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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Message from forum user I chat to- Respond, message ping pong, quite nice.
Message from Graphic- type of username- I reply, should be a goer.
Message from Avatar with a
Vagina - Respond, big fan of vaginas
Message from Avatar with another vagina - I respond, see above.
Message from Forum User, with whom I talk bollocks with - Respond.
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, Says woman, fuck it, what’s the worse that can happen - respond
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, but pic enclosed, opened. Then looked at profile blurb- "Will Fill in Later" - Says woman again, good enough for me - respond.
Message from Avatar with Face pic, half decent message, nice face, go to profile- doesn't fit my preferences, but the tits are banging - I respond
Message from Graphic- type of username, might be a woman, I’ll take the risk - respond.
Message from a Friend- Respond!
Can anyone see a pattern here!
If there’s a chance you are a woman, men will always reply.
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"Message from forum user I chat to- Respond, message ping pong, quite nice.
Message from Graphic- type of username- I reply, should be a goer.
Message from Avatar with a
Vagina - Respond, big fan of vaginas
Message from Avatar with another vagina - I respond, see above.
Message from Forum User, with whom I talk bollocks with - Respond.
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, Says woman, fuck it, what’s the worse that can happen - respond
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, but pic enclosed, opened. Then looked at profile blurb- "Will Fill in Later" - Says woman again, good enough for me - respond.
Message from Avatar with Face pic, half decent message, nice face, go to profile- doesn't fit my preferences, but the tits are banging - I respond
Message from Graphic- type of username, might be a woman, I’ll take the risk - respond.
Message from a Friend- Respond!
Can anyone see a pattern here!
If there’s a chance you are a woman, men will always reply.
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That's about right |
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Where the hell am I going wrong then? At a guess about a quarter of the messages I send out are deleted. Another few I do get straight back a response of "not interested, happy fabbing".
I know I still have a higher response rate than blokes sending out messages, but it's definitely not a sure thing! |
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"Message from forum user I chat to- Respond, message ping pong, quite nice.
Message from Graphic- type of username- I reply, should be a goer.
Message from Avatar with a
Vagina - Respond, big fan of vaginas
Message from Avatar with another vagina - I respond, see above.
Message from Forum User, with whom I talk bollocks with - Respond.
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, Says woman, fuck it, what’s the worse that can happen - respond
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, but pic enclosed, opened. Then looked at profile blurb- "Will Fill in Later" - Says woman again, good enough for me - respond.
Message from Avatar with Face pic, half decent message, nice face, go to profile- doesn't fit my preferences, but the tits are banging - I respond
Message from Graphic- type of username, might be a woman, I’ll take the risk - respond.
Message from a Friend- Respond!
Can anyone see a pattern here!
If there’s a chance you are a woman, men will always reply.
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Message from forum user I chat to- Respond, message ping pong, quite nice.
Message from Graphic- type of username- I reply, should be a goer.
Message from Avatar with a
Vagina - Respond, big fan of vaginas
Message from Avatar with another vagina - I respond, see above.
Message from Forum User, with whom I talk bollocks with - Respond.
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, Says woman, fuck it, what’s the worse that can happen - respond
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, but pic enclosed, opened. Then looked at profile blurb- "Will Fill in Later" - Says woman again, good enough for me - respond.
Message from Avatar with Face pic, half decent message, nice face, go to profile- doesn't fit my preferences, but the tits are banging - I respond
Message from Graphic- type of username, might be a woman, I’ll take the risk - respond.
Message from a Friend- Respond!
Can anyone see a pattern here!
If there’s a chance you are a woman, men will always reply.
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Here you go OP… |
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"You missed out all the messages from men just checking you don't fancy a suck!
Or saying only "Hi".
Or asking for illegal stuff  "
It’s usually asking if I want my cock sucked, I’d be interested if someone wanted me to do a bank job with them!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message from forum user I chat to- Respond, message ping pong, quite nice.
Message from Graphic- type of username- I reply, should be a goer.
Message from Avatar with a
Vagina - Respond, big fan of vaginas
Message from Avatar with another vagina - I respond, see above.
Message from Forum User, with whom I talk bollocks with - Respond.
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, Says woman, fuck it, what’s the worse that can happen - respond
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, but pic enclosed, opened. Then looked at profile blurb- "Will Fill in Later" - Says woman again, good enough for me - respond.
