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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
I just read an update status from a couple who reiterated that they don't want, don't like, can't stand etc etc bi guys.. I was 100% fine with that. Then read the profile.. the female is bi..
It did make me chuckle . |
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Maybe it’s because they are scared that the bi guys won’t be able to hold back their urge to sing show tunes or perhaps they don’t have enough scatter cushions to make a bi guy feel at home. Maybe it’s because the thought of what we may like to do with our winky’s and bumholes makes them feel queer.
Or maybe it’s their choice who they don’t want to meet regardless of the reason.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Why did it make you chuckle? And why is it a double standard? It’s a totally different thing.
I don’t understand. "
Pretty much this - not in the slightest bit double standardy - is like comparing apples and oranges |
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"Maybe it’s because they are scared that the bi guys won’t be able to hold back their urge to sing show tunes or perhaps they don’t have enough scatter cushions to make a bi guy feel at home. Maybe it’s because the thought of what we may like to do with our winky’s and bumholes makes them feel queer.
Or maybe it’s their choice who they don’t want to meet regardless of the reason.
Mr "
Brilliant and totally agree ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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How is that a double standard?
It is a preference, nothing more, nothing less.
If the female is bi, are you saying the male must be bi in order not to be implicitly judgmental?
I do not understand the point you are making - could you please explain? |
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"I just read an update status from a couple who reiterated that they don't want, don't like, can't stand etc etc bi guys.. I was 100% fine with that. Then read the profile.. the female is bi..
It did make me chuckle . "
Meet how they want we would never meet with a bi guy and you know what make me sad people make fun of people preferences.
Why put yourself in a situation that make you uncomfortable. |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
Meh.
It’s not even nearly a double standard.
There isn’t a secret pact amongst all bisexuals to state that we all must treat each other the same! To be honest, I don’t think that I’d be able to put up with the performative expectation and fetishising of my sexuality.
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By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
"Meh.
It’s not even nearly a double standard.
There isn’t a secret pact amongst all bisexuals to state that we all must treat each other the same! To be honest, I don’t think that I’d be able to put up with the performative expectation and fetishising of my sexuality.
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Don't blame you.. perhaps best to leave the site |
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"Maybe it’s because they are scared that the bi guys won’t be able to hold back their urge to sing show tunes or perhaps they don’t have enough scatter cushions to make a bi guy feel at home. Maybe it’s because the thought of what we may like to do with our winky’s and bumholes makes them feel queer.
Or maybe it’s their choice who they don’t want to meet regardless of the reason.
Mr "
well i don't like showtunes but am partial to strictly - does that count?
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Ha ha I can almost gartee they have had meets with some
Someone should tell them there’s something called fab straight ha ha "
This is an attitude that puts me as a straight man off a bi male (couple) meets.
If our preferences aren’t respected, why risk it.
We all have rights to our preferences, that also includes straight men.
My wife is bi, I’m not into bi men, nor is my wife, bi men are not a preference for either of us.
Also didn’t like cornflakes, suddenly warming to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im bi... i have on my profile that im not interested in bi men... does that make me out of order and prejudice?? Or does that make me free to have a choice as to who touches my body, bearing in mind i also have an age range preference and refuse point blank to meet those under 35, so should i let any old random 18 year old crawl all over me? ! ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just read an update status from a couple who reiterated that they don't want, don't like, can't stand etc etc bi guys.. I was 100% fine with that. Then read the profile.. the female is bi..
It did make me chuckle . "
Why?
I don't get it.
So the lady likes cock and pussy, but the bloke only likes pussy.
What's wrong with that? |
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Bi men are just men who like both,doesn't mean they have to have sex with both if your meeting is a couple surely it makes sense to state boundaries at the start. You could be missing out if you avoid bi because of an assumption they have no self control |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ha ha I can almost gartee they have had meets with some
Someone should tell them there’s something called fab straight ha ha
This is an attitude that puts me as a straight man off a bi male (couple) meets.
If our preferences aren’t respected, why risk it.
We all have rights to our preferences, that also includes straight men.
My wife is bi, I’m not into bi men, nor is my wife, bi men are not a preference for either of us.
Also didn’t like cornflakes, suddenly warming to them."
There’s no attitude at all it’s just the sad truth ask any tv/ts and they tell you the same more than willing to open my mail box I get a real kick out this stament we don’t meet bi guys
And further more I not the one you should be mad at I not the one trying to trick people I am just the one telling you the true hard facts as I see them from my mail box |
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