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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped.

What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you....

I'll await the "wank" comments

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By *gent CoulsonMan over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I write, mainly verse

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By *hunky GentMan over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Food. Especially lasagne.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I play guitar or go for a run or if it’s really bad drive to the middle of nowhere and walk it off 20 miles usually does the trick

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I write, mainly verse"

I do that too. Certainly helps de-clutter the mind x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I found out this morning in the car that I actually shout OH MY FUCKING GOOD GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!! DUH!

I was quite surprised at my reaction to frustration in the heat...at least I was on my own.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I usually have a w....

Oh. OK...well, I walk actually

And sometimes I make stuff out of wood

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everything from weight training, long walks in parks/ nature, partying, masturbation and sex. The thing that truly works for me out that lot the most is long walks in parks/ nature believe it or not, in case anyone else needs calming

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Personally I play guitar or go for a run or if it’s really bad drive to the middle of nowhere and walk it off 20 miles usually does the trick "

I take myself to the coast. It always has a calming affect on me x

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I found out this morning in the car that I actually shout OH MY FUCKING GOOD GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!! DUH!

I was quite surprised at my reaction to frustration in the heat...at least I was on my own."

I find a scream or two helps

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I usually have a w....

Oh. OK...well, I walk actually

And sometimes I make stuff out of wood"

Therapeutic to see something coming together x

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By *LiamMan over a year ago

Midlands

I feel I always stay calm but if I want to get away from life I put my headphones in and run. Mainly down the canal

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Everything from weight training, long walks in parks/ nature, partying, masturbation and sex. The thing that truly works for me out that lot the most is long walks in parks/ nature believe it or not, in case anyone else needs calming

I tend to get lost in my thoughts which makes them worse when walking, but for some I guess it works x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A day fishing in the middle of nowhere on my own.

Peaceful and time to sort my head out.

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By *entlemenpipMan over a year ago

not far

I go for a long walk I used to hit the ring and do wrestling drills but those days are past

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By *ervent_fervourMan over a year ago

Halifax

Listen to Radio 3(orJohn Taverner), stare at the clouds and breathe, or ring a mate and moan.

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By *moothshaftMan over a year ago

Coventry

Go out on my motorbike.

And in this weather, commando

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By *gent CoulsonMan over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"Personally I play guitar or go for a run or if it’s really bad drive to the middle of nowhere and walk it off 20 miles usually does the trick

I take myself to the coast. It always has a calming affect on me x"
Scarborough used to be my destination of choice, sit on the cliffs by the castle and just let my mind drift

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tend to get lost in my thoughts which makes them worse when walking, but for some I guess it works x"

I am like that at first for sure but if the walk is long enough and remains in a natural setting you start to notice a difference x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Driving in the countryside is my "calm your tits" activity. I also paint, which requires so much focus that I forget my worries for a while.

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By *elle xWoman over a year ago

Doire Theas

I meditate

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped.

What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you....

I'll await the "wank" comments

"
has it got a cock attachment?

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Driving in the countryside is my "calm your tits" activity. I also paint, which requires so much focus that I forget my worries for a while. "

I think I need to get my pencils and watercolours out again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped.

What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you....

I'll await the "wank" comments

I sing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hit the gym take it out on my self see I can hit a new pr on sit-ups

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Hit the gym take it out on my self see I can hit a new pr on sit-ups "

Well done x

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration

I'm loving the punchbag again... sometimes I even stick faces on it or names

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hit the gym take it out on my self see I can hit a new pr on sit-ups

Well done x"

thanks x

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By *LiamMan over a year ago

Midlands

Playing football for me is the best. It's like you forget the whole world around you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I sing at the top of my voice... Mainly "we gotta get outta this place" I kinda make up my words...just think Punk

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By *valanche1001Man over a year ago

Leeds

I retreat to the man shed for a tinker

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I sing at the top of my voice... Mainly "we gotta get outta this place" I kinda make up my words...just think Punk"

YESSSSSSSSS!!!

