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You ever split up with someone and later regretted it ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No but did have an ex come on to me one night and say she regretted cheating on me and wanted me back
Did she have two fans as well ? "
I do. She just wanted them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, I girl in Taunton, we dated while I was in my army training down there, I got posted to Germany, being a stupid male, brains in my pants, I screwed it up, regretted it for over 40 years, still think about her, tried to find her once |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ended badly with a woman who, in its height said shit like "in ten, twenty years time, if we meet up again I'll take you off whoever you're with and you know I will".
Fact is that was in the moment shit talk. I do still think about her because honestly, best sex ever, but best sex ever does not equal best relationship ever. I mean my kids distrusted her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, I girl in Taunton, we dated while I was in my army training down there, I got posted to Germany, being a stupid male, brains in my pants, I screwed it up, regretted it for over 40 years, still think about her, tried to find her once "
awww
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"I have, I went out with a woman who had two giant floor fans.
Were they her only fans 
Are you trying to promote your thread ? "
No.... You inspired me to make that thread after my hilarious and witty comment on this one  |
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Nope.
I do have one or maybe two exes where circumstances split us up and if they wanted to hook up again I probably would. I don't regret the split though (one of them moved to the Philippines and I'm not the type to wait around for someone who will only be on the same continent once a quarter). |
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Broke up with a girl when I was younger after a stupid argument and me being pig headed. And as I was pretty stubborn back then I refused to accept I was wrong.
She’s now married to the guy she met after me and has 3 kids with him.
Often wonder what might have been if I hadn’t been so stubborn! |
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"I’ve never split up from somebody, I just stop seeing them
Do they know you've broken up with them?! Lol
We haven’t broken up. I’m just giving them space.
Oh. "
And time
It’s called an astrophysical separation |
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"I’ve never split up from somebody, I just stop seeing them
Do they know you've broken up with them?! Lol
We haven’t broken up. I’m just giving them space.
Oh.
And time
It’s called an astrophysical separation "
Very fancy. What if they think you are broken up and go and meet someone else? |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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You can split from somebody and be a bit in no-ma's land for a while, wishing to get back but knowing it would not be right.
Head and heart ruling is not always pulling you in the same direction. |
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"I’ve never split up from somebody, I just stop seeing them
Do they know you've broken up with them?! Lol
We haven’t broken up. I’m just giving them space.
Oh.
And time
It’s called an astrophysical separation
Very fancy. What if they think you are broken up and go and meet someone else? "
Probably quantum |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"My only regrets were not doing it sooner !
I've learned now. Looks are one thing, psychiatric health is quite another...
Rather be "alone", than in a toxic relationship."
Absolutely this - there is nothing quite like making your own insane decisions, is there? At least you only have yourself to blame   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not in the slightest. Putting myself first is my number one priority.
If they don't add value to your life... Why are they there?
This is what I live by. So if you're gonna mess me about you're gonna get dumped. Maybe they'll regret it but who cares about them. They fucked it not me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My only regrets were not doing it sooner !
I've learned now. Looks are one thing, psychiatric health is quite another...
Rather be "alone", than in a toxic relationship."
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"I’ve never split up from somebody, I just stop seeing them
Do they know you've broken up with them?! Lol
We haven’t broken up. I’m just giving them space.
Oh.
And time
It’s called an astrophysical separation
Very fancy. What if they think you are broken up and go and meet someone else?
Probably quantum "
Thanks for clarifying was actually interested in this. Guess I'll go Google some shit then lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try my hardest when in a relationship so if it didn’t work, it meant it just wasn’t meant to be and no regrets.
I don’t dislike all of my exes but I’m glad they are in the past. Couldn’t take any of them back … makes me wanna vomit at the thought |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope theirs always a valid reason and I have nothing to regret besides wishing I'd done it sooner as I'm not the problem so makes it easier "
Couldn't agree with you more. My ex was 2 years too late. Really wish I would have listened to the friends I lost because of her |
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I regretted it at the time but definitely not now. I was young and not thinking straight. We're still tied together by the fact we have a son together - from age 16 till I croak it, we shall have to interact on some level! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No regrets.
Never actually split up with anyone, well there was this one guy 27 years ago!!
We became best friends... Then
I married him! 
Jo.Xx "
Love this
Xx |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"Nope theirs always a valid reason and I have nothing to regret besides wishing I'd done it sooner as I'm not the problem so makes it easier
Couldn't agree with you more. My ex was 2 years too late. Really wish I would have listened to the friends I lost because of her "
It's sad not just about the friends but these can be replaced but the precious time can't be replaced |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup. One person I would have said he was my soul mate if such a thing exists. No one has ever turned my head the way he has but too much hurt had gone on and then when we tried again he broke my heart before it even started |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yep. My first proper boyfriend. Basically I threw a strop and thought I could win him back but he was having none of it. Harsh lesson learned, don't play games!
Mrs TMN x"
Just play it cool, he will be back |
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"Yep. My first proper boyfriend. Basically I threw a strop and thought I could win him back but he was having none of it. Harsh lesson learned, don't play games!
Mrs TMN x
Just play it cool, he will be back "
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"Yep. My first proper boyfriend. Basically I threw a strop and thought I could win him back but he was having none of it. Harsh lesson learned, don't play games!
Mrs TMN x
Just play it cool, he will be back
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I'm shit at playing it cool. I just get to the point. Is it happening, or not?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Where I’ve been the one making the break, I haven’t regretted any. One or two I look back on and think I didn’t do it for sound reasons, albeit with hindsight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Victoria. There hasn’t been a single day in the past 15 years that I haven’t regretted not staying with her, and I reckon I’ll regret it every day for however many I have left.
Make decisions with your heart, not your head. |
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We’ve both broken up with the other multiple times. Sometimes for days, sometimes for years. It still keeps happening. We always end up back together, so I guess we must regret it. I’m not sure- it just kind of happens. |
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"Victoria. There hasn’t been a single day in the past 15 years that I haven’t regretted not staying with her, and I reckon I’ll regret it every day for however many I have left.
Make decisions with your heart, not your head."
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