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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Seeing a person's ex being slated on social media by the other party but that other party is also messaging the ex wishing they'd give a fuck
Friends
What are friends
Folk that have your back when you feel like slagging your ex off on social media and your likely not telling said friend your actually still messaging said ex wishing they'd give a fuck? And sending photos of yourself crying
This is what I mean
Fucked up manipulation
I'd no time in my life for fucking nutters
This ain't about me before any assumptioned conclusions are drawn up 
But I did need to sort this out as it was very personal to me
Women hold the power because majority love to manipulate
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm in no doubt that there's bound to be a few good eggs in among you ladies but I think that's a very rare quality to find
Almost as rare as rocking horse shit |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Manipulation is not a gender thing. You just need to be wise to the fact you’re not always seeing the whole story whichever way you’re veering. That’s humans, not women. "
I'm not on here looking for blokes
I do know some men are manipulators as well |
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"Manipulation is not a gender thing. You just need to be wise to the fact you’re not always seeing the whole story whichever way you’re veering. That’s humans, not women.
I'm not on here looking for blokes
I do know some men are manipulators as well "
She responded to your post ranting about what you have been witnessing on social media. She never made any connection to what you are seeking in here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Manipulation is not a gender thing. You just need to be wise to the fact you’re not always seeing the whole story whichever way you’re veering. That’s humans, not women.
I'm not on here looking for blokes
I do know some men are manipulators as well
She responded to your post ranting about what you have been witnessing on social media. She never made any connection to what you are seeking in here."
What's your point ? |
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"Manipulation is not a gender thing. You just need to be wise to the fact you’re not always seeing the whole story whichever way you’re veering. That’s humans, not women.
I'm not on here looking for blokes
I do know some men are manipulators as well
She responded to your post ranting about what you have been witnessing on social media. She never made any connection to what you are seeking in here.
What's your point ?"
What's yours ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Manipulation is not a gender thing. You just need to be wise to the fact you’re not always seeing the whole story whichever way you’re veering. That’s humans, not women.
I'm not on here looking for blokes
I do know some men are manipulators as well
She responded to your post ranting about what you have been witnessing on social media. She never made any connection to what you are seeking in here.
What's your point ?
What's yours ?"
My point is I'm not really interested in the blokes manipulating me as I don't trust a single 1, and it's not a bloke I'm looking for, I'm no idiot and if course I know there's lots of manipulating blokes, the amount of female manipulators I've come across though is mental
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont get it
When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next
Your opening post said it wasn't about you being slagged off."
I was about to say the same thing.
You seem very angry OP
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dont get it
When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next
Your opening post said it wasn't about you being slagged off."
It's not and that was just figure of speech |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dont get it
When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next
Your opening post said it wasn't about you being slagged off.
I was about to say the same thing.
You seem very angry OP
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Anger is a biproduct of pain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont get it
When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next "
people do funny things at times of stress dont mean they dont care its usually just frustration or lack of communication |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure I'd associate with someone who is the kind of person to be gobby on social media to begin with. There's the main mistake."
And anyone that gets involved in the "he said" "she said" nonsense can do one too. |
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"Dont get it
When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next
Your opening post said it wasn't about you being slagged off.
It's not and that was just figure of speech "
It is difficult at times to answer your posts. If we generalise, you take it as being aimed at you. Then you refer to 'you', then say it was a figure of speech. |
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"I'm not sure I'd associate with someone who is the kind of person to be gobby on social media to begin with. There's the main mistake.
And anyone that gets involved in the "he said" "she said" nonsense can do one too."
Damn right! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dont get it
When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next people do funny things at times of stress dont mean they dont care its usually just frustration or lack of communication "
I totally agree but the messaging with photos of them crying with captions of I wish you have a fuck is in fact manipulation |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dont get it
When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next
Your opening post said it wasn't about you being slagged off.
