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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ago with what is the basis of my re-edited profile text on my mind.
So I want to share it with serious minded people among you to find out if it resonates at all with you.
For me it (the ideas within) help me to understand what is often encountered here.
You may not agree (you don't have too)
Just your opinions or personal observations/experience are required.
For some this may go too deep For a supposed fun site like this?
For others?
I have removed all unnecessary photos from my profile as this thread is not in any way a recruitment tool.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's your profile to promote yourself, why is it so concerned with your pseudo psychological breakdown of others?
It's odd, in my opinion. "
It's not going to promote myself with ALL others I'm sure.
I have no desire to do that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m sorry, but I find it really, really awful.
You’re basically saying it shouldn’t be my way or the highway, but also saying it’s your way or the highway.
I disagree that people on here are addicts, because they know what they want, and don’t want to give in to what someone else wants?
I’m all for flexibility, new experiences and fluidity, but only if it’s with someone that suits my preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m sorry, but I find it really, really awful.
You’re basically saying it shouldn’t be my way or the highway, but also saying it’s your way or the highway.
I disagree that people on here are addicts, because they know what they want, and don’t want to give in to what someone else wants?
I’m all for flexibility, new experiences and fluidity, but only if it’s with someone that suits my preferences. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Excellent profile Trenton and by far your worse one yet in my very humble opinion and boy have you had some real hum dingers but to be fair this one puts all your other ones in the shade.
Pass a great day.
Toodle pip and we wish you the very best of luck on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blimey....you're really asking people for an honest opinion, in your favour. ...on that? ? Ummm....yeah....good luck with getting an answer that suits you.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Honestly, in my opinion it's awful.
It comes off as hostile, ranty and immature, like a teenager who has read one article on psychology and thinks it's edgy to try to analyse everyone. Why would anyone want to meet you after reading that?
Focus more on promoting yourself and what you bring to the table and less on tearing others down for how they choose to approach their swinging lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m sorry, but I find it really, really awful.
You’re basically saying it shouldn’t be my way or the highway, but also saying it’s your way or the highway.
I disagree that people on here are addicts, because they know what they want, and don’t want to give in to what someone else wants?
I’m all for flexibility, new experiences and fluidity, but only if it’s with someone that suits my preferences. "
I don't feel as If I am saying it's my way or the highway.
But that I will travel your highway yet am glad I'm not on it on a permanent basis because it would bore me.
As I prefer variety. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Excellent profile Trenton and by far your worse one yet in my very humble opinion and boy have you had some real hum dingers but to be fair this one puts all your other ones in the shade.
Pass a great day.
Toodle pip and we wish you the very best of luck on here.
Tony"
Thanks Tony |
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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago
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Content aside, the formatting is a headache. It's as bad as people who don't use paragraphs.
Content wise, all I see is an entitled bad attitude and I can't see who it would appeal too.
Soz |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Content aside, the formatting is a headache. It's as bad as people who don't use paragraphs.
Content wise, all I see is an entitled bad attitude and I can't see who it would appeal too.
Soz"
Am I entitled to not want to be a BBC a big black Cock on fab? |
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"Content aside, the formatting is a headache. It's as bad as people who don't use paragraphs.
Content wise, all I see is an entitled bad attitude and I can't see who it would appeal too.
SozAm I entitled to not want to be a BBC a big black Cock on fab?"
What's that got to do with your profile? No one has mentioned you being a bbc?!  |
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Doesn’t sound like a positive attitude towards people. We are all human and everyone has ups and downs time to time , also looking for special people to feel fullfilled in life. Regularity and repeat could do wonders for some and not for others. Just because you are looking at a book from left side , that doesn’t mean looking from the right side is wrong!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Content aside, the formatting is a headache. It's as bad as people who don't use paragraphs.
Content wise, all I see is an entitled bad attitude and I can't see who it would appeal too.
SozAm I entitled to not want to be a BBC a big black Cock on fab?
What's that got to do with your profile? No one has mentioned you being a bbc?! "
But almost ALL the profiles I encounter here that relate to particularly black guys do.
The remainder that don't tend to be so small in number! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Doesn’t sound like a positive attitude towards people. We are all human and everyone has ups and downs time to time , also looking for special people to feel fullfilled in life. Regularity and repeat could do wonders for some and not for others. Just because you are looking at a book from left side , that doesn’t mean looking from the right side is wrong!
My humble opinion "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It reads to me that you want treating as a man, not as a man objectified by your colour; to be treated as a human as opposed to a piece of meat that ticks a particular 'fetish'
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It reads to me that you want treating as a man, not as a man objectified by your colour; to be treated as a human as opposed to a piece of meat that ticks a particular 'fetish'
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Absolutely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't feel as If I am saying it's my way or the highway.
But that I will travel your highway yet am glad I'm not on it on a permanent basis because it would bore me.
As I prefer variety."
Not new, been done before …. The Littlest Hobo
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some of the earlier comments have helped me to add a word to the text.
To add the word black, and narrow it down to those I encounter on here as seen through my eyes.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't feel as If I am saying it's my way or the highway.
But that I will travel your highway yet am glad I'm not on it on a permanent basis because it would bore me.
As I prefer variety.
Not new, been done before …. The Littlest Hobo
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Clarify the littlest hobo? If it's what I think your saying this hobo may suprise you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It reads to me that you want treating as a man, not as a man objectified by your colour; to be treated as a human as opposed to a piece of meat that ticks a particular 'fetish'
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Just sounds angry to me. Negative. Horrid in fact. I would not want to meet such a person |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It tells me you don’t want to be fetished as a BBC. But you could have said that far more simply without the rant. It doesn’t, however, tell me what you do want.
