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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know everyone is different and wanting varying things from fab. I was just wondering what things put you off from responding to a profile and what makes you think ‘I want to find out more’
Fully aware women & couples get bombarded which is why they can’t answer all. |
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If someone approaches me without reading my profile or we obviously have nothing in common. I will always respond but it won't go anywhere.
If they have an interesting approachable profile that isn't all about what they want or expect then I'm interested in finding out more. |
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"If someone approaches me without reading my profile or we obviously have nothing in common. I will always respond but it won't go anywhere.
If they have an interesting approachable profile that isn't all about what they want or expect then I'm interested in finding out more. "
^^brilliant profile^^  |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"If someone approaches me without reading my profile or we obviously have nothing in common. I will always respond but it won't go anywhere.
If they have an interesting approachable profile that isn't all about what they want or expect then I'm interested in finding out more. "
That's me exactly, if Dick reads them first he usually forgets to tell me we have messages. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The lack of effort, No pic or bio
Their pictures can put me off and what they say, if they come across arrogant, entitled or moaning  "
What kind of photos put you off? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If someone approaches me without reading my profile or we obviously have nothing in common. I will always respond but it won't go anywhere.
If they have an interesting approachable profile that isn't all about what they want or expect then I'm interested in finding out more.
^^brilliant profile^^ "
I best go get some tips |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The lack of effort, No pic or bio
Their pictures can put me off and what they say, if they come across arrogant, entitled or moaning
What kind of photos put you off? "
I prefer not to see action photos and a single man showing off pics of the women he’s met. I’m interested in him, I prefer a little tease and love black and white photos |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know everyone is different and wanting varying things from fab. I was just wondering what things put you off from responding to a profile and what makes you think ‘I want to find out more’
Fully aware women & couples get bombarded which is why they can’t answer all. "
No avatar picture
All pics in friends only
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know everyone is different and wanting varying things from fab. I was just wondering what things put you off from responding to a profile and what makes you think ‘I want to find out more’
Fully aware women & couples get bombarded which is why they can’t answer all. "
Off putting - no bio (will fill out later), they've not read the profile, no pics or couples with no male pics, meet tonight messages & no veris
To find out more - some veris not too many, good pics (of both)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The lack of effort, No pic or bio
Their pictures can put me off and what they say, if they come across arrogant, entitled or moaning
What kind of photos put you off?
I prefer not to see action photos and a single man showing off pics of the women he’s met. I’m interested in him, I prefer a little tease and love black and white photos "
Taking notes |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know everyone is different and wanting varying things from fab. I was just wondering what things put you off from responding to a profile and what makes you think ‘I want to find out more’
Fully aware women & couples get bombarded which is why they can’t answer all.
Off putting - no bio (will fill out later), they've not read the profile, no pics or couples with no male pics, meet tonight messages & no veris
To find out more - some veris not too many, good pics (of both)
Mrs "
I will make sure I check |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The lack of effort, No pic or bio
Their pictures can put me off and what they say, if they come across arrogant, entitled or moaning
What kind of photos put you off?
I prefer not to see action photos and a single man showing off pics of the women he’s met. I’m interested in him, I prefer a little tease and love black and white photos
Taking notes"
Your profile looks great to me 
I’m sure you do fine  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The lack of effort, No pic or bio
Their pictures can put me off and what they say, if they come across arrogant, entitled or moaning
What kind of photos put you off?
I prefer not to see action photos and a single man showing off pics of the women he’s met. I’m interested in him, I prefer a little tease and love black and white photos
Taking notes
Your profile looks great to me
Too kind. Thanks for the fabs I now know what you like
I’m sure you do fine "
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Two things put me off.
1. If they clearly haven't read my profile.
2 If they send me a dick pic on a first message.
I don't mind dick pics on profiles etc but you don't introduce yourself with your penis in real life so why do I on a first message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The lack of effort, No pic or bio
Their pictures can put me off and what they say, if they come across arrogant, entitled or moaning
What kind of photos put you off?
