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over a year ago
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Only thing I’d say is remember that no means no and don’t be a creep.
We once had a guy ask to join and we said no and moved away. He followed us round and then decided to try and stroke me (Lolla) whilst we were playing.
Ruined the moment completely.
Don’t be THAT man, but go, relax and enjoy yourself x |
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Don't be creepy. By this I mean, when talking to women at the bar look at their faces. They might be wearing revealing clothes but it's nice to when someone treats you like a person, rather than somewhere you can get your dick wet.
When talking to couples, talk to both. Quite a few couples choose playmates based on how both partners feel about a guy or gal.
Being in a club for the first time was a surreal experience for us. Walking around, seeing people naked or fucking, the sounds and the smells ... it's surreal and amazing and the very best feeling.
As the night progresses, the play rooms get busier and sometimes a bit frenzied. I have seen guys try to get involved by Walking up to couples who are fucking but that can be tricky. Sometimes a safe way to get involved is to masturate close to a couple you are interested in joining. By close I mean 6 feet away. Enjoy the show they are putting on for you and you might find yourself invited to join. |
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"Don't be creepy. By this I mean, when talking to women at the bar look at their faces. They might be wearing revealing clothes but it's nice to when someone treats you like a person, rather than somewhere you can get your dick wet.
When talking to couples, talk to both. Quite a few couples choose playmates based on how both partners feel about a guy or gal.
Being in a club for the first time was a surreal experience for us. Walking around, seeing people naked or fucking, the sounds and the smells ... it's surreal and amazing and the very best feeling.
As the night progresses, the play rooms get busier and sometimes a bit frenzied. I have seen guys try to get involved by Walking up to couples who are fucking but that can be tricky. Sometimes a safe way to get involved is to masturate close to a couple you are interested in joining. By close I mean 6 feet away. Enjoy the show they are putting on for you and you might find yourself invited to join. "
This!! It’s so off putting when a guy comes up to you if they can’t look you in the eye! |
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I live about a 10 min walk from The Attic, first time I went, Ron (the owner) showed me round and made me feel welcome. Just chill out, chat to people as you would at a social and don't become one of the wanking dead   |
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"Any advice for me be great"
Get a drink at the bar, chat to the other guys. Hear how its worked out for them!
Great banter around the bar, everyone joins in and has a few laughs.  |
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