V x "
You understand the fetishism part.
The rest is my mental framework to deal with it in all probability.
Maybe it could have been simplified but maybe not? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It reads to me that you want treating as a man, not as a man objectified by your colour; to be treated as a human as opposed to a piece of meat that ticks a particular 'fetish'
Just sounds angry to me. Negative. Horrid in fact. I would not want to meet such a person "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd go on a 'date' with you after reading that 
You don't say what you want as what you want is different experiences and maybe an element of surprise and mystery. You may not have a type but you'll know it when you see it.
Instead of saying what you do want you impart some of your character and personality (and you keep people wondering are you serious or joking).
You are more than the sum of your parts. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Honestly, in my opinion it's awful.
It comes off as hostile, ranty and immature, like a teenager who has read one article on psychology and thinks it's edgy to try to analyse everyone. Why would anyone want to meet you after reading that?
Focus more on promoting yourself and what you bring to the table and less on tearing others down for how they choose to approach their swinging lifestyle. "
Not purposefully intended to be edgy at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tis true - whilst being on here, there is a feel of tunnel vision even with myself.
Once you are in the swinging clubs, there is a lot less 'restricted' aura about people. More relaxed, usually experimental.
I am a lot more guarded, aloof with the fab set up.
I think it's 'connection apps' - totally throws me into insecurity.
Miss the nightclub days, where meeting was second nature and fun was easy to find. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd go on a 'date' with you after reading that
You don't say what you want as what you want is different experiences and maybe an element of surprise and mystery. You may not have a type but you'll know it when you see it.
Instead of saying what you do want you impart some of your character and personality (and you keep people wondering are you serious or joking).
You are more than the sum of your parts."
Yep, the not saying what I want...
gives me a measure of freedom (I like variety)
I'll also know it when I see it and almost all the rest is true too!
I dislike stifling boxes.
I am coming round to the idea (laugh) of a 'date'
Thanks PB. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Tis true - whilst being on here, there is a feel of tunnel vision even with myself.
Once you are in the swinging clubs, there is a lot less 'restricted' aura about people. More relaxed, usually experimental.
I am a lot more guarded, aloof with the fab set up.
I think it's 'connection apps' - totally throws me into insecurity.
Miss the nightclub days, where meeting was second nature and fun was easy to find."
I think you have hit the nail on the head!
The clubs have a different feel etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s good as it’s different and you’ve obviously put a lot of thought into it.
But I’m weird I love people who challenge the orthodoxy 
Be you …as I like that guy. "
Thanks very much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't feel as If I am saying it's my way or the highway.
But that I will travel your highway yet am glad I'm not on it on a permanent basis because it would bore me.
As I prefer variety.
Not new, been done before …. The Littlest Hobo
Clarify the littlest hobo? If it's what I think your saying this hobo may suprise you."
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0p8oeiVDcx4
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't feel as If I am saying it's my way or the highway.
But that I will travel your highway yet am glad I'm not on it on a permanent basis because it would bore me.
As I prefer variety.
Not new, been done before …. The Littlest Hobo
Clarify the littlest hobo? If it's what I think your saying this hobo may suprise you.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0p8oeiVDcx4
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While I will not identify with being a dog.
The words of the theme tune are great and I'll take those!
I remember that programme/far off days! |
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"It’s good as it’s different and you’ve obviously put a lot of thought into it.
But I’m weird I love people who challenge the orthodoxy
Be you …as I like that guy. Thanks very much "
Pleasure.
If I met you in a club I bet you’d be really interesting to talk to. Looking forward to your next profile update |
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"It's your profile to promote yourself, why is it so concerned with your pseudo psychological breakdown of others?
It's odd, in my opinion. "
This really.
I’m assuming you don’t want to meet anyone op? - because you haven’t described yourself or what you want - just given an ‘I’m better than you’ diatribe which is regrettably fairly common on here.
It’s your profile though op - so full your boots! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s good as it’s different and you’ve obviously put a lot of thought into it.
But I’m weird I love people who challenge the orthodoxy
Be you …as I like that guy. Thanks very much
Pleasure.
If I met you in a club I bet you’d be really interesting to talk to. Looking forward to your next profile update "
I would have a good rap with you too as I'm sure you could share a lot of interesting insights or thoughts about.
Thanks again for your encouraging words. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It reads to me that you want treating as a man, not as a man objectified by your colour; to be treated as a human as opposed to a piece of meat that ticks a particular 'fetish'
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Yes the big cock fetishers in particular.
I know I am black and I am very agreeable with that.
But I enjoy more than just using my large member on here. |
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The problem is that it is all about the type you don't want and could be assumed up on a couple of paragraphs. What about the women who see you for more than your appendage? Surely your profile should be directed at them? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The problem is that it is all about the type you don't want and could be assumed up on a couple of paragraphs. What about the women who see you for more than your appendage? Surely your profile should be directed at them? "
Unfortunately Kitty methinks they are in short supply.
But I appreciate your advice and respect you and it |
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
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There's nothing wrong with being different OP but your profile reads like a rant at an AA meeting
I think the ladies would rather read about you and not what you're views on addiction are |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's nothing wrong with being different OP but your profile reads like a rant at an AA meeting
I think the ladies would rather read about you and not what you're views on addiction are"
 Thanks for making me chuckle! |
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"The problem is that it is all about the type you don't want and could be assumed up on a couple of paragraphs. What about the women who see you for more than your appendage? Surely your profile should be directed at them? Unfortunately Kitty methinks they are in short supply.
