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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Okay I’m a bit in a pickle here and would like to know your opinion..
Basically I met this guy a few times and I really enjoy the time we spend together, just to clarify it’s mainly good sex and that’s absolutely fine (I ain’t looking for anything more than sex)…
now,now… our schedules haven’t been aligning lately and all, so we haven’t been able to meet but I’m really dying to have some good sex again with him. He’s got such big dick energy (btw I’m not sex starved as I’ve got options lol) that just melts me and brings the sexual bitch that is in me out.
Im pretty positive to say he enjoys sex with me btw, like. I leave my guys well satisfied lolol
Wanted to point out neither of us initiated message for weeks btw .
Should I circle and send a little message? Should I refrain from messaging and wait until he messages first? Am I over thinking this????!!!???
Why is it so hard to be a COOL girl lol ??
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He might be thinking exactly the same as you.
Imagine your original post as if it had been written by the guy?
It doesn’t matter who makes the first move, as long as you both have a good time. Personally I like it when a woman approaches me. |
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"Don’t be cool, just message and hopefully get lots of lovely sex. He can’t read your mind, but he can read a message  "
Pretty much this OP - what if he’s having the same thought process then you eventually just drop off & lose contact.
You’ll probably contact him & the conversation will pick up were you last left it! Stop being a Willy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No idea how dynamics loke this work but.. yes, i think you’re over thinking it.
Ask and you shall receive (or not)
Nothing ventured nothing gained.etc.
Unless both of you are telepathic then someone has to make the first more 
Good luck and hope you have a happy ending  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay I’m a bit in a pickle here and would like to know your opinion..
Basically I met this guy a few times and I really enjoy the time we spend together, just to clarify it’s mainly good sex and that’s absolutely fine (I ain’t looking for anything more than sex)…
now,now… our schedules haven’t been aligning lately and all, so we haven’t been able to meet but I’m really dying to have some good sex again with him. He’s got such big dick energy (btw I’m not sex starved as I’ve got options lol) that just melts me and brings the sexual bitch that is in me out.
Im pretty positive to say he enjoys sex with me btw, like. I leave my guys well satisfied lolol
Wanted to point out neither of us initiated message for weeks btw .
Should I circle and send a little message? Should I refrain from messaging and wait until he messages first? Am I over thinking this????!!!???
Why is it so hard to be a COOL girl lol ??
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You could get a friend to tell him my mate likes you ?? Stop bein daft an tell him u liked him hes probably playin it cool too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know …. I feel like I’m being a weirdo and like not playing it cool!!!
In my defender… I guess I’m more used to guys messaging me than the other way round so…(I’m not being precious btw)
I should just message and demand that big dick energy again
FFS u guys!!!! |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Okay I’m a bit in a pickle here and would like to know your opinion..
Basically I met this guy a few times and I really enjoy the time we spend together, just to clarify it’s mainly good sex and that’s absolutely fine (I ain’t looking for anything more than sex)…
now,now… our schedules haven’t been aligning lately and all, so we haven’t been able to meet but I’m really dying to have some good sex again with him. He’s got such big dick energy (btw I’m not sex starved as I’ve got options lol) that just melts me and brings the sexual bitch that is in me out.
Im pretty positive to say he enjoys sex with me btw, like. I leave my guys well satisfied lolol
Wanted to point out neither of us initiated message for weeks btw .
Should I circle and send a little message? Should I refrain from messaging and wait until he messages first? Am I over thinking this????!!!???
Why is it so hard to be a COOL girl lol ??
You could get a friend to tell him my mate likes you ?? Stop bein daft an tell him u liked him hes probably playin it cool too"
My mate fancys you how old are we
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know …. I feel like I’m being a weirdo and like not playing it cool!!!
In my defender… I guess I’m more used to guys messaging me than the other way round so…(I’m not being precious btw)
I should just message and demand that big dick energy again
FFS u guys!!!! "
*defence |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I know …. I feel like I’m being a weirdo and like not playing it cool!!!
In my defender… I guess I’m more used to guys messaging me than the other way round so…(I’m not being precious btw)
I should just message and demand that big dick energy again
FFS u guys!!!! "
What's his number ya tart il phone him for you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advice to anyone on a fuck site .. if you want to fuck someone tell them. It’s why the site is here.
And on that basis .. my inbox is currently in the “receive” position |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay I’m a bit in a pickle here and would like to know your opinion..
Basically I met this guy a few times and I really enjoy the time we spend together, just to clarify it’s mainly good sex and that’s absolutely fine (I ain’t looking for anything more than sex)…
now,now… our schedules haven’t been aligning lately and all, so we haven’t been able to meet but I’m really dying to have some good sex again with him. He’s got such big dick energy (btw I’m not sex starved as I’ve got options lol) that just melts me and brings the sexual bitch that is in me out.
Im pretty positive to say he enjoys sex with me btw, like. I leave my guys well satisfied lolol
Wanted to point out neither of us initiated message for weeks btw .
Should I circle and send a little message? Should I refrain from messaging and wait until he messages first? Am I over thinking this????!!!???
Why is it so hard to be a COOL girl lol ??
You could get a friend to tell him my mate likes you ?? Stop bein daft an tell him u liked him hes probably playin it cool too
My mate fancys you how old are we
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Exactly ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He's probably up to eyes with work and family/sport/social activities. With life slowly getting back to normal, we're all becoming much more busy.
Message him and you'll soon know how things are. If he's married and has kids, sometimes the guilt sends them dark at times. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He's probably up to eyes with work and family/sport/social activities. With life slowly getting back to normal, we're all becoming much more busy.
Message him and you'll soon know how things are. If he's married and has kids, sometimes the guilt sends them dark at times."
No he’s not a married guy with kids but let’s just say he’s the kind of guy who probably has women throw knickers at him…… but he is also quite a busy person with work and all x
I just hate coming across like that kinda girl in general (I mean don’t know the kinda girl I mean but u know …)
Anyway, I’m pretty convinced guys , there’s no harm …
Dying for that fucking D |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is fab.
Message him.
And even if it wasn't and you were doing the whole should I or shouldn't I say in dating. I would. Be you girl!x"
Haha well this turned out to be quite positive as I believe u were all gonna say. Refrain from fucking messaging u (greedy) cow lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is fab.
Message him.
And even if it wasn't and you were doing the whole should I or shouldn't I say in dating. I would. Be you girl!x
Haha well this turned out to be quite positive as I believe u were all gonna say. Refrain from fucking messaging u (greedy) cow lol"
You gotta eat  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is fab.
Message him.
And even if it wasn't and you were doing the whole should I or shouldn't I say in dating. I would. Be you girl!x
Haha well this turned out to be quite positive as I believe u were all gonna say. Refrain from fucking messaging u (greedy) cow lol
You gotta eat "
Yes she does! And I’m in the mood for THAT particular dick. What can I say 
Jesus help me!!! |
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