I prefer not to see action photos and a single man showing off pics of the women he’s met. I’m interested in him, I prefer a little tease and love black and white photos
Taking notes
Your profile looks great to me
Too kind. Thanks for the fabs I now know what you like
I’m sure you do fine "
You do and I’d love to see more  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Two things put me off.
1. If they clearly haven't read my profile.
2 If they send me a dick pic on a first message.
I don't mind dick pics on profiles etc but you don't introduce yourself with your penis in real life so why do I on a first message. "
Can you imagine haha walking up to someone in a bar, dick in hand and a ‘fancy a fuck intro’ …. Strong success rate you think? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The lack of effort, No pic or bio
Their pictures can put me off and what they say, if they come across arrogant, entitled or moaning
What kind of photos put you off?
I prefer not to see action photos and a single man showing off pics of the women he’s met. I’m interested in him, I prefer a little tease and love black and white photos
Taking notes
Your profile looks great to me
Too kind. Thanks for the fabs I now know what you like
I’m sure you do fine
You do and I’d love to see more "
See more? :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lack of green flag , lack of bio , lack of verifications , close up cock and flange shots , verifications from years ago but none recent . Messages from a lady that sound like a man is speaking etc
Basically all the fab warning signs and some personal preferences lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lack of green flag , lack of bio , lack of verifications , close up cock and flange shots , verifications from years ago but none recent . Messages from a lady that sound like a man is speaking etc
Basically all the fab warning signs and some personal preferences lol "
Yeah agreed. Lack of verification (photo or meet) when someone has been on the site ages is a bit of a sign. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lack of green flag , lack of bio , lack of verifications , close up cock and flange shots , verifications from years ago but none recent . Messages from a lady that sound like a man is speaking etc
Basically all the fab warning signs and some personal preferences lol "
Yeah agreed. Lack of verification (photo or meet) when someone has been on the site ages is a bit of a sign. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
It’s very easy when you’ve been on here a while to get dull, negative or cynical but when that comes across on a profile it’s very unattractive, no matter how good you look physically it’s a big turn off
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Lack of imagination, confidence or ability to converse, multiple photos with multiple woman or photos that lack any effort and a clear indication that they haven’t read even the first line of my profile
Arrogance and entitlement are other things that put me off instantly xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s very easy when you’ve been on here a while to get dull, negative or cynical but when that comes across on a profile it’s very unattractive, no matter how good you look physically it’s a big turn off
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Brighten up the profile he says  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lack of imagination, confidence or ability to converse, multiple photos with multiple woman or photos that lack any effort and a clear indication that they haven’t read even the first line of my profile
Arrogance and entitlement are other things that put me off instantly xx"
I’m forming a trend here |
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"Two things put me off.
1. If they clearly haven't read my profile.
2 If they send me a dick pic on a first message.
I don't mind dick pics on profiles etc but you don't introduce yourself with your penis in real life so why do I on a first message.
Can you imagine haha walking up to someone in a bar, dick in hand and a ‘fancy a fuck intro’ …. Strong success rate you think? "
Exactly. I just wish some men realised that manners still matter on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Two things put me off.
1. If they clearly haven't read my profile.
2 If they send me a dick pic on a first message.
I don't mind dick pics on profiles etc but you don't introduce yourself with your penis in real life so why do I on a first message.
Can you imagine haha walking up to someone in a bar, dick in hand and a ‘fancy a fuck intro’ …. Strong success rate you think?
Exactly. I just wish some men realised that manners still matter on here. "
What a crazy thought |
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"If someone approaches me without reading my profile or we obviously have nothing in common. I will always respond but it won't go anywhere.
If they have an interesting approachable profile that isn't all about what they want or expect then I'm interested in finding out more.
^^brilliant profile^^ "
Had to go have a look and must agree…….very well written profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I may have to revisit my profile!
I've changed it about 9 times and I havent been here too long. To be fair my profile is written for the 80% muggles, many of those we have spoken about lol
It acts as a filter.
Plus I'm rubbish at writing about myself, I'm such a mixed bag of marbles!