But I appreciate your advice and respect you and it "
I am sad that you say that in 2021. What is wrong with people? |
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
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"There's nothing wrong with being different OP but your profile reads like a rant at an AA meeting
I think the ladies would rather read about you and not what you're views on addiction are Thanks for making me chuckle!"
its only one opinion and I do hope you get lucky OP |
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It reads like your setting so many barriers and negative assumptions in general when you know full well how to avoid those who seek to only meet because they see one part of you..
Your not daft and have the means to concentrate on what you want and whom it is you want to meet as we all do..
Maybe just do that instead of how this profile reads, which will have a lot of potential meets step back.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It reads like your setting so many barriers and negative assumptions in general when you know full well how to avoid those who seek to only meet because they see one part of you..
Your not daft and have the means to concentrate on what you want and whom it is you want to meet as we all do..
Maybe just do that instead of how this profile reads, which will have a lot of potential meets step back.. "
I'll definitely consider your advice which is fair if (laugh) it was worth being on here for two people...that's a part joke! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It reads like your setting so many barriers and negative assumptions in general when you know full well how to avoid those who seek to only meet because they see one part of you..
Your not daft and have the means to concentrate on what you want and whom it is you want to meet as we all do..
Maybe just do that instead of how this profile reads, which will have a lot of potential meets step back.. I'll definitely consider your advice which is fair if (laugh) it was worth being on here for two people...that's a part joke!"
But I will approach future edits more from your suggested mindset |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It reads to me that you want treating as a man, not as a man objectified by your colour; to be treated as a human as opposed to a piece of meat that ticks a particular 'fetish'
Yes the big cock fetishers in particular.
I know I am black and I am very agreeable with that.
But I enjoy more than just using my large member on here."
So u do actually have a large member then  |
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"Content aside, the formatting is a headache. It's as bad as people who don't use paragraphs.
Content wise, all I see is an entitled bad attitude and I can't see who it would appeal too.
SozAm I entitled to not want to be a BBC a big black Cock on fab?
What's that got to do with your profile? No one has mentioned you being a bbc?! But almost ALL the profiles I encounter here that relate to particularly black guys do.
The remainder that don't tend to be so small in number!"
Sounds like your projecting your issues lol
I see more black men promoting the BBC stereo type than I do female. But that may be a bias in my sampling as I rarely look at female profiles to be fair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am coming round to the idea (laugh) of a 'date'
Thanks PB."
Only if you wear the red towel and allow me to participate in The Towel Unveiling Ceremony. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Content aside, the formatting is a headache. It's as bad as people who don't use paragraphs.
Content wise, all I see is an entitled bad attitude and I can't see who it would appeal too.
SozAm I entitled to not want to be a BBC a big black Cock on fab?
What's that got to do with your profile? No one has mentioned you being a bbc?! But almost ALL the profiles I encounter here that relate to particularly black guys do.
The remainder that don't tend to be so small in number!
Sounds like your projecting your issues lol
I see more black men promoting the BBC stereo type than I do female. But that may be a bias in my sampling as I rarely look at female profiles to be fair "
Don't let me start on those male ()!
I also am not seeking to be overly harsh on the ladies but have shared what I experience.
Though I will attempt a more positive re-edit for the two ladies on fab who may see the light! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I am coming round to the idea (laugh) of a 'date'
Thanks PB.
Only if you wear the red towel and allow me to participate in The Towel Unveiling Ceremony."
The Towel is ready for your perusal but shall remain attached to my body (laugh) for you! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It reads to me that you want treating as a man, not as a man objectified by your colour; to be treated as a human as opposed to a piece of meat that ticks a particular 'fetish'
Yes the big cock fetishers in particular.
I know I am black and I am very agreeable with that.
But I enjoy more than just using my large member on here.
So u do actually have a large member then "
Yes, but I will be trying not to lead from the front with it...flag waving. |
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I understand the intent. I've seen quite a few profiles written by women or couples with the same intent.
If you think there are only two women on site you'll want to meet why not write a profile aimed at them?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I understand the intent. I've seen quite a few profiles written by women or couples with the same intent.
If you think there are only two women on site you'll want to meet why not write a profile aimed at them?
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No, not only two women through my choice of exclusivity. But only two women through theirs.
I will try to be more positive and express what I'm looking for.
Hopefully it will not sound like the distress signal of a sinking ship! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile is yours to present as you see fit and, in this case, it seems you have used yours to express your site observations.
You say this isn’t to recruit and you want to see if your thoughts resonate with like minded people.
In mind of that, you seem to have a pretty low opinion of most of the site members.
It does make me wonder why you’re here to be honest.
You attempt to distance yourself from people who you have formed an opinion of based on very limited information, claiming to be seeking a more varied result from your encounters.
You once again cite the ‘BBC’ obsession you’ve observed. I too have observed this is often mentioned when interacting with black men. In my experience though, I’ve found it always to be the man who brings it up, much as you often do.
I hope writing down your observations of the people of this site have in some way helped you understand what you encounter.
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"I understand the intent. I've seen quite a few profiles written by women or couples with the same intent.
If you think there are only two women on site you'll want to meet why not write a profile aimed at them?
No, not only two women through my choice of exclusivity. But only two women through theirs.
I will try to be more positive and express what I'm looking for.
Hopefully it will not sound like the distress signal of a sinking ship!"
