"I find it hard to cum, anyone else has got that problem? Any tips "
relax... you would be amazed at how many women dont relax... or have a psychological block.. this is then further not helped by guys saying I'll help you... and then it not happening.
Also a lot of women do but they are expecting something different... for me If I have a really good orgasm I go really really silent.. almost forgetting go breathe for a moment.
The worst thing in the world is to worry about it x |
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"I cannot do it with fingers even after hours of practice. It takes toys for me if alone. . I know the feeling, it's either toys or tongue "
dont think relax let go and feel yourself build your excitement orgasms begin in the mind
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I find it hard to cum, anyone else has got that problem? Any tips relax... you would be amazed at how many women dont relax... or have a psychological block.. this is then further not helped by guys saying I'll help you... and then it not happening.
Thats my problem. Everything else is in my head, maybe I have to chill.out before and then try it
Also a lot of women do but they are expecting something different... for me If I have a really good orgasm I go really really silent.. almost forgetting go breathe for a moment.
The worst thing in the world is to worry about it x"
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"I cannot do it with fingers even after hours of practice. It takes toys for me if alone. . I know the feeling, it's either toys or tongue dont think relax let go and feel yourself build your excitement orgasms begin in the mind "
.Thats what I struggle with. Relax, I find that hard.
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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Connecting just simply with your sexual energy/sensations and build up over time. Super relaxed. Starting on your own or asking your partner and just simply holding yourself. Warmth of your hand will create sensations.. Just notice them and breathe with them. Little by little, day by day it will build into movement and increased sensation.
No pressure.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I struggle too especially from penetration alone, Some guys managed to make me orgasm that way but yeah not that regularly.
Having said that doesn’t mean I can’t enjoy it for what it is and the sensation of it are still amazing.
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Not via penstrarion but I can every other way. However, once you've found a decent toy, you're not going to bother with fingers as it feels so budget in comparison. I can have a faster and stronger orgam with a wand than I'll ever manage with fingers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why then have every woman if ever been with came through penetration with my penis ?
Haha. Sooooo predictable darling  "
You'd attend a meet with me with that outlook nora
Then you'd experience an experience that's second to none
Numero uno
The man
The myth
The legend
Male sex on legs   |
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"Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play  "
Grinding together with a massive bell ended cock ( me ) would have anyone of the women on this planet cumming
And that's an absolute fact
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"Why then have every woman if ever been with came through penetration with my penis ?
Haha. Sooooo predictable darling
You'd attend a meet with me with that outlook nora
Then you'd experience an experience that's second to none
Numero uno
The man
The myth
The legend
Male sex on legs "
It’s almost tempting |
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"Why then have every woman if ever been with came through penetration with my penis ?
Haha. Sooooo predictable darling
You'd attend a meet with me with that outlook nora
Then you'd experience an experience that's second to none
Numero uno
The man
The myth
The legend
Male sex on legs
It’s almost tempting "
Nice photos  |
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"Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play
Grinding together with a massive bell ended cock ( me ) would have anyone of the women on this planet cumming
And that's an absolute fact
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When you said "massive bell end" your cock wasn't what entered my mind.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Can you take pleasure from other sensations on your body. If you stroked your own thighs or boobs for instance. Close your eyes and just stroke the palm of your hand, notice the touch it takes to get a nice tingly feeling. It can be a very very light touch. Then just slowly use that same touch on yourself, starting on thighs and then just exploring yourself, all your creases and folds. Tugging gently on any hair if you have it. Not even diving straight in and trying for orgasm. Just notice the stroke and touch that causes a tingle and build on that. Nicer done on your own I think to begin with to relax and explore. Unless you have avery controlled partner who would be happy just to sit there and watch in wonder and not touch. |
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"Why then have every woman if ever been with came through penetration with my penis ?
Because you're a sex God of course  "
God's ain't real, they where extra terrestrial visitors and back then that's how mankind described things that discharging on earth as it is in heaven
I'm no god, I'm just a special breed of man, sex mad and exceptionally self taught in everything sex has has to offer a woman  |
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"Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play
Grinding together with a massive bell ended cock ( me ) would have anyone of the women on this planet cumming
And that's an absolute fact
When you said "massive bell end" your cock wasn't what entered my mind.... "
You'd want to hurt me |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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The Mrs has a hard time climaxing. She used to only be capable when wearing jeans and rubbing the seam on her clit. No dildos, rabbits, g spot vibes, cock, tongue or finger action would work. She would get sensitive and ticklish before climaxing. Until we found wands, and now if she wants one she busts out the wand. |
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"Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play
Grinding together with a massive bell ended cock ( me ) would have anyone of the women on this planet cumming
And that's an absolute fact
When you said "massive bell end" your cock wasn't what entered my mind....
You'd want to hurt me "
Maybe a bum smack |
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"Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play
Grinding together with a massive bell ended cock ( me ) would have anyone of the women on this planet cumming
And that's an absolute fact
When you said "massive bell end" your cock wasn't what entered my mind.... "
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"Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play
Grinding together with a massive bell ended cock ( me ) would have anyone of the women on this planet cumming
And that's an absolute fact
When you said "massive bell end" your cock wasn't what entered my mind....
You'd want to hurt me
Maybe a bum smack "
Mmm yes please |
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"Why then have every woman if ever been with came through penetration with my penis ?
And of course none of them faked it "
And neither would you
You look very pretty  |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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I tend to cum easier from penetration than clitoral stimulation.
I can only advise you try to relax on your own and do different things.
Don't start with the intention of making yourself cum.
Explore your body without touching your genitals first.
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"Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play
Grinding together with a massive bell ended cock ( me ) would have anyone of the women on this planet cumming
And that's an absolute fact
When you said "massive bell end" your cock wasn't what entered my mind.... "
* spit my tea out * |
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"I tend to cum easier from penetration than clitoral stimulation.
I can only advise you try to relax on your own and do different things.
Don't start with the intention of making yourself cum.
Explore your body without touching your genitals first.
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This! A couple of ex girlfriends had trouble and it had become a really big issue for them, because they were always thinking about it. The more relaxed you are and the more aware you are of the actual feel of whatevers happening, the more likely it is to just happen. Far easier said than done, I know. Try not to get locked into 1 routine of stimulation as it'll just make variety harder later.
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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago
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"Grind harder and incorporate a wand into play
Grinding together with a massive bell ended cock ( me ) would have anyone of the women on this planet cumming
And that's an absolute fact
When you said "massive bell end" your cock wasn't what entered my mind.... "
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Over the years so many women have this problem if their no medical reason preventing from cumming .then
I've taught them to relax and discover more about their bodies through touch but its about the mind first. With the right mental
connection you can be taught to cum on command and be multi
orgasmic.even without touching you or you touching your self .knowledge is the key . |
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I used to have this problem. It was a combination of not relaxing, hanging on to some old beliefs about what good girls do or not, and not doing the things that worked for me in that different scenario.
Take time to think about how you are physically (points of stimulation, muscle tension, position); psychologically (what's running through your head); your environment etc. when you CAN achieve orgasm, Then play Spot the Difference for what needs to change in a different setting. Once you've figured it out, there'll be no stopping you.
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"I cannot do it with fingers even after hours of practice. It takes toys for me if alone. . I know the feeling, it's either toys or tongue dont think relax let go and feel yourself build your excitement orgasms begin in the mind .Thats what I struggle with. Relax, I find that hard. "
if you cant relax i suspect your putting too much pressure on yourself to cum over being in the moment
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