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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Evening fabbers & fabbettes
When looking for a person on fab...do we look for someone similar to ourselves?
Do tattooed women look for tattooed men?,do chubby guys look for chubby women? So do we seek in others what we like about ourselves? |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I look for someone who would bring out the best side of me. So someone chatty, funny, slightly outgoing.
Two introverts would be a bit awkward!
I like them filthy too as I’m a bit of a goer on the quiet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never thought about it but I think I do. Someone laid back, similar sense of humour and to paraphrase Luna "someone filthy because I'm a bit of a goer on the sly".
Looks wise I'd like them to look a bit different to me though  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I look for someone who would bring out the best side of me. So someone chatty, funny, slightly outgoing.
Two introverts would be a bit awkward!
I like them filthy too as I’m a bit of a goer on the quiet. "
If its inside of you it doesn't need bringing out....its probably already out but you dont notice x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get women contact me I never expect to hear from.
Sometimes I feel I'm way way out of their league So I may have viewed them which is why they ask why I didn't message.
If I develop something with them then great, if not we move on.
I do stay away from women I see complaining about men on the forum as I don't need that miserable crap and she's always going to find fault with something.
But in the whole, my experiences are good, I don't meet all the time but the choices I've made have been good ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally no as we are fugly to the max and seeing as we are only on here for my wife she doesn’t really want a mini me to be fair and I don’t blame her !!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Evening fabbers & fabbettes
When looking for a person on fab...do we look for someone similar to ourselves?
Do tattooed women look for tattooed men?,do chubby guys look for chubby women? So do we seek in others what we like about ourselves?"
Nope… I love tall, muscly, tatts on arms with a cheeky look to them. So basically the opposite |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Opposites attract in my opinion. I'm very reserved and super chill but usually attract ladies who are very outgoing and very talkative. I have a very open and calming effect on them apparently.  "
Do you become less reserved the more you know someone or generally stay the same? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I'm pretty quiet and reserved when I first meet people .I really wish I wasn't so reserved .I tend to attract people who are more outgoing and who encourage me to do things I'd like to try but never have the guts to in normal life.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As clichéd as it may sound; from a physical attributes standpoint, no I don't (who'd want to find a woman with a moustache and hairy back?!), but when it comes to brains, conversation, preferences and humour, hell yes I'm looking for the same!
*n.b. if you are a woman with similar preferences, good conversation and humour AND have a moustache and hairy back; I'd get over it!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As clichéd as it may sound; from a physical attributes standpoint, no I don't (who'd want to find a woman with a moustache and hairy back?!), but when it comes to brains, conversation, preferences and humour, hell yes I'm looking for the same!
*n.b. if you are a woman with similar preferences, good conversation and humour AND have a moustache and hairy back; I'd get over it! "
How do you feel about a woman with a beard? Just asking for a friend  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As clichéd as it may sound; from a physical attributes standpoint, no I don't (who'd want to find a woman with a moustache and hairy back?!), but when it comes to brains, conversation, preferences and humour, hell yes I'm looking for the same!
*n.b. if you are a woman with similar preferences, good conversation and humour AND have a moustache and hairy back; I'd get over it! "
But your picking up on obvious physical differences....maybe you like a nice bum because you think you have a nice bum or maybe it's the eyes because someone said once you have nice eyes??? |
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"As clichéd as it may sound; from a physical attributes standpoint, no I don't (who'd want to find a woman with a moustache and hairy back?!), but when it comes to brains, conversation, preferences and humour, hell yes I'm looking for the same!
*n.b. if you are a woman with similar preferences, good conversation and humour AND have a moustache and hairy back; I'd get over it! "
Phew, that'll save some money on waxing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As clichéd as it may sound; from a physical attributes standpoint, no I don't (who'd want to find a woman with a moustache and hairy back?!), but when it comes to brains, conversation, preferences and humour, hell yes I'm looking for the same!
*n.b. if you are a woman with similar preferences, good conversation and humour AND have a moustache and hairy back; I'd get over it!