You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Your profile is yours to present as you see fit and, in this case, it seems you have used yours to express your site observations.
You say this isn’t to recruit and you want to see if your thoughts resonate with like minded people.
In mind of that, you seem to have a pretty low opinion of most of the site members.
It does make me wonder why you’re here to be honest.
You attempt to distance yourself from people who you have formed an opinion of based on very limited information, claiming to be seeking a more varied result from your encounters.
You once again cite the ‘BBC’ obsession you’ve observed. I too have observed this is often mentioned when interacting with black men. In my experience though, I’ve found it always to be the man who brings it up, much as you often do.
I hope writing down your observations of the people of this site have in some way helped you understand what you encounter.
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There is much here that is interesting to read.
If a person is faced with a regular mirror image of what they are meant to be and doesn't take to it...maybe they may say the odd word about it.
There have been some here who understand where I am coming from and have offered positive advice or an understanding of various things.
Yes writing down my observations of people I..take note..I have encountered helps me.
Because generally that is all I have encountered.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I understand the intent. I've seen quite a few profiles written by women or couples with the same intent.
If you think there are only two women on site you'll want to meet why not write a profile aimed at them?
No, not only two women through my choice of exclusivity. But only two women through theirs.
I will try to be more positive and express what I'm looking for.
Hopefully it will not sound like the distress signal of a sinking ship!
You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. "
Interesting...but Vinegar is a better cleansing agent! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your profile is yours to present as you see fit and, in this case, it seems you have used yours to express your site observations.
You say this isn’t to recruit and you want to see if your thoughts resonate with like minded people.
In mind of that, you seem to have a pretty low opinion of most of the site members.
It does make me wonder why you’re here to be honest.
You attempt to distance yourself from people who you have formed an opinion of based on very limited information, claiming to be seeking a more varied result from your encounters.
You once again cite the ‘BBC’ obsession you’ve observed. I too have observed this is often mentioned when interacting with black men. In my experience though, I’ve found it always to be the man who brings it up, much as you often do.
I hope writing down your observations of the people of this site have in some way helped you understand what you encounter.
There is much here that is interesting to read.
If a person is faced with a regular mirror image of what they are meant to be and doesn't take to it...maybe they may say the odd word about it.
There have been some here who understand where I am coming from and have offered positive advice or an understanding of various things.
Yes writing down my observations of people I..take note..I have encountered helps me.
Because generally that is all I have encountered.
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I don’t want to be disrespectful because that’s how you feel but I almost chuckled at it.
You obviously know what you want but your profile comes across as you are generalising and criticising a lot of people on this site in a very patronising manor. Which I feel is definitely not going to get you the right attention.
You speak a lot about addiction like almost obsessively. At the end of the day it’s your feelings but you did ask for people’s advice and I find red flags in your text that would put the majority off.
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"Your profile is yours to present as you see fit and, in this case, it seems you have used yours to express your site observations.
You say this isn’t to recruit and you want to see if your thoughts resonate with like minded people.
In mind of that, you seem to have a pretty low opinion of most of the site members.
It does make me wonder why you’re here to be honest.
You attempt to distance yourself from people who you have formed an opinion of based on very limited information, claiming to be seeking a more varied result from your encounters.
You once again cite the ‘BBC’ obsession you’ve observed. I too have observed this is often mentioned when interacting with black men. In my experience though, I’ve found it always to be the man who brings it up, much as you often do.
I hope writing down your observations of the people of this site have in some way helped you understand what you encounter.
There is much here that is interesting to read.
If a person is faced with a regular mirror image of what they are meant to be and doesn't take to it...maybe they may say the odd word about it.
There have been some here who understand where I am coming from and have offered positive advice or an understanding of various things.
Yes writing down my observations of people I..take note..I have encountered helps me.
Because generally that is all I have encountered.
Perhaps this isn’t the site for you then. "
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over a year ago
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Just having a quick gaze has made me feel very sad and like that might be some things you need to talk through with somebody.
I don't feel it's the kind of prose that would would be appropriate for a profile on here.
I feel it is unlikely to attract anybody who reads it.
I don't mean to sound harsh but that's my truth, obviously your profile is yours. |
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"I understand the intent. I've seen quite a few profiles written by women or couples with the same intent.
If you think there are only two women on site you'll want to meet why not write a profile aimed at them?
No, not only two women through my choice of exclusivity. But only two women through theirs.
I will try to be more positive and express what I'm looking for.
Hopefully it will not sound like the distress signal of a sinking ship!
You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. Interesting...but Vinegar is a better cleansing agent!"
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It depends on what you're looking to get out of being on here. If it's to meet people then I think it's off-putting.
For me you would just seem like too much hard work for something that's supposed to be fun |
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"It doesn't tell me anything I'd want to know How about need to know?"
Nope, doesn't do that either.
It's very offputting. Way too negative.
Completely uninviting.
I found it a real struggle to find the willingness to read it all the way through. I didn't really want to carry on before I'd got halfway through |
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"It doesn't tell me anything I'd want to know How about need to know?
Nope, doesn't do that either.
It's very offputting. Way too negative.
Completely uninviting.
I found it a real struggle to find the willingness to read it all the way through. I didn't really want to carry on before I'd got halfway through"
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"I understand the intent. I've seen quite a few profiles written by women or couples with the same intent.
If you think there are only two women on site you'll want to meet why not write a profile aimed at them?
No, not only two women through my choice of exclusivity. But only two women through theirs.
I will try to be more positive and express what I'm looking for.
