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What relationships do you envy ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There’s so many different bonds and relationships we can envy and fantasise about …. What’s yours ? The MD and young secretary , the life long friends , childhood sweethearts , madly deeply head over heels with each other , crazy sexual connection with a stranger …. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Going the other way on this, I love walking through the shops and seeing how unhappy couples can be. And then I think: thank god I am single and doing this all on my own merit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really envy anyone's, when you get to a certain age you learn to hold on to the good relationships and let go of the bad. Im lucky to have everything I need from the people around me already. |
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
All of my friends and family are in relationships but don't seem particularly happy. I look at my eldest brother and his wife and they give me hope that a content and happy love is possible in the sea of discontented others. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My best friend and her husband met at uni. They are wonderful together, without too much PDA but you can see how well they get on with each other and the mutual respect and adoration and understanding between the two of them. Pleasure to be around.  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Maybe having my dad around still like sine of my friends. Other than that I think you create the relationships you want , and if you look enviously on others your missing the point - they took years of hard work, compromises and sacrifices to be that good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lifelong friends. I've always been able to make friends in every situation I've been in bit nothing more than surface level. Would love to change that if I had the chance  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lifelong friends. I've always been able to make friends in every situation I've been in bit nothing more than surface level. Would love to change that if I had the chance "
This for me too but different reasons-I've moved around a lot and lost touch with good friends when I should have made more effort, and now I miss some of them.
No envy for romantic or sexual relationships, I've been very lucky with both even if they weren't life long lasting. |
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I miss having a best friend that was more like a brother. I’m envious of those who still have that level of connection.
I feel lucky to have known a friendship like it at all though, but some things just can’t be mended.
(O0oOo cryptic…   ) |
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Not sure envy is the right word, maybe more curiosity to know what it would be like to have siblings. Would we have got on or fought like cat & dog.
The nearest I have to it is cousins but as I’m 12-25 years older than them, I’m the go to for advice or questions they don’t want to ask their parents. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t envy other relationships, as you never know what it’s really like, but one that is honest and open, with awesome communication, and where you can be completely yourself sounds good.
Plus, lots of lovely sex obv |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I miss having a best friend that was more like a brother. I’m envious of those who still have that level of connection.
I feel lucky to have known a friendship like it at all though, but some things just can’t be mended.
(O0oOo cryptic… )"
What happened ?
I never had a BFF as a child, or adult, preferred to have a wider group and have different people for different needs , never got on with monogamy either took me 40 years to realise I was poly but explains why I never had BFFs! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ones where they can’t keep their hands off each other and you can feel the sexual tension between them yet they are best friends as well and understand each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss having a best friend that was more like a brother. I’m envious of those who still have that level of connection.
I feel lucky to have known a friendship like it at all though, but some things just can’t be mended.
(O0oOo cryptic… )"
I'm lucky to have this and I know I am. I adore my best friend and we're definitely more like sisters than friends.
As for others relationships, there's not anything I envy. I'm very lucky with the relationships I have in my life. |
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I dont envy anyones relationships as they're all what work for them and not necessarily what would work for me.
I've had times where I've been happy with the relationships I've had but it's outweighed by where I've been unhappy sadly so it's left me a but cynical.
I am however happy as I am and have found a lot out about what things make me happy over the last few years so I will keep on doing the things that make me happy if and when I can |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Childhood sweethearts still into each other , love seeing that, it's the dream
My mum and dad  . Known each other 70 years. Married 51 x
That's really really special x"
We have been together we were 13 and 14 years old... |
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"Childhood sweethearts still into each other , love seeing that, it's the dream
My mum and dad . Known each other 70 years. Married 51 x
That's really really special x
We have been together we were 13 and 14 years old..."
Aw that’s lovely x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say envy... not sure I envy any relationship honestly but I do admire those who keep it real and don't do it for the likes or the attention like so many do these days. I also love to see couples who are full of fun and humour and aren't embarrassed to act like silly sausages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only one I’ve ever envied are sisters. I always wanted a sister. "
Me too… I mean; I have a sister but she’s never wanted to know me. I’ve tried for so many years to have some sort of a relationship but she just never has the time for me. |
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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago
Solihull and Brentwood |
Gavin and Stacey. (But if I was Gavin, I would have to fuck it up. As it would be too goody goody, if that makes sense?  )
Much prefer a darker, but respectful relationship and for the life of me. I can't think of a single couple. (Except perhaps, Gomez and Morticia, who have been mentioned above.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any relationship where they are truly partners. "
Yup that's us. We both have our roles to play.. The clues in the name... a partnership.... Madly deeply in love with each other and more than that, we're best friends |
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"There’s so many different bonds and relationships we can envy and fantasise about …. What’s yours ? The MD and young secretary , the life long friends , childhood sweethearts , madly deeply head over heels with each other , crazy sexual connection with a stranger …. "
I wouldn't mind being a wife who had a husband who allowed her to meet other men alone. |
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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago
Gleam Street |
"There’s so many different bonds and relationships we can envy and fantasise about …. What’s yours ? The MD and young secretary , the life long friends , childhood sweethearts , madly deeply head over heels with each other , crazy sexual connection with a stranger ….
I wouldn't mind being a wife who had a husband who allowed her to meet other men alone."
My hubby "allows" me nothing as I "allow" him nothing... we wrote our vows to get rid of that assumed ownership... that word should never be used even in bog standard marriages x |
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