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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Someone watches you get dressed after sex?
I really really dislike it when you need to get dressed after sex and the person you have just had sex with kinda watches you get dressed. It makes me feel so uncomfortable and I have on occasions said I’m going to use the bathroom and took my clothing with me and shut the door.
I much prefer it if they leave the room or just busy themselves doing something and give me some privacy to get adjusted how I like without them watching.
Am I the only one that feels like this? I know it may come across as odd as I know they just watched me get undressed, seen me naked and got up inside me for the hour or 2 before but I just hate it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone watches you get dressed after sex?
I really really dislike it when you need to get dressed after sex and the person you have just had sex with kinda watches you get dressed. It makes me feel so uncomfortable and I have on occasions said I’m going to use the bathroom and took my clothing with me and shut the door.
I much prefer it if they leave the room or just busy themselves doing something and give me some privacy to get adjusted how I like without them watching.
Am I the only one that feels like this? I know it may come across as odd as I know they just watched me get undressed, seen me naked and got up inside me for the hour or 2 before but I just hate it.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus"
I totally look at the guys ass when he’s walking around 
Sit on the bed ... hide your anus & put the socks on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What if they incorporated it into “post play” and they dressed you sensually with body kissing as they disappear back into their clothing. Obviously not in a get your shit back in ASAP and sod off kinda way lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus
I totally look at the guys ass when he’s walking around
Sit on the bed ... hide your anus & put the socks on. "
i have to get them off the floor first  |
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"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus
I totally look at the guys ass when he’s walking around
Sit on the bed ... hide your anus & put the socks on. i have to get them off the floor first "
Do a slut drop? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have a frozen shoulder so i often need a bit of help doing up a bra or a tie up belt. Therefore i can't really afford to get too embarrassed. "
That’s fair enough.
I sometimes take ‘post sex’ clothing.
Something that’s super easy to put on and really quick like a over sized jumper and looser jeans/legging.
Go in sexy, leave very casual  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus
I totally look at the guys ass when he’s walking around
Sit on the bed ... hide your anus & put the socks on. "
Hypocrisy  
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus
I totally look at the guys ass when he’s walking around
Sit on the bed ... hide your anus & put the socks on. i have to get them off the floor first
Do a slut drop? "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What if they incorporated it into “post play” and they dressed you sensually with body kissing as they disappear back into their clothing. Obviously not in a get your shit back in ASAP and sod off kinda way lol "
Iv thought about it and I’m unsure. I don’t think I’d like that either. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m totally guilty of this , I tend to meet at home so I’m usually sprawled on the bed chatting as they dress …
Sorry "
Ha ha shut your eyes next time |
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By *aveed74Man
over a year ago
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"Someone watches you get dressed after sex?
I really really dislike it when you need to get dressed after sex and the person you have just had sex with kinda watches you get dressed. It makes me feel so uncomfortable and I have on occasions said I’m going to use the bathroom and took my clothing with me and shut the door.
I much prefer it if they leave the room or just busy themselves doing something and give me some privacy to get adjusted how I like without them watching.
Am I the only one that feels like this? I know it may come across as odd as I know they just watched me get undressed, seen me naked and got up inside me for the hour or 2 before but I just hate it.
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I can't remember if I do or not. Would anyone help jog my memory? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP I totally get you on this.
The moments gone, the sexual energy and lust has been used up and let's be honest watching me put on my bra is not nearly as sexy as watching me take it off... I can’t do that cute way of putting it on and reaching around to clip it...oh no! I put it on backwards to clip it then twist it around my waist and then hoist my boobs in with each hand. For the love of all things its NOT sexy 
If he still has the will power then he can watch me attempt to reattach my hold ups back on to the suspenders...oh its like a single person game of twister, throwing in to the mix a hot flush caused by stress of not being able to get the effing clips to attach.
Is he still watching or have I just heard the door close behind him?
NBVN x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus
I totally look at the guys ass when he’s walking around
Sit on the bed ... hide your anus & put the socks on.
Hypocrisy
Mr"
Oh yes! I know
Iv got a thing for watching blokes in the shower too yet I’d hate for a bloke to watch me take a shower.