Hopefully it will not sound like the distress signal of a sinking ship!
You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. Interesting...but Vinegar is a better cleansing agent!
So your approach is to clean out the unwanted rather than attract who you do want?"
I find for me that's a better way.
I find it impossible to stay completely aloof from my emotions when faced with certain approaches about certain things. |
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over a year ago
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"It depends on what you're looking to get out of being on here. If it's to meet people then I think it's off-putting.
For me you would just seem like too much hard work for something that's supposed to be fun "
I get that...I actually like fun but maybe not the majority of what I can fit into on here. |
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"I understand the intent. I've seen quite a few profiles written by women or couples with the same intent.
If you think there are only two women on site you'll want to meet why not write a profile aimed at them?
No, not only two women through my choice of exclusivity. But only two women through theirs.
I will try to be more positive and express what I'm looking for.
Hopefully it will not sound like the distress signal of a sinking ship!
You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. Interesting...but Vinegar is a better cleansing agent!
So your approach is to clean out the unwanted rather than attract who you do want? I find for me that's a better way.
I find it impossible to stay completely aloof from my emotions when faced with certain approaches about certain things."
I can see that. I think you're facing the dilemma that a lot of women face. You feel just for once you'd like to be approached on the basis of you personally rather than perceived physical attributes but when you express that you're dismissed.
I haven't got an answer for you on that . |
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over a year ago
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"I understand the intent. I've seen quite a few profiles written by women or couples with the same intent.
If you think there are only two women on site you'll want to meet why not write a profile aimed at them?
No, not only two women through my choice of exclusivity. But only two women through theirs.
I will try to be more positive and express what I'm looking for.
Hopefully it will not sound like the distress signal of a sinking ship!
You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. Interesting...but Vinegar is a better cleansing agent!
So your approach is to clean out the unwanted rather than attract who you do want? I find for me that's a better way.
I find it impossible to stay completely aloof from my emotions when faced with certain approaches about certain things.
I can see that. I think you're facing the dilemma that a lot of women face. You feel just for once you'd like to be approached on the basis of you personally rather than perceived physical attributes but when you express that you're dismissed.
I haven't got an answer for you on that ."
I have had (very) enjoyable and enjoyable times through this site and when things have been smooth they have been smooth.
Not always, I've had my fair share of stitch ups..false promise etc too.
Also times have changed (world events) for us all.
I think one of the most helpful comments for me was about the difference between apps and face to face communication.
The site vs clubs.
I have experienced both and see the points that individual expressed.
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So your approach is to clean out the unwanted rather than attract who you do want?"
I prefer that approach. I see it as a way to possibly finding the ones with a similar mindset and to leave an opening for pleasant surprises. |
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So your approach is to clean out the unwanted rather than attract who you do want?
I prefer that approach. I see it as a way to possibly finding the ones with a similar mindset and to leave an opening for pleasant surprises."
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"I understand the intent. I've seen quite a few profiles written by women or couples with the same intent.
If you think there are only two women on site you'll want to meet why not write a profile aimed at them?
No, not only two women through my choice of exclusivity. But only two women through theirs.
I will try to be more positive and express what I'm looking for.
Hopefully it will not sound like the distress signal of a sinking ship!
You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. Interesting...but Vinegar is a better cleansing agent!
So your approach is to clean out the unwanted rather than attract who you do want? I find for me that's a better way.
I find it impossible to stay completely aloof from my emotions when faced with certain approaches about certain things.
I can see that. I think you're facing the dilemma that a lot of women face. You feel just for once you'd like to be approached on the basis of you personally rather than perceived physical attributes but when you express that you're dismissed.
I haven't got an answer for you on that . I have had (very) enjoyable and enjoyable times through this site and when things have been smooth they have been smooth.
Not always, I've had my fair share of stitch ups..false promise etc too.
Also times have changed (world events) for us all.
I think one of the most helpful comments for me was about the difference between apps and face to face communication.
The site vs clubs.
I have experienced both and see the points that individual expressed.
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Well, good luck to you. I hope you have some mutually enjoyable encounters |
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So your approach is to clean out the unwanted rather than attract who you do want?
I prefer that approach. I see it as a way to possibly finding the ones with a similar mindset and to leave an opening for pleasant surprises."
Everyone goes about getting what they want in the way that suits them best |
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"ago with what is the basis of my re-edited profile text on my mind.
So I want to share it with serious minded people among you to find out if it resonates at all with you.
For me it (the ideas within) help me to understand what is often encountered here.
You may not agree (you don't have too)
Just your opinions or personal observations/experience are required.
For some this may go too deep For a supposed fun site like this?
For others?
I have removed all unnecessary photos from my profile as this thread is not in any way a recruitment tool.
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I can't type and post what I actually think I'd get chucked off the forums instantly. |
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over a year ago
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"I understand the intent. I've seen quite a few profiles written by women or couples with the same intent.
If you think there are only two women on site you'll want to meet why not write a profile aimed at them?
No, not only two women through my choice of exclusivity. But only two women through theirs.
I will try to be more positive and express what I'm looking for.
Hopefully it will not sound like the distress signal of a sinking ship!
You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. Interesting...but Vinegar is a better cleansing agent!
So your approach is to clean out the unwanted rather than attract who you do want? I find for me that's a better way.
I find it impossible to stay completely aloof from my emotions when faced with certain approaches about certain things.
I can see that. I think you're facing the dilemma that a lot of women face. You feel just for once you'd like to be approached on the basis of you personally rather than perceived physical attributes but when you express that you're dismissed.
