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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So life is not going so good for me atm..how do you cope? Left alone or someone to cheer you up?"
I usually have a drink and listen to music hopefully get some of the bad vibes out of my system then try to focus my mind on the positives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bit of both at first leave me alone an then come snap me out of itdoes it do the trick "
most times tbh depends how much i trust the snapper or whats actually affecting me how deep an issue may take a couple attempts if that fails i go for a drive and rant at idiot drivers until its gone
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to write out what my pain points are, and then set out a series of things that are in my control, as well as those things that aren’t in my control. Against each of those I can control, I put a plan of what I will do to mitigate/manage as best I can.
I also keep my goals/ambitious - even very small and seemingly insignificant things - up to date , with a similar plan against each. Steps to success. It makes me feel alike I’m keeping moving and making progress (which, of course, is true, even when it doesn’t feel like it).
And I eat chocolate.
And come on FAB to get pilloried as a single guy and cheer myself right up 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear that OP. Personally if it’s a general low mood I like to be alone and rest, eat some good food, maybe a walk. If something specific is pulling me down then I try and find a friend to talk it through with, and share the problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Listen to music
Have a bubble bath and a pamper
Go for a nice long walk
Hope you are feeling better soon  "
This always tends to help too, some self love
Miss S x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d also add that I wouldn’t place responsibility for being cheered up with someone else. Better off doing it yourself, although it’s nice to be cheered up my someone unexpectedly!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’d also add that I wouldn’t place responsibility for being cheered up with someone else. Better off doing it yourself, although it’s nice to be cheered up my someone unexpectedly!
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I get that but when u try to cheer yourself up and fail  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Listen to music
Have a bubble bath and a pamper
Go for a nice long walk
Hope you are feeling better soon
This always tends to help too, some self love
Miss S x
Definitely beautiful  "
You beautiful human
Miss S x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I leave hubby alone.. If he's down or annoyed, the first thing he does is apologise and takes himself off to bed. I went through phased of trying to help, but experience says just to leave him to it.
When I'm feeling that way out he knows a string arm round me and a shoulder to cry on works.. That and kfc... |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"Listen to music
Have a bubble bath and a pamper
Go for a nice long walk
Hope you are feeling better soon
This always tends to help too, some self love
Miss S x
Definitely beautiful
You beautiful human
Miss S x"
As are you |
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