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What’s the key X factor for finding attraction?
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So what’s your top 3 X factors when it comes to FAB attraction?? For me it’s not as simply as ‘classical’ physical attributes such as 1) slim 2) blonde & 3) big tits? Rather good looks & great personality attributes such as 1) courtesy, 2) humility & 3) confidence seam to factor more heavily in recent times. But what do others think?
Personally I find I’m attracted to all sorts over the years, but by ticking these personality boxes it does mean most likely interest in a profile beyond the likelihood if it just ticks the physical boxes.
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Good sense of humour
Good chat
Tallish
I don't have a particular type, I find attraction grows once I've got to know someone a bit, so someone can be physically hot, but if we can't have a good old chat/laugh then I wouldn't stay interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thing about an 'X-factor' is that is something that you just can't put your finger on. It is beyond definition.
Someone could fail to meet any criteria that you set and yet thete will be something about them that makes them completely irresistable to you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The thing about an 'X-factor' is that is something that you just can't put your finger on. It is beyond definition.
Someone could fail to meet any criteria that you set and yet thete will be something about them that makes them completely irresistable to you"
Yep totally this for me..think Mr has more of a type |
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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago
Milford Haven |
The thought that everyone is different, so a different approach to see the answer. A reply can point you in the right direction. To the lady that said “No thank you” and kindly put a x on the end. Has given me faith in continuing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By saying things that even when written, you can get the tone of and it makes you laugh. Having a face I like with dancing eyes and smile. Being a bit of a perve, in the good adventurous spirit of the word. |
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Beyond basic physical attraction, it's actually quite difficult to articulate.
That "thing" I feel, that connection, the ggggrrrr the knicker melter is partly on an animalistic level so is a feeling, a sense and an instinct of sorts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Beyond basic physical attraction, it's actually quite difficult to articulate.
That "thing" I feel, that connection, the ggggrrrr the knicker melter is partly on an animalistic level so is a feeling, a sense and an instinct of sorts."
This absolutely  |
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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago
In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon |
The X factor for me is exactly that.... the special thing that you can't put your finger on that makes me melt inside.
It could be something they say, or the look in their eye when they look at me. How they smell, the feeling when they touch me. Or so many more things.
Definable physical attributes tend to be their smile, their thighs and their arms though. And non physical would be that they make me smile, laugh and they want me. |
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