sometimes | |||
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"People will always do and say what they need to achieve their objectives. That's why you don't take anything at face value but try to get to know them better. Unless of course you just want a quick shag. Jeez no! Defo don't want to shag them haha! I don't take things at face value, well not this kind of stuff, I generally get a good read on people, amd theres some you just steer clear of "For sure but luckily that's easy enough to do. I believe most people here are decent but there's a few who can be very cutting. I don't know if it's an utter lack of text or someone pisses in their wheaties every single morning. In the end all you can do is just bypass them completely. And it helps to be unpopular enough that you never hear what anyone says behind your back.  | |||
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"Had a social last week where the key board personality was the only one available to him. Half a drink and painful one word answers to my chat. Waste of time. " O no! I don't even think I give one word answers in mt sleep! | |||
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"I'm not sure about jekyll & hyde, but speaking for myself I can be quite shy in person, depite getting nekkid sometimes on here.. No sweetie, not that sort. More the smile sweetly whilst pinching you real hard
Oh plenty of those around..never mind the pinch, it's the knife in your back that you have to watch out for!
It is like a playground sometimes."Playgrounds can be fun! I do like the swings | |||
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"I'm not sure about jekyll & hyde, but speaking for myself I can be quite shy in person, depite getting nekkid sometimes on here.. No sweetie, not that sort. More the smile sweetly whilst pinching you real hard
Oh plenty of those around..never mind the pinch, it's the knife in your back that you have to watch out for!
Well i thought that, but its far more covert than a knife lol
Some make it blatantly obvious but when called out they are the first to spout "be kind""Sadly I can't call them out. It's against the rules. I checked | |||
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"People will always do and say what they need to achieve their objectives. That's why you don't take anything at face value but try to get to know them better. Unless of course you just want a quick shag. Jeez no! Defo don't want to shag them haha! I don't take things at face value, well not this kind of stuff, I generally get a good read on people, amd theres some you just steer clear of
For sure but luckily that's easy enough to do. I believe most people here are decent but there's a few who can be very cutting. I don't know if it's an utter lack of text or someone pisses in their wheaties every single morning. In the end all you can do is just bypass them completely. And it helps to be unpopular enough that you never hear what anyone says behind your back. "Haha! It's non of my buisness what others think of me, although they tried that one too | |||
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