I haven't got an answer for you on that . I have had (very) enjoyable and enjoyable times through this site and when things have been smooth they have been smooth.
Not always, I've had my fair share of stitch ups..false promise etc too.
Also times have changed (world events) for us all.
I think one of the most helpful comments for me was about the difference between apps and face to face communication.
The site vs clubs.
I have experienced both and see the points that individual expressed.
Well, good luck to you. I hope you have some mutually enjoyable encounters "
If possible I would investigate but do not recognise her postcode in London!
She is a good lady I know that.
Like yourself...or am I writing to Sir? I don't think so?
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over a year ago
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"I understand the intent. I've seen quite a few profiles written by women or couples with the same intent.
If you think there are only two women on site you'll want to meet why not write a profile aimed at them?
No, not only two women through my choice of exclusivity. But only two women through theirs.
I will try to be more positive and express what I'm looking for.
Hopefully it will not sound like the distress signal of a sinking ship!
You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar. Interesting...but Vinegar is a better cleansing agent!
So your approach is to clean out the unwanted rather than attract who you do want? I find for me that's a better way.
I find it impossible to stay completely aloof from my emotions when faced with certain approaches about certain things.
I can see that. I think you're facing the dilemma that a lot of women face. You feel just for once you'd like to be approached on the basis of you personally rather than perceived physical attributes but when you express that you're dismissed.
I haven't got an answer for you on that . I have had (very) enjoyable and enjoyable times through this site and when things have been smooth they have been smooth.
Not always, I've had my fair share of stitch ups..false promise etc too.
Also times have changed (world events) for us all.
I think one of the most helpful comments for me was about the difference between apps and face to face communication.
The site vs clubs.
I have experienced both and see the points that individual expressed.
Well, good luck to you. I hope you have some mutually enjoyable encounters
If possible I would investigate but do not recognise her postcode in London!
She is a good lady I know that.
Like yourself...or am I writing to Sir? I don't think so?
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This is not intended to be a dig...I wouldn't do that to you.
You have always treated me with respect...thanks. |
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"ago with what is the basis of my re-edited profile text on my mind.
So I want to share it with serious minded people among you to find out if it resonates at all with you.
For me it (the ideas within) help me to understand what is often encountered here.
You may not agree (you don't have too)
Just your opinions or personal observations/experience are required.
For some this may go too deep For a supposed fun site like this?
For others?
I have removed all unnecessary photos from my profile as this thread is not in any way a recruitment tool.
I can't type and post what I actually think I'd get chucked off the forums instantly. "
Type and post but word it carefully.
Or come back when your emotions have settled. |
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"ago with what is the basis of my re-edited profile text on my mind.
So I want to share it with serious minded people among you to find out if it resonates at all with you.
For me it (the ideas within) help me to understand what is often encountered here.
You may not agree (you don't have too)
Just your opinions or personal observations/experience are required.
For some this may go too deep For a supposed fun site like this?
For others?
I have removed all unnecessary photos from my profile as this thread is not in any way a recruitment tool.
I can't type and post what I actually think I'd get chucked off the forums instantly. Type and post but word it carefully.
Or come back when your emotions have settled. "
It screams of a man that doesn't get what he wants and as such blames the other people for not recognising him as a person and basically slating them for not chosing him. He wants to be more than just a cock but at the same time says he will actually entertain some of these people that won't choose him as he's not getting anything.
Just my interpretation of it.
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"ago with what is the basis of my re-edited profile text on my mind.
So I want to share it with serious minded people among you to find out if it resonates at all with you.
For me it (the ideas within) help me to understand what is often encountered here.
You may not agree (you don't have too)
Just your opinions or personal observations/experience are required.
For some this may go too deep For a supposed fun site like this?
For others?
I have removed all unnecessary photos from my profile as this thread is not in any way a recruitment tool.
I can't type and post what I actually think I'd get chucked off the forums instantly. Type and post but word it carefully.
Or come back when your emotions have settled.
It screams of a man that doesn't get what he wants and as such blames the other people for not recognising him as a person and basically slating them for not chosing him. He wants to be more than just a cock but at the same time says he will actually entertain some of these people that won't choose him as he's not getting anything.
Just my interpretation of it.
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Interesting...but what if I were to tell you I have quite a bit of experience of getting what I want here and without promoting myself in a certain way that makes me feel as If I am selling out my own integrity.
That struggle continues...
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over a year ago
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"Meh... I get what you're saying, but just because people stick to what they know and like doesn't make them some kind of addict?
What are you trying to achieve?"
Just saying 'my addictions' encompass more scope. |
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"It reads to me that you want treating as a man, not as a man objectified by your colour; to be treated as a human as opposed to a piece of meat that ticks a particular 'fetish'
Yes the big cock fetishers in particular.
I know I am black and I am very agreeable with that.
But I enjoy more than just using my large member on here."
Ok, so I didn't get anything about this issue from your profile...
But I understand the not wanting to be a fetish, like myself as being referred to as an older lady/milf/cougar... |
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"It reads to me that you want treating as a man, not as a man objectified by your colour; to be treated as a human as opposed to a piece of meat that ticks a particular 'fetish'
Yes the big cock fetishers in particular.
I know I am black and I am very agreeable with that.
But I enjoy more than just using my large member on here.
Ok, so I didn't get anything about this issue from your profile...
But I understand the not wanting to be a fetish, like myself as being referred to as an older lady/milf/cougar..."
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over a year ago
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"This feels like 2 other threads/posters I've seen.