It's not and that was just figure of speech
It is difficult at times to answer your posts. If we generalise, you take it as being aimed at you. Then you refer to 'you', then say it was a figure of speech."
Pretty much |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.
Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat  "
You can call whoever what ever but please don't go on to them manipulate |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont get it
When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next people do funny things at times of stress dont mean they dont care its usually just frustration or lack of communication
I totally agree but the messaging with photos of them crying with captions of I wish you have a fuck is in fact manipulation "
then i think a conversation is probably needed rather than getting wound up over it clear honest chat adk thst person what there playing at directly |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You seem to dislike women why???"
I love women
Not all of them but there is a few I do adore and respect
But they've earnt that from me
By keeping it real |
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"Dont get it
When a women slags you off to friends 1 minute then asks why you don't give a fuck the next people do funny things at times of stress dont mean they dont care its usually just frustration or lack of communication
I totally agree but the messaging with photos of them crying with captions of I wish you have a fuck is in fact manipulation "
Sounds like a bit of a nutjob to me. |
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"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.
Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat
You can call whoever what ever but please don't go on to them manipulate "
I have never manipulated anyone in my life, never needed to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I couldn't give a fuck who my ex slags me off to.
I know the truth and that's all that matters"
There's normally 3 versions
There's
There's
And the truth |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh dear- someone pissed on your chips OP?
If its not you, why so stressy?
Someone whom I care a lot for "
It all sounds a bit childish to me, step away and come back to it with a clear head tomorrow? |
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"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.
Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat
Hell no I use it liberally "
I learnt a new word from my time on Fab. Twunt. I kinda like that at times |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.
Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat
You can call whoever what ever but please don't go on to them manipulate
I have never manipulated anyone in my life, never needed to."
That's good |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh dear- someone pissed on your chips OP?
If its not you, why so stressy?
Someone whom I care a lot for
It all sounds a bit childish to me, step away and come back to it with a clear head tomorrow?"
It's sorted
He's told her to never try contacting him again
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"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.
Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat
Hell no I use it liberally
I learnt a new word from my time on Fab. Twunt. I kinda like that at times "
That’s a sweeter version… my milder edit would be cuntwaffle.. I’m not that sweet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.
Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat
Hell no I use it liberally
I learnt a new word from my time on Fab. Twunt. I kinda like that at times
That’s a sweeter version… my milder edit would be cuntwaffle.. I’m not that sweet "
Cuntwaffle . Who’s called you that in the passed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's happening fellas, don't accept it,
Respect yourselves
Take no shit
I do this and I’m not a fella. Is that ok?"
It's needed
Please don't be like the majority though nora |
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"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.
Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat
Hell no I use it liberally
I learnt a new word from my time on Fab. Twunt. I kinda like that at times
That’s a sweeter version… my milder edit would be cuntwaffle.. I’m not that sweet
Cuntwaffle . Who’s called you that in the passed"
It’s just a term of affection.. for a loveable arsehole. I know a fair few. |
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"It's happening fellas, don't accept it,
Respect yourselves
Take no shit
I do this and I’m not a fella. Is that ok?
It's needed
Please don't be like the majority though nora "
I have never been like the majority Mr Thrills |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lord of humans are twats. A friend is someone who tells you when you’re being one.
Do I have to be a friend to call someone a twat
Hell no I use it liberally
I learnt a new word from my time on Fab. Twunt. I kinda like that at times
That’s a sweeter version… my milder edit would be cuntwaffle.. I’m not that sweet
Cuntwaffle . Who’s called you that in the passed
It’s just a term of affection.. for a loveable arsehole. I know a fair few."
I'm an arse hole
But I'm not an average arse hole |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's happening fellas, don't accept it,
Respect yourselves
Take no shit
I do this and I’m not a fella. Is that ok?
It's needed
Please don't be like the majority though nora
I have never been like the majority Mr Thrills "
I'm not myself
I like to think folk notice that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't get it, sorry.
Why do you or your friend give a fuck?
