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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's people's experience of being dommed by female. Iv allways fancied the idea but opportunity has never come along. "
It's not like the porn. I mean if she's genuinely into it and not just trousering the cash as a service top.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What sort do you want? I've endured a bit of flogging and spanking, a fair bit of pegging and a bit of domestic servitude.
Women love it when you hoover, do the dishes, put the bins out etc. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I tend not to use the "Domme" word on here as im automatically messaged by men that want to be pegged. "
Supply and demand. Way more men want it than women want to supply it.
My advice is not to look specifically for women who identify as dommes. Look for openminded adventurous looking women who are into a few kinks, then have the talk if you get with one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's hard enough to get a reply on here anyway without going on searching for specific lol. Was mainly a query really for some experiences and ideas for if chance came along "
Try going to some femdom events and see if it floats your boat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure if I'm honest. I guess just in bed etc. Like I hoover my own house enough and I'm shit at it lol"
If you aren't sure...
Then research.
I won't touch a guy who's undecided....
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"What's people's experience of being dommed by female. Iv allways fancied the idea but opportunity has never come along. "
Very wide question - being dominated by a female human is lovely, I've never considered other species  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Yeah that was my aim in post to research. It is something I want to do I know that "
Trouble is D/s is a huge spectrum of activities and ideas of what it means which are all very individual - so before you dip a toe it's best that you do some self-reflection about what you think it might mean to you.
For example if you're just looking for someone who takes control and the initiative in bed but sex is otherwise vanilla that's vastly different from being a 24/7 submissive who is kept locked up and only allowed out for a Domme to play with when she pleases and by "play with" I'm not talking sex!!
So it's important you can articulate exactly what you think domination and submission mean to you - I could tell you exactly what my submission means to me, and the kinds of things I like but they would have little bearing as you're not me.
If you truly want to explore and research seek out blogs on the subject, or books such as SM101 or Screw The Roses Bring Me The Thorns - or take some of the on-line questionnaires, the ones that list various BDSM related activities for you to rate in terms of interest - they're a great way to both help you frame your own interest, but also to express that interest to others.
It will also help you decide on boundaries and limits etc. which any Domme worth meeting will want to know very early on.
That's all assuming you're interested in the more kink side of things, if you're simply looking for someone to take control in the bedroom then it's probably something else entirely. |
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