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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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if she had fake boobs despite having a preference for natural ones and/or thinking they are better?
Would you openly say you prefer natural boobs and think they're better to a woman with fake boobs? |
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"if she had fake boobs despite having a preference for natural ones and/or thinking they are better?
Would you openly say you prefer natural boobs and think they're better to a woman with fake boobs? "
How fake are we talking? If they are made of rubber and attached with velcro, then I might.
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"if she had fake boobs despite having a preference for natural ones and/or thinking they are better?
Would you openly say you prefer natural boobs and think they're better to a woman with fake boobs?
How fake are we talking? If they are made of rubber and attached with velcro, then I might.
Cal"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no.
but with anyone i meet its how they communicate with me.
do we start rejecting people because they have coloured hair or botox?
people tend to judge or point fingers because they are jealous of someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s the woman I’m interested in, not the boobs, even though I prefer natural, I think fake ones look really good now and if it’s helped her and improved her confidence that could only be a good thing. I wouldn’t mention I prefer natural and to be honest I can’t tell all the time if they are fake or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if she had fake boobs despite having a preference for natural ones and/or thinking they are better?
Would you openly say you prefer natural boobs and think they're better to a woman with fake boobs?
How fake are we talking? If they are made of rubber and attached with velcro, then I might.
Cal"
What about silicon with sucksoin pads lol ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Actually I might. if the tits are fake then what else is fake about her."
Wow! Exactly what context do you mean that in because that can be read more than one way.
Do you mean what else is fake about her body wise or personality etc too????? |
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"Actually I might. if the tits are fake then what else is fake about her.
Wow! Exactly what context do you mean that in because that can be read more than one way.
Do you mean what else is fake about her body wise or personality etc too????? "
Well, she could look like a five foot blonde, but really be a beardy six foot two rugby player called Rupert. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if she had fake boobs despite having a preference for natural ones and/or thinking they are better?
Would you openly say you prefer natural boobs and think they're better to a woman with fake boobs? "
Your boobs are very natural looking, surprised to find they weren't. Gun to my head I say natural but in reality don't care because there is so much more to what makes a woman attractive then her tits, soooo much more. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"if she had fake boobs despite having a preference for natural ones and/or thinking they are better?
Would you openly say you prefer natural boobs and think they're better to a woman with fake boobs? "
No. Having met women with and without, we can honestly say we don’t care regardless of our preference for natural breasts.
The main consideration we have is about what they will let us do to them. Some women with augmented breasts are more careful around breast and nipple play, but then so can breast feeding mums.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if she had fake boobs despite having a preference for natural ones and/or thinking they are better?
Would you openly say you prefer natural boobs and think they're better to a woman with fake boobs?
No. Having met women with and without, we can honestly say we don’t care regardless of our preference for natural breasts.
The main consideration we have is about what they will let us do to them. Some women with augmented breasts are more careful around breast and nipple play, but then so can breast feeding mums.
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Good point. I must admit tight rope work on mine would worry me. Though I think I'd still be the same with natural. Cutting the blood flow off can't be good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually I might. if the tits are fake then what else is fake about her.
Wow! Exactly what context do you mean that in because that can be read more than one way.
Do you mean what else is fake about her body wise or personality etc too????? "
Probably both. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually I might. if the tits are fake then what else is fake about her.
Well thought through reply there, bravo...smh "
Not looking to defend myself. A question was asked. You don't have to like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually I might. if the tits are fake then what else is fake about her.
Well thought through reply there, bravo...smh
Not looking to defend myself. A question was asked. You don't have to like it."
It’s intriguing. What if it were for mental wellness. Might that be a good enough reason for the enhancement? It’s not being fake but it helped boost her confidence. What would you think then? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Actually I might. if the tits are fake then what else is fake about her.
Wow! Exactly what context do you mean that in because that can be read more than one way.
Do you mean what else is fake about her body wise or personality etc too?????
Probably both."
That's a very judgemental thing to say isn't it? What if the woman had had breast cancer and the implants were reconstruction surgery? Would you assume she was fake in other ways too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if she had fake boobs despite having a preference for natural ones and/or thinking they are better?"
I mean, I'm possibly the world's biggest fan of boobs but I think attraction and everything else amounts to more than boobs (fake or natural). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally yes, a ex of mine had fake boobs purely from aesthetic point and i wasnt really into them feel wise or look wise i much prefered her original b cups.
Im not a hater of them but not into them as such. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if she had fake boobs despite having a preference for natural ones and/or thinking they are better?
Would you openly say you prefer natural boobs and think they're better to a woman with fake boobs? "
Would make literally no difference if I thought she was somebody worth knowing. People's cosmetic choices on their own self worth are purely their own, to own. My opinion doesn't matter. If I thought she felt more confident with boob implants and it was about her self-image, not my issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually I might. if the tits are fake then what else is fake about her.
