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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Got told the other day by someone I met before “I always see you online”
I bet he was thinking I’m on here constantly fishing for dicks when in fact majority of the time I spend on fab is actually on the forum and having a lovely time with y’all
U ever get told that? |
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By *isteaMan
over a year ago
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"Got told the other day by someone I met before “I always see you online”
I bet he was thinking I’m on here constantly fishing for dicks when in fact majority of the time I spend on fab is actually on the forum and having a lovely time with y’all
U ever get told that? "
You are still online after you said (goodnight). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Got told the other day by someone I met before “I always see you online”
I bet he was thinking I’m on here constantly fishing for dicks when in fact majority of the time I spend on fab is actually on the forum and having a lovely time with y’all
U ever get told that?
You are still online after you said (goodnight)."
The worsttttt!!! |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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I leave myself logged in and pop in and out throughout the day. I have been told that so many times: “You’re always online”, “You are addicted to Fabs lol” “You are always here...” before, I used to take time to explain. Now I just block people who say that.
My logging in habits are mine and no one else’s. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got told the other day by someone I met before “I always see you online”
I bet he was thinking I’m on here constantly fishing for dicks when in fact majority of the time I spend on fab is actually on the forum and having a lovely time with y’all
U ever get told that? "
No I usually get told to fuck off from women ![](/icons/s/lol.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I leave myself logged in and pop in and out throughout the day. I have been told that so many times: “You’re always online”, “You are addicted to Fabs lol” “You are always here...” before, I used to take time to explain. Now I just block people who say that.
My logging in habits are mine and no one else’s. "
I explained in my bio and people still do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. I leave it open on my browser.
I think it’s weird that people know how much I’m online. I couldn’t tell you how much anyone was online or how often. I think it’s a bit creepy and stalkery if I’m honest. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"Yes. I leave it open on my browser.
I think it’s weird that people know how much I’m online. I couldn’t tell you how much anyone was online or how often. I think it’s a bit creepy and stalkery if I’m honest."
Exactly! Which is why I block anyone who says thaf... I certainly don’t have the time to check when people are online! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's one person that keeps telling me I'm spending too much time here and need to acknowledge my addictive personality ....ME!
Not going anywhere though! ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even if you leave Fab open and logged in I think after a certain amount of time if there has been no activity (e.g. clicking on a link) it will show you as not online. |
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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago
Nearer than you think |
"Even if you leave Fab open and logged in I think after a certain amount of time if there has been no activity (e.g. clicking on a link) it will show you as not online."
Really?
I often fall asleep still logged on and wondered if people thought I was perving all night. ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got moaned at for daring to glance at fab whilst I was on holiday in Malta last year.
Literally had some guy who knew I was away message me saying I shouldn’t be on fab and should be enjoying the sun.
Mate, I was sampling the local delights that fab had to offer ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got moaned at for daring to glance at fab whilst I was on holiday in Malta last year.
Literally had some guy who knew I was away message me saying I shouldn’t be on fab and should be enjoying the sun.
Mate, I was sampling the local delights that fab had to offer "
Too many men on here messaging ladies telling them what they “should do”! Why don’t they mind their own bloody business.
I had a guy messaging me telling me I shouldn’t be on here if I’m not meeting, another telling me I should block all single mates if I don’t want dick pics, another telling me that if I don’t meet couples I shouldn’t go to clubs. Honestly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got moaned at for daring to glance at fab whilst I was on holiday in Malta last year.
Literally had some guy who knew I was away message me saying I shouldn’t be on fab and should be enjoying the sun.
Mate, I was sampling the local delights that fab had to offer
Too many men on here messaging ladies telling them what they “should do”! Why don’t they mind their own bloody business.
I had a guy messaging me telling me I shouldn’t be on here if I’m not meeting, another telling me I should block all single mates if I don’t want dick pics, another telling me that if I don’t meet couples I shouldn’t go to clubs. Honestly! "
Absolute madness that you’re living life how you want to and not how others expect you to ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I got moaned at for daring to glance at fab whilst I was on holiday in Malta last year.
Literally had some guy who knew I was away message me saying I shouldn’t be on fab and should be enjoying the sun.
Mate, I was sampling the local delights that fab had to offer
Too many men on here messaging ladies telling them what they “should do”! Why don’t they mind their own bloody business.
I had a guy messaging me telling me I shouldn’t be on here if I’m not meeting, another telling me I should block all single mates if I don’t want dick pics, another telling me that if I don’t meet couples I shouldn’t go to clubs. Honestly! "
Preach girl!! *snaps snaps*
Freaking annoying. We do what we bloody want! Hence why even if unsaid, I knew he sort of referred to me being on here looking for dick 24/7! How dare he?? (And if I want to, I’ll have dick 24/7) ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being logged in and actively using the site are not the same thing.