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I sing at the top of my voice... Mainly "we gotta get outta this place" I kinda make up my words...just think Punk"

Id end frustrating the neighbours if I sung

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I retreat to the man shed for a tinker "

I bet you do

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By *agertha73Couple over a year ago

Cardiff

What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you.

In the old days, play rugby. These days, very heavy squats, deadlifts and bench, once or twice a week. Not much left after that.

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I don’t keep my frustrations to myself, I’m a real time venter

I used to keep my frustrations to myself then they came out at the wrong time or to the wrong person which is worse than telling those that frustrate you what it is they are doing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Long walk

Yes, walk.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I regular workout on a heavy bag.

I have to replace them every 4-5 weeks because the middle goes and they start to bend.

I recommend placing a pic of the one you hate on the wall behind the bag or stuck on it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration

I'm loving the punchbag again... sometimes I even stick faces on it or names

I hadn’t thought of that but depending on the face I might break my hand

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By *etcplCouple over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped.

What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you....

I'll await the "wank" comments

Depending on what causes the frustration,

Lego to calm the mind

Physical exertion to calm the body

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I don’t keep my frustrations to myself, I’m a real time venter

I used to keep my frustrations to myself then they came out at the wrong time or to the wrong person which is worse than telling those that frustrate you what it is they are doing

I usually say there and then but I've had a lot of things thrown at me lately all in one go that I'm struggling to process hence why I got the bag out again xx

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration

I'm loving the punchbag again... sometimes I even stick faces on it or names

I hadn’t thought of that but depending on the face I might break my hand

I've came close

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped.

What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you....

I'll await the "wank" comments

Depending on what causes the frustration,

Lego to calm the mind

Physical exertion to calm the body"

I must be wired wrong as physical exertion calms my mind x

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By *ic_khan2341Man over a year ago

Manchester

"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped.

What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you....

I'll await the "wank" comments

You seem to be waiting a while for the wank comment.

So here it is.

Wank

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"I don’t keep my frustrations to myself, I’m a real time venter

I used to keep my frustrations to myself then they came out at the wrong time or to the wrong person which is worse than telling those that frustrate you what it is they are doing

I usually say there and then but I've had a lot of things thrown at me lately all in one go that I'm struggling to process hence why I got the bag out again xx"

Give it two extra punches for me please I’m having a bad day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meditation or go to the gym.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Run

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I don’t keep my frustrations to myself, I’m a real time venter

I used to keep my frustrations to myself then they came out at the wrong time or to the wrong person which is worse than telling those that frustrate you what it is they are doing

I usually say there and then but I've had a lot of things thrown at me lately all in one go that I'm struggling to process hence why I got the bag out again xx

Give it two extra punches for me please I’m having a bad day

I'll give it 3 and hope it helps

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped.

What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you....

I'll await the "wank" comments

You seem to be waiting a while for the wank comment.

So here it is.

Wank

The forums never fail to disappoint

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I meditate

I'm too easily distracted for meditation x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration

I'm loving the punchbag again... sometimes I even stick faces on it or names

I hadn’t thought of that but depending on the face I might break my hand

I've came close

I’ve a long one (calm yer dirty mind) so I can give it a good kicking too

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration

I'm loving the punchbag again... sometimes I even stick faces on it or names

I hadn’t thought of that but depending on the face I might break my hand

I've came close

I’ve a long one (calm yer dirty mind) so I can give it a good kicking too

I started to get all hot and bothered then..... I think I need a long one

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By *agicfingers1Man over a year ago

near Brighton

I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle

I don't really get wound up though.... usually so laid back I'm horizontal

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle

I don't really get wound up though.... usually so laid back I'm horizontal

I like the horizontal approach and usually I am but being a typical redhead, when I'm riled about something even the devil says "oh shit"

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By *agicfingers1Man over a year ago

near Brighton

"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle

I don't really get wound up though.... usually so laid back I'm horizontal

I like the horizontal approach and usually I am but being a typical redhead, when I'm riled about something even the devil says "oh shit" "

Time to take cover at that point then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration

