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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering if someone’s not interested in chatting or don’t like the profile why not just delete the message?
I get a lot of people who don’t respond but don’t delete the message either!
Perplexed.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yeah, I never look at my sent stuff, it can never make me happy"
True. Nice to see if someone’s taken the time to read it though. I usually send quite a nice message.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering if someone’s not interested in chatting or don’t like the profile why not just delete the message?
I get a lot of people who don’t respond but don’t delete the message either!
Perplexed. "
Some just like having big numbers so they can show dudes they do hit back how many messages they get !!!
there’s lots of other reasons but that’s definitely one |
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"Just wondering if someone’s not interested in chatting or don’t like the profile why not just delete the message?
I get a lot of people who don’t respond but don’t delete the message either!
Perplexed.
Some just like having big numbers so they can show dudes they do hit back how many messages they get !!!
there’s lots of other reasons but that’s definitely one "
Really? People do that? I never show others my inbox, read or unread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I send a message and don't get a reply, I accept it let it go.
I don't delete messages routinely either but it's definitely not to show other men.... Stop overthinking it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For records, it keeps it in the memory for a few weeks, so if someone comes back to us it’ll jog my memory on who they are
The Boy "
Ok but if your not messaging back or interested what’s the point in not deleting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I send a message and don't get a reply, I accept it let it go.
I don't delete messages routinely either but it's definitely not to show other men.... Stop overthinking it. "
Ok thank you. Just be good to know Instantly if someone’s interested or not.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Take every 1st message you send as a not interested.. then its a nice surprise when or if you get a reply.
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Yeah, I never expect to get a response but just don’t understand why people don’t delete. |
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"For records, it keeps it in the memory for a few weeks, so if someone comes back to us it’ll jog my memory on who they are
The Boy
Ok but if your not messaging back or interested what’s the point in not deleting"
They disappear off the page soon enough. Why are you obsessed with how other people manage their inbox? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I send a message and don't get a reply, I accept it let it go.
I don't delete messages routinely either but it's definitely not to show other men.... Stop overthinking it. "
I’ve been showed a few girls pages to prove how many hits they get even last night actually !
As I said it’s just one reason probably of few ! |
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"Take every 1st message you send as a not interested.. then its a nice surprise when or if you get a reply.
Yeah, I never expect to get a response but just don’t understand why people don’t delete. "
Because they don’t have too, thats there choice not yours! |
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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago
Nearer than you think |
"If I send a message and don't get a reply, I accept it let it go.
I don't delete messages routinely either but it's definitely not to show other men.... Stop overthinking it.
Ok thank you. Just be good to know Instantly if someone’s interested or not. "
Instantly? That's a bit princessy!
S/he might have got distracted, might want to show their partner, might be too busy, might have a thousand reasons for not replying instantly. Chill and accept that folk don't use Fab the same way you might. |
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"If I send a message and don't get a reply, I accept it let it go.
I don't delete messages routinely either but it's definitely not to show other men.... Stop overthinking it.
I’ve been showed a few girls pages to prove how many hits they get even last night actually !
As I said it’s just one reason probably of few ! "
I have a few friends who read then uread.. I don’t as a don’t get that many messages to be fair as i keep my filters tight, keeping them is defo a ego thing |
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"Take every 1st message you send as a not interested.. then its a nice surprise when or if you get a reply.
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This is the best way I find. Expect no reply and and remain open minded.
My own conclusion to the read and no reply not deleted is it’s a form of tease.
People find ways of getting off on little things...that’s just my own conclusion tho folks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Take every 1st message you send as a not interested.. then its a nice surprise when or if you get a reply.
Yeah, I never expect to get a response but just don’t understand why people don’t delete. "
Deep breaths ! Women in general are hard to figure out add fabs to the mix !........ I’ll stop there !
yeah mate just try not sweat over the little things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I send a message and don't get a reply, I accept it let it go.
I don't delete messages routinely either but it's definitely not to show other men.... Stop overthinking it.
I’ve been showed a few girls pages to prove how many hits they get even last night actually !
As I said it’s just one reason probably of few !
I have a few friends who read then uread.. I don’t as a don’t get that many messages to be fair as i keep my filters tight, keeping them is defo a ego thing "
haha good seen you back !!!  |
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"If I send a message and don't get a reply, I accept it let it go.
I don't delete messages routinely either but it's definitely not to show other men.... Stop overthinking it.
I’ve been showed a few girls pages to prove how many hits they get even last night actually !
As I said it’s just one reason probably of few !
