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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
Reports that security guards at airport quarantine hotels are harrasing single women who I assume the guards are there to ensure compliance with quarantine but also to protect the guests.. shame on them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not surprised in the slightest. 
Nor me. But ya know, us women are complaining about trivial stuff and should see it as a compliment "
Well the menfolk understand women better than we do....
Must be lovely being stuck in a hotel and having hot and sweaty men leering at them. |
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I read the BBC News site...... It sounds pretty bad.
Once again men thinking that if a woman is attractive he can tell her so and she should be glad of it and it might get him in with a chance.
These woman are in quarantine not prison. They are escorted for exercise and the men watching use the opportunity to make sexual passes. Seedy or what ?
The women don't feel safe and this is in places like Radisson and Marriot in the U.K. It's the security company not the hotels ...
Any minute now the 'usual suspects' will pipe up that it's all fun and the feminists are ruining things for them.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The WTF moment I had listening to this story was, if they can't hire enough women security, they'd pair up men to "chaperone" each other.
Now OK, I get that another presence "might" lead to moderation in behaviour, but if you got two pervy predatorial lads together on the job? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Police are literally r*ping and mudering women. Is this a surprise? Sad but not unexpected. "
not all police.
one recently event does not mean they are all doing it.
that is a disgraceful comment to make, totally incorrect and shows what contempt you have for men.
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"Police are literally r*ping and mudering women. Is this a surprise? Sad but not unexpected.
not all police.
one recently event does not mean they are all doing it.
that is a disgraceful comment to make, totally incorrect and shows what contempt you have for men.
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She didn’t say all police.
Such an abuse of power. |
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"Police are literally r*ping and mudering women. Is this a surprise? Sad but not unexpected.
not all police.
one recently event does not mean they are all doing it.
that is a disgraceful comment to make, totally incorrect and shows what contempt you have for men.
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Agree |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Police are literally r*ping and mudering women. Is this a surprise? Sad but not unexpected.
not all police.
one recently event does not mean they are all doing it.
that is a disgraceful comment to make, totally incorrect and shows what contempt you have for men.
She didn’t say all police.
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She didn't say one either
The story is about security guards anyway |
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"Police are literally r*ping and mudering women. Is this a surprise? Sad but not unexpected.
not all police.
one recently event does not mean they are all doing it.
that is a disgraceful comment to make, totally incorrect and shows what contempt you have for men.
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Yes I obviously think every single police officer is doing it  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I read the BBC News site...... It sounds pretty bad.
Once again men thinking that if a woman is attractive he can tell her so and she should be glad of it and it might get him in with a chance.
These woman are in quarantine not prison. They are escorted for exercise and the men watching use the opportunity to make sexual passes. Seedy or what ?
The women don't feel safe and this is in places like Radisson and Marriot in the U.K. It's the security company not the hotels ...
Any minute now the 'usual suspects' will pipe up that it's all fun and the feminists are ruining things for them.....
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To be fair telling a woman she is attractive isn't a bad thing, that is how conversations started. However in this setting it is highly inappropriate
The rest I agree with you |
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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago
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"Police are literally r*ping and mudering women. Is this a surprise? Sad but not unexpected.
not all police.
one recently event does not mean they are all doing it.
that is a disgraceful comment to make, totally incorrect and shows what contempt you have for men.
Yes I obviously think every single police officer is doing it "
That’s the way you wrote it - “police are…”
It’s like saying doctors kill old folk, because of shipman. |
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"Power brings out the worst in some folks 
Don't know about power, 99.99% of them don't have an IQ high enough to.light a bulb
Know them all do you..??"
Nope but s an industry it's hardly renowned for offering employment to those who have social, trade skills or are known to be reliable now is it?
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"Power brings out the worst in some folks
Don't know about power, 99.99% of them don't have an IQ high enough to.light a bulb
Know them all do
Nope but s an industry it's hardly renowned for offering employment to those who have social, trade skills or are known to be reliable now is it?
