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Friendship or just fun
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do many others hope to find friends along with fun on fab ? Maybe even building friendships where fun will not happen but you have a different type of connection, I know this might sound a little sad but it’s what I’m hoping for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do many others hope to find friends along with fun on fab ? Maybe even building friendships where fun will not happen but you have a different type of connection, I know this might sound a little sad but it’s what I’m hoping for. "
Oh definitely. I used to have loads of male friends as a teen, but not after marraige and I missed that. I enjoy male energy and humour and its not limited to the sexual. |
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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago
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I have made some amazing friends on fab that I have met at clubs, these are people that I would not play with, I'm not their cup of tea or they are not my go to naughty fun, but I can laugh and chat for hour with them.
So "yes" is an honest answer x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sad at all OP, well I hope not anyway seeing as I'm hoping for this as well. I don't really know many people where I live since splitting with my ex.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you so much for your responses it does give me hope  I’m just always working so fab for me is an escape and will be very much about the social friendship aspect as much as the fun, again I’d need a connection to even consider fun. I’m very optimistic and excited |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are a couple and very much looking for friends. Friends that can come round after we have been out for dinner and fuck to the small hours, but still friends. M |
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Absolutely
I’ve made awesome friends through fab. Having moved across country just before the first lock down my fab friends have helped me get a job, supported me through having covid, parents death and work drama. Given me great advice as well as multiple orgasms |
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I've made some very good, purely platonic friends on here. It's just another medium for meeting people, just like the pub, work, or anywhere...the more people you meet, the more chance you have of clicking with some and building friendships. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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It doesn't sound sad at all Op. I've made some brilliant friends and I'm very lucky and happy to have done so, it's really nice being able to talk openly to people. I'm meeting a friend this weekend and I'm at Tigger level of excitement already.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Such wonderful people, thankyou. My faith has definitely been restored in the site as I was actually losing a little bit of hope thinking my approach just wasn’t cut out for here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve made some amazing friends through fab. Men and women, some who I have played with and some that I haven’t.
For me, this is a lifestyle that hinges on the social aspect more than the play aspect. X |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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The last thing I expected to find when I signed up was friendship of any kind - yet that's exactly what I have found - there are people I've met through here that I'd consider just as good a friends as any of my others, some of whom I've never met face to face, but have found a strong connection and friendship with, even if there is nothing sexual there.
As someone else said, it's possible to find friends anywhere that you interact with others, whether that be at work, doing a hobby, or even on a sex site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first joined I never anticipated making friends on here, but I have to say that's been the most rewarding thing about it. I've had some amazing sex, don't get me wrong, but the non-sexual connections are more precious by far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I first joined I never anticipated making friends on here, but I have to say that's been the most rewarding thing about it. I've had some amazing sex, don't get me wrong, but the non-sexual connections are more precious by far."
I completely agree with this. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m really looking forward to that aspect of being here, a coffee and a conversation with good company is something I definitely miss. I do occasionally have a coffee and chat with customers before or during carrying out work for them that’s as wild as my social life gets  x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I did actually put up a thread last night regarding a handyman service I’d be happy to offer in the northeast and Yorkshire area but maybe that’s me sounding a little desperate despite it not wanting to come across that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I found a good friend through here that started of as fun led to just friends and a gf that started as fun then led to a relationship, it’s a good place to meet people that don’t look down on our filthy minds |
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We very much enjoy meeting people from here socially and if it develops to sex that’s a bonus but it doesn’t always happen. I spend a long time chatting to people to build a connection. That’s not what everyone is looking for and that’s fine but it’s what works best for us.
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I had no idea what would happen when I was signed up to the site by a friend at the time.
I am still good friends with the third chap I met. I only do socials first anyway.
Also have another friend from way back as well.
It is totally possible OP |
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Made some amazing friends through fab, some will always be purely platonic but each are just as important as playmates. It's that smorgasbord of like minded perverts and people you'd never have met otherwise that makes fab great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do many others hope to find friends along with fun on fab ? Maybe even building friendships where fun will not happen but you have a different type of connection, I know this might sound a little sad but it’s what I’m hoping for. "
I didn't come here looking for friends, but I have gravitated more to the forums and really enjoy some of the posts, the wit, cleverness. It's quite refreshing |
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I have made some good friends through Fab but I never set out to find friends this way. I am however convinced by some profiles that some members use Fab more as a friend finding site than a casual sex site.
[Comment by the FMSBO* - "People can use the site for whatever reason they want within the site rules"]
* Fab Minstry for Stating the Bloody Obvious. |
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I’m only really after a few specific types of meets on here. So more than happy to create a few friendships that are purely platonic.
I actually prefer a good night out than a steamy night in, so friendships are as important.
*edit A steamy morning in can happen after the crazy night out  |
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"Do many others hope to find friends along with fun on fab ? Maybe even building friendships where fun will not happen but you have a different type of connection, I know this might sound a little sad but it’s what I’m hoping for. "
For me it's about trust. So definitely got to get on with them on friendship level before giving my body to them. I really don't like messages from blank profiles asking to meet tonight. not my thing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I thought I’d actually connected with somebody on a friendship level after a social coffee, unfortunately I didn’t feel the chemistry between us but was honest and polite and agreed to be friends, now she’s left the site and I feel terrible about it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely. I’d love to make some more open minded like minded friends, it’s definitely not all about the sex for me. I like people and guess it’s nice to have friends who get you and that you can share this side of with. |
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"I have a couple of none sexual friends of the opposite sex on here"
Me too. Loads! I’m heading up north soon for a few days and hoping to meet a few there and on the journey! Like a fab social tour |
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"I have a couple of none sexual friends of the opposite sex on here
Me too. Loads! I’m heading up north soon for a few days and hoping to meet a few there and on the journey! Like a fab social tour "
They sound like awesome folk  |
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"I have a couple of none sexual friends of the opposite sex on here
Me too. Loads! I’m heading up north soon for a few days and hoping to meet a few there and on the journey! Like a fab social tour
They sound like awesome folk "
I’d don’t know? Nora knows some dodgy people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m only looking for friends at the moment, I’m here for the friends I already have.
It’s going to take a long time for me to trust anyone enough to open up for more anyway but it’s better if it comes from friendship anyway |
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"I have a couple of none sexual friends of the opposite sex on here
Me too. Loads! I’m heading up north soon for a few days and hoping to meet a few there and on the journey! Like a fab social tour
They sound like awesome folk
I’d don’t know? Nora knows some dodgy people "
Only the fellas… the birds are ace!!! |
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I didn’t come looking for friends in that way but I found some along the way. They keep me sane and laughing, respect who I am my boundaries but I know they are there if I need them and vice versa. Can’t wait to catch up again soon  |
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Let us be honest, not too many couples will tell their pure vanilla friends they are swingers so there will always be a bit held back.
With Fab friends you can tell the full gory details of last night's gangbang and feel totally comfortable. So good friendships can be even better if those involved get on well.
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