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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's hide and seek.
A lot of people hide but if they are interested they will message.
Unfortunately just like you you I get a lot of male/tv attraction and messages.
Maybe I need to convert  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do women hide who theyre viewing or am i only attracting men ??
I hide it on my personal profile. I don’t want you knowing I’m looking at your pics 10 times a day.
- Layla "
Id be happy knowing that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hide it because when I didn't, if I viewed male profiles they generally sent FAF messages 
Ive looked at yours countless times lol"
And I've never sent you a FAF message lol. You're welcome  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them
But would most men allow us to view without sending us a message?"
I can’t speak for everyone but a view doesn’t equal a message back from me. I’ll happily take as many casual views as I can get!
I’ll more than likely have a perv back and may well drop a Fab (or seven  ), but I generally only message back if there’s a point to it, i.e. a specific compliment, something in common on our profiles or an interest in potentially meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hide it because when I didn't, if I viewed male profiles they generally sent FAF messages
Ive looked at yours countless times lol
And I've never sent you a FAF message lol. You're welcome "
Thanks lol x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them
But would most men allow us to view without sending us a message?"
I think most men would view back and send a wink
Its obvious theres a lot of desperate fellas on here but its not hard to block unwanted messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them
But would most men allow us to view without sending us a message?
I think most men would view back and send a wink
Its obvious theres a lot of desperate fellas on here but its not hard to block unwanted messages"
I have previously viewed you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them
But would most men allow us to view without sending us a message?
I think most men would view back and send a wink
Its obvious theres a lot of desperate fellas on here but its not hard to block unwanted messages
I have previously viewed you. "
Really ? See that wouldve been nice to know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them
But would most men allow us to view without sending us a message?"
Tbh yes. Generally I don't send the first message because I understand that women get bombarded with dick pics and ridiculous requests. So I let people message me first and then I will reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally get why women do it but it's a shame. Since joining the forums and getting better understanding of how fab works I don't message anyone unless they message first. |
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You’ll find most people hide their views - as well you might just be having a view & someone might see that as something else
(Guys on fab seem to think if a woman says hello, she wants to fuck you. So I’m not surprised)
Having said that - I do notice some people constantly viewing my profile… |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them "
Why would it? Surely if they've not followed it up with a message or even a wink, then it suggests they looked, weren't interested enough to find out more and moved on, which potentially would be quite the opposite.
Personally I don't see that the "Who's Looked At Me" function serves any purpose other than frustrate those who try and find meaning in it - especially as a lot of users (not just women) go for the stealth option. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them
Why would it? Surely if they've not followed it up with a message or even a wink, then it suggests they looked, weren't interested enough to find out more and moved on, which potentially would be quite the opposite.
I get wat your saying and i wouldnt message anyone that had looked and did not at least wink
Maybe women only view men whove viewed them first then
Otherwise i do only attract men or have a terrible profile lol
Personally I don't see that the "Who's Looked At Me" function serves any purpose other than frustrate those who try and find meaning in it - especially as a lot of users (not just women) go for the stealth option."
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"It would give all us men a confidence boost if some showed youve viewed them
But would most men allow us to view without sending us a message?"
not sure about most, I tend to(on the rare occasion I get a look) have a look back. Then if I get nothing more I leave well alone. Had a wink back before which lead to a few massages back and forth. Wasn't going anywhere but was nice to know that they fancied me. Unfortunately the majority ruin for the few |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do women hide who theyre viewing or am i only attracting men ??
I’ve just viewed, very nice profile  did it show up that I viewed?"
Yes it did thanks yours too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do you chase after everyone who smiles at you in the street? Maybe on the odd occasion but it's very rare.
Don't know why anyone presumes because they've been looked at there's an interest, if there was then that person would surely message you.
I check out people I don't see any of them messaging me back & wouldn't expect them to either, as welcomed as they would be, whether there's an interest on my side or not. A polite no thank you or lets chat is all that's needed. If you're unlucky & keep getting bombarded then put a note on your profile to say something about it, can't hurt. As for those who continue to bombard or send insults I think it's sad that some people have to result to abusive behaviour & bad manners.
Of course I presume anyone who is abusive, threatening or such can be reported.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hide, otherwise I get 'you looked at me but didn't message, why?'
I don't think they'd appreciate me saying 'your pics made me bring up my lunch', so I hide to prevent any upset. "
This made me giggle. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hide, otherwise I get 'you looked at me but didn't message, why?'
I don't think they'd appreciate me saying 'your pics made me bring up my lunch', so I hide to prevent any upset. "
Lol i hope thats not my case |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I hide, otherwise I get 'you looked at me but didn't message, why?'
I don't think they'd appreciate me saying 'your pics made me bring up my lunch', so I hide to prevent any upset.
Lol i hope thats not my case "
Nah, your pics are good |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I hide, otherwise I get 'you looked at me but didn't message, why?'
I don't think they'd appreciate me saying 'your pics made me bring up my lunch', so I hide to prevent any upset.
This made me giggle. "
Some pics are truly vile though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hide
I got fed up of the, 'saw you looking, don't be shy' messages. "
Those are the best! “Don’t be shy”
Yes I’m a regular wall flower over here with my pictures of me in my lingerie for all to see. Don’t look at me I’m shy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hide, otherwise I get 'you looked at me but didn't message, why?'
I don't think they'd appreciate me saying 'your pics made me bring up my lunch', so I hide to prevent any upset.
Lol i hope thats not my case
Nah, your pics are good "
Shucks thanks 
Still dont get a wink tho lol |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I hide, otherwise I get 'you looked at me but didn't message, why?'
I don't think they'd appreciate me saying 'your pics made me bring up my lunch', so I hide to prevent any upset.
Lol i hope thats not my case
Nah, your pics are good
Shucks thanks
Still dont get a wink tho lol"
No cos you live miles away, what would be the point? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hide, otherwise I get 'you looked at me but didn't message, why?'
I don't think they'd appreciate me saying 'your pics made me bring up my lunch', so I hide to prevent any upset.
Lol i hope thats not my case
Nah, your pics are good
Shucks thanks
Still dont get a wink tho lol
No cos you live miles away, what would be the point? "
Moral ? Lol |
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"I hide
I got fed up of the, 'saw you looking, don't be shy' messages.
Those are the best! “Don’t be shy”
Yes I’m a regular wall flower over here with my pictures of me in my lingerie for all to see. Don’t look at me I’m shy "
Yes!! I'm a prude, I was truly horrified by such filth. I thought sure was for the shy and retiring type |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"I do actually send a wink regardless of were they are just bcoz i like there profile/pics
Dont expect a reply
Just bein nice
Maybe thats just me"
Oh god, no, I can't wink you show appreciation, then I get spammed with messages. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I do actually send a wink regardless of were they are just bcoz i like there profile/pics
Dont expect a reply
Just bein nice
Maybe thats just me
Oh god, no, I can't wink you show appreciation, then I get spammed with messages. "
Oh to be popular aye lol
Nah i get that
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"I do actually send a wink regardless of were they are just bcoz i like there profile/pics
Dont expect a reply
Just bein nice
Maybe thats just me
Oh god, no, I can't wink you show appreciation, then I get spammed with messages. "
Cannot wink as out of age range but looking good |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always hide. When I didn’t, a few minutes later I’d get “did you like what you saw? Wanna fuck?”"
You mustve been looking at some fit fellas to have the front to say that to u lol |
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