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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well another Saturday night and again empty house and again nothing happens.
Don't think Im bad looking, keep myself in shape and have a decent size cock but no woman interested.
I just can't figure out where one is going wrong. |
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"How many more of these threads are there going to be this week!!!!
Guess it happens a lot then ??"
yup alot of men complain... but i do see alot of men with verifications so I know swinging does take place on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you find her one day... try a club and hopefully personality shine through. I'm all about the whole package than just the body"
Would like to try the club thing but have nobody to go with and I would be very nervous going on my own without knowing a single person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you asking for a profile critique, wasn't mate but can't hurt if you see anything that's not great"
Probably calling women ‘mate’ doesn’t help your cause. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you asking for a profile critique, wasn't mate but can't hurt if you see anything that's not great"
Your pics are pretty good (although you are missing one of your bum  ).
Your status update would put me off, and maybe re write your bio with what you can offer, and personally I would take the lone out about being new to all this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you asking for a profile critique, wasn't mate but can't hurt if you see anything that's not great
Probably calling women ‘mate’ doesn’t help your cause."
Ha! I didn’t like to say  (could have been worse, could have been babe or hun ) |
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"you find her one day... try a club and hopefully personality shine through. I'm all about the whole package than just the body
Would like to try the club thing but have nobody to go with and I would be very nervous going on my own without knowing a single person."
just go... have a drink and build up courage to go as fab is a minefield for single men. there's just too many unsavoury profiles |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it is not very likely a wet pussied woman will turn up at your door. You need to have some rapport and chat with them first and probably a social. "
I've tried the polite, gentleman manners and respectfully gestures however it always seems that the straight to the pint or rude boys have the meets, old saying treat them.mean and keep them keen springs to mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Great question Dan, the first question to you is do you live in a semi, because some women don’t like semis ?!
That’s funny  "
Thank you, Dan has ignored me and is only chatting to the women. |
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"I think it is not very likely a wet pussied woman will turn up at your door. You need to have some rapport and chat with them first and probably a social.
I've tried the polite, gentleman manners and respectfully gestures however it always seems that the straight to the pint or rude boys have the meets, old saying treat them.mean and keep them keen springs to mind. "
You sound like you need a cuddle, I would offer but I’m trying a new “treat them mean, keep them keen regime!” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well another Saturday night and again empty house and again nothing happens.
Don't think Im bad looking, keep myself in shape and have a decent size cock but no woman interested.
I just can't figure out where one is going wrong."
Are you waiting for people to come to you or are you actively messaging people?
If it’s the former, there are a million other people on here ‘offering the same’; women won’t generally come to you. A few here will get headhunted, but that’s the minority.
You need to be messaging people, getting into the forums or chat to get known. If you doing that and it’s not working, are you holding something back? Don’t try to please everyone, you’ll please no one. Be Marmite…the people who love you will then find you.
As for messaging, be targeted. Check people’s profiles to see if they resonate with you on a person level (not just physical attraction). If there‘s nothing there that seems to be in common with you, then it’s probably not going to go anywhere.
Last….perseverance. This is a marathon!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well another Saturday night and again empty house and again nothing happens.
Don't think Im bad looking, keep myself in shape and have a decent size cock but no woman interested.
I just can't figure out where one is going wrong."
Humour is a winner...
Of course it's subjective, that's if the other person 'gets it'
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I've tried the polite, gentleman manners and respectfully gestures however it always seems that the straight to the pint or rude boys have the meets, old saying treat them.mean and keep them keen springs to mind. "
Well carry on like that then if it works, but I thought your approach wasn't successful ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you asking for a profile critique, wasn't mate but can't hurt if you see anything that's not great
Your pics are pretty good (although you are missing one of your bum ).
Your status update would put me off, and maybe re write your bio with what you can offer, and personally I would take the lone out about being new to all this. "
Thanks for the advice and apologies for saying mate, it's just I get called mate all the time by woman that I think its a safe call, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Great question Dan, the first question to you is do you live in a semi, because some women don’t like semis ?!
That’s funny
Thank you, Dan has ignored me and is only chatting to the women. "
He has subliminally got their attention and is working his charm |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"you find her one day... try a club and hopefully personality shine through. I'm all about the whole package than just the body
Would like to try the club thing but have nobody to go with and I would be very nervous going on my own without knowing a single person."
So exactly the same situation as every other single guy at a club then?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it is not very likely a wet pussied woman will turn up at your door. You need to have some rapport and chat with them first and probably a social. "
Oh god the first sentence had me  |
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"Great question Dan, the first question to you is do you live in a semi, because some women don’t like semis ?!
