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Who do you miss in your life
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My best mate, he took his own life 9 years ago, nobody saw it coming. He was into bodybuilding before I'd ever thought of lifting a weight, often think he'd love to see that I finally got into lifting.
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There are many people I miss in my life, however each night for over 10 years, I have lit 4 candles (not handles for forks), 1 little one and 3 larger ones, I settle down with a glass of wine and listen to some music before sleep.
The little candle never lasts long, there is a poignancy to that, the one in the intricate metal cage casts shapes around my darkened room and the two in the hurricane glasses flicker and jump with playful energy.
I miss the ones that those candles represent, but they still light up my life.
I know, I know, I’m weird. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have always said my mum. She died when I had just turned 9 years old.
I am now 47 and have lived the majority of my life without her and now I have moments of guilt because I don't actually miss her because I only have very few memories of her.
I felt sad experiencing milestones throughout my life and not sharing those experiences with her.
Then I think about what our relationship would be like with me as an adult. In truth from what I have heard about many aspects of her personality I don't think I would like her too much and we would have clashed a lot. So I wonder am I better off never knowing or experiencing the ups and downs of that relationship.
I am not glad that she is not alive, please don't think that of me. But I cannot bring her back and I can't live my life hanging on to a handful of memories of someone I hardly remember from my childhood.
NBVN x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My older brother. He hasn't passed away or anything but over the past few years it feels as though life has got him down and he's unable to see the positivity in anything.
It's a shame because growing up, he was the funny and silly one, making all of us cry with laughter and while he could be moody, he was a joy to be around. But now he seems withdrawn, not into conversation, not wanting to speak to anyone, and he can be a chore to be around because he brings the mood down around him. I miss who he used to be and genuinely not sure if I can get that person back... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My Nan, who raised me, and died 5 years ago. Everything changed after she'd gone. The whole family ended up at war over her house as she had no will. Now I'm on my own and I miss her every single day. I'm also sad they my children didn't get to know her as she really was one in a million  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The love of my life. I miss him with every inch of my soul
Likewise, there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of her at some point  "
Same 
It’s torture isn’t it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The love of my life. I miss him with every inch of my soul
Likewise, there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of her at some point
Same
It’s torture isn’t it. "
no torment like it lass |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I miss so many people. To be honest,too many. But more than anyone I miss my mom. The only person that made me feel special. Her smile when I went to see her. Her legendary hugs and she'd say 'that'll last me a week'. I miss her chips. I miss her strength. I miss her so much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are many people I miss in my life, however each night for over 10 years, I have lit 4 candles (not handles for forks), 1 little one and 3 larger ones, I settle down with a glass of wine and listen to some music before sleep.
The little candle never lasts long, there is a poignancy to that, the one in the intricate metal cage casts shapes around my darkened room and the two in the hurricane glasses flicker and jump with playful energy.
I miss the ones that those candles represent, but they still light up my life.
I know, I know, I’m weird. "
That's not weird it's the way you remember, stay strong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like so many on here I miss so many, but at least I have the memories, and I think of them every day. Now I have grandchildren I am making memories with them. |
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My husband. It’s been 8 years since he died but I’ll always miss him. I hate that he’s missing out on seeing the kids grow into pretty awesome human beings, and the kids not having their dad.
It’s shit.
Miss my beautiful niece who died far too soon a few months ago, she had all her life to live and it was just snatched away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They're still here, but I miss the Mum & Dad that were full of life and zest
It's so sad to see them now, one devoured by mental illness and one put through the ringer by physical illness
We rarely laugh any more, everything is a struggle, there's nothing to look forward to but death
They go on day by day, literally waiting for God |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss my beautiful baby daughter who was far too precious for this cruel world. My heart shattered into a million pieces the day she died x"
oh christ i cant read any more now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss my beautiful baby daughter who was far too precious for this cruel world. My heart shattered into a million pieces the day she died x"
So sorry for your loss . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss my beautiful baby daughter who was far too precious for this cruel world. My heart shattered into a million pieces the day she died x"
No words. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My husband. It’s been 8 years since he died but I’ll always miss him. I hate that he’s missing out on seeing the kids grow into pretty awesome human beings, and the kids not having their dad.
It’s shit.
Miss my beautiful niece who died far too soon a few months ago, she had all her life to live and it was just snatched away "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've recently been trying to get in touch with some old school friends and found out my best friend and band mate died in a motorcycle accident a few years ago. Last time I spoke to him he was a sushi chef in London. Brought back a lot of good memories and a fair bit of sadness that he's gone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A whole long fucking list of people. I’ve lost far to many friends to conflict and there demons that follow. I carry their loss along with my own guilt at times
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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The two obvious ones are my Grandad and my Mum both of whom were huge influences on me.
Beyond that there are various people who've passed through my life at some point and with whom contact has either been lost or has stopped but who were a significant part of my life in some way or another all the same |
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A very sad thread. But good to remember those we've lost.
I miss a few people, cousins I've lost too young and am also fearful for those I haven't lost yet.
Much love everyone, life is too short, cherish them while you can. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My Nan. She died when I was only 8 but doesn’t feel like 25 years since I had a cuddle from her, I still talk to her now and think about her everyday, would love to just be able to spend 1 more day with her x |
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By *D70Man
over a year ago
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I miss too many people, I lost my sister, my best friend and my mum and was then divorced after 18 years married all in the space of 6 years.
The biggest miss is definitely my mum. She was always the one who supported me most. So unsurprisingly, my confidence is through the floor, my life is a mess and I struggle without their support. |
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"I miss too many people, I lost my sister, my best friend and my mum and was then divorced after 18 years married all in the space of 6 years.
The biggest miss is definitely my mum. She was always the one who supported me most. So unsurprisingly, my confidence is through the floor, my life is a mess and I struggle without their support."
keep chatting on here mate you are amongst friends |
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