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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago
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"Any tips for our first meet. Scheduled for the 30th   "
Work out in advance what you are wanting to do, how it will work, who’ll to doing what, when, etc. This might sound lacking in spontaneity but thinking about it means you’ll be less awkward on the night. Also, thinking about it makes you dwell on it and that will “get the juices flowing”.
Also decide what you won’t do. And be firm about it.
And then relax, anticipate and enjoy.  |
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don't plan a to-do list, you run the risk of getting pre-occupied by "did we do this, did we do that", which will kill all spontaneity.
Most importantly, enjoy the moment, you're making memories!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Work out in advance what you are wanting to do, how it will work, who’ll to doing what, when, etc. This might sound lacking in spontaneity but thinking about it means you’ll be less awkward on the night. Also, thinking about it makes you dwell on it and that will “get the juices flowing”.
Also decide what you won’t do. And be firm about it.
And then relax, anticipate and enjoy. "
awkward! 
feel bad now you have opposing advice on spontaneity, but only4fun is right in his advice too... so, you can put both pieces together!
Plan, discuss, fantasise the who's where's and what's of it all (agreeing the "no's" is a good one too), but on the day, don't turn it into a tick-box exercise!
Have fun |
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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"Work out in advance what you are wanting to do, how it will work, who’ll to doing what, when, etc. This might sound lacking in spontaneity but thinking about it means you’ll be less awkward on the night. Also, thinking about it makes you dwell on it and that will “get the juices flowing”.
Also decide what you won’t do. And be firm about it.
And then relax, anticipate and enjoy.
awkward!
feel bad now you have opposing advice on spontaneity, but only4fun is right in his advice too... so, you can put both pieces together!
Plan, discuss, fantasise the who's where's and what's of it all (agreeing the "no's" is a good one too), but on the day, don't turn it into a tick-box exercise!
Have fun"
Important point that. Definitely don’t have a list to tick off. Just know what it is that you’re open to and how you’d go about it. If you don’t do it this time, do it next. And remember, it may take a few goes at this before you’re really comfy but that’s fine too. Don’t stress over it and go with the flow on the night. After a few such meets it’ll be natural and easy and then maybe you can help others get into their threesome groove!! |
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