Step in looking nice, get out looking like a drowned rat ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus
I thought I was alone!! The anus gazing fear is real.  "
i was kidding i dont care if they can see my bum hole winking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I go for a shower take my clothes with me "
I don’t even like it if they watch me walk naked from the bed to their bathroom
I take a shower when I get home though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP I totally get you on this.
The moments gone, the sexual energy and lust has been used up and let's be honest watching me put on my bra is not nearly as sexy as watching me take it off... I can’t do that cute way of putting it on and reaching around to clip it...oh no! I put it on backwards to clip it then twist it around my waist and then hoist my boobs in with each hand. For the love of all things its NOT sexy
If he still has the will power then he can watch me attempt to reattach my hold ups back on to the suspenders...oh its like a single person game of twister, throwing in to the mix a hot flush caused by stress of not being able to get the effing clips to attach.
Is he still watching or have I just heard the door close behind him?
NBVN x"
I thought all women put bras on like that? Ha. I do.
I never put the stocking or lingerie back on. I Chuck it all in my get away bag |
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"I have a frozen shoulder so i often need a bit of help doing up a bra or a tie up belt. Therefore i can't really afford to get too embarrassed.
That’s fair enough.
I sometimes take ‘post sex’ clothing.
Something that’s super easy to put on and really quick like a over sized jumper and looser jeans/legging.
Go in sexy, leave very casual "
This.... Or I like a wrap dress, easily take off and put onable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Someone watches you get dressed after sex?
I really really dislike it when you need to get dressed after sex and the person you have just had sex with kinda watches you get dressed. It makes me feel so uncomfortable and I have on occasions said I’m going to use the bathroom and took my clothing with me and shut the door.
I much prefer it if they leave the room or just busy themselves doing something and give me some privacy to get adjusted how I like without them watching.
Am I the only one that feels like this? I know it may come across as odd as I know they just watched me get undressed, seen me naked and got up inside me for the hour or 2 before but I just hate it.
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I only get this at clubs. Voyeur's paradise, the changing room lol |
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As I know I do it.
Im actually admiring you as I look at you.
Im looking at your skin your beautiful curves and shape of your body.
Your loverly hair flowing over your skin.
Watching you dress yourself slowly memorising each moment.
Seeing you slide your underwear up and on, Wiggerling your loverly bum as you fit it into place.
Watching you slide those tights/stockings onto your beautiful skin, Stroking it gently into place.
Fitting into that loverly skirt and fastening that bra up before cupping each breast into its cups.
Before sliding into that top of yours as it truly is a loverly sight to behold. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus
I totally look at the guys ass when he’s walking around
Sit on the bed ... hide your anus & put the socks on.
Hypocrisy
Mr
Oh yes! I know
Iv got a thing for watching blokes in the shower too yet I’d hate for a bloke to watch me take a shower.
Step in looking nice, get out looking like a drowned rat ha "
You need to change the language you think of yourself in. No one wants a drowned rat in their bathroom but a sexy woman with skin flowing from the heat of the shower and glistening with water, hair wet and sleek down her back ....
Same scene, different words. Watching a woman shower s sexy - a middle aged man not so much.
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP I totally get you on this.
The moments gone, the sexual energy and lust has been used up and let's be honest watching me put on my bra is not nearly as sexy as watching me take it off... I can’t do that cute way of putting it on and reaching around to clip it...oh no! I put it on backwards to clip it then twist it around my waist and then hoist my boobs in with each hand. For the love of all things its NOT sexy
If he still has the will power then he can watch me attempt to reattach my hold ups back on to the suspenders...oh its like a single person game of twister, throwing in to the mix a hot flush caused by stress of not being able to get the effing clips to attach.
Is he still watching or have I just heard the door close behind him?
NBVN x"
Given that our first meet included a break for condom fishing I'd have thought getting dressed after wouldn't be too traumatic  xxx
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I loved watching my mate get dressed after everyone we played x the cheeky smiles. The kisses.