Maybe cut ties with arseholes?
Sm I missing something?"
I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I don't get it, sorry.
Why do you or your friend give a fuck?
Maybe cut ties with arseholes?
Sm I missing something?
I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart "
So discuss it with them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't get it, sorry.
Why do you or your friend give a fuck?
Maybe cut ties with arseholes?
Sm I missing something?
I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart
So discuss it with them"
I have
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I don't get it, sorry.
Why do you or your friend give a fuck?
Maybe cut ties with arseholes?
Sm I missing something?
I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart
So discuss it with them
I have
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The outcome???
X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't get it, sorry.
Why do you or your friend give a fuck?
Maybe cut ties with arseholes?
Sm I missing something?
I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart
So discuss it with them
I have
The outcome???
X"
He's told her to get to fuck |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I don't get it, sorry.
Why do you or your friend give a fuck?
Maybe cut ties with arseholes?
Sm I missing something?
I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart
So discuss it with them
I have
The outcome???
X
He's told her to get to fuck "
Does he mean it though??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't get it, sorry.
Why do you or your friend give a fuck?
Maybe cut ties with arseholes?
Sm I missing something?
I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart
So discuss it with them
I have
The outcome???
X
He's told her to get to fuck "
And if she don't then I myself shall be telling her
He's practically my son but we shared the same birth canal |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I don't get it, sorry.
Why do you or your friend give a fuck?
Maybe cut ties with arseholes?
Sm I missing something?
I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart
So discuss it with them
I have
The outcome???
X
He's told her to get to fuck
And if she don't then I myself shall be telling her
He's practically my son but we shared the same birth canal "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't get it, sorry.
Why do you or your friend give a fuck?
Maybe cut ties with arseholes?
Sm I missing something?
I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart
So discuss it with them
I have
The outcome???
X
He's told her to get to fuck
Does he mean it though???"
He's about to go meet a very pretty young woman so I guess so I'm
I bloody well hope so |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"I don't get it, sorry.
Why do you or your friend give a fuck?
Maybe cut ties with arseholes?
Sm I missing something?
I give a fuck because this boy is as close to a son to me as my daughters are my daughters and I'm 1 of few that has his best interests at heart
So discuss it with them
I have
The outcome???
X
He's told her to get to fuck
Does he mean it though???
He's about to go meet a very pretty young woman so I guess so I'm
I bloody well hope so"
Then it's all good x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This reads like a 13 year olds social media page. Do you not have anything better to do than get involved with someone else's dra let alone post here about it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This reads like a 13 year olds social media page. Do you not have anything better to do than get involved with someone else's dra let alone post here about it"
If your not liking what you read then don't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This reads like a 13 year olds social media page. Do you not have anything better to do than get involved with someone else's dra let alone post here about it
If your not liking what you read then don't "
Don't what?
Thanks for the advice but I don't need to be told where I can post my opinion |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This reads like a 13 year olds social media page. Do you not have anything better to do than get involved with someone else's dra let alone post here about it
If your not liking what you read then don't
Don't what?
Thanks for the advice but I don't need to be told where I can post my opinion "
It's nothing but a simple suggestion as you are now no different to what you've just called me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This reads like a 13 year olds social media page. Do you not have anything better to do than get involved with someone else's dra let alone post here about it
If your not liking what you read then don't
Don't what?
Thanks for the advice but I don't need to be told where I can post my opinion
It's nothing but a simple suggestion as you are now no different to what you've just called me lol "
Didn't call you anything. I said "this reads like" |
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Sadly it’s just the dark side of social media! Anyone can write anything they like about anyone else, whether it’s true or not, it p’s People off, and then they chose to write about it on another social platform, like this, and so it continues!! Re women being manipulative, of course ‘some’ women are, as are ‘some’ men. Putting that label on women due to a handful of experiences, means you haven’t learned and moved on, it’s text book! I hope your friend is ok and all of this gets sorted soon! |
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