I'm loving the punchbag again... sometimes I even stick faces on it or names

I hadn’t thought of that but depending on the face I might break my hand

I've came close

I’ve a long one (calm yer dirty mind) so I can give it a good kicking too

I started to get all hot and bothered then..... I think I need a long one

Filth

nothing but filth

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle

I don't really get wound up though.... usually so laid back I'm horizontal

I like the horizontal approach and usually I am but being a typical redhead, when I'm riled about something even the devil says "oh shit"

Time to take cover at that point then

Something like that

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration

I'm loving the punchbag again... sometimes I even stick faces on it or names

I hadn’t thought of that but depending on the face I might break my hand

I've came close

I’ve a long one (calm yer dirty mind) so I can give it a good kicking too

I started to get all hot and bothered then..... I think I need a long one

Filth

nothing but filth

I dont know what your thinking... I'm still talking about the bag

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

They ball up inside me in a knot in my stomach.

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By *aomilatteCouple over a year ago

Midlands

Being honest, have sex!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration

I'm loving the punchbag again... sometimes I even stick faces on it or names

I hadn’t thought of that but depending on the face I might break my hand

I've came close

I’ve a long one (calm yer dirty mind) so I can give it a good kicking too

I started to get all hot and bothered then..... I think I need a long one

Filth

nothing but filth

I dont know what your thinking... I'm still talking about the bag

The punch bag right?

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By *agicfingers1Man over a year ago

near Brighton

"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle

I don't really get wound up though.... usually so laid back I'm horizontal

I like the horizontal approach and usually I am but being a typical redhead, when I'm riled about something even the devil says "oh shit"

Time to take cover at that point then

Something like that

I'll get under the covers with you to calm you down.... or at least redirect your mood

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By *affron40Woman over a year ago

manchester

Very little really gets to me these days. I can be angered by something one minute the next it’s forgotten. I’m pretty lucky really, I’ve learnt how not to sweat the little stuff. Quiet time settles the mind

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By *valanche1001Man over a year ago

Leeds

"I retreat to the man shed for a tinker

I bet you do

Although it’s currently 36’c in there so might have to find an alternative distraction

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By *aeganaWoman over a year ago

birmingham

Used to hit the drum kit or guitar dam I miss them. Miss going the beach to found that so peaceful.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Very little really gets to me these days. I can be angered by something one minute the next it’s forgotten. I’m pretty lucky really, I’ve learnt how not to sweat the little stuff. Quiet time settles the mind

Anger is not frustration...they are w separate things.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"They ball up inside me in a knot in my stomach. "

Thats not good x

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Drum Kit or Punch Bag normally does the trick. I think the only reason I’ve any muscle is releasing frustration

I'm loving the punchbag again... sometimes I even stick faces on it or names

I hadn’t thought of that but depending on the face I might break my hand

I've came close

I’ve a long one (calm yer dirty mind) so I can give it a good kicking too

I started to get all hot and bothered then..... I think I need a long one

Filth

nothing but filth

I dont know what your thinking... I'm still talking about the bag

The punch bag right?

Erm.........

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Used to hit the drum kit or guitar dam I miss them. Miss going the beach to found that so peaceful. "

I'm noisy enough without a drum kit...but good idea x

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By *reamblueMan over a year ago

London

"I found out this morning in the car that I actually shout OH MY FUCKING GOOD GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD!! DUH!

I was quite surprised at my reaction to frustration in the heat...at least I was on my own."

This. Surprisingly therapeutic. Problem is, most people are too close to someone else who might get alarmed. Solution is to shout into a cushion

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle

I don't really get wound up though.... usually so laid back I'm horizontal

I like the horizontal approach and usually I am but being a typical redhead, when I'm riled about something even the devil says "oh shit"

Time to take cover at that point then

Something like that

I'll get under the covers with you to calm you down.... or at least redirect your mood

Bad idea...Best to let the flame burn

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By *atnip make me purrWoman over a year ago

Reading

"I usually have a w....

Oh. OK...well, I walk actually

And sometimes I make stuff out of wood"

He walks, wanks or whittles.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I usually have a w....

Oh. OK...well, I walk actually

And sometimes I make stuff out of wood

He walks, wanks or whittles.

