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Finding love on Fab
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I’ve been a member here on an off for a number of years, I joined as a solo guy, made some great friends and then partnered up with one as FWB. For nearly 4 years we had a great and very active couples profile, but as with all things close with someone, feelings developed, alas on one side, and so our partnership ended. She stayed on Fab and I left. In the non Fab world I had a relationship and it was great, but it always lacked the depth of sexual interests I developed through being a member here, the relationship ended earlier this year and I have found myself back on Fab.
I want a partner, not a fuck buddy or a friend with benefits, I think I want a bonafide real deal relationship, my time away from Fab reminded me about love and the beauty of it.
Do you think it’s possible to find love through Fab, swinging and casual encounters. I know this isn’t a dating site, and I’ve rolled my eyes so many times at those saying they are here looking for love, but I think I might be one of those people now.
I’m curious about what people think about finding love on Fab. |
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We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.
Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…
K |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting question.
Having been in relationships with others that aren’t as sexually liberated therefore have zero interest in swinging etc, I’ve decided that my only relationships going forward will be with like minded women/bi men. Therefore, a site like fab would be easier to find love  |
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"We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.
Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…
K"
Love this. |
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"We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.
Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…
K"
I love your story |
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"We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.
Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…
K
I love your story "
Me too, and yours! xx |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Met my partner Jack here almost 6 years (in Nov)
We weren't looking for more, but it just happened.
We hide our single profiles and took some time away for us, then decided we wanted to continue in the lifestyle.
Here is as good a place as any to meet.
Good luck op |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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I think it's as possible here as anywhere else to be honest - just takes two people to be open to the idea, or mutually develop "feelings" for one another over a period of time.
None of which is any different from meeting others in other areas of your life, but comes with the added benefit of a shared interest in whatever shape that may take. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.
Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…
K
I love your story
Me too, and yours! xx"
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
It’s far more frequent than anyone ever admits or wants to believe.
As much as swinging is about separating love from sex, sometimes you meet a person that just gets through and people connect. Now that there are even more singles on the site, it happens with an even greater frequency.
Emotions aren’t a dirty word, the issue is more when people aren’t honest about what they want or if they’re free to pursue a relationship.
As a side note, I know that it happens because I’ve had a couple of genuine relationships with people on here and I’m now engaged and living with another forumite |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
"We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.
Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…
K
I love your story "
Me too, such a lovely couple xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.
Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…
K"
I love your twos story K you’re the nicest couple I’ve spoken to and you are by far the nicest guy I’ve chatted to. I hope you both have a long and happy life together. You’re my inspiration still |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It happens on here and I know what you mean. I’m ‘vanilla’ dating atm because I’m keen for a relationship not just FWBs! And I don’t think I’ll find it on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met her ladyship on here over 5 years ago now. We're very much in love and have live together for over 3 of those years. I think I can put up with her for quite a long time to come 
As BP said above, we live out our fantasies together in total honesty.
Mr |
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It's as likely to happen hear as anywhere else - it's just another platform for meeting people.
That said, I really don't believe that you can "look" for love, you just have to be open to the idea, put yourself in a position to meet new people, and run with it if you find that elusive chemistry and "click" |
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The thing that strikes me about any of it is, you have to like them, then they have to like you, then you have to like the same kind of things, or be respectful of the differences between you, and get on with each other’s friends and families or not. That’s without being sexually compatible, or wanting kids/not wanting kids, it’s fucking exhausting!!!!!
So it it can happen “out there,” why can’t that happen on FAB? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.
Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…
K"
How lovely, I'm envious x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It definitely happens. I think from a perspective of people who use this. The intrigue from (in some cases) seeing someone in the nude or doing something sexual, straight away on their profile means you've already seen their features, and at their most exposed. So the only part left are those cute little moments of getting to know them in person when you've had a meet. Especially if the meet is long and comfortable, it's like a post coital first date aha! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Loving the positivity from his thread. Have nothing more constructive to add than to wish you the best of luck OP and ongoing happiness to those who found their soulmates here too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fucking hell dude, it's hard enough finding a shag!
It could totally happen on here, just don't look for it. The best way to find love is to be happy with yourself. If you can sit on a bench smiling that your alive and able to enjoy just being there on your own then I would say you have the best chance of finding love. BEcause it won't be to fill any holes etc. Just purely to enhance your life.
If you dig? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It happens when you least expect it. I met someone on here... neither of us was looking in that way... two and a half years down the line... we've been married all of 3 weeks  "
That’s lovely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It happens when you least expect it. I met someone on here... neither of us was looking in that way... two and a half years down the line... we've been married all of 3 weeks "
Congratulations!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’ve just celebrated a year together since we met…we started out as FWB, then it developed to more - thankfully both of us were open to it.
Now we are enjoying this lifestyle together and it feels so much more sharing every aspect of your life with no secrets or dirty fantasies that you have to hide. We are living out our fantasies…
K"
Congratulations
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Met my partner Jack here almost 6 years (in Nov)
We weren't looking for more, but it just happened.
We hide our single profiles and took some time away for us, then decided we wanted to continue in the lifestyle.
Here is as good a place as any to meet.
Good luck op "
Congratulations |
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Don’t want to hijack the thread by replying to everyone but we want to thank everyone for your kind words.
I sure no-one comes onto FAB to find the one but you seek people that you feel are going to be compatible with and this could turn to more if you are both open to it.
This is an environment where you are able to be you and (should be able to) be completely honest with your partner, which a lot of relationships you can’t or don’t, so it’s a perfect platform to meet the love of your life.
You just do things slightly backwards…you find how great they are in bed then do the dating after |
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