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Your on the recruitment and selection panels too are you… |
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Tough these days being a guy. I’m being guilted tripped because some guts I don’t even know are creeps!
When will I learn. I should have done something, after all, it’s only my gender doing anything wrong, and, after all, I am responsible for them all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tough these days being a guy. I’m being guilted tripped because some guts I don’t even know are creeps!
When will I learn. I should have done something, after all, it’s only my gender doing anything wrong, and, after all, I am responsible for them all "
you rapist you  |
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"Power brings out the worst in some folks
Don't know about power, 99.99% of them don't have an IQ high enough to.light a bulb
Know them all do
Nope but s an industry it's hardly renowned for offering employment to those who have social, trade skills or are known to be reliable now is it?
Your on the recruitment and selection panels too are you…"
Nope but as an ex exec at the UK's largest then I think I am qualified enough to voice what I saw first hand. |
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"Power brings out the worst in some folks
Don't know about power, 99.99% of them don't have an IQ high enough to.light a bulb
Know them all do
Nope but s an industry it's hardly renowned for offering employment to those who have social, trade skills or are known to be reliable now is it?
Your on the recruitment and selection panels too are you…
Nope but as an ex exec at the UK's largest then I think I am qualified enough to voice what I saw first hand."
There are no “execs” at The UK’s largest
If you mean the Met. Just another civil servant. And how many of the 30,000 plus did you meet. |
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"Power brings out the worst in some folks
Don't know about power, 99.99% of them don't have an IQ high enough to.light a bulb
Know them all do
Nope but s an industry it's hardly renowned for offering employment to those who have social, trade skills or are known to be reliable now is it?
Your on the recruitment and selection panels too are you…
Nope but as an ex exec at the UK's largest then I think I am qualified enough to voice what I saw first hand.
There are no “execs” at The UK’s largest
If you mean the Met. Just another civil servant. And how many of the 30,000 plus did you meet."
The UK's second largest employer now Australian owned.
We are talking private security which are sub contracted into the role. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Power brings out the worst in some folks
Don't know about power, 99.99% of them don't have an IQ high enough to.light a bulb
Know them all do
Nope but s an industry it's hardly renowned for offering employment to those who have social, trade skills or are known to be reliable now is it?
Your on the recruitment and selection panels too are you…
Nope but as an ex exec at the UK's largest then I think I am qualified enough to voice what I saw first hand.
There are no “execs” at The UK’s largest
If you mean the Met. Just another civil servant. And how many of the 30,000 plus did you meet.
The UK's second largest employer now Australian owned.
We are talking private security which are sub contracted into the role. "
oh the company that keeps loosing prisoners, that one? |
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"Power brings out the worst in some folks
Don't know about power, 99.99% of them don't have an IQ high enough to.light a bulb
Know them all do
Nope but s an industry it's hardly renowned for offering employment to those who have social, trade skills or are known to be reliable now is it?
Your on the recruitment and selection panels too are you…
Nope but as an ex exec at the UK's largest then I think I am qualified enough to voice what I saw first hand.
There are no “execs” at The UK’s largest
If you mean the Met. Just another civil servant. And how many of the 30,000 plus did you meet.
The UK's second largest employer now Australian owned.
We are talking private security which are sub contracted into the role. "
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So other than anecdotal claptrap you have nothing to back up what you say… |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
"I read the BBC News site...... It sounds pretty bad.
Once again men thinking that if a woman is attractive he can tell her so and she should be glad of it and it might get him in with a chance.
These woman are in quarantine not prison. They are escorted for exercise and the men watching use the opportunity to make sexual passes. Seedy or what ?
The women don't feel safe and this is in places like Radisson and Marriot in the U.K. It's the security company not the hotels ...
Any minute now the 'usual suspects' will pipe up that it's all fun and the feminists are ruining things for them.....