A man of many talents

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By *agicfingers1Man over a year ago

near Brighton

"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle

I don't really get wound up though.... usually so laid back I'm horizontal

I like the horizontal approach and usually I am but being a typical redhead, when I'm riled about something even the devil says "oh shit"

Time to take cover at that point then

Something like that

I'll get under the covers with you to calm you down.... or at least redirect your mood

Bad idea...Best to let the flame burn

Christ! I hope I never get on the wrong side of you

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle

I don't really get wound up though.... usually so laid back I'm horizontal

I like the horizontal approach and usually I am but being a typical redhead, when I'm riled about something even the devil says "oh shit"

Time to take cover at that point then

Something like that

I'll get under the covers with you to calm you down.... or at least redirect your mood

Bad idea...Best to let the flame burn

Christ! I hope I never get on the wrong side of you

I may look like an

but everyone has a dark side

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle

I don't really get wound up though.... usually so laid back I'm horizontal

I like the horizontal approach and usually I am but being a typical redhead, when I'm riled about something even the devil says "oh shit"

Time to take cover at that point then

Something like that

I'll get under the covers with you to calm you down.... or at least redirect your mood

Bad idea...Best to let the flame burn

Christ! I hope I never get on the wrong side of you

I may look like an

but everyone has a dark side

I dunno I think I’d quite like being on the wrong side of you

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By *agicfingers1Man over a year ago

near Brighton

"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle

I don't really get wound up though.... usually so laid back I'm horizontal

I like the horizontal approach and usually I am but being a typical redhead, when I'm riled about something even the devil says "oh shit"

Time to take cover at that point then

Something like that

I'll get under the covers with you to calm you down.... or at least redirect your mood

Bad idea...Best to let the flame burn

Christ! I hope I never get on the wrong side of you

I may look like an

but everyone has a dark side

Is it a dark and wicked side though

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle

I don't really get wound up though.... usually so laid back I'm horizontal

I like the horizontal approach and usually I am but being a typical redhead, when I'm riled about something even the devil says "oh shit"

Time to take cover at that point then

Something like that

I'll get under the covers with you to calm you down.... or at least redirect your mood

Bad idea...Best to let the flame burn

Christ! I hope I never get on the wrong side of you

I may look like an

but everyone has a dark side

I dunno I think I’d quite like being on the wrong side of you

It would certainly be a wild ride

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle

I don't really get wound up though.... usually so laid back I'm horizontal

I like the horizontal approach and usually I am but being a typical redhead, when I'm riled about something even the devil says "oh shit"

Time to take cover at that point then

Something like that

I'll get under the covers with you to calm you down.... or at least redirect your mood

Bad idea...Best to let the flame burn

Christ! I hope I never get on the wrong side of you

I may look like an

but everyone has a dark side

Is it a dark and wicked side though

I make the

look like a mouse

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By *asilyled1Man over a year ago

ogmore valley

Either take the dog out or go to the beach and just watch the sea and listen to the waves

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Either take the dog out or go to the beach and just watch the sea and listen to the waves "

The sea definitely calms me but doesn't help to release the frustration if that makes sense.

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By *agicfingers1Man over a year ago

near Brighton

"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle

I don't really get wound up though.... usually so laid back I'm horizontal

I like the horizontal approach and usually I am but being a typical redhead, when I'm riled about something even the devil says "oh shit"

Time to take cover at that point then

Something like that

I'll get under the covers with you to calm you down.... or at least redirect your mood

Bad idea...Best to let the flame burn

Christ! I hope I never get on the wrong side of you

I may look like an

but everyone has a dark side

Is it a dark and wicked side though

I make the

look like a mouse

I like living dangerously

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep punch bag with their faces on, or target for knives throwing

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Yep punch bag with their faces on, or target for knives throwing "

You haven't saw me throw...I'd end up hitting a neighbour

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go for a drive with the tunes blaring out loud! Might have to go for a long drive to Leeds next time Sparkle

I don't really get wound up though.... usually so laid back I'm horizontal

I like the horizontal approach and usually I am but being a typical redhead, when I'm riled about something even the devil says "oh shit"

Time to take cover at that point then

Something like that

I'll get under the covers with you to calm you down.... or at least redirect your mood

Bad idea...Best to let the flame burn

Christ! I hope I never get on the wrong side of you

I may look like an

but everyone has a dark side

I dunno I think I’d quite like being on the wrong side of you

It would certainly be a wild ride

It’s ok I’ve a decent crash test rating

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Get a slam man if you don't want to suspend a bag

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Get a slam man if you don't want to suspend a bag "

I'm not allowed to do any contact sport...May do me more harm than good.