Message from Avatar with Face pic, half decent message, nice face, go to profile- doesn't fit my preferences, but the tits are banging - I respond
Message from Graphic- type of username, might be a woman, I’ll take the risk - respond.
Message from a Friend- Respond!
Can anyone see a pattern here!
If there’s a chance you are a woman, men will always reply.
Here you go OP…"
Ummmmm I'm a girl... FAF?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where the hell am I going wrong then? At a guess about a quarter of the messages I send out are deleted. Another few I do get straight back a response of "not interested, happy fabbing".
I know I still have a higher response rate than blokes sending out messages, but it's definitely not a sure thing!"
What idiots are saying not interested? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some who've messaged me first have read my reply, then not responded.
What does that mean?
They've probably realised they've gone beyond scr*ping the barrel with me.
That and the fact I'm a c*** probably explains my lack of messages, especially from those who fit my preferences.
I just ignore everyone now.  |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
"Message from forum user I chat to- Respond, message ping pong, quite nice.
Message from Graphic- type of username- I reply, should be a goer.
Message from Avatar with a
Vagina - Respond, big fan of vaginas
Message from Avatar with another vagina - I respond, see above.
Message from Forum User, with whom I talk bollocks with - Respond.
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, Says woman, fuck it, what’s the worse that can happen - respond
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, but pic enclosed, opened. Then looked at profile blurb- "Will Fill in Later" - Says woman again, good enough for me - respond.
Message from Avatar with Face pic, half decent message, nice face, go to profile- doesn't fit my preferences, but the tits are banging - I respond
Message from Graphic- type of username, might be a woman, I’ll take the risk - respond.
Message from a Friend- Respond!
Can anyone see a pattern here!
If there’s a chance you are a woman, men will always reply.
Here you go OP…
Ummmmm I'm a girl... FAF? "
Was that aimed at me or the OP?
Not that it makes much difference as we’ll both say yes |
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"Some who've messaged me first have read my reply, then not responded.
What does that mean?
They've probably realised they've gone beyond scr*ping the barrel with me.
That and the fact I'm a c*** probably explains my lack of messages, especially from those who fit my preferences.
I just ignore everyone now. "
Dunno about scrapping the barrel.... you'd be floating around on the top like the cream on milk |
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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago
Cardiff |
"If there’s a chance you are a woman, men will always reply.
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That's a lie. Some don't respond and then send you the same copy & paste message three days later, and complain you're hard work or pretend they never log on anyway. |
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"Message from forum user I chat to- Respond, message ping pong, quite nice.
Message from Graphic- type of username- I reply, should be a goer.
Message from Avatar with a
Vagina - Respond, big fan of vaginas
Message from Avatar with another vagina - I respond, see above.
Message from Forum User, with whom I talk bollocks with - Respond.
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, Says woman, fuck it, what’s the worse that can happen - respond
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, but pic enclosed, opened. Then looked at profile blurb- "Will Fill in Later" - Says woman again, good enough for me - respond.
Message from Avatar with Face pic, half decent message, nice face, go to profile- doesn't fit my preferences, but the tits are banging - I respond
Message from Graphic- type of username, might be a woman, I’ll take the risk - respond.
Message from a Friend- Respond!
Can anyone see a pattern here!
If there’s a chance you are a woman, men will always reply.
Here you go OP…
Ummmmm I'm a girl... FAF? "
Yes  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where the hell am I going wrong then? At a guess about a quarter of the messages I send out are deleted. Another few I do get straight back a response of "not interested, happy fabbing".
I know I still have a higher response rate than blokes sending out messages, but it's definitely not a sure thing!"
WTF? Well if you lived in Wiltshire and messages me I'd respond...hell what's wrong with guys in your area?? |
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"I need to start messaging guys first more if I'm guaranteed a reply..."
It's not something I do and I can't bring myself to look through zillions of cock pics and blank profile avatars in case there is one interesting chap  |
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"Message from forum user I chat to- Respond, message ping pong, quite nice.
Message from Graphic- type of username- I reply, should be a goer.
Message from Avatar with a
Vagina - Respond, big fan of vaginas
Message from Avatar with another vagina - I respond, see above.
Message from Forum User, with whom I talk bollocks with - Respond.
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, Says woman, fuck it, what’s the worse that can happen - respond
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, but pic enclosed, opened. Then looked at profile blurb- "Will Fill in Later" - Says woman again, good enough for me - respond.
