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over a year ago
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I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Damn..... that's heavy shit.
Hope your ok"
Not sure yet lol last lot of police have only recently left. I'm good in a crisis. Like i said not sure yet  |
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over a year ago
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"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find
That’s horrific. Are you ok? "
Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.
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"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find
That’s horrific. Are you ok?
Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.
Very. I’d imagine it’s a weird one to process.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find "
Whyyyy?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find
That’s horrific. Are you ok?
Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.
Very. I’d imagine it’s a weird one to process.
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The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home. |
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"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find
That’s horrific. Are you ok?
Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.
Very. I’d imagine it’s a weird one to process.
The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home. "
How can you do that ?
Hope you are ok OP, quite a shock to the system. Do you have someone with you ? |
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"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find
That’s horrific. Are you ok?
Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.
Very. I’d imagine it’s a weird one to process.
The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home. "
There’s something very wrong there  |
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"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find
That’s horrific. Are you ok?
Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.
Very. I’d imagine it’s a weird one to process.
The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home. "
Oh god. How awful! |
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"The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home. "
What kind of person would do that ffs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find Whyyyy?"
I suspect many reasons and I'd rather not think of others. Lets just say positioning and location of her was standard shall we say.
I'll be checking in on him tomorrow, either way it would have been traumatic for him and he also needs my support.
The police have spent a lot of time with him today |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Things will be more clear by sunrise..
Hopefully you'll be able to get some sleep later on though. "
Yea should do, glad I said no to cpr and chest compressions, i knew it was too late but there was a moment where I thought but what if its not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It can take a bit of processing, everyone’s different.
Don’t be scared to talk and if you find it’s causing difficulties (sleeping, eating, depression etc..) then please seek assistance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Things will be more clear by sunrise..
Hopefully you'll be able to get some sleep later on though.
Yea should do, glad I said no to cpr and chest compressions, i knew it was too late but there was a moment where I thought but what if its not"
You did right, there's no chance in that odd scenario. More than 5 minutes without oxygen, the brain dies permanently...
Surely been there for some time.
Don't dwell or analyse anything you did right or wrong x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find
That’s horrific. Are you ok?
Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.
Very. I’d imagine it’s a weird one to process.
The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home.
How can you do that ?
Hope you are ok OP, quite a shock to the system. Do you have someone with you ? "
Nope, but it's cool |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find
That’s horrific. Are you ok?
Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.
Very. I’d imagine it’s a weird one to process.
The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home.
There’s something very wrong there "
Yes well that's my next task, but I'll leave that to tomorrow's I think lol |
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"The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home.
What kind of person would do that ffs "
I kind of get it, and can only begin to imagine what its been like for him. Then knowing when I asked for the key it was all about to become very real |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I did know them, what was odder is that i got the key off someone who knew she was dead and left her, also knowing what i was going to walking in to find
That’s horrific. Are you ok?
Dunno. I think so. It's all very odd.
Very. I’d imagine it’s a weird one to process.
The weird bit is that someone knew she was dead,or at leat dyeing, didn't tell anyone, wrapped her up in a blanket and then left her there. 2 or 3 days. Went back home.
Oh god. How awful!"
For him too i suspect |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It can take a bit of processing, everyone’s different.
Don’t be scared to talk and if you find it’s causing difficulties (sleeping, eating, depression etc..) then please seek assistance. "
I will  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Things will be more clear by sunrise..
Hopefully you'll be able to get some sleep later on though.
Yea should do, glad I said no to cpr and chest compressions, i knew it was too late but there was a moment where I thought but what if its not
You did right, there's no chance in that odd scenario. More than 5 minutes without oxygen, the brain dies permanently...
Surely been there for some time.
Don't dwell or analyse anything you did right or wrong x "
Well there are things I regret but it could have been worse |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Things will be more clear by sunrise..
Hopefully you'll be able to get some sleep later on though.
Yea should do, glad I said no to cpr and chest compressions, i knew it was too late but there was a moment where I thought but what if its not
You did right, there's no chance in that odd scenario. More than 5 minutes without oxygen, the brain dies permanently...
Surely been there for some time.
Don't dwell or analyse anything you did right or wrong x "
No I did do right there, I think if I had tonight would be a different story. Not going into detals |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now, would this be considered an attention seeking post? Pmsl! 
well it wasn't the day i thought it was going to be!
Is it buggery! it’s an offloading kinda post. Everyone needs that sometimes. "
Haha! O that's good  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now, would this be considered an attention seeking post? Pmsl!
well it wasn't the day i thought it was going to be!
It’s allowed! You probably need the support!  "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's good to talk about it.. get it off your chest..
In person, or on here... "
For as much as I talk... I'm not a big talker when it comes to me, o the irony |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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God I hope you are ok? Please seek help if you need too, and it might be a few days it hits while your brain processes it
It's never easy, seen a few dead bodies in my time. Like I say, it's never easy x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"God I hope you are ok? Please seek help if you need too, and it might be a few days it hits while your brain processes it
It's never easy, seen a few dead bodies in my time. Like I say, it's never easy x"
Not my first, but definitely the oddest situation.
I have now decided i don't want to work in funeral home, I had been playing with the idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"God I hope you are ok? Please seek help if you need too, and it might be a few days it hits while your brain processes it
It's never easy, seen a few dead bodies in my time. Like I say, it's never easy x
Not my first, but definitely the oddest situation.
I have now decided i don't want to work in funeral home, I had been playing with the idea"
Very, I have never seen one under those circumstances....
Yeah it is a job I would like to do, not so much dealing with the dead but more so supporting the families. A friend of mine owns a funeral parlour and he says the industry is so short of women funeral directors...they get a few requests off family for a female to deal with their loved one as very often their deceased has never had a man see her naked, I have stepped in in the past under those circumstances
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"God I hope you are ok? Please seek help if you need too, and it might be a few days it hits while your brain processes it
It's never easy, seen a few dead bodies in my time. Like I say, it's never easy x
Not my first, but definitely the oddest situation.
I have now decided i don't want to work in funeral home, I had been playing with the idea
Very, I have never seen one under those circumstances....
Yeah it is a job I would like to do, not so much dealing with the dead but more so supporting the families. A friend of mine owns a funeral parlour and he says the industry is so short of women funeral directors...they get a few requests off family for a female to deal with their loved one as very often their deceased has never had a man see her naked, I have stepped in in the past under those circumstances
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Yea it was the family side and helping with arrangments and the processing, not the processing of the body so much.
Well maybe, i dont know. But am interested in the afore mentioned |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well done you...you kept your head and dealt with the situation admirably...my heartfelt sympathy to you and all those involved...you certainly earned your blue Peter badge today xx hugs  "
Haha!
I definitely did! |
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