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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Share me your Fab wisdom on the pros and cons of long meets versus short ones.
I tend to veer towards long meets - overnights, or days out and hot nights because i like to enjoy the company as much as the sex.
What about you?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't like doing over nights but all day play yes please "
oh yes i saw your post earlier about sleeping seperately. i must say i concur - if i was living with someone id need my own room.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I enjoy over night meets. I usually have a long build up so I feel I already know them then the hotel meets just are like being with friends and just a better experience that way. "
yes this is the same with me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love long meets but prefer whole day or whole evening till late, than overnights. I find sleeping with somebody in the same bed to be a VERY intimate experience (that I share only with great friends or boyfriends/potential boyfriends)
So I usually have to feel really comfortable with the other person for that.. because there’s so much fucking pressure to be a certain way. I mean, the morning after . Urgh it gives me anxiety thinking about it…
Anyway, I’ve done it a few times with guys from fab (due to it being too late for them to go back) and overall I had an instance where I was really glad he stayed… but yeah (and I have a few id love to spend the night with) , I can count them really. Most of the time I’m glad they left, eventually x 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love long days and overnights. The most time I've spent with a meet was 2 weeks x
2 weeks? Wow like did u go on holiday together?? Haha
We did  "
U lucked out! Haha sometimes new couples go on holiday together and they come back and break up right after lol haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Time is the issue when you have a life and family. Meets fit in around that, not the other way. For that reason long meets don't really suit unless the planets are aligned in such a way. Mostly a few hours is plenty. |
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"Love long days and overnights. The most time I've spent with a meet was 2 weeks x
2 weeks? Wow like did u go on holiday together?? Haha
We did
U lucked out! Haha sometimes new couples go on holiday together and they come back and break up right after lol haha "
2 years later we did |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love long days and overnights. The most time I've spent with a meet was 2 weeks x
2 weeks? Wow like did u go on holiday together?? Haha
We did "
I'd take my chances on two weeks with Sparkle  |
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"Love long days and overnights. The most time I've spent with a meet was 2 weeks x
2 weeks? Wow like did u go on holiday together?? Haha
We did
I'd take my chances on two weeks with Sparkle "
So would I..... I'm fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Love long days and overnights. The most time I've spent with a meet was 2 weeks x
2 weeks? Wow like did u go on holiday together?? Haha
We did
I'd take my chances on two weeks with Sparkle
So would I..... I'm fun "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Long meets as it takes me to long to get ready just not worth a 5 pump splat and run don’t do overnights or in less it’s in hotel
But I mean form like 5-6 at night till like 11 at night is anuff
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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For me when I meet someone sex is just a part of it - just as important is spending time with that person, enjoying their company, just relaxing and chatting and doing something social all of which help build the anticipation to the moment you close the hotel room door and what follows.
So for me longer meets will always get my vote. |
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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago
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It is all about the company your with, and of course like minded people to be able to put any time factor on a meet. Both wanting exactly the same then the person who said two weeks will know what I mean. |
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"It is all about the company your with, and of course like minded people to be able to put any time factor on a meet. Both wanting exactly the same then the person who said two weeks will know what I mean."
We had exactly that. Both on the same page. I've never liked to clock watch on a meet and like others have said, its not just about the sex
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is all about the company your with, and of course like minded people to be able to put any time factor on a meet. Both wanting exactly the same then the person who said two weeks will know what I mean.
We had exactly that. Both on the same page. I've never liked to clock watch on a meet and like others have said, its not just about the sex
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Clock watching to me means one or other want the meet over with, if everything is right the time will be endless |
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Ideally I prefer an overnight. I like to spend time talking shit and dozing as well as having sex, then dozing and waking up to a bit more sex before dozing off again.
I have a real fondness for waking up tangled in someone and having morning sex while you're all loose limbed and warm skinned, slightly dozy from sleep and slightly achy from the exertions of the night before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ideally I prefer an overnight. I like to spend time talking shit and dozing as well as having sex, then dozing and waking up to a bit more sex before dozing off again.
I have a real fondness for waking up tangled in someone and having morning sex while you're all loose limbed and warm skinned, slightly dozy from sleep and slightly achy from the exertions of the night before."
Thst sounds like a plan |
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"Ideally I prefer an overnight. I like to spend time talking shit and dozing as well as having sex, then dozing and waking up to a bit more sex before dozing off again.
I have a real fondness for waking up tangled in someone and having morning sex while you're all loose limbed and warm skinned, slightly dozy from sleep and slightly achy from the exertions of the night before."
I must admit, I do like the morning after |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
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Long meets are so much better for me. I don't meet people I don't have a connection with and spending all evening, night and morning with that person makes it so special. Plus the fact that so much time can be spent having naked sexy times..... you get the best of it all.
Saying that, a few hours in someone's company can be well worth it if that's all you have  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ideally I prefer an overnight. I like to spend time talking shit and dozing as well as having sex, then dozing and waking up to a bit more sex before dozing off again.
I have a real fondness for waking up tangled in someone and having morning sex while you're all loose limbed and warm skinned, slightly dozy from sleep and slightly achy from the exertions of the night before.
I must admit, I do like the morning after "
Wake up to coffee in bed , talk and maybe more fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Done short and overnights.