Message from Avatar with Face pic, half decent message, nice face, go to profile- doesn't fit my preferences, but the tits are banging - I respond
Message from Graphic- type of username, might be a woman, I’ll take the risk - respond.
Message from a Friend- Respond!
Can anyone see a pattern here!
If there’s a chance you are a woman, men will always reply.
"
What a load of old bollocks......actually this is it spot on.
If messages were received in reality |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some who've messaged me first have read my reply, then not responded.
What does that mean?
They've probably realised they've gone beyond scr*ping the barrel with me.
That and the fact I'm a c*** probably explains my lack of messages, especially from those who fit my preferences.
I just ignore everyone now. "
, one way to deal with it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Message from forum user I chat to- Respond, message ping pong, quite nice.
Message from Graphic- type of username- I reply, should be a goer.
Message from Avatar with a
Vagina - Respond, big fan of vaginas
Message from Avatar with another vagina - I respond, see above.
Message from Forum User, with whom I talk bollocks with - Respond.
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, Says woman, fuck it, what’s the worse that can happen - respond
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, but pic enclosed, opened. Then looked at profile blurb- "Will Fill in Later" - Says woman again, good enough for me - respond.
Message from Avatar with Face pic, half decent message, nice face, go to profile- doesn't fit my preferences, but the tits are banging - I respond
Message from Graphic- type of username, might be a woman, I’ll take the risk - respond.
Message from a Friend- Respond!
Can anyone see a pattern here!
If there’s a chance you are a woman, men will always reply.
Here you go OP…
Ummmmm I'm a girl... FAF?
Was that aimed at me or the OP?
Not that it makes much difference as we’ll both say yes"
Wanted to see if it works
And I wanted to make this thread really long for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I need to start messaging guys first more if I'm guaranteed a reply...
It's not something I do and I can't bring myself to look through zillions of cock pics and blank profile avatars in case there is one interesting chap "
The last time I did I got turned down. I know that happens all the time for men, but given the lack of women here and their profile it did get me down and it's not often a profile catches my eye so that's my one message of the year used up. |
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"Where the hell am I going wrong then? At a guess about a quarter of the messages I send out are deleted. Another few I do get straight back a response of "not interested, happy fabbing".
I know I still have a higher response rate than blokes sending out messages, but it's definitely not a sure thing!
What idiots are saying not interested? "
Not idiots, just guys with standards (how very dare they!).
You can't please everyone |
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Surely there can't be women out there who message first and get no reply. I think I'd fall off my chair if I got a message from a woman first !!!! I guess if Ryan Gosling was on here he might be a bit more picky but most of us ain't got that choice !???? |
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I've sorted prob out for her. I did what she asks of her profile.....take time to read, start to finish.
Step 1: Take out last sentence of profile text and whack it in the title section.
Step 2: Underline it, and to make sure those pesky male members dont skim read it as per, have the cheek to pen a message and send, id go with all capitals and bold.
Step 3: Check daily to see whether us men got the message, if we did...erm,i guess start a thread about how men are intimidated by it now and havent got the imagination to even send a dick pic |
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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago
south west |
"Message from forum user I chat to- Respond, message ping pong, quite nice.
Message from Graphic- type of username- I reply, should be a goer.
Message from Avatar with a
Vagina - Respond, big fan of vaginas
Message from Avatar with another vagina - I respond, see above.
Message from Forum User, with whom I talk bollocks with - Respond.
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, Says woman, fuck it, what’s the worse that can happen - respond
Message from Avatar with a Shadow, but pic enclosed, opened. Then looked at profile blurb- "Will Fill in Later" - Says woman again, good enough for me - respond.
Message from Avatar with Face pic, half decent message, nice face, go to profile- doesn't fit my preferences, but the tits are banging - I respond
Message from Graphic- type of username, might be a woman, I’ll take the risk - respond.
Message from a Friend- Respond!
Can anyone see a pattern here!
If there’s a chance you are a woman, men will always reply.
"
So in one day, you’ve had ten messages? I’m doing well if I get ten in a year! |
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"I've sorted prob out for her. I did what she asks of her profile.....take time to read, start to finish.
Step 1: Take out last sentence of profile text and whack it in the title section.
Step 2: Underline it, and to make sure those pesky male members dont skim read it as per, have the cheek to pen a message and send, id go with all capitals and bold.