I've always thought it would be a MASSIVE help if you could be logged in but appear offline. That would stop all the man-maniacs from bombarding women with pictures of their genitals 400 times a day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being logged in and actively using the site are not the same thing.
I've always thought it would be a MASSIVE help if you could be logged in but appear offline. That would stop all the man-maniacs from bombarding women with pictures of their genitals 400 times a day."
I wish they had a option to ‘appear offline’. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don’t log out does it show you as online all the time it the tab remains open too?
I never close a tab (have tons open) and I never log out. "
Yes, if you leave it logged in, then you'll appear logged in regardless of whether you're actively looking at the tab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I leave myself logged in and pop in and out throughout the day. I have been told that so many times: “You’re always online”, “You are addicted to Fabs lol” “You are always here...” before, I used to take time to explain. Now I just block people who say that.
My logging in habits are mine and no one else’s. "
Exactly this for me too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don’t log out does it show you as online all the time it the tab remains open too?
I never close a tab (have tons open) and I never log out.
Yes, if you leave it logged in, then you'll appear logged in regardless of whether you're actively looking at the tab."
Well I must be logged in 24/7 then! Opps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don’t log out does it show you as online all the time it the tab remains open too?
I never close a tab (have tons open) and I never log out.
Yes, if you leave it logged in, then you'll appear logged in regardless of whether you're actively looking at the tab."
That’s not actually true.
My friend messaged me the other day and said he’d forgotten to log out but he’d showed offline all day.
I leave mine permanently logged in on my phone and I show offline when I’ve looked at my friends phone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you don’t log out does it show you as online all the time it the tab remains open too?
I never close a tab (have tons open) and I never log out. "
This is also me, I have tabs from last year open on my iphone lolol
I hope that that’s not the case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I’m rarely on here during the day, at least when I’m working anyway, but some people seem to spread most of their time online, I wonder how they do it sometimes, I’m not knocking it, everyone’s got their reasons, but when you start agreeing with a cock avatar on string theory then it’s time to log out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only the once.
A man messaged saying you were online why didn't you reply!
Erm it's a couple's account so could have been me or Mr.
Even if I was online I will reply when I like. Massive offput .
Mrs x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being logged in and actively using the site are not the same thing.
I've always thought it would be a MASSIVE help if you could be logged in but appear offline. That would stop all the man-maniacs from bombarding women with pictures of their genitals 400 times a day.
I wish they had a option to ‘appear offline’. "
I have requested this in the feedback section. Go and give it some support
I forget to log out, and I was once told ‘you’re always on fab’ and be turned out to be a very manipulative person. |
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"Got told the other day by someone I met before “I always see you online”
I bet he was thinking I’m on here constantly fishing for dicks when in fact majority of the time I spend on fab is actually on the forum and having a lovely time with y’all
U ever get told that? "
"Fishing for Dicks"...love that
My next user name ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Since i joined fab i never logged out just in case i could forget the login detais "
I have a text file on my desktop for this very reason that i back up. Doesnt help my passwords are stuff like
"eXKPAEKGQ~)9f@Pafmjafna~994ihjarf!"
I basically smash my face on the keyboard to make them ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Since i joined fab i never logged out just in case i could forget the login detais
I have a text file on my desktop for this very reason that i back up. Doesnt help my passwords are stuff like
"eXKPAEKGQ~)9f@Pafmjafna~994ihjarf!"
I basically smash my face on the keyboard to make them "
I don't have time for keyboard
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You've been on for the last 7hr 32mins and 17seconds...why have you not responded to me yet?! I'm calling the fab police on you."
Pretty much this haha x
I’ve been eye rolling so bad this week I swear my eyes are gonna detach and fall off… ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I get, in no particular order, things like:
Busy? (Usually when I take longer than 5 mins to reply)
Someone’s up late?
Someone’s online early
Have you gone to bed? (Again when I take longer than 5 mins to respond)
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"I get, in no particular order, things like:
Busy? (Usually when I take longer than 5 mins to reply)
Someone’s up late?
Someone’s online early
Have you gone to bed? (Again when I take longer than 5 mins to respond)
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Yeah, same. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
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I don’t log off either. But after about five minutes of inactivity I appear offline. And it’s the same with some of my friends.
There are some people that do tend to be on here a lot. It’s obvious they are active because they post stuff on the forums. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I don’t log off either. But after about five minutes of inactivity I appear offline. And it’s the same with some of my friends.
There are some people that do tend to be on here a lot. It’s obvious they are active because they post stuff on the forums. "
Yep. It's not a bad thing, it is what it is. I can kind of see why people don't like to be told they are online a lot because it might sound like they don't have much else going on. And the other is keeping tabs on you. Meh! I was told this by a forum user and laughed, I don