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over a year ago
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I can normally tell within a few messages if we're going to get on or not. Don't see the point of longing it out. Also if I did say I can't see it going anywhere, that's when all the questions start.
Just my experience though. |
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over a year ago
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"Fell asleep.
Weren’t interested and haven’t the heart to tell you.
Got arrested.  "
Haven't the heart to tell is worse I personally appreciate honesty and the rejection is better than the wait the hope someone is interested to wait ages and nothing that's just cold in my opinion |
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over a year ago
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"Will do women talk to you then just out of the blue stop
Because maybe they're feeling the conversation isn't going anywhere and / or is hard work"
Always this! |
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over a year ago
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Because they're probably flooded with messages and you were one of thirty men they were chatting with. Perhaps they're just bring friendly, and aren't expecting the conversation to continue or become a commitment. |
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Because they're just not that into you, the conversation is one sided, they feel you're not making an effort, they get a better offer, they have a life away from Fab, got distracted by a cat throwing up... So many reasons |
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"I can normally tell within a few messages if we're going to get on or not. Don't see the point of longing it out. Also if I did say I can't see it going anywhere, that's when all the questions start.
Just my experience though."
I agree, this is the same for me too |
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I consider myself to have some lovely friends.
They all tell me how difficult it is to stand out for a man among the loads of mail they get.
For some it's depressing the sheer volume and when they click on one it's a angry why haven't you replied type which makes them hide profile or just mass delete.
I always recommend using the filters, then bin the Wally who isn't all he seems.
Some need space |
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"I consider myself to have some lovely friends.
They all tell me how difficult it is to stand out for a man among the loads of mail they get.
For some it's depressing the sheer volume and when they click on one it's a angry why haven't you replied type which makes them hide profile or just mass delete.
I always recommend using the filters, then bin the Wally who isn't all he seems.
Some need space"
Cooor I haven't heard wally for yonks! |
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"I consider myself to have some lovely friends.
They all tell me how difficult it is to stand out for a man among the loads of mail they get.
For some it's depressing the sheer volume and when they click on one it's a angry why haven't you replied type which makes them hide profile or just mass delete.
I always recommend using the filters, then bin the Wally who isn't all he seems.
Some need space
Cooor I haven't heard wally for yonks!"
Pillocks another one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Trust me, If they’re into you they will keep talking, if anything they will Instigate the conversation most of the time, if it feels one sided or it’s always you messaging first, just let it go they’re just not into you, it should never be hard work. |
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"Will do women talk to you then just out of the blue stop "
It's any gender that will do this. Most people just aren't compatible with most other people. Bit by bit, with each message, it becomes clearer exactly who is and who isn't.
Fab rules state that no reply should be viewed as a lack of further interest. Forget and move on
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Maybe their fingers went blue from typing whole day.
More seriously. You can check on someone once, twice. Maybe three times if you were close, but if they don't communicate, just let go. Don't even try to think why. No need for that to occupy your head. And find those who treat you like a priority, not an option. Effort should be mutual and feel mostly effortless, as said above.  |
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