Wow! Exactly what context do you mean that in because that can be read more than one way.
Do you mean what else is fake about her body wise or personality etc too?????
Probably both.
That's a very judgemental thing to say isn't it? What if the woman had had breast cancer and the implants were reconstruction surgery? Would you assume she was fake in other ways too? "
I was responding to OP's question. You don't get to change the rules or add conditions down the line.
If you don't want to hear anything that is negative then what is the point of the forum.
The problem with the fab forums is there too many people ready to jump on someone with any kind of controversial opion. I gues that's the Fab Clique for you. |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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It is about attraction so if I found fake boobs a turn off then yes I would turn them down and would politely explain my reason.
Oh and I have no preference which is a good thing as Mrs has fake boobs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe cosmetic surgery is no different to wearing make up. It can boost confidence and change lives through that.
As long as it makes someone feel more comfortable about and happier within themself, surely that reflects well on them and those around them.
People advise counselling and therapy for mental wellness yet see cosmetic surgery and breast enhancements as being vain and ‘fake’ with the caveat of it being acceptable if it’s reconstructive.
What is the difference between reconstructing what nature provided and surgery to enhance or even construct it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Actually I might. if the tits are fake then what else is fake about her.
Wow! Exactly what context do you mean that in because that can be read more than one way.
Do you mean what else is fake about her body wise or personality etc too?????
Probably both.
That's a very judgemental thing to say isn't it? What if the woman had had breast cancer and the implants were reconstruction surgery? Would you assume she was fake in other ways too?
I was responding to OP's question. You don't get to change the rules or add conditions down the line.
If you don't want to hear anything that is negative then what is the point of the forum.
The problem with the fab forums is there too many people ready to jump on someone with any kind of controversial opion. I gues that's the Fab Clique for you."
I'm not part of any fab clique just so you know. So that's got nothing to do with it at all.
I also don't think I'm adding conditions or changing rules. Women can have fake boobs for all sorts of reasons, I hadn't ruled any of them out. I apologise for not including that in my original post and not making that clearer. I've just asked you questions to clarify what you meant exactly that's all. I never said I didn't want to hear a negative response so I don't know why you're asking what the point of the forum is and suggesting I don't want to hear it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Actually I might. if the tits are fake then what else is fake about her.
Wow! Exactly what context do you mean that in because that can be read more than one way.
Do you mean what else is fake about her body wise or personality etc too?????
Probably both.
That's a very judgemental thing to say isn't it? What if the woman had had breast cancer and the implants were reconstruction surgery? Would you assume she was fake in other ways too?
I was responding to OP's question. You don't get to change the rules or add conditions down the line.
If you don't want to hear anything that is negative then what is the point of the forum.
The problem with the fab forums is there too many people ready to jump on someone with any kind of controversial opion. I gues that's the Fab Clique for you."
I believe it’s called a debate. |
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"Actually I might. if the tits are fake then what else is fake about her.
Wow! Exactly what context do you mean that in because that can be read more than one way.
Do you mean what else is fake about her body wise or personality etc too?????
Probably both.
That's a very judgemental thing to say isn't it? What if the woman had had breast cancer and the implants were reconstruction surgery? Would you assume she was fake in other ways too? "
This!!!! What about no boobs real or fake - just prosthetics in a bra?!?! |
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I was madly envious when a mate got a boob job. When she lies down she still has boobs, whereas mine are in my armpits.
Her nipples also still face forward where mine point at my feet.
Her boobs are things of beauty and I'm always pleased when she lets me cop a feel of them.
All boobs are fabulous, but hers are particularly so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was madly envious when a mate got a boob job. When she lies down she still has boobs, whereas mine are in my armpits.
Her nipples also still face forward where mine point at my feet.
Her boobs are things of beauty and I'm always pleased when she lets me cop a feel of them.
All boobs are fabulous, but hers are particularly so."
Does she get to cop a feel of yours as well? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I think that much like someone might really find someone's personality attractive but won't be attracted to the external self, that could be true for men who don't, for whatever reason, like that particular aesthetic.
It's problematic when it's suggested that women who have enhancements are "fake", like Sharedow mentioned makeup earlier, I don't see it being that different from makeup or wearing a weave/wig.
I do however understand that for some men it won't be something they find attractive, for a myriad of reasons they might not be able to put their thumb on. Everyone has different things that give them a twitch and equally lose any twitching. |
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It's merely an aesthetic or confidence thing so good luck to those who want or feel they need a boob job.
Personally some women I've met with perfectly damn good boobs still want a boob job at some point. Good luck to them, it's their body and so long as they are happy it's all that really matters. |
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"I was madly envious when a mate got a boob job. When she lies down she still has boobs, whereas mine are in my armpits.