To be fair telling a woman she is attractive isn't a bad thing, that is how conversations started. However in this setting it is highly inappropriate
The rest I agree with you"
Hmmmmmm context is important however. No one should feel it’s ok to just comment on appearance good or bad. In the context of chat then of course. Anyone in an official capacity should not.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reports that security guards at airport quarantine hotels are harrasing single women who I assume the guards are there to ensure compliance with quarantine but also to protect the guests.. shame on them"
Are the guards fit?
If not, an absolute disgrace 
I'd be insulted, even to be spoken to..... |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
Near Marlborough |
"Reports that security guards at airport quarantine hotels are harrasing single women who I assume the guards are there to ensure compliance with quarantine but also to protect the guests.. shame on them
Are the guards fit?
If not, an absolute disgrace
I'd be insulted, even to be spoken to....."
I tried my absolute hardest to flirt with a security guard at a festival…….. nothing. Just smiled and walked off. He was fit as fuck.
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"Police are literally r*ping and mudering women. Is this a surprise? Sad but not unexpected.
not all police.
one recently event does not mean they are all doing it.
that is a disgraceful comment to make, totally incorrect and shows what contempt you have for men.
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Actually there was another recent case where a police man had s@@@@@@d a woman to death and got manslaughter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reports that security guards at airport quarantine hotels are harrasing single women who I assume the guards are there to ensure compliance with quarantine but also to protect the guests.. shame on them
Are the guards fit?
If not, an absolute disgrace
I'd be insulted, even to be spoken to.....
I tried my absolute hardest to flirt with a security guard at a festival…….. nothing. Just smiled and walked off. He was fit as fuck.
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Typical |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"I read the BBC News site...... It sounds pretty bad.
Once again men thinking that if a woman is attractive he can tell her so and she should be glad of it and it might get him in with a chance.
These woman are in quarantine not prison. They are escorted for exercise and the men watching use the opportunity to make sexual passes. Seedy or what ?
The women don't feel safe and this is in places like Radisson and Marriot in the U.K. It's the security company not the hotels ...
Any minute now the 'usual suspects' will pipe up that it's all fun and the feminists are ruining things for them.....
To be fair telling a woman she is attractive isn't a bad thing, that is how conversations started. However in this setting it is highly inappropriate
The rest I agree with you
Hmmmmmm context is important however. No one should feel it’s ok to just comment on appearance good or bad. In the context of chat then of course. Anyone in an official capacity should not.
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Which is what I said
I don't agree with not being able to tell a person they are attractive in a setting fit for it though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unprofessional behaviour by anyone is just crap. Whats the point in taking the job if youre not going to act appropriately for the role? "
There's leery, creepy men in jobs everywhere. Offices, board rooms. It's not just an issue with certain job types that may or may not require a different educational background.
The worst bit about the story is the women are trapped in that situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The WTF moment I had listening to this story was, if they can't hire enough women security, they'd pair up men to "chaperone" each other.
Now OK, I get that another presence "might" lead to moderation in behaviour, but if you got two pervy predatorial lads together on the job? "
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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
The thread has drifted and rightly so. Those in roles that are there to protect us. This was about the secure hotels originally. Imagine returning to this country and forced to isolate in a hotel and all you want is to get on with your life and get back to your loved ones. Those tasked with enforcing the rules and also there to protect you, see is as an opportunity to abuse the trust and pester you for sex or a relationship. It is not professional and it's not moral and a total abuse of their position. And yes, these are mainly men and the quarantined are often women. Most of these guards will be on minimum wage working long hours just to make ends meet. Contrast that with some police officers who are not on minimum wage but who have used their position of trust and power to do similar. My conclusion. It's not about paying peanuts. It's about having common decency to women. If I were in a position of power like that I would do everything to make them feel safe, secure and respected. And that does not include putting notes under their doors, knocking on their doors late at night or finding them on Facebook and trying to befriend them. And of course I believe that love can flourish under these situations but it certainly in no excuse to pester these women. And no. I am not playing the white knight card |
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