That’s funny
Thank you, Dan has ignored me and is only chatting to the women.
He has subliminally got their attention and is working his charm"
“Poor me,” works every time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Great question Dan, the first question to you is do you live in a semi, because some women don’t like semis ?!
That’s funny
Thank you, Dan has ignored me and is only chatting to the women.
He has subliminally got their attention and is working his charm"
I know, but it wouldn’t hurt to give me a reply and quote, even if it’s a simple , it’s like yeah sure you were the first to comment, but the ladies are here now. |
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Would like to try the club thing but have nobody to go with and I would be very nervous going on my own without knowing a single person.
So exactly the same situation as every other single guy at a club then?
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Do you think a single woman might be nervous going into a strange man's house so he can cum over her pussy ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you asking for a profile critique, wasn't mate but can't hurt if you see anything that's not great
Your pics are pretty good (although you are missing one of your bum ).
Your status update would put me off, and maybe re write your bio with what you can offer, and personally I would take the lone out about being new to all this. "
I totally agree. Status update about cumming in a pussy would send me running. Photos are good. Line about being a virgin to this doesn't really appeal. You being '420 friendly doesn't appeal to me, but it will to some. You don't really say what YOU can offer, you just list what physical characteristics you want the woman to have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just keep going mate. The forums are definitely worth more time then searching through profiles
And I agree the stauts is pretty bad "
sound advice . I'd also suggest taking your kik name out of your bio, lots of women (so I have read here in the forums) see that as an "any hole's a goal" mindset and are put off by it.
It's your profile though, you do you, and keep at it. Best of luck OP |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Great question Dan, the first question to you is do you live in a semi, because some women don’t like semis ?!
That’s funny
Thank you, Dan has ignored me and is only chatting to the women.
He has subliminally got their attention and is working his charm
I know, but it wouldn’t hurt to give me a reply and quote, even if it’s a simple , it’s like yeah sure you were the first to comment, but the ladies are here now. "
Especially as your comment was witty. And it's not even 9 yet. Hats off to you sir |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"I think it is not very likely a wet pussied woman will turn up at your door. You need to have some rapport and chat with them first and probably a social.
I've tried the polite, gentleman manners and respectfully gestures however it always seems that the straight to the pint or rude boys have the meets, old saying treat them.mean and keep them keen springs to mind. "
Being respectful isn’t a technique and it’s not something to just try for the sake of getting laid.
It amazes me that a 48 year old man still thinks like that |
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"Well another Saturday night and again empty house and again nothing happens.
Don't think Im bad looking, keep myself in shape and have a decent size cock but no woman interested.
I just can't figure out where one is going wrong."
There's not always enough women to go round so stop being a fun sponge.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Great question Dan, the first question to you is do you live in a semi, because some women don’t like semis ?!
That’s funny
Thank you, Dan has ignored me and is only chatting to the women. "
No not just chatting to woman but thought would answer them as woman are who I want to meet so they would have the best advise on what I'm doing ok with or not. And no don't live in a semi ?? |
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"Great question Dan, the first question to you is do you live in a semi, because some women don’t like semis ?!
That’s funny
Thank you, Dan has ignored me and is only chatting to the women.
No not just chatting to woman but thought would answer them as woman are who I want to meet so they would have the best advise on what I'm doing ok with or not. And no don't live in a semi ??"
Maisonette, bungalow, it all matters? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well another Saturday night and again empty house and again nothing happens.
Don't think Im bad looking, keep myself in shape and have a decent size cock but no woman interested.
I just can't figure out where one is going wrong."
Your approach is wrong
As is your mindset
They will appeal to a minority, if anyone
If you are free Saturday nights to meet, start chatting a week, two weeks or even a month ahead
Build up the meet
A common misconception amongst men seeking women here is that because they swing, sex is the lead
It just isn't
Women are like pineapples, sweet to the taste, but a bastard to get into |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Thank you everyone male and female, couldn't answer everyone and don't mean to offend anybody I didn't answer or answer straight away. Lot to think about and how to present myself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you asking for a profile critique, wasn't mate but can't hurt if you see anything that's not great
Your pics are pretty good (although you are missing one of your bum ).
Your status update would put me off, and maybe re write your bio with what you can offer, and personally I would take the lone out about being new to all this.
Thanks for the advice and apologies for saying mate, it's just I get called mate all the time by woman that I think its a safe call, "
Just a tip, it’s not, use their name, unless told otherwise |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
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It's a marathon not a sprint, settle in for the long haul, try to get to know people, it is as easy or hard as you make it on here.
Best way is have no expectations that way there is no disappointment |
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