But your picking up on obvious physical differences....maybe you like a nice bum because you think you have a nice bum or maybe it's the eyes because someone said once you have nice eyes???"
I think it was clear that you meant like someone who’s very similar but a female or male version of ourselves obvs x
So if someone was edgy looking , to go with a similar version of that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ideally I'd like someone who also chats to pigeons but never found one.  "
Can hang around Trafalgar square I'm sure theres someone there talking to pigeons |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ideally I'd like someone who also chats to pigeons but never found one.
Can hang around Trafalgar square I'm sure theres someone there talking to pigeons"
In a grubby mac? That'll be me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But your picking up on obvious physical differences....maybe you like a nice bum because you think you have a nice bum or maybe it's the eyes because someone said once you have nice eyes???
I think it was clear that you meant like someone who’s very similar but a female or male version of ourselves obvs x
So if someone was edgy looking , to go with a similar version of that "
yes, it was clear, and that's how I answered; no, I don't specifically go for someone with similar attributes, I go for someone with attributes I like. If they happen to be similar to mine then, lucky coincidence.
But mentally, same page please!  |
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"I look for someone who would bring out the best side of me. So someone chatty, funny, slightly outgoing.
Two introverts would be a bit awkward!
I like them filthy too as I’m a bit of a goer on the quiet. "
On the quiet!!?? We all knew that anyway!! |
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Interesting one, OP!
Mentally we have to spark, to get on, to laugh together. But physically I really don't have a type so it's not something I've ever considered. They must have a twinkle in their eye, though, which is something I've also been told I have...
Mrs TMN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m one of those crazy fools that likes people just the way they are, if I like you then I just like you, doesn’t matter if you are bigger, small or anything in between  "
Make that 2 crazy fools If I like you then I like you - something about you will have made you stand out, to me, from the homogenous rest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There’s physical and then emotional… physically no I don’t look for someone who mirrors me, but emotionally probably has to have similar values, passions etc.. but not all attributes, as some things I dislike about myself and like in others |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Evening fabbers & fabbettes
When looking for a person on fab...do we look for someone similar to ourselves?
Do tattooed women look for tattooed men?,do chubby guys look for chubby women? So do we seek in others what we like about ourselves?"
Nope. Opposites attract |
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"I’m one of those crazy fools that likes people just the way they are, if I like you then I just like you, doesn’t matter if you are bigger, small or anything in between
Make that 2 crazy fools If I like you then I like you - something about you will have made you stand out, to me, from the homogenous rest."
We stand out alright |
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I do go for people with similar personalities, similar worldviews, similar values. Hopefully he'd have a higher tolerance for bullshit than I do, because otherwise he'd never put up with me.
Physically though, while I like blokes of many shapes and sizes if I went for someone as fat as I am we'd never get the right bits into contact, it would be like two weebles getting it on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m one of those crazy fools that likes people just the way they are, if I like you then I just like you, doesn’t matter if you are bigger, small or anything in between
Make that 2 crazy fools If I like you then I like you - something about you will have made you stand out, to me, from the homogenous rest.
We stand out alright "
Like two nuns at a gangbang |
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I look for someone that challenges me, someone that pushes me, someone that doesn’t say “what do you like to do” but rather says “this is what I like to do” and expects the same.
I look for someone that is mischievous, daring, yet kind. Someone that understands their value as a person but knowing this doesn’t lead them to arrogance.
I haven’t had a meet in 2 years
Is the above me? Probably not, but Delusional_Devon doesn’t have the same ring…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I look for someone who would bring out the best side of me. So someone chatty, funny, slightly outgoing.
Two introverts would be a bit awkward!
I like them filthy too as I’m a bit of a goer on the quiet. "
Shazam!!! |
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Nope, I look for women of all kinds and I know they're very different to me.
For a start their boobs don't tend to fall off unlike mine and when I look inside my knickers I have a sticky out bit where they mostly don't  |
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"Nope, I look for women of all kinds and I know they're very different to me.
