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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I generally wont meet anyone with no verifications but I will meet someone who is verified by cam.
However, saying that if the person has been on the site for over a year and all they have is cam verifications then I normally assume they are just after cyber fun which doesnt interest me.
I know its difficult but probably a club is your best option  even if you dont play with anyone it could start the ball rolling for you on here! |
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over a year ago
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hi, as ur very new I'll go easy as its an often asked question.
look into attending clubs,socials and of course u can be verified from webcam(though many dont class that as anything but,a cam person)
2 weeks is a VERY short time to be expecting anything from the site to be honest....have more patience.
the pics on ur profile look ok-(for those interested), but remember there is another few thousand just like urs. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"How can I possibly get verifications when no one is willing to meet anyone without verifications?
Struggling here!"
i know a lot of people who take verification with a pinch of salt... but for now lets go with what you think...
for example... get yourself known in the chatrooms, or at a social (prime example... cardiff social in a few weeks time!)
you get out what you put in... |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"How can I possibly get verifications when no one is willing to meet anyone without verifications?
Struggling here!"
see... this is why i wish i read the profile before...
can i ask if you have only been here 2 weeks... what your expectation would have been? serious question... just because swingers may be interested in sex, it doesn't mean they are interested in sex with any person...
The thing you need to understand is that time and patience are key...
have you shown that so a |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Patience, and perhaps start off with social meets.
1. to get to know people and
2. to show that you are not like a bull at a gate rushing to get the shags in. |
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Thanks for the advice everyone I really appreciate it.
I understand I'm new to this but I am trying my hardest.
I've been chatting to a few people and they eventually lose interest stating "they want people who are verified"
I offer to go on cam, nothing dirty! But just hold a piece of paper, with their name, the date and a personalised message that they request. All this against my face so that I can prove I am real! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can I possibly get verifications when no one is willing to meet anyone without verifications?
Struggling here!
I've met many men without verifications. "
 Me too. I like to decide when and why I meet who I do and form my own opinions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can I possibly get verifications when no one is willing to meet anyone without verifications?
Struggling here!"
You are photo verified. Other veris are a bonus. Maybe there are other reasons why you have not - so far - managed to get any meets......?
Like Fabio and keenfucktographer both said - give it time. You need a barrel load of patience on here (I used to say bucketload but that seemed inadequate!)
There are plenty of guys on here who have been plugging away for months - sometimes over a year - without getting a meet, but they still persevere.
If you want to speed things up a bit, go to some clubs within a reasonable travel from you. Get to know people there and, if you get to play, they may give you a veri that way....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the advice everyone I really appreciate it.
I understand I'm new to this but I am trying my hardest.
I've been chatting to a few people and they eventually lose interest stating "they want people who are verified"
I offer to go on cam, nothing dirty! But just hold a piece of paper, with their name, the date and a personalised message that they request. All this against my face so that I can prove I am real!"
I think thats a bit far lol....if ur on cam...surely they can see ur reactions etc..especially if u have voice enabled lol...dont jump through hoops ffs lol.Anyway...definitely try the suggested things above, social events will let ppl see ur social side(hope u have one), just dont approaching and ask
"fancy me riding ur wife's big tits mate?" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind meeting people without verifications, downside is you are not in my age preference otherwise given where you are to me, I would have met you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How can I possibly get verifications when no one is willing to meet anyone without verifications?
Struggling here!
I've met many men without verifications. "
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