I think my engagement in the forums represents me better |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I may have to revisit my profile!
I've changed it about 9 times and I havent been here too long. To be fair my profile is written for the 80% muggles, many of those we have spoken about lol
It acts as a filter.
Plus I'm rubbish at writing about myself, I'm such a mixed bag of marbles!
I think my engagement in the forums represents me better"
Look forward to when the profile opens again to take a look |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I may have to revisit my profile!
I've changed it about 9 times and I havent been here too long. To be fair my profile is written for the 80% muggles, many of those we have spoken about lol
It acts as a filter.
Plus I'm rubbish at writing about myself, I'm such a mixed bag of marbles!
I think my engagement in the forums represents me better
Look forward to when the profile opens again to take a look "
Haha! I actually forget that the forumites can see it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I may have to revisit my profile!
I've changed it about 9 times and I havent been here too long. To be fair my profile is written for the 80% muggles, many of those we have spoken about lol
It acts as a filter.
Plus I'm rubbish at writing about myself, I'm such a mixed bag of marbles!
I think my engagement in the forums represents me better
Look forward to when the profile opens again to take a look "
There's nothing to see in there really |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If someone approaches me without reading my profile or we obviously have nothing in common. I will always respond but it won't go anywhere.
If they have an interesting approachable profile that isn't all about what they want or expect then I'm interested in finding out more. "
Bravo
Absolute beaut of a profile. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I may have to revisit my profile!
I've changed it about 9 times and I havent been here too long. To be fair my profile is written for the 80% muggles, many of those we have spoken about lol
It acts as a filter.
Plus I'm rubbish at writing about myself, I'm such a mixed bag of marbles!
I think my engagement in the forums represents me better
Look forward to when the profile opens again to take a look
There's nothing to see in there really"
But how will we get to know you more then ? |
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"If someone approaches me without reading my profile or we obviously have nothing in common. I will always respond but it won't go anywhere.
If they have an interesting approachable profile that isn't all about what they want or expect then I'm interested in finding out more.
^^brilliant profile^^ "
Yes one of the best I have read. I went all weak at the knees at denouement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I may have to revisit my profile!
I've changed it about 9 times and I havent been here too long. To be fair my profile is written for the 80% muggles, many of those we have spoken about lol
It acts as a filter.
Plus I'm rubbish at writing about myself, I'm such a mixed bag of marbles!
I think my engagement in the forums represents me better
Look forward to when the profile opens again to take a look
There's nothing to see in there really
But how will we get to know you more then ? "
As stated above... you'll get to know by my engagement in the forums, if that sparks you then a chat can start up privately. The forums and when my profile opens up are 2 different things.
One is purely about a sexual want/need |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I may have to revisit my profile!
I've changed it about 9 times and I havent been here too long. To be fair my profile is written for the 80% muggles, many of those we have spoken about lol
It acts as a filter.
Plus I'm rubbish at writing about myself, I'm such a mixed bag of marbles!
I think my engagement in the forums represents me better
Look forward to when the profile opens again to take a look
There's nothing to see in there really
But how will we get to know you more then ?
As stated above... you'll get to know by my engagement in the forums, if that sparks you then a chat can start up privately. The forums and when my profile opens up are 2 different things.
One is purely about a sexual want/need"
Well I look forward to stalking your forum participation with a grin on my face haha (sorry I say in jest) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I may have to revisit my profile!
I've changed it about 9 times and I havent been here too long. To be fair my profile is written for the 80% muggles, many of those we have spoken about lol
It acts as a filter.
Plus I'm rubbish at writing about myself, I'm such a mixed bag of marbles!
I think my engagement in the forums represents me better
Look forward to when the profile opens again to take a look
There's nothing to see in there really
But how will we get to know you more then ?
As stated above... you'll get to know by my engagement in the forums, if that sparks you then a chat can start up privately. The forums and when my profile opens up are 2 different things.