Step 3: Check daily to see whether us men got the message, if we did...erm,i guess start a thread about how men are intimidated by it now and havent got the imagination to even send a dick pic"
Allowed back on forum in say what....10 days. That's probably fair |
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"Surely there can't be women out there who message first and get no reply. I think I'd fall off my chair if I got a message from a woman first !!!! I guess if Ryan Gosling was on here he might be a bit more picky but most of us ain't got that choice !????"
Totally, I always respond. It's just manners when not dealing with a ladies volume of messages. I mean I'm really busy replying....must be about 2 per year |
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"Surely there can't be women out there who message first and get no reply. I think I'd fall off my chair if I got a message from a woman first !!!! I guess if Ryan Gosling was on here he might be a bit more picky but most of us ain't got that choice !????
Totally, I always respond. It's just manners when not dealing with a ladies volume of messages. I mean I'm really busy replying....must be about 2 per year "
Hmmmm would you like to be my Fab PA? I've got some messages you can reply to if you like |
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"Surely there can't be women out there who message first and get no reply. I think I'd fall off my chair if I got a message from a woman first !!!! I guess if Ryan Gosling was on here he might be a bit more picky but most of us ain't got that choice !????
Totally, I always respond. It's just manners when not dealing with a ladies volume of messages. I mean I'm really busy replying....must be about 2 per year
Hmmmm would you like to be my Fab PA? I've got some messages you can reply to if you like "
What other tasks are involved and what's the pay like? X |
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Offering money for meets
Narrating in detail what they would do to you 'when we meet' 
You forgot the most imlortant one i hear from a lot of men. The men pretending to be women. Does that really happen? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Offering money for meets
Narrating in detail what they would do to you 'when we meet'
You forgot the most imlortant one i hear from a lot of men. The men pretending to be women. Does that really happen?"
I always ask for card details first ... if they stupid enough to think they can pay to meet, then they are dumb enough to be mugged off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some who've messaged me first have read my reply, then not responded.
What does that mean?
They've probably realised they've gone beyond scr*ping the barrel with me.
That and the fact I'm a c*** probably explains my lack of messages, especially from those who fit my preferences.
I just ignore everyone now. "
You ignored us when we sent you a compliment we didn't care. We don't respond to people who are simply not for us as our profile states but it's a little too much trouble for people to read that I suppose |
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I don’t doubt it’s harder for guys here but no, women sending messages doesn’t guarantee reply. I think it would be a bit egotistical to think everyone would reply to be honest. However in this day and age of ‘ultra feminism’ there’s nothing wrong with ladies messaging first. I’d say when we contact guys we get a response about 70% of the time but maybe that’s because we’re a couple and not a single female. If I was a single female I’d probably expect around the same or less. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely there can't be women out there who message first and get no reply. I think I'd fall off my chair if I got a message from a woman first !!!! I guess if Ryan Gosling was on here he might be a bit more picky but most of us ain't got that choice !????
Totally, I always respond. It's just manners when not dealing with a ladies volume of messages. I mean I'm really busy replying....must be about 2 per year
Hmmmm would you like to be my Fab PA? I've got some messages you can reply to if you like "
I fear I spend a dangerous amount of time watching your videos so bugger it...happy to help |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Where the hell am I going wrong then? At a guess about a quarter of the messages I send out are deleted. Another few I do get straight back a response of "not interested, happy fabbing".
I know I still have a higher response rate than blokes sending out messages, but it's definitely not a sure thing!"
About 99% of the messages i send get deleted, don't know why or if people are put of by something on my profile that I don't know about |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Surely there can't be women out there who message first and get no reply. I think I'd fall off my chair if I got a message from a woman first !!!! I guess if Ryan Gosling was on here he might be a bit more picky but most of us ain't got that choice !????
Totally, I always respond. It's just manners when not dealing with a ladies volume of messages. I mean I'm really busy replying....must be about 2 per year
Hmmmm would you like to be my Fab PA? I've got some messages you can reply to if you like
What other tasks are involved and what's the pay like? X"
I'm afraid you'll have to look through a lot of dick pics, plus the occasional abusive message and there's no pay You know you want to |
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"I need to start messaging guys first more if I'm guaranteed a reply...
It's not something I do and I can't bring myself to look through zillions of cock pics and blank profile avatars in case there is one interesting chap "
This... I've chanced a wink or 2 and then been disappointed |
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