The ones I make a real connection with I take away for a night or 3 and make the most of everything"
I think you kinda hit it there, it has to be a certain type of connection. Where it feels like l almost knew them already so I feel totally at ease to share a bed and all that comes with that x
I’ve had amazing meets that I still see every now and then but probably wouldn’t still feel 100% comfortable with sharing a bed overnight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, judging from answers so far singletons like long meets. Dare I say this is because they simulate a relationship without the commitment of one? Discuss..."
Kinda but you barely scrape the surface with someone without commitment thst you meet for the first time even if you got to know them online first x I don’t know… |
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"So, judging from answers so far singletons like long meets. Dare I say this is because they simulate a relationship without the commitment of one? Discuss..."
Nothing to do with a relationship, I am more than happy with my life as it is.
It's more to do with enjoying someone's company who you also have mindblowing sex with |
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"Ideally I prefer an overnight. I like to spend time talking shit and dozing as well as having sex, then dozing and waking up to a bit more sex before dozing off again.
I have a real fondness for waking up tangled in someone and having morning sex while you're all loose limbed and warm skinned, slightly dozy from sleep and slightly achy from the exertions of the night before.
I must admit, I do like the morning after
Wake up to coffee in bed , talk and maybe more fun "
Never mind maybe....definitely more fun |
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"Share me your Fab wisdom on the pros and cons of long meets versus short ones.
I tend to veer towards long meets - overnights, or days out and hot nights because i like to enjoy the company as much as the sex.
What about you?
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Bingo. You’ve just described me. Lol.
Weekends away. Naughty and nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ideally I prefer an overnight. I like to spend time talking shit and dozing as well as having sex, then dozing and waking up to a bit more sex before dozing off again.
I have a real fondness for waking up tangled in someone and having morning sex while you're all loose limbed and warm skinned, slightly dozy from sleep and slightly achy from the exertions of the night before.
I must admit, I do like the morning after
Wake up to coffee in bed , talk and maybe more fun
Never mind maybe....definitely more fun"
Take me to bed or loose me forever then |
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"Ideally I prefer an overnight. I like to spend time talking shit and dozing as well as having sex, then dozing and waking up to a bit more sex before dozing off again.
I have a real fondness for waking up tangled in someone and having morning sex while you're all loose limbed and warm skinned, slightly dozy from sleep and slightly achy from the exertions of the night before.
I must admit, I do like the morning after
Wake up to coffee in bed , talk and maybe more fun
Never mind maybe....definitely more fun
Take me to bed or loose me forever then "
Show me the way home honey |
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"So, judging from answers so far singletons like long meets. Dare I say this is because they simulate a relationship without the commitment of one? Discuss..."
Not for me. I love an overnight, I could probably do a weekend at a push, but after that no matter how much I like the person or what a glorious time we've had I'm glad to close the door behind them and have some space until next time we meet, whenever that is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Done short and overnights.
The ones I make a real connection with I take away for a night or 3 and make the most of everything
I think you kinda hit it there, it has to be a certain type of connection. Where it feels like l almost knew them already so I feel totally at ease to share a bed and all that comes with that x
I’ve had amazing meets that I still see every now and then but probably wouldn’t still feel 100% comfortable with sharing a bed overnight "
I've been lucky in those I've taken away. Each has been good amazing in fact. And they all say how different I am to how I appear.
I guess barriers come down |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So, judging from answers so far singletons like long meets. Dare I say this is because they simulate a relationship without the commitment of one? Discuss...
Not for me. I love an overnight, I could probably do a weekend at a push, but after that no matter how much I like the person or what a glorious time we've had I'm glad to close the door behind them and have some space until next time we meet, whenever that is."
Yeah im the same.
also i dont think of it as 'simulating a relationship' it is a relationship, just a casual and perhaps temporary one!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never done a particularly long meet. Mostly due to my dogs (they are aggressive towards strangers) but also because I can't tolerate people in my space for too long. |
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"To be honest most of my meets have been long ones but at clubs. I wouldn't spend ages with one person x
Im curious, why?"
it would bore me. I don't really do intimacy or small talk. I only really do group fun with meets. So it's all just get to it and sod off after. |
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"So, judging from answers so far singletons like long meets. Dare I say this is because they simulate a relationship without the commitment of one? Discuss..."
to be fair as a singleton i avoided anything even remotely 121 or lengthy
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"So, judging from answers so far singletons like long meets. Dare I say this is because they simulate a relationship without the commitment of one? Discuss..."
to be fair as a singleton i avoided anything even remotely 121 or lengthy
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Ive always preferred the longer meets, short meets are exciting but leave you feeling a bit flat after.
9 out of 10 of my meets have a huge social side even if arranged for playing.
Much more relaxed, drinks, music and I usually cook something too.
I also find the ladies of fab respond more positively when an extended meet is suggested, showing its their company, not just the sex that im looking for.
Everyone's got choices on here, if short meets work for you then great, there's no right or wrong answer really, just preferences
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Short meets for me
Definitely no overnights, far too intimate and boyfriendy  "
Haha exactly ! The worst is when you discover that even tho they are handsome and all, they have less personality of a shoe lol
Jokes aside, with the right person an overnight can be great x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like dinner through to the next morning. No need to rush, get comfortable with each other, chill, socialise, and have time for several rounds of sex xx |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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We prefer long meets, usually 4-5 hours minimum. We have done a few over nights, with some long weekends thrown in.
For us, more time together means we don’t have to rush leading to a more fulfilling meet. |
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