For a start their boobs don't tend to fall off unlike mine and when I look inside my knickers I have a sticky out bit where they mostly don't "
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"I’m one of those crazy fools that likes people just the way they are, if I like you then I just like you, doesn’t matter if you are bigger, small or anything in between
Make that 2 crazy fools If I like you then I like you - something about you will have made you stand out, to me, from the homogenous rest.
We stand out alright
Like two nuns at a gangbang "
We’d like to join in but don’t know which bit to get hold of first |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m one of those crazy fools that likes people just the way they are, if I like you then I just like you, doesn’t matter if you are bigger, small or anything in between
Make that 2 crazy fools If I like you then I like you - something about you will have made you stand out, to me, from the homogenous rest.
We stand out alright
Like two nuns at a gangbang
We’d like to join in but don’t know which bit to get hold of first "
I can actually picture that Then just going for a drink 'coz it's all too confusing |
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"I’m one of those crazy fools that likes people just the way they are, if I like you then I just like you, doesn’t matter if you are bigger, small or anything in between
Make that 2 crazy fools If I like you then I like you - something about you will have made you stand out, to me, from the homogenous rest.
We stand out alright
Like two nuns at a gangbang
We’d like to join in but don’t know which bit to get hold of first
I can actually picture that Then just going for a drink 'coz it's all too confusing"
After a few drink I’ll show you mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m one of those crazy fools that likes people just the way they are, if I like you then I just like you, doesn’t matter if you are bigger, small or anything in between
Make that 2 crazy fools If I like you then I like you - something about you will have made you stand out, to me, from the homogenous rest.
We stand out alright
Like two nuns at a gangbang
We’d like to join in but don’t know which bit to get hold of first
I can actually picture that Then just going for a drink 'coz it's all too confusing
After a few drink I’ll show you mine "
After a few I might even play George for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Evening fabbers & fabbettes
When looking for a person on fab...do we look for someone similar to ourselves?
Do tattooed women look for tattooed men?,do chubby guys look for chubby women? So do we seek in others what we like about ourselves?"
I'm a fat, middle aged woman looking for skinny, young men. Looking but not finding ;-p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope. I look for happiness and joy in a lass
And hopefully one who isn’t paranoid "
How the fuck do you know I’m
Paranoid?! I knew it, I knew someone was listening in on me!!
I better change the bedding, where’s that foil hat, I’m going to delete all my apps, shit shit shit’ |
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"Nope. I look for happiness and joy in a lass
And hopefully one who isn’t paranoid
How the fuck do you know I’m
Paranoid?! I knew it, I knew someone was listening in on me!!
I better change the bedding, where’s that foil hat, I’m going to delete all my apps, shit shit shit’"
Sandy to base, Sandy to base, target has made us, abort mission, repeat, abort mission |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope. I look for happiness and joy in a lass
And hopefully one who isn’t paranoid
How the fuck do you know I’m
Paranoid?! I knew it, I knew someone was listening in on me!!
I better change the bedding, where’s that foil hat, I’m going to delete all my apps, shit shit shit’
Sandy to base, Sandy to base, target has made us, abort mission, repeat, abort mission "
Hehe. I had a dream once about such a thing. Woke up feeling weird! |
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"Nope. I look for happiness and joy in a lass
And hopefully one who isn’t paranoid
How the fuck do you know I’m
Paranoid?! I knew it, I knew someone was listening in on me!!
I better change the bedding, where’s that foil hat, I’m going to delete all my apps, shit shit shit’
Sandy to base, Sandy to base, target has made us, abort mission, repeat, abort mission
Hehe. I had a dream once about such a thing. Woke up feeling weird!"
Yes we monitored it .. I mean did you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I guess so - or at least people who are likep I believe myself to be. I met her ladyship on here and the biggest attraction of her profile was that she described herself as kind - and she genuinely is the kindest person I have ever met.
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