One is purely about a sexual want/need
Well I look forward to stalking your forum participation with a grin on my face haha (sorry I say in jest) "
Click the green arrow... your bubble might be burst though, like I said I'm a mixed bag of marbles  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I may have to revisit my profile!
I've changed it about 9 times and I havent been here too long. To be fair my profile is written for the 80% muggles, many of those we have spoken about lol
It acts as a filter.
Plus I'm rubbish at writing about myself, I'm such a mixed bag of marbles!
I think my engagement in the forums represents me better
Look forward to when the profile opens again to take a look
There's nothing to see in there really
But how will we get to know you more then ?
As stated above... you'll get to know by my engagement in the forums, if that sparks you then a chat can start up privately. The forums and when my profile opens up are 2 different things.
One is purely about a sexual want/need
Well I look forward to stalking your forum participation with a grin on my face haha (sorry I say in jest)
Click the green arrow... your bubble might be burst though, like I said I'm a mixed bag of marbles "
Ooo the green arrow… what does that pill give me? Forums you are in? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I may have to revisit my profile!
I've changed it about 9 times and I havent been here too long. To be fair my profile is written for the 80% muggles, many of those we have spoken about lol
It acts as a filter.
Plus I'm rubbish at writing about myself, I'm such a mixed bag of marbles!
I think my engagement in the forums represents me better
Look forward to when the profile opens again to take a look
There's nothing to see in there really
But how will we get to know you more then ?
As stated above... you'll get to know by my engagement in the forums, if that sparks you then a chat can start up privately. The forums and when my profile opens up are 2 different things.
One is purely about a sexual want/need
Well I look forward to stalking your forum participation with a grin on my face haha (sorry I say in jest)
Click the green arrow... your bubble might be burst though, like I said I'm a mixed bag of marbles
Ooo the green arrow… what does that pill give me? Forums you are in? "
Posted in, but only a certain amount i believe |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I may have to revisit my profile!
I've changed it about 9 times and I havent been here too long. To be fair my profile is written for the 80% muggles, many of those we have spoken about lol
It acts as a filter.
Plus I'm rubbish at writing about myself, I'm such a mixed bag of marbles!
I think my engagement in the forums represents me better
Look forward to when the profile opens again to take a look
There's nothing to see in there really
But how will we get to know you more then ?
As stated above... you'll get to know by my engagement in the forums, if that sparks you then a chat can start up privately. The forums and when my profile opens up are 2 different things.
One is purely about a sexual want/need
Well I look forward to stalking your forum participation with a grin on my face haha (sorry I say in jest)
Click the green arrow... your bubble might be burst though, like I said I'm a mixed bag of marbles
Ooo the green arrow… what does that pill give me? Forums you are in?
Posted in, but only a certain amount i believe "
Ah ok. Well maybe I will go take a peek. Forums are fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Profile text that is demanding, entitled, negative, whining or self pitying. I tend to pick up on word choice that implies judgement of others or inflated opinion of self. For example, preferring an athletic physique could be the same as "people who look after themselves" except the latter implies more than a physical preference and indicates a judgement of lifestyle. Words like successful, educated, business owner etc are a turn off.
Pictures that are all just close up shots of genitals or action shots - this is different with couples where it is them together.
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Profile text that is demanding, entitled, negative, whining or self pitying. I tend to pick up on word choice that implies judgement of others or inflated opinion of self. For example, preferring an athletic physique could be the same as "people who look after themselves" except the latter implies more than a physical preference and indicates a judgement of lifestyle. Words like successful, educated, business owner etc are a turn off.
Pictures that are all just close up shots of genitals or action shots - this is different with couples where it is them together.
Mr"
It’s good to get an insight of people’s thoughts because everyone reads a profile differently so it’s good to see perspective of others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profile text that is demanding, entitled, negative, whining or self pitying. I tend to pick up on word choice that implies judgement of others or inflated opinion of self. For example, preferring an athletic physique could be the same as "people who look after themselves" except the latter implies more than a physical preference and indicates a judgement of lifestyle. Words like successful, educated, business owner etc are a turn off.