I'll say the same thing...knapman drama triangle and the feelings wheel "
No idea what on earth your talking about.
Please express... |
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"ago with what is the basis of my re-edited profile text on my mind.
So I want to share it with serious minded people among you to find out if it resonates at all with you.
For me it (the ideas within) help me to understand what is often encountered here.
You may not agree (you don't have too)
Just your opinions or personal observations/experience are required.
For some this may go too deep For a supposed fun site like this?
For others?
I have removed all unnecessary photos from my profile as this thread is not in any way a recruitment tool.
I can't type and post what I actually think I'd get chucked off the forums instantly. Type and post but word it carefully.
Or come back when your emotions have settled.
It screams of a man that doesn't get what he wants and as such blames the other people for not recognising him as a person and basically slating them for not chosing him. He wants to be more than just a cock but at the same time says he will actually entertain some of these people that won't choose him as he's not getting anything.
Just my interpretation of it.
Interesting...but what if I were to tell you I have quite a bit of experience of getting what I want here and without promoting myself in a certain way that makes me feel as If I am selling out my own integrity.
That struggle continues...
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over a year ago
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Didn't you post something similar a while ago re identity of bbc which you had described yourself at that time in your profile.
For me, your a man with a cock as to the size who knows!
If people think a certain group of men have 'big dicks' that's as ridiculous as saying people with glasses are 'intelligent', people who are (trying to find a word that could upset) voluptuous are 'jolly/funny'.
You define you, you ascribe to that which you choose.
Side note...I'm mildly annoyed at myself for being drawn into posting, therefore giving you the attention you wanted. |
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"Didn't you post something similar a while ago re identity of bbc which you had described yourself at that time in your profile.
For me, your a man with a cock as to the size who knows!
If people think a certain group of men have 'big dicks' that's as ridiculous as saying people with glasses are 'intelligent', people who are (trying to find a word that could upset) voluptuous are 'jolly/funny'.
You define you, you ascribe to that which you choose.
Side note...I'm mildly annoyed at myself for being drawn into posting, therefore giving you the attention you wanted. "
I have NEVER used the term BBC in ANY profile text in all my time on fab!
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"Didn't you post something similar a while ago re identity of bbc which you had described yourself at that time in your profile.
For me, your a man with a cock as to the size who knows!
If people think a certain group of men have 'big dicks' that's as ridiculous as saying people with glasses are 'intelligent', people who are (trying to find a word that could upset) voluptuous are 'jolly/funny'.
You define you, you ascribe to that which you choose.
Side note...I'm mildly annoyed at myself for being drawn into posting, therefore giving you the attention you wanted. I have NEVER used the term BBC in ANY profile text in all my time on fab!
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In fact this is the first time I have really even approached the subject.
I tend to stay clear of all that. |
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"Didn't you post something similar a while ago re identity of bbc which you had described yourself at that time in your profile.
For me, your a man with a cock as to the size who knows!
If people think a certain group of men have 'big dicks' that's as ridiculous as saying people with glasses are 'intelligent', people who are (trying to find a word that could upset) voluptuous are 'jolly/funny'.
You define you, you ascribe to that which you choose.
Side note...I'm mildly annoyed at myself for being drawn into posting, therefore giving you the attention you wanted. I have NEVER used the term BBC in ANY profile text in all my time on fab!
In fact this is the first time I have really even approached the subject.
I tend to stay clear of all that."
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over a year ago
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"Didn't you post something similar a while ago re identity of bbc which you had described yourself at that time in your profile.
For me, your a man with a cock as to the size who knows!
If people think a certain group of men have 'big dicks' that's as ridiculous as saying people with glasses are 'intelligent', people who are (trying to find a word that could upset) voluptuous are 'jolly/funny'.
You define you, you ascribe to that which you choose.
Side note...I'm mildly annoyed at myself for being drawn into posting, therefore giving you the attention you wanted. I have NEVER used the term BBC in ANY profile text in all my time on fab!
In fact this is the first time I have really even approached the subject.
I tend to stay clear of all that.
My mistake. "
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over a year ago
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I don't think people understand how any acronym (if that's the right thing to call them) is really that great.
Even the ones that have the word beautiful in them.
To refer to oneself as part of a grouping and not as an individual is the greatest loss (or gain?) |
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"I can see merit in maybe two sentences buried in your profile.
If I was a female, I'd swipe left as there is little to interest me.
#justsaying "
Just smiling |
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"I don't think people understand how any acronym (if that's the right thing to call them) is really that great.
Even the ones that have the word beautiful in them.
To refer to oneself as part of a grouping and not as an individual is the greatest loss (or gain?)"
...is really not that great...etc |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Didn't you post something similar a while ago re identity of bbc which you had described yourself at that time in your profile.
For me, your a man with a cock as to the size who knows!
If people think a certain group of men have 'big dicks' that's as ridiculous as saying people with glasses are 'intelligent', people who are (trying to find a word that could upset) voluptuous are 'jolly/funny'.
You define you, you ascribe to that which you choose.
Side note...I'm mildly annoyed at myself for being drawn into posting, therefore giving you the attention you wanted. I have NEVER used the term BBC in ANY profile text in all my time on fab!
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It's in your profile now |
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"Didn't you post something similar a while ago re identity of bbc which you had described yourself at that time in your profile.
For me, your a man with a cock as to the size who knows!
If people think a certain group of men have 'big dicks' that's as ridiculous as saying people with glasses are 'intelligent', people who are (trying to find a word that could upset) voluptuous are 'jolly/funny'.
