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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use to do this all the time untill it was pointed out on every occasion. I bite my tongue now and smile.
No idea as to why i did it ... Prob because i thought i was always right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not fussed whether I have the first word, or the last word, and sure as heck I don't need to have it. What I do like is a word, and today my word is poontang
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"In a thread or in general ?  Either
In a thread I hope for a reply 
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It is great to get a reply I agree, having said that I would not necessarily feel ignored if I did not get one every time. People log on and off, sometimes get side tracked... or feel they have said all they wanted to say. Mind thats more on the threads rather than in real life perhaps. |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"do you have to have it? And if so... why? And if not... why not?
as a younster i would, got me into bother now and then..
now i just smile... "
KNow what you mean - learning the hard way at school, eh? |
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"do you have to have it? And if so... why? And if not... why not? "
No I seldom need the last word.
I'd go as far as to say I'd only need the last word if I was trying to save someone from ill fate.
I don't need the last word on here - ever.
There are times when pure ignorance, inexperience and emotional/mental instability in their truest form simply shine from certain people.
It's best all round to recognise that despite having the tools and the wherewithall, that paucity of time coupled with the profound density of certain people that any effort would be a total waste of time and void of any pleasure.
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"do you have to have it? And if so... why? And if not... why not?
No I seldom need the last word.
I'd go as far as to say I'd only need the last word if I was trying to save someone from ill fate.
I don't need the last word on here - ever.
There are times when pure ignorance, inexperience and emotional/mental instability in their truest form simply shine from certain people.
It's best all round to recognise that despite having the tools and the wherewithall, that paucity of time coupled with the profound density of certain people that any effort would be a total waste of time and void of any pleasure.
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I ll hand the sceptre over to you....willingly... |
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"do you have to have it? And if so... why? And if not... why not?
as a younster i would, got me into bother now and then..
now i just smile... KNow what you mean - learning the hard way at school, eh?"
yes, battle of wills..
usually will i get away with this or will they larrup me lol..
thing is when i knew i was right i would never back down.. |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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thing is when i knew i was right i would never back down.."
It is hard, on a serious matter, to back down when you know you are right. Could actually become a moral dilemma. (Being serious for a moment) |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I have my say and that's it, grew up with three sister so the last word was usually not mine.
Always gets to people to have your say and leave it at that "
THere is a certain "power" I guess in allowing things to be left "in the room" so to speak. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well. I think unless your prepared to accompany your "last word" with a dramatic ever-so-camp flounce-out….!.
There’s little point to it………….
So this is Sox-flouncing out! ………Sox-flounce !!……….Sox-flounce………!!!
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Well. I think unless your prepared to accompany your "last word" with a dramatic ever-so-camp flounce-out….!.
There’s little point to it………….
So this is Sox-flouncing out! ………Sox-flounce !!……….Sox-flounce………!!!
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Want the live demo now!!!! |
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thing is when i knew i was right i would never back down.. It is hard, on a serious matter, to back down when you know you are right. Could actually become a moral dilemma. (Being serious for a moment) "
depends on the situation, as one ahem gets a tad older one learns that some will listen and take on board that which is offered..
some wont, and thats fine..
we all learn by our experiences.. |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"One doesnt need to have the last word when one IS the last word...  "
Heck - I already gave the sceptre to Granny... Could you please fight for the last word amongst yourselves and let me know the outcome? |
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thing is when i knew i was right i would never back down.. It is hard, on a serious matter, to back down when you know you are right. Could actually become a moral dilemma. (Being serious for a moment) "
That's okay for kids. Or fictitious American Cops and even overly beautiful and emotional Hosp. Emergency Docs with a dying equally beautiful before them.
In reality 'knowing' you are right is sufficient but your right not happening doesn't have such an enormous consequence on the world as you'd like to think it does.
Other people's truths work just as well.
You can't control the universe.
See... im going to have to leave this thread now and start another one
I'll be back with a coffee.
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"I have my say and that's it, grew up with three sister so the last word was usually not mine.
Always gets to people to have your say and leave it at that THere is a certain "power" I guess in allowing things to be left "in the room" so to speak."
Who said power without control is nothing |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I have my say and that's it, grew up with three sister so the last word was usually not mine.
Always gets to people to have your say and leave it at that THere is a certain "power" I guess in allowing things to be left "in the room" so to speak.
Who said power without control is nothing "
;-) nice one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well. I think unless your prepared to accompany your "last word" with a dramatic ever-so-camp flounce-out….!.
There’s little point to it………….
So this is Sox-flouncing out! ………Sox-flounce !!……….Sox-flounce………!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One doesnt need to have the last word when one IS the last word... Heck - I already gave the sceptre to Granny... Could you please fight for the last word amongst yourselves and let me know the outcome? "
Fight...? Granny...?