I have a few friends who read then uread.. I don’t as a don’t get that many messages to be fair as i keep my filters tight, keeping them is defo a ego thing haha good seen you back !!! "
You too, i missed your mush |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I send a message and don't get a reply, I accept it let it go.
I don't delete messages routinely either but it's definitely not to show other men.... Stop overthinking it.
Ok thank you. Just be good to know Instantly if someone’s interested or not. "
I think the fact you don't get a reply is a decent indicator that they aren't interested. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I send a message and don't get a reply, I accept it let it go.
I don't delete messages routinely either but it's definitely not to show other men.... Stop overthinking it.
Ok thank you. Just be good to know Instantly if someone’s interested or not.
Instantly? That's a bit princessy!
S/he might have got distracted, might want to show their partner, might be too busy, might have a thousand reasons for not replying instantly. Chill and accept that folk don't use Fab the same way you might. "
Instantly want quote the right word sorry. Like the princess but though. 
I get the delayed response about checking in with partner etc. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Take every 1st message you send as a not interested.. then its a nice surprise when or if you get a reply.
This is the best way I find. Expect no reply and and remain open minded.
My own conclusion to the read and no reply not deleted is it’s a form of tease.
People find ways of getting off on little things...that’s just my own conclusion tho folks."
Jesus H Christ
A tease?
Getting off on it?
Are you actually serious?
I think you're thinking way too deep on this tbh. Yes some like to brag how much mail they get, I've seen this on here but I'd put them in the same box as those who assume a person's who doesn't bother deleting is on an ego trip.... My work and personal emails don't get deleted as soon as I've read them either, so shoot me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I send a message and don't get a reply, I accept it let it go.
I don't delete messages routinely either but it's definitely not to show other men.... Stop overthinking it.
Ok thank you. Just be good to know Instantly if someone’s interested or not.
Instantly? That's a bit princessy!
S/he might have got distracted, might want to show their partner, might be too busy, might have a thousand reasons for not replying instantly. Chill and accept that folk don't use Fab the same way you might.
Instantly want quote the right word sorry. Like the princess but though.
I get the delayed response about checking in with partner etc. Thanks "
Mate seriously not worth the agro !
Let this one slide |
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The person could be exchanging messages with someone else at the time, browsing the forums or on cam/chat.
I can leave an interesting message for a couple of hours, if I’m just here reading or responding to comments on the forums.
Each person uses the site in their own unique way, hope for a reply but don’t expect one. |
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Because I don’t open most of the messages I get. So most don’t get deleted just because they haven’t been opened. Then when I do get around to deleting I usually just do a bulk delete of all read messages at some point. There really isn’t anything more to it than that. I don’t get off on the number of messages I have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering if someone’s not interested in chatting or don’t like the profile why not just delete the message?
I get a lot of people who don’t respond but don’t delete the message either!
Perplexed. "
You know when Standard Life send you junk mail through your letterbox offering you a free Michael Parkinson Parker pen? Do you think the bloke who sent the letter thinks ‘I sent that shefab guy a letter and he’s not responded’ ?
Now apply the same analogy to your question and I’m sure you’ll find the answer you’re searching for deep within.
Good Luck  |
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"For records, it keeps it in the memory for a few weeks, so if someone comes back to us it’ll jog my memory on who they are
The Boy
Ok but if your not messaging back or interested what’s the point in not deleting"
It’s two button clicks I don’t hVe to do, and it’s of no concern to the other party how I chose to manage our message folder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never thought about deliting messages, I guess I'm still getting use to fab though. I don't delete messages on other sites like Facebook.
I can assure you I don't show anyone, ever any messages from here so it's not some sort of ego thing. Just never knew I was meant to delete them. |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
Shangri-la |
As the site explains in the rules, no reply should be taken as not interested. I rarely delete messages, it can sometimes be handy to look back at them & often catches out the repeat messagers/copy & plasters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering if someone’s not interested in chatting or don’t like the profile why not just delete the message?
I get a lot of people who don’t respond but don’t delete the message either!
Perplexed. "
CBA and they get deleted automatically after a short while…. Could be one explanation anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering if someone’s not interested in chatting or don’t like the profile why not just delete the message?
I get a lot of people who don’t respond but don’t delete the message either!
Perplexed.
You know when Standard Life send you junk mail through your letterbox offering you a free Michael Parkinson Parker pen? Do you think the bloke who sent the letter thinks ‘I sent that shefab guy a letter and he’s not responded’ ?
Now apply the same analogy to your question and I’m sure you’ll find the answer you’re searching for deep within.
Good Luck "
Spat my tea iut reading this one. vLol |
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