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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would you give up this lifestyle if someone amazing came along but wasn't keen on sharing?
Or would they only be perfect if they accepted swinging or a variant of it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you give up this lifestyle if someone amazing came along but wasn't keen on sharing?
Or would they only be perfect if they accepted swinging or a variant of it?"
Yes I’d leave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whilst I'm not looking for a relationship, if someone came along who managed to make me want to give up single life then yes, i could give this up.
Good luck to whoever tries though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely give it up, here is only a very small addition to an awesome life ... If I met that special person then they would make an awesome life an unbelievably awesomely amazing life! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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If Tom Hiddleston came along, he of the beautiful back arching and majestic hair flipping and said "Look Meli. I really want to give you my rather large appendage until Ragnarok but your quim is only to be mine because it's just too darn good", I'd feel a bit sad for a brief minute, imagining all the joyous orgasms I could have experienced with the hundred odd penises I have left to experience...
And then I'd be fine with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This perhaps would depend if said person was off here or somewhere else. Therefore if meet on here. Both aware of lifestyle etc. Somewhere else would you tell all ???"
I’d have to explain all the notches somehow. My bed is whittled to the point of collapse  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whilst I'm not looking for a relationship, if someone came along who managed to make me want to give up single life then yes, i could give this up.
Good luck to whoever tries though. "
Definitely this... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d give it all up for a kiss on the cheek 
Bum cheek
Yes, right next to the hole  or on it if you’re that way inclined 
Fancy a bum? "
I’d love one. Bend over then |
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"Would you give up this lifestyle if someone amazing came along but wasn't keen on sharing?
Or would they only be perfect if they accepted swinging or a variant of it?"
I would but I'm not sure they exist
I think i am a bit of a commitmentphobe now as i can't see a relationship having more pros than cons. But who knows? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d give it all up for a kiss on the cheek
Bum cheek
Yes, right next to the hole or on it if you’re that way inclined
Fancy a bum?
I’d love one. Bend over then "
Of course |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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No.
I’ve realised that I’m ENM, so swinging is a part of what I want in our relationship.
It’s not essential for the relationship to work and we’re very happy together without others. However, if swinging was permanently off the table and hadn’t even been a topic, then I wouldn’t be in the relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would give it up. I enjoy it, but it’s not the be all and end all.
Having said that, a relationship where you swing as a couple sounds perfect  "
It is 
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have discussed this on numerous occasions and our relationship is so much more important to us than swinging.
For now we are both happy to continue and through regular communication we assess whether our swinging is having an impact on our relationship. As soon as our feelings change towards swinging for either of us then we have agreed to step back and solely focus on our relationship.
As much as we enjoy and like all aspects of swinging, we love each other and won't put that at risk.
NBVN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If Tom Hiddleston came along, he of the beautiful back arching and majestic hair flipping and said "Look Meli. I really want to give you my rather large appendage until Ragnarok but your quim is only to be mine because it's just too darn good", I'd feel a bit sad for a brief minute, imagining all the joyous orgasms I could have experienced with the hundred odd penises I have left to experience...
And then I'd be fine with it. "
*sighs*
I think we are in love with a man who doesn't know we exist.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If Tom Hiddleston came along, he of the beautiful back arching and majestic hair flipping and said "Look Meli. I really want to give you my rather large appendage until Ragnarok but your quim is only to be mine because it's just too darn good", I'd feel a bit sad for a brief minute, imagining all the joyous orgasms I could have experienced with the hundred odd penises I have left to experience...
And then I'd be fine with it.
*sighs*
I think we are in love with a man who doesn't know we exist. "
Oh i know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If Tom Hiddleston came along, he of the beautiful back arching and majestic hair flipping and said "Look Meli. I really want to give you my rather large appendage until Ragnarok but your quim is only to be mine because it's just too darn good", I'd feel a bit sad for a brief minute, imagining all the joyous orgasms I could have experienced with the hundred odd penises I have left to experience...
And then I'd be fine with it.
*sighs*
I think we are in love with a man who doesn't know we exist.