Pictures that are all just close up shots of genitals or action shots - this is different with couples where it is them together.
Mr"
See now ...look after yourself...means that to me, self care, if you don't look after yourself how can i believe you will look after me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like being asked what I do, how long single, these are judging questions, subconsciously they're trying to work out what your social,educational and earning capacity is, will it match there's. The other is trying to see why and what's wrong with you Haha?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Profile text that is demanding, entitled, negative, whining or self pitying. I tend to pick up on word choice that implies judgement of others or inflated opinion of self. For example, preferring an athletic physique could be the same as "people who look after themselves" except the latter implies more than a physical preference and indicates a judgement of lifestyle. Words like successful, educated, business owner etc are a turn off.
Pictures that are all just close up shots of genitals or action shots - this is different with couples where it is them together.
Mr
See now ...look after yourself...means that to me, self care, if you don't look after yourself how can i believe you will look after me... "
I would read it the same too, lifestyle choice rather than just a good body from the gym. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't like being asked what I do, how long single, these are judging questions, subconsciously they're trying to work out what your social,educational and earning capacity is, will it match there's. The other is trying to see why and what's wrong with you Haha?!"
Just answer ‘I’ve been single as long as I have chosen to be single’ and my job is so top secret that I would have to take you away if I told you, and there would be no promise of returning. See how that works, thank me later |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Profile text that is demanding, entitled, negative, whining or self pitying. I tend to pick up on word choice that implies judgement of others or inflated opinion of self. For example, preferring an athletic physique could be the same as "people who look after themselves" except the latter implies more than a physical preference and indicates a judgement of lifestyle. Words like successful, educated, business owner etc are a turn off.
Pictures that are all just close up shots of genitals or action shots - this is different with couples where it is them together.
Mr
See now ...look after yourself...means that to me, self care, if you don't look after yourself how can i believe you will look after me... "
Yeah, these sorts of statements on their own wouldn't be enough to say no thanks but when you get lots on the same profile it definitely does
I guess though that we are all looking for different things so have different concerns.
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If they come across secretive, or as if they can't be bothered making the effort, or if they are too unspecific about what they want."
So directness ? But could that come across as cocky/arrogant ? |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
"If they come across secretive, or as if they can't be bothered making the effort, or if they are too unspecific about what they want.
So directness ? But could that come across as cocky/arrogant ? "
No. It's your profile, you are supposed to talk about yourself.
It would be arrogant to say that you are superior to everyone else. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If they come across secretive, or as if they can't be bothered making the effort, or if they are too unspecific about what they want.
So directness ? But could that come across as cocky/arrogant ?
No. It's your profile, you are supposed to talk about yourself.
It would be arrogant to say that you are superior to everyone else."
Ok. Confidence appeals |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
Really vulgar user names and one line "wanna fuck my arse?" messages are always a big no.
Good photos, interesting profile and an engaging message are always a big yes!
Gbat |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
I don't respond to single male profiles full of other women, or where I can only see their todger.
I delete messages from ones with no public pics or hardly any text like ask, fill inater etc, just looks lazy.
I'm more likely to respond to a profile with pics that leave something to the imagination and where they have written a bit about themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't like being asked what I do, how long single, these are judging questions, subconsciously they're trying to work out what your social,educational and earning capacity is, will it match there's. The other is trying to see why and what's wrong with you Haha?!
Just answer ‘I’ve been single as long as I have chosen to be single’ and my job is so top secret that I would have to take you away if I told you, and there would be no promise of returning. See how that works, thank me later "
My short reply is ...relevance? Or is this important to you and why |
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"I don't like being asked what I do, how long single, these are judging questions, subconsciously they're trying to work out what your social,educational and earning capacity is, will it match there's. The other is trying to see why and what's wrong with you Haha?!
Just answer ‘I’ve been single as long as I have chosen to be single’ and my job is so top secret that I would have to take you away if I told you, and there would be no promise of returning. See how that works, thank me later
My short reply is ...relevance? Or is this important to you and why"
I guess they’re just trying to find out more, might not be an agenda |
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