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I’ve been on here for a few months now and am itching to go but whenever I send a message it gets politely declined or ignored - ok I’m a bit old but not in bad shape and not bad looking - is it because I can’t get any verifications?
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Bill |
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"I’ve been on here for a few months now and am itching to go but whenever I send a message it gets politely declined or ignored - ok I’m a bit old but not in bad shape and not bad looking - is it because I can’t get any verifications?
Thanks
Bill"
Have you tried turning it off then turning it on again ? |
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"I’ve been on here for a few months now and am itching to go but whenever I send a message it gets politely declined or ignored - ok I’m a bit old but not in bad shape and not bad looking - is it because I can’t get any verifications?
Thanks
Bill
Have you tried turning it off then turning it on again ? "
Is it plugged in? |
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"I’ve been on here for a few months now and am itching to go but whenever I send a message it gets politely declined or ignored - ok I’m a bit old but not in bad shape and not bad looking - is it because I can’t get any verifications?
Thanks
Bill
Have you tried turning it off then turning it on again ? "
Think it’s the turning on but he’s having dramas with |
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"I’ve been on here for a few months now and am itching to go but whenever I send a message it gets politely declined or ignored - ok I’m a bit old but not in bad shape and not bad looking - is it because I can’t get any verifications?
Thanks
Bill
Have you tried turning it off then turning it on again ?
Think it’s the turning on but he’s having dramas with "
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If you aren’t getting replies then normally it’s 3 things…your profile wording, your pics and/or your message content.
Does your profile sell you?
Can you add more to your profile wording?
Can you change your pics to appeal?
Do you sound exciting in your messages and are polite and not vulgar?
If you’ve covered all 3 then you’ll get messages…if you haven’t then look at getting better at all 3.
Good luck
K
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"If you aren’t getting replies then normally it’s 3 things…your profile wording, your pics and/or your message content.
Does your profile sell you?
Can you add more to your profile wording?
Can you change your pics to appeal?
Do you sound exciting in your messages and are polite and not vulgar?
If you’ve covered all 3 then you’ll get messages…if you haven’t then look at getting better at all 3.
Good luck
K
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"I’ve been on here for a few months now and am itching to go but whenever I send a message it gets politely declined or ignored - ok I’m a bit old but not in bad shape and not bad looking - is it because I can’t get any verifications?
Thanks
Bill"
In all seriousness there’s many ways you can improve your profile, a better description, it looks like you’ve just blanket checked all the interest boxes, different pictures, not all ladies want to see your cock from the get go, maybe just put some effort in to it
Or failing that, pictures of puppies, chicks dig puppies |
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"Don't worry brother, no one will shag me either.
Well not with that negative attitude
Twas a joke, not a dick.
Don't take it do seriously.
I didn’t… "
I see. My apologies then! |
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"Don't worry brother, no one will shag me either.
Well not with that negative attitude
Twas a joke, not a dick.
Don't take it do seriously.
I didn’t…
I see. My apologies then! "
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Honestly, verifications are not as important as you think they are. It doesn't make a difference to me if someone is verified or not.
All I will say is expect nothing! And that way, you won't be disappointed. But also, a profile photo will make a difference. It isn't easy for men on here unless you're extremely good looking, so be yourself and keep trying.  |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
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At least you do get some polite replies even if they are a no thanks. So that is one plus.
Seriously no profile photo that Will immediately put some people off. Six photos three of which are dick pics. Get rid of two of them. The other photos are OK but try to entice and show off the real you.
Profile write up is woefully inadequate. You need to sell yourself, what do you have to offer and what are you looking for. Doesn't have to be long.
A well thought out profile shows you care enough to put the effort in. Currently looking at your profile you wonder if any meet would be as quick as your profile with as little effort. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"If you aren’t getting replies then normally it’s 3 things…your profile wording, your pics and/or your message content.
Does your profile sell you?
Can you add more to your profile wording?
Can you change your pics to appeal?
Do you sound exciting in your messages and are polite and not vulgar?
If you’ve covered all 3 then you’ll get messages…if you haven’t then look at getting better at all 3.
Good luck
K
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Would agree with these but add a further three vital ingredients...
Expectations - are they correctly set? Do you think that just by having a profile you are entitled to meet? They need to be set to the lowest possible setting then turned down another notch.
Attitude - have you got it right? Do you stay positive, polite, respectful and courteous at all times? Do you accept rejection with good grace?
Approach - and this is one that a lot of guys get wrong - have you found the right approach that works for you? Now that might be message style, but it's not all about sending blind messages to people you've not interacted with before - there are other approaches to the site like the forums or chat rooms, or getting along to group socials or clubs (when they open) all of which are good ways to get to know people and them you.
Couple those three with the advice above and it won't guarantee a thing, but it will improve your experience of the site  |
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"If you aren’t getting replies then normally it’s 3 things…your profile wording, your pics and/or your message content.
Does your profile sell you?
Can you add more to your profile wording?
Can you change your pics to appeal?
Do you sound exciting in your messages and are polite and not vulgar?
If you’ve covered all 3 then you’ll get messages…if you haven’t then look at getting better at all 3.
Good luck
K
That 4 pointers "
4 questions - 3 areas you can improve on  |
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