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By *agicfingers1Man over a year ago

near Brighton

"Get a slam man if you don't want to suspend a bag

I'm not allowed to do any contact sport...May do me more harm than good."

There goes the naked wrestling then

damn it

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Get a slam man if you don't want to suspend a bag

I'm not allowed to do any contact sport...May do me more harm than good.

There goes the naked wrestling then

damn it

Not if its gentle

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By *agicfingers1Man over a year ago

near Brighton

"Get a slam man if you don't want to suspend a bag

I'm not allowed to do any contact sport...May do me more harm than good.

There goes the naked wrestling then

damn it

Not if its gentle

I'll try my best

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Get a slam man if you don't want to suspend a bag

I'm not allowed to do any contact sport...May do me more harm than good."

You know a slam man is a upper body with a heavy base that you kick and punch on target areas

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Get a slam man if you don't want to suspend a bag

I'm not allowed to do any contact sport...May do me more harm than good.

You know a slam man is a upper body with a heavy base that you kick and punch on target areas"

I didnt but I do now, thanks. Though mine would need to be a midget as I'm only little.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Get a slam man if you don't want to suspend a bag

I'm not allowed to do any contact sport...May do me more harm than good.

You know a slam man is a upper body with a heavy base that you kick and punch on target areas

I didnt but I do now, thanks. Though mine would need to be a midget as I'm only little."

They are adjustable so kids can use them as well.

Think they around 200-300

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple over a year ago

West Bromwich

I go into my own special room....... and sew

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I go into my own special room....... and sew"

Which I have that talent, I love to see things take shape and together x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yep punch bag with their faces on, or target for knives throwing

You haven't saw me throw...I'd end up hitting a neighbour

Gosh! Just by saying it you look already sexy! I could teach you if you don’t mind me holding your hand and your waist

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Yep punch bag with their faces on, or target for knives throwing

You haven't saw me throw...I'd end up hitting a neighbour

Gosh! Just by saying it you look already sexy! I could teach you if you don’t mind me holding your hand and your waist

I'll try anything once

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By *nfin8yWoman over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

Go for a walk or get in the exercise bike depending on the weather

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Go for a walk or get in the exercise bike depending on the weather"

I think I need the physical stimulation..

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

I hang weights off my todger and sing Bee Gee songs in a really high pitched voice

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By *ulldog_71Man over a year ago

Sedgefield

First choice is the guitar for me nothing as relaxing as a good strum

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By *heNYCSausageMan over a year ago

Everton

"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped.

What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you....

I'll await the "wank" comments

Wank

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped.

What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you....

I'll await the "wank" comments

Wank"

I knee you would

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"First choice is the guitar for me nothing as relaxing as a good strum "

My train of thought got derailed at a good strum

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By *ulldog_71Man over a year ago

Sedgefield

"First choice is the guitar for me nothing as relaxing as a good strum

My train of thought got derailed at a good strum

You can twang my string any time

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By *tooveMan over a year ago

belfast

Boxing is definitely the best.

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By *rettytiedupWoman over a year ago

Rhyl

I go outside, I go anywhere really. Sometimes I'll hop in my car n blast some music out and other times I'll just go n sit on my fave bench on the prom. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm the same, guitar comes out along with the Muse songbook

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By *heNYCSausageMan over a year ago

Everton

"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped.

What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you....

I'll await the "wank" comments

Wank

I knee you would

But I was thinking of you whilst doing it!!!

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Boxing is definitely the best."