Hell no...!!
I "know" when Im outgunned...;-);-) |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"One doesnt need to have the last word when one IS the last word... Heck - I already gave the sceptre to Granny... Could you please fight for the last word amongst yourselves and let me know the outcome?
Fight...? Granny...?
Hell no...!!
I "know" when Im outgunned...;-);-)"
Its ok, she has gone swimming |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
There is just one person that I have circular 'conversations' with. Neither of us like to let the other have the last word. The other person will change the subject as their way of ending it and then toss it back in the other direction - and get upset when I counter. Or something will be said it will trigger a thought on the old conversation for me that I have to follow through.
I maintain I am always right because my memory is better than theirs.
With just about everyone else I am happy to leave the last word to someone else. |
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Im not one for having the last word, if i want to get my point over i will say it and they will know ive said it. But if i know im right about something and some says something else the people i know once they realized they where wrong will apologize and i know they will so i dont have to fight my point same as if im wrong i will apologize. Once on here years ago i had a blazing row and wouldnt let it drop until i had the final word, and at the end of the day it just showed i was bitch fighting |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"There is just one person that I have circular 'conversations' with. Neither of us like to let the other have the last word. The other person will change the subject as their way of ending it and then toss it back in the other direction - and get upset when I counter. Or something will be said it will trigger a thought on the old conversation for me that I have to follow through.
I maintain I am always right because my memory is better than theirs.
With just about everyone else I am happy to leave the last word to someone else."
I have a long standing friend with whom I do this - neither want to give in.. and it leads ti circular arguments lasting hours... Fun though! |
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"There is just one person that I have circular 'conversations' with. Neither of us like to let the other have the last word. The other person will change the subject as their way of ending it and then toss it back in the other direction - and get upset when I counter. Or something will be said it will trigger a thought on the old conversation for me that I have to follow through.
I maintain I am always right because my memory is better than theirs.
With just about everyone else I am happy to leave the last word to someone else.I have a long standing friend with whom I do this - neither want to give in.. and it leads ti circular arguments lasting hours... Fun though! "
After different ideas about the best fun to have that lasts for hours  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"There is just one person that I have circular 'conversations' with. Neither of us like to let the other have the last word. The other person will change the subject as their way of ending it and then toss it back in the other direction - and get upset when I counter. Or something will be said it will trigger a thought on the old conversation for me that I have to follow through.
I maintain I am always right because my memory is better than theirs.
With just about everyone else I am happy to leave the last word to someone else.I have a long standing friend with whom I do this - neither want to give in.. and it leads ti circular arguments lasting hours... Fun though! "
I'm glad yours are fun. Ours drive us apart  |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"There is just one person that I have circular 'conversations' with. Neither of us like to let the other have the last word. The other person will change the subject as their way of ending it and then toss it back in the other direction - and get upset when I counter. Or something will be said it will trigger a thought on the old conversation for me that I have to follow through.
I maintain I am always right because my memory is better than theirs.
With just about everyone else I am happy to leave the last word to someone else.I have a long standing friend with whom I do this - neither want to give in.. and it leads ti circular arguments lasting hours... Fun though!
I'm glad yours are fun. Ours drive us apart "
That is sad - really! Could you not find some common ground and then agree to disagree on remaining issues? |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
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"There is just one person that I have circular 'conversations' with. Neither of us like to let the other have the last word. The other person will change the subject as their way of ending it and then toss it back in the other direction - and get upset when I counter. Or something will be said it will trigger a thought on the old conversation for me that I have to follow through.
I maintain I am always right because my memory is better than theirs.
With just about everyone else I am happy to leave the last word to someone else.I have a long standing friend with whom I do this - neither want to give in.. and it leads ti circular arguments lasting hours... Fun though!
After different ideas about the best fun to have that lasts for hours "
Well, as Lickety said a moment ago - they are fun if they stay light hearted and good humoured but sad when they drive a rift between people. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"There is just one person that I have circular 'conversations' with. Neither of us like to let the other have the last word. The other person will change the subject as their way of ending it and then toss it back in the other direction - and get upset when I counter. Or something will be said it will trigger a thought on the old conversation for me that I have to follow through.
I maintain I am always right because my memory is better than theirs.
With just about everyone else I am happy to leave the last word to someone else.I have a long standing friend with whom I do this - neither want to give in.. and it leads ti circular arguments lasting hours... Fun though!
I'm glad yours are fun. Ours drive us apart That is sad - really! Could you not find some common ground and then agree to disagree on remaining issues? "
No, it seems not. We fundamentally see the situation differently. He's still one of my closest friends though (and not said just in case he is reading this). |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"There is just one person that I have circular 'conversations' with. Neither of us like to let the other have the last word. The other person will change the subject as their way of ending it and then toss it back in the other direction - and get upset when I counter. Or something will be said it will trigger a thought on the old conversation for me that I have to follow through.