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Her x"
After every time we played… to be fair she usually just slipped my T shirt on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I loved watching my mate get dressed after everyone we played x the cheeky smiles. The kisses.
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Her x
After every time we played… to be fair she usually just slipped my T shirt on "
It's the cheeky smiles and kisses part that got me, cuteeeee!
Her x |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
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No I enjoy it, like the cheeky smiles when I walk around in his T-shirt, bum cheeks slightly peering out below it, it’s playful and flirtatious and I like just flinging on his T-shirt or sweater and sitting chatting/kissing after x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I enjoy it, like the cheeky smiles when I walk around in his T-shirt, bum cheeks slightly peering out below it, it’s playful and flirtatious and I like just flinging on his T-shirt or sweater and sitting chatting/kissing after x"
You do look amazing in a t shirt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP I totally get you on this.
The moments gone, the sexual energy and lust has been used up and let's be honest watching me put on my bra is not nearly as sexy as watching me take it off... I can’t do that cute way of putting it on and reaching around to clip it...oh no! I put it on backwards to clip it then twist it around my waist and then hoist my boobs in with each hand. For the love of all things its NOT sexy
If he still has the will power then he can watch me attempt to reattach my hold ups back on to the suspenders...oh its like a single person game of twister, throwing in to the mix a hot flush caused by stress of not being able to get the effing clips to attach.
Is he still watching or have I just heard the door close behind him?
NBVN x
Given that our first meet included a break for condom fishing I'd have thought getting dressed after wouldn't be too traumatic xxx
Mr"
Oh babe that was a moment wasn't it  I have never felt so sexy as I was sat on the loo practically fisting myself to fish a lost condom out.... and you had a go too! Although I am sure you were getting amorous rather than helping
NBVN x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As I know I do it.
Im actually admiring you as I look at you.
Im looking at your skin your beautiful curves and shape of your body.
Your loverly hair flowing over your skin.
Watching you dress yourself slowly memorising each moment.
Seeing you slide your underwear up and on, Wiggerling your loverly bum as you fit it into place.
Watching you slide those tights/stockings onto your beautiful skin, Stroking it gently into place.
Fitting into that loverly skirt and fastening that bra up before cupping each breast into its cups.
Before sliding into that top of yours as it truly is a loverly sight to behold."
I have no doubt the person isn’t thinking negative things but there’s always that doubt I guess |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus
I totally look at the guys ass when he’s walking around
Sit on the bed ... hide your anus & put the socks on.
Hypocrisy
Mr
Oh yes! I know
Iv got a thing for watching blokes in the shower too yet I’d hate for a bloke to watch me take a shower.
Step in looking nice, get out looking like a drowned rat ha
You need to change the language you think of yourself in. No one wants a drowned rat in their bathroom but a sexy woman with skin flowing from the heat of the shower and glistening with water, hair wet and sleek down her back ....
Same scene, different words. Watching a woman shower s sexy - a middle aged man not so much.
Mr"
Your version does sound a lot nicer then my rat version
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If you've got that post sex glow, feeling of contentment and you're into the girl them logically she's going to have the guys attention. As well as that a woman putting her knickers and jeans on is sexy af |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men can get dressed bloody fast too and be rattling at the door wanting to escape before I have adjusted my knicker elastic and found both socks.
There’s always one sock that goes awol "
Hanging out the back of your skirt as you stride out the door |
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Weirdly it doesn't bother me at all. Me putting clothes on is far sexier than taking them off, because the more clothes I have on the better I look!
I figure by then they've already seen everything there is to see, so I've lost the self-conscious embarrassment I have when undressing. |
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I quite like it. Sometimes they lie there watching you with a slight smile on their face. I often catch one of my partners watching me as I put my make up on at his. I think it's sweet. We're all different though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep cos i put my sox on first so i wonder if there eyeballing my anus"
This made me giggle.
I guess is women that keep the lingerie on can snap it back into place quick to save that trouble.
It's when a man's bent over and his balls are dangling I have try not to laugh or say anything.
Though I have taken a pic before and then shown them it so they can see what they don't.
I clearly have a warped sense of humour. |
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