It has certainly helped

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I go outside, I go anywhere really. Sometimes I'll hop in my car n blast some music out and other times I'll just go n sit on my fave bench on the prom. Xx"

I like to do that once I've got the frustration out of my system

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm the same, guitar comes out along with the Muse songbook

I'm totally not musical

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm the same, guitar comes out along with the Muse songbook

I'm totally not musical

But together we make sweet music

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By *irtydevil666Man over a year ago

bristol

Just stick some tunes on....the power of music....

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By *ilverjagMan over a year ago

swansea

I phone a particularly special lady friend when I get frustrated, and see if she is free. She knows just how to press all the right buttons, and has told me that what she likes most about me it's not what I do to her that makes me special, it's what I don't do, and that's use her for a punch bag!

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Just stick some tunes on....the power of music...."

I do that afterwards to chill

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By *ulldog_71Man over a year ago

Sedgefield

"I'm the same, guitar comes out along with the Muse songbook

I'm totally not musical

I could always help you to strum out a tune

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm the same, guitar comes out along with the Muse songbook

I'm totally not musical

I could always help you to strum out a tune"

Always willing to learn

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By *ulldog_71Man over a year ago

Sedgefield

"I'm the same, guitar comes out along with the Muse songbook

I'm totally not musical

I could always help you to strum out a tune

Always willing to learn

I have a strange style mind always play either naked or in just underwear

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm the same, guitar comes out along with the Muse songbook

I'm totally not musical

I could always help you to strum out a tune

Always willing to learn

I have a strange style mind always play either naked or in just underwear "

Well clothes would get in the way so that's good thinking

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By *ulldog_71Man over a year ago

Sedgefield

"I'm the same, guitar comes out along with the Muse songbook

I'm totally not musical

I could always help you to strum out a tune

Always willing to learn

I have a strange style mind always play either naked or in just underwear

Well clothes would get in the way so that's good thinking

I'll grab the guitar you pick out your underwear

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go for a walk by the sea or in the hills.

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple over a year ago

West Bromwich

"I go into my own special room....... and sew

Which I have that talent, I love to see things take shape and together x"

It's so much fun. Not really talented, I can just follow a pattern

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By *ormorantMan over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Little trees

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sing, work out, write

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By *ean counterMan over a year ago

Market Harborough / Kettering

Go for a ride on my Ducati. When you are on z bike especially whilst riding quite fast you forget about everything

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By *olymalelincsMan over a year ago

southend

Time in the workshop turning wood on the lathe, just seeing the wood take shape and feeling what it wants to be is such a calming process.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped.

What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you....

I'll await the "wank" comments

Punch bags are great but you should get someone to hold pads and go through various routines with ya! I only do it once a week these days but its phenomenal.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped.

What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you....

I'll await the "wank" comments

Punch bags are great but you should get someone to hold pads and go through various routines with ya! I only do it once a week these days but its phenomenal. "

I wonder which friend would volunteer....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped.

What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you....

I'll await the "wank" comments

Punch bags are great but you should get someone to hold pads and go through various routines with ya! I only do it once a week these days but its phenomenal.

I wonder which friend would volunteer...."

Ok, I'll take one for the team!!!

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By *not123Couple over a year ago

sp1

Long walks in the middle of nowhere where I can talk to myself or cry whichever needed at the time (BTW in the female p wouldn't cry lol)

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By *ruebameMan over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I usually use my Wing Chun to take out my frustration its rather good and helps release any frustration if I've had a bad day

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By *ools and the brainCouple over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped.

What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you....

I'll await the "wank" comments

The bath is my go to place for chilling out.

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By *imi_RougeWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

Go for a walk, rant with my neighbour, eat chocolate.

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By *ulldog_71Man over a year ago

Sedgefield

"I've recently gotten my punchbag back out, it's been great to work out some frustration (and I don't mean sexual) but it really has helped.

What do you do when you feel frustrated that calms you....

I'll await the "wank" comments

Punch bags are great but you should get someone to hold pads and go through various routines with ya! I only do it once a week these days but its phenomenal.

I wonder which friend would volunteer...."

I'll happily put you through your paces

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t really have anything. If my OH pisses me off I usually end up tidying something until the edge is off, but I can still stew for ages if it’s really got to me.

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