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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn’t it piss you off when you find a good fuck, but he is flaky with contact?
Or is it just me? xx"
No it pisses me off aswell, that and when they say they wanna do it again but go silent but still wanna perv on your photos!!
If they don't wanna meet again just bloody say am a grown women can handle it |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I've not had that problem before (tight vag energy) but yeah, it would irritate me to be honest. You've got to do an annoying vs cocking scale. If it's on that line, keep it. If he veers too much into annoying, find another one for when he's being flaky. |
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"I've not had that problem before (tight vag energy) but yeah, it would irritate me to be honest. You've got to do an annoying vs cocking scale. If it's on that line, keep it. If he veers too much into annoying, find another one for when he's being flaky."
God Meli  I love your lateral thinking! That made me laugh a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn’t it piss you off when you find a good fuck, but he is flaky with contact?
Or is it just me? xx"
How much messaging would you want after? Maybe he’s just playing it cool so as not to seem needy afterwards |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No sex is good enough to put up with a flaky man. Their flakiness ruins the good vibes that up until that point their dick brought into our world.
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Exactly! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've not had that problem before (tight vag energy) but yeah, it would irritate me to be honest. You've got to do an annoying vs cocking scale. If it's on that line, keep it. If he veers too much into annoying, find another one for when he's being flaky."
Ahh I yhink I get you!
A bit like the Crazy/Hot matrix for women?
We could call it the Flaky/Dicking Matrix! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But then that's the beauty of Fab, you can have more than one on the go  "
I have, its not just me, been chatting to others that this has happened to and wondered how widespread it was xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn’t it piss you off when you find a good fuck, but he is flaky with contact?
Or is it just me? xx"
I will let you know how I react to it if I ever get a meet |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"We could call it the Flaky/Dicking Matrix!"
Yes! Perfect! That's the name. If he falls out of the parameters you're comfortable with, as much as the cocking is good, it might not be worth it.
Do talk to him though. Maybe he's more of a do-er than a talker? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's why i have more than one on the go at the same time. I don't notice if one becomes a little flakey. "
You are right!
I need more eggs in my basket!!  |
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"I have the opposite, they don’t stop messaging for more!
You’re an exception to the rule lexi that’s why
Am I? Why’s that DC?  "
Because you’re FABs very own Lara Croft adventure girl every guy wants to explore with (that’s a compliment btw) |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes! I agree! Some just don’t make the effort once you’re hooked
Why though?
Thrill of the chase, do you think?"
Exactly this, plus, they find someone new and shiny and forget we exist-until they have fucked the new and shiny and have no other options.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My long term partner rarely messages me to chat.
I'm fine with that though, as the sex is top notch, and I'm not much of a conversationalist anyway.
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Yeah, theres a guy I meet infrequently, and we don't chat much in between. And I am fine with that.
Guess I just need to do the same with this one!
Thanks for giving my head a wobble ladies!  |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
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"I have the opposite, they don’t stop messaging for more!
You’re an exception to the rule lexi that’s why
Am I? Why’s that DC?
Because you’re FABs very own Lara Croft adventure girl every guy wants to explore with (that’s a compliment btw) "
Wowzers!! Maybe back in the singleton days 
I’m a good girl now.
Thanks though. I quite like that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What do you mean by flaky with the contact? Guys get told not to expect instant replies as women have lives off here. The same thing applies to us. "
Its not on here, as it happens. And if you have time to read a message, you have time to reply! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think it's flaky, more of a communication issue. Everyone should just say if they want to meet for a second time or not and not leave people hanging. Otherwise, best not to get too invested with people, just move on and don't expect too much. |
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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago
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The hot and cold contact annoys me. Just as you've written him off and have resigned yourself to not hearing from him again, he reappears.
I've learned (the hard way) not to waste energy on a man that doesn't prioritise me. Even if the sex is AMAZING. |
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