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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So when it comes to looking for a potential meet how far do you normally go to, I know for the right person people would travel a fair distance but I’m the search what is your go to? |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
We have a few saved searches of 5 and 20 miles with a few with a longer radius. But we rarely use them anymore.
We have found our tastes are a little eclectic, so have to look further afield to find people we are interested in. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have a few saved searches of 5 and 20 miles with a few with a longer radius. But we rarely use them anymore.
We have found our tastes are a little eclectic, so have to look further afield to find people we are interested in."
I have realised finding people local is a lot harder than finding people from a far |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
Gapping Fanny |
"I have realised finding people local is a lot harder than finding people from a far "
I would agree there, assuming you are looking for something more meaningful than the WUU2/FAF/Meet now crowd. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have realised finding people local is a lot harder than finding people from a far
I would agree there, assuming you are looking for something more meaningful than the WUU2/FAF/Meet now crowd."
Oh yes connection, banter and chemistry can’t do the whole let’s me vibe |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve never actively looked local. I’ve met a few from London (huge place) each took 45-60 minutes to get to, even the one that was very local we chose to go to the other side of London. "
If you’re Spurs that potentially means we are very local 
Yeah a few in London miles wise is only 10-15 but takes over and hour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Distance isn’t a problem at all for the right person… my last was 6 hours and I loved the build up and the plans for the weekend.
I love exploring new places and having a local person that loves the area you’re meeting in is even better,
I’d definitely do it again for the right person. |
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"I’ve never actively looked local. I’ve met a few from London (huge place) each took 45-60 minutes to get to, even the one that was very local we chose to go to the other side of London.
If you’re Spurs that potentially means we are very local
Yeah a few in London miles wise is only 10-15 but takes over and hour "
Localish, takes me an hour to Spurs  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve never actively looked local. I’ve met a few from London (huge place) each took 45-60 minutes to get to, even the one that was very local we chose to go to the other side of London.
If you’re Spurs that potentially means we are very local
Yeah a few in London miles wise is only 10-15 but takes over and hour
Localish, takes me an hour to Spurs "
I’m about 10 mins from there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the moment because of my living situation I would go half hour max, that way I can feasibly tell my family that I'm meeting someone for a drink.
Annoyingly London isn't far from me in distance but takes forever to get to and would prefer to get public transport which leaves me feeling exposed and a bit vulnerable.
When I live on my own then I'll be able to accommodate and would be up for travelling further for a meet with the right person/people.
Unfortunately at the moment I usually get "wuu2" or some other shite which doesn't warrant a reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m still trying to overcome my fear of new places and driving, but getting there have done an hour would consider 2 hours have to check route and plan so maybe |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m still trying to overcome my fear of new places and driving, but getting there have done an hour would consider 2 hours have to check route and plan so maybe "
I have done just over an hour before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I click with someone then distance really is no object...I love driving and taking road trips x"
This ^^ if the connection is right then distance wouldn't be an issue. Even if it's just a one off then it's all good. I like travelling so it doesn't phase me |
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If I'm going to them, they'd need to be really local as I don't drive and can't be doing with long journeys.
I wouldn't want anyone really driving more than an hour or so to come and see me, unless they were really special.
I tend to stick to next county along. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
I am happy to travel quite some distance for the right person - it would not be on a whim though. I take time to get to know somebody but if I find that person interesting then really, the sky is the limit. |
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It depends on how well we get along.
Its obviously easier to meet up regularly if you don't have to take a transatlantic flight to get there, but if I really wanted to meet someone and they were up for it, I'd do what was necessary. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am happy to travel quite some distance for the right person - it would not be on a whim though. I take time to get to know somebody but if I find that person interesting then really, the sky is the limit. "
if they worth it, you travel and spend time together. my experiences tell me anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m more than happy to travel in fact I prefer it.
Most of my connections live either in London or up North, 2+ hours away.
I have every other weekend free so enjoy travelling to places & usually make a weekend of it. |
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
somewhere, someplace |
Nearly all of my meet have travelled to me, ranging from three hours to an hour away, there's only one in my town I've met that I've clicked with, I'm not opposed to travelling to meet someone if the connection is there, it's just so happened they've come to me so far. |
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I have travelled before and yes I am still willing to travel again for the right person. It all depends on the chemistry, connection and the want there. If all those are ticked then, I look forward to the whole journey ahead |
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