I maintain I am always right because my memory is better than theirs.
With just about everyone else I am happy to leave the last word to someone else.I have a long standing friend with whom I do this - neither want to give in.. and it leads ti circular arguments lasting hours... Fun though!
I'm glad yours are fun. Ours drive us apart That is sad - really! Could you not find some common ground and then agree to disagree on remaining issues?
No, it seems not. We fundamentally see the situation differently. He's still one of my closest friends though (and not said just in case he is reading this)."
That is a shame - ironically if your friend had the same approach as you..."we see things fundamentally different" - you probably would not be arguing. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"There is just one person that I have circular 'conversations' with. Neither of us like to let the other have the last word. The other person will change the subject as their way of ending it and then toss it back in the other direction - and get upset when I counter. Or something will be said it will trigger a thought on the old conversation for me that I have to follow through.
I maintain I am always right because my memory is better than theirs.
With just about everyone else I am happy to leave the last word to someone else.I have a long standing friend with whom I do this - neither want to give in.. and it leads ti circular arguments lasting hours... Fun though!
I'm glad yours are fun. Ours drive us apart That is sad - really! Could you not find some common ground and then agree to disagree on remaining issues?
No, it seems not. We fundamentally see the situation differently. He's still one of my closest friends though (and not said just in case he is reading this).That is a shame - ironically if your friend had the same approach as you..."we see things fundamentally different" - you probably would not be arguing."
We don't really argue - we discuss. A lot! He does have the same approach - that's the issue. Apologies to those reading this - I will cease and desist now. |
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"There is just one person that I have circular 'conversations' with. Neither of us like to let the other have the last word. The other person will change the subject as their way of ending it and then toss it back in the other direction - and get upset when I counter. Or something will be said it will trigger a thought on the old conversation for me that I have to follow through.
I maintain I am always right because my memory is better than theirs.
With just about everyone else I am happy to leave the last word to someone else.I have a long standing friend with whom I do this - neither want to give in.. and it leads ti circular arguments lasting hours... Fun though!
After different ideas about the best fun to have that lasts for hours Well, as Lickety said a moment ago - they are fun if they stay light hearted and good humoured but sad when they drive a rift between people. "
When I was young we all had our evening meals together and always talked about the news of the day, politics, what crimes had been in new etc etc. I really believe it helped me form opinions. When we used to debate at school no one would take me on because of our family meal time talks. Even now when we all manage to meet up the hangers on always leave us to it. But we never argued it was a debate we no out right winner only aired opinions |
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"There is just one person that I have circular 'conversations' with. Neither of us like to let the other have the last word. The other person will change the subject as their way of ending it and then toss it back in the other direction - and get upset when I counter. Or something will be said it will trigger a thought on the old conversation for me that I have to follow through.
I maintain I am always right because my memory is better than theirs.
With just about everyone else I am happy to leave the last word to someone else.I have a long standing friend with whom I do this - neither want to give in.. and it leads ti circular arguments lasting hours... Fun though!
I'm glad yours are fun. Ours drive us apart That is sad - really! Could you not find some common ground and then agree to disagree on remaining issues?
No, it seems not. We fundamentally see the situation differently. He's still one of my closest friends though (and not said just in case he is reading this).That is a shame - ironically if your friend had the same approach as you..."we see things fundamentally different" - you probably would not be arguing.
We don't really argue - we discuss. A lot! He does have the same approach - that's the issue. Apologies to those reading this - I will cease and desist now."
Lickly at least you talk to each other.
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By *phrodite OP Woman
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When I was young we all had our evening meals together and always talked about the news of the day, politics, what crimes had been in new etc etc. I really believe it helped me form opinions. When we used to debate at school no one would take me on because of our family meal time talks. Even now when we all manage to meet up the hangers on always leave us to it. But we never argued it was a debate we no out right winner only aired opinions "
That was my experience of family life as I grew up and I have instilled it in my own kids also. Does not mean they dont argue.. but they have learnt to respect each other. |
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When I was young we all had our evening meals together and always talked about the news of the day, politics, what crimes had been in new etc etc. I really believe it helped me form opinions. When we used to debate at school no one would take me on because of our family meal time talks. Even now when we all manage to meet up the hangers on always leave us to it. But we never argued it was a debate we no out right winner only aired opinions That was my experience of family life as I grew up and I have instilled it in my own kids also. Does not mean they dont argue.. but they have learnt to respect each other."
Now all we have to do is instill it into Westminster and everyone will be happy |
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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago
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"As I am a married man I know deep in my heart I will never have the last word ...i'm ok with that I have grown to accept it over the years "
This is so hard ..... I want to prove that at least on the forum you can have it... the last word... but by telling you... I am not allowing it if that makes sense? |
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