Her nipples also still face forward where mine point at my feet.
Her boobs are things of beauty and I'm always pleased when she lets me cop a feel of them.
All boobs are fabulous, but hers are particularly so.
Does she get to cop a feel of yours as well? "
She'd always be welcome to, but hasn't so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly don't think any man would turn down a woman they found attractive just because she had enhanced boobs. I don't believe anyone that says they would.
I do think it's completely possible they might not like them as much as they would natural boobs, but I think you would have to be up yourself to reject a woman because of her boobs when you've not got an issue with anything else. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I honestly don't think any man would turn down a woman they found attractive just because she had enhanced boobs. I don't believe anyone that says they would.
I do think it's completely possible they might not like them as much as they would natural boobs, but I think you would have to be up yourself to reject a woman because of her boobs when you've not got an issue with anything else."
Oh believe me, I'm stubborn and willed enough to do something like that if I put my mind to it. But you are correct, as I said previously it seems a pretty weak reason to turn somebody down as the sole reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's ok for anyone to turn down anyone if they don't find them attractive. So I guess if a man was really unattracted to enhanced breasts he might not think she's for him.
Presumably he'd spot this quite early on though, if it mattered that much to him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all, it would be daft to do that.
Purely in the context of boobage I prefer natural boobs, but I have an ex who has implants and I was just as happy to play with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m extremely shallow… like a puddle!
Have a preference for big boobs, enhanced or not!
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BUT if I’m not attracted to the lady, then it isn’t going to happen, can’t fake a hard cock! |
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"if she had fake boobs despite having a preference for natural ones and/or thinking they are better?
Would you openly say you prefer natural boobs and think they're better to a woman with fake boobs? "
I do like natural boobs but if the fake ones look good or she had to have implants for some reason then I'm ok with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if she had fake boobs despite having a preference for natural ones and/or thinking they are better?
Would you openly say you prefer natural boobs and think they're better to a woman with fake boobs? " personally yes, I would. I know that's probably bad to say, but I like natural. And before anyone yells at me, ladies would you date a 5.2 guys? |
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"if she had fake boobs despite having a preference for natural ones and/or thinking they are better?
Would you openly say you prefer natural boobs and think they're better to a woman with fake boobs? personally yes, I would. I know that's probably bad to say, but I like natural. And before anyone yells at me, ladies would you date a 5.2 guys?"
Nobody should shout at you. It's a preference. Well done for being honest x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if she had fake boobs despite having a preference for natural ones and/or thinking they are better?
Would you openly say you prefer natural boobs and think they're better to a woman with fake boobs? personally yes, I would. I know that's probably bad to say, but I like natural. And before anyone yells at me, ladies would you date a 5.2 guys?
Nobody should shout at you. It's a preference. Well done for being honest x" thank you, normally I get the "you shouldn't think like that" etc but I'd rather be honest, I don't mind fakes but I prefer natural |
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"if she had fake boobs despite having a preference for natural ones and/or thinking they are better?
Would you openly say you prefer natural boobs and think they're better to a woman with fake boobs? "
No, I wouldn’t. It’s entirely up to a woman what she does. Anyway, they might be belters…. |
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"if she had fake boobs despite having a preference for natural ones and/or thinking they are better?
Would you openly say you prefer natural boobs and think they're better to a woman with fake boobs? personally yes, I would. I know that's probably bad to say, but I like natural. And before anyone yells at me, ladies would you date a 5.2 guys?"
If I liked the guy of course I would |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn’t it be funny if fella's had the opportunity to enhance their girth/ length , I’m sure a large percentage of them would seek surgery, then the female preference “ no fake penis” Or real penis only |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wouldn’t it be funny if fella's had the opportunity to enhance their girth/ length , I’m sure a large percentage of them would seek surgery, then the female preference “ no fake penis” Or real penis only "
Ouch!
Still…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't do anything with anyone I didn't feel like I had a mental connection with (even if it's just a bit of flirty chemistry, doesn't have to be mad serious) so the body attached to it is a bonus. Big tits, small tits, fake or real. Doesn't bother me.
There's ways of pleasing someone no matter what size or shape their tits are/they are and getting them off is a bigger turn on for me so it's all good |
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"if she had fake boobs despite having a preference for natural ones and/or thinking they are better?
Would you openly say you prefer natural boobs and think they're better to a woman with fake boobs? "
Would it turn a woman down....yes, if I didn't connect with her, and I have, on several occasions, when doctored, or mis leading photos have been provided. For good sex, I need a mental and physical connection. The mental I get from chatting beforehand.
Not for fake boobs though. As someone has already said, a boob is a boob, and fake ones are often there for confidence issues...my preference would be to know beforehand though, as it helps me understand the person.
Best wishes to anyone that does get fakes. Always happy to appraise them for you
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