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what am I doing wrong?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of fellas
I’m sure you will have some success though bud, you’re tall and from what I can see not a bad looking fella. You’ll tick more than a few boxes on here.
Get rid of the pointless Sydney University rubbish from your profile though, it isn’t helping you. |
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A lot of people's success is down to how they present themselves and what their messages are like. It's a lot more than just what a guy looks like. You have to stand out. Average will hardly ever cut it. There are a million average guys out there who present themselves in exactly the same way.
Look at the profiles of some random guys and ask yourself if you are saying anything about yourself that would lead somebody to choose to meet you over them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The Meghan Markle comment might put some off.
Get photo verified. Get verified in a chat room.
Go to a club, but don’t expect to have sex. Feel lucky if it happens  "
This  I think if you have verified u might have it easier as well, some people would never give you the time of day without the verification as so many catfishes and all x |
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"Your one and only photo is from 2008 
So you were on first dates yes... 
Julian Fiano is your name I believe OP  "
I am presuming as photos have been found to be a falsehoodthat this has now been report to the FAB admin and the forum mods would look to remove this topic post from the lounge.
Would this not be the correct course of action?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Referring to women as females is never going to go down well.
Are you being pro-active messaging people, or are you expecting them to come to you - as that's the impression I get from your profile.
You have to realise that fab is just like the real world. Not everyone is going to fancy you. Just because people are on fab doesn't mean they will want to fuck anyone and everyone that asks.
Think about what your expectations are of the site - and then realign them |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Crikey after a Google search.....
Famous guy had cancer last year!
Wow op do some research before you pick other peoples photos!
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Or alternatively they could just use their own pics and not anyone else's that would solve all the issues. |
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"Crikey after a Google search.....
Famous guy had cancer last year!
Wow op do some research before you pick other peoples photos!
Or alternatively they could just use their own pics and not anyone else's that would solve all the issues. "
Has the pic changed ? I did a google and a tineye but 0 results |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Crikey after a Google search.....
Famous guy had cancer last year!
Wow op do some research before you pick other peoples photos!
Or alternatively they could just use their own pics and not anyone else's that would solve all the issues.
Has the pic changed ? I did a google and a tineye but 0 results"
It still comes up on mine it's the same picture. |
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"I think it's a legitimate picture if we are talking about the one that's there now ..... baseball cap back to front....
There are 0 results each time I check. "
I take that back for now. I need to try sommat else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Referring to women as females is never going to go down well."
Yep, pet peeve of mine too. Using female rather than woman makes one sound as if your interest is purely anthopological. It hints at an inability to speak directly, as if you're scared to or something. |
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