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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Nope I chat for a while before I meet .The one and only time I met within 48 hours of a first message was the worst and scariest meet I've had .So now I chat for a good while you usually get a pretty good idea what the person is really like then. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
You should never say never but this is one exception.
1. It is safer to do so (And I always tell at least 1 friend where I will be, address and all)
2. I want to reduce the risk of meeting someone with whom I have nothing more in common than membership on this site.
Oh - and at least one social ... always! |
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"Ive noticed that most people want to chat first before meeting, which makes sense. But i wondered if sometimes people just go straight for meeting ?"
If they happen to be at the same club as me, no issues but it doesn’t mean either of us will take anything further.
But I’m not keen on meeting without some dialogue first  |
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In 4 years I've only ever met once without chatting and getting to know someone.
That was a spur of the moment decision one Sunday morning and while it was different for me and I've no regrets, it was purely for her pleasure and I remained fully dressed throughout.
She messaged that night to thank me and then blocked me and I've never spoken to her since. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What if you meet and there is no attraction? What if what you want different things? Just can’t imagine it.
Lily "
Thats very true but i can imagine some people would just meet for random sex and not be fussed about being compatable |
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