You define you, you ascribe to that which you choose.
Side note...I'm mildly annoyed at myself for being drawn into posting, therefore giving you the attention you wanted. I have NEVER used the term BBC in ANY profile text in all my time on fab!
It's in your profile now"
Refering to what I don't want...but I see your point.
It's hidden away at the bottom though and not looming large! |
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"Didn't you post something similar a while ago re identity of bbc which you had described yourself at that time in your profile.
For me, your a man with a cock as to the size who knows!
If people think a certain group of men have 'big dicks' that's as ridiculous as saying people with glasses are 'intelligent', people who are (trying to find a word that could upset) voluptuous are 'jolly/funny'.
You define you, you ascribe to that which you choose.
Side note...I'm mildly annoyed at myself for being drawn into posting, therefore giving you the attention you wanted. I have NEVER used the term BBC in ANY profile text in all my time on fab!
It's in your profile now Refering to what I don't want...but I see your point.
It's hidden away at the bottom though and not looming large!"
Referring to blustering statement...'I have NEVER used the term BBC in ANY profile text in all my time on fab!'
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"Didn't you post something similar a while ago re identity of bbc which you had described yourself at that time in your profile.
For me, your a man with a cock as to the size who knows!
If people think a certain group of men have 'big dicks' that's as ridiculous as saying people with glasses are 'intelligent', people who are (trying to find a word that could upset) voluptuous are 'jolly/funny'.
You define you, you ascribe to that which you choose.
Side note...I'm mildly annoyed at myself for being drawn into posting, therefore giving you the attention you wanted. I have NEVER used the term BBC in ANY profile text in all my time on fab!
It's in your profile now Refering to what I don't want...but I see your point.
It's hidden away at the bottom though and not looming large!"
A correction has been made and its 3 lettered twin has been replaced by its more articulate brother (which in fact is a better way of putting it if you do require that!) |
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"Didn't you post something similar a while ago re identity of bbc which you had described yourself at that time in your profile.
For me, your a man with a cock as to the size who knows!
If people think a certain group of men have 'big dicks' that's as ridiculous as saying people with glasses are 'intelligent', people who are (trying to find a word that could upset) voluptuous are 'jolly/funny'.
You define you, you ascribe to that which you choose.
Side note...I'm mildly annoyed at myself for being drawn into posting, therefore giving you the attention you wanted. I have NEVER used the term BBC in ANY profile text in all my time on fab!
It's in your profile now Refering to what I don't want...but I see your point.
It's hidden away at the bottom though and not looming large! A correction has been made and its 3 lettered twin has been replaced by its more articulate brother (which in fact is a better way of putting it if you do require that!)"
It's... |
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After thoughtful rediting.
This IS my final product!
(My profile text)
As seen through my eyes/experience.
I assure you it won't change from here on in.
That is the naked me!
So is it at least understandle to all normal readers?
You shall not hear from me on the matter again!!!!
PS To all thread contributors who have assisted it's your fault if it all goes tits up!
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"After thoughtful rediting.
This IS my final product!
(My profile text)
As seen through my eyes/experience.
I assure you it won't change from here on in.
That is the naked me!
So is it at least understandle to all normal readers?
You shall not hear from me on the matter again!!!!
PS To all thread contributors who have assisted it's your fault if it all goes tits up!
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I like it but I'm not your target audience.
And you use any advice I give at your own risk. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"After thoughtful rediting.
This IS my final product!
(My profile text)
As seen through my eyes/experience.
I assure you it won't change from here on in.
That is the naked me!
So is it at least understandle to all normal readers?
You shall not hear from me on the matter again!!!!
PS To all thread contributors who have assisted it's your fault if it all goes tits up!
I like it but I'm not your target audience.
And you use any advice I give at your own risk."
Thanks PB..my target audience are now receiving an arrow with the rubber firmly in place on tip! |
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"After thoughtful rediting.
This IS my final product!
(My profile text)
As seen through my eyes/experience.
I assure you it won't change from here on in.
That is the naked me!
So is it at least understandle to all normal readers?
You shall not hear from me on the matter again!!!!
PS To all thread contributors who have assisted it's your fault if it all goes tits up!
I like it but I'm not your target audience.
And you use any advice I give at your own risk. Thanks PB..my target audience are now receiving an arrow with the rubber firmly in place on tip!"
I have to ask. Why PB? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"After thoughtful rediting.
This IS my final product!
(My profile text)
As seen through my eyes/experience.
I assure you it won't change from here on in.
That is the naked me!
So is it at least understandle to all normal readers?
You shall not hear from me on the matter again!!!!
PS To all thread contributors who have assisted it's your fault if it all goes tits up!
I like it but I'm not your target audience.
And you use any advice I give at your own risk. Thanks PB..my target audience are now receiving an arrow with the rubber firmly in place on tip!
I have to ask. Why PB?"
My eyes! Squint, Squint!!
P6! An intimate brotherly nickname for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After thoughtful rediting.
This IS my final product!
(My profile text)
As seen through my eyes/experience.
I assure you it won't change from here on in.
That is the naked me!
So is it at least understandle to all normal readers?
You shall not hear from me on the matter again!!!!
PS To all thread contributors who have assisted it's your fault if it all goes tits up!
I like it but I'm not your target audience.
And you use any advice I give at your own risk. Thanks PB..my target audience are now receiving an arrow with the rubber firmly in place on tip!
I have to ask. Why PB? My eyes! Squint, Squint!!
P6! An intimate brotherly nickname for you."
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