Oh i know "
So you're in love with Tom too?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If Tom Hiddleston came along, he of the beautiful back arching and majestic hair flipping and said "Look Meli. I really want to give you my rather large appendage until Ragnarok but your quim is only to be mine because it's just too darn good", I'd feel a bit sad for a brief minute, imagining all the joyous orgasms I could have experienced with the hundred odd penises I have left to experience...
And then I'd be fine with it.
*sighs*
I think we are in love with a man who doesn't know we exist.
Oh i know
So you're in love with Tom too?! "
Who isn't?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, in a heartbeat.
I’m only here as my partner is not sexually attracted to me and we’ve discussed our options on how to satisfy our respective itches.
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"Whilst I'm not looking for a relationship, if someone came along who managed to make me want to give up single life then yes, i could give this up.
Good luck to whoever tries though. "
Oh so this! |
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Not a simple one to answer!
Being with someone who’s genuinely willing/open to it is the more important part to me than actually exercising the agreed ‘right’ to do so!
So no, but… yes, but not really no. Sort of. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t think I would.
The discussion would be around what would work for us as a couple, but to some degree or another this would continue for me, it’s part of who I am. It would be relationship first and swinging additions to this it filters around and enhances experiences but if I was told it was them or this…they would go as it would show me that I wasn’t accepted the way that I am…however just because the option to swing is there doesn’t mean I would….if that make sense?!
I guess it comes to someone taking choice from me. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"If Tom Hiddleston came along, he of the beautiful back arching and majestic hair flipping and said "Look Meli. I really want to give you my rather large appendage until Ragnarok but your quim is only to be mine because it's just too darn good", I'd feel a bit sad for a brief minute, imagining all the joyous orgasms I could have experienced with the hundred odd penises I have left to experience...
And then I'd be fine with it.
*sighs*
I think we are in love with a man who doesn't know we exist.
Oh i know
So you're in love with Tom too?!
Who isn't? "
Preach. How could you not be?
P.S Lemmy, don't give up hope. One day he'll know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would you give up this lifestyle if someone amazing came along but wasn't keen on sharing?
Or would they only be perfect if they accepted swinging or a variant of it?"
Yes. And have done. |
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Hmmmmm, difficult question. Never say never, but it would definitely depend on the person and the relationship. I'd give up meeting alone in a heartbeat, but losing the option to meet as a couple would require a lot more discussion. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"I don’t think I would.
The discussion would be around what would work for us as a couple, but to some degree or another this would continue for me, it’s part of who I am. It would be relationship first and swinging additions to this it filters around and enhances experiences but if I was told it was them or this…they would go as it would show me that I wasn’t accepted the way that I am…however just because the option to swing is there doesn’t mean I would….if that make sense?!
I guess it comes to someone taking choice from me. "
This is very much how I feel.
It’s the removal or veto that I object to |
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We met on here as singles and decided we wanted to carry on enjoying the ride. We’ve got a list of what we want to complete and will carry on looking to compete that - however if either of us decided it wasn’t for us anymore then we’d stop….no problems.
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I probably wouldn't. I'm never at my best in a monogamous relationship.
I wouldn't rule it out completely as I could meet the partner of my dreams who can keep me completely satisfied in every way, but I'd say it's highly unlikely. |
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"Would you give up this lifestyle if someone amazing came along but wasn't keen on sharing?
Or would they only be perfect if they accepted swinging or a variant of it?"
Absolutely. In fact when I was seeing someone from here we rarely shared. We enjoyed going to clubs etc and playing together there. Occasionally we'd play with others either alone or together but for thd most part it was just us. |
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As we are in a couple already if one of us ever wanted to knock it on the so to speak then I genuinely think it would be easy for us walk away....
We have had a absolutely fantastic time doing what we do and would have lot of great memories and friends that we have because of our sexlives so we'd definitely look back and say we enjoyed it all
That being said we most certainly aren't going anywhere in the foreseeable future.... we've still got plenty more memories and friends to make |
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Yes I would for the all consuming type of “love”.
I enjoy swinging , the fun of group and private meets, but it doesn’t define me , it’s not a lifestyle for me… it grants me access to great sex with fabulous people without drama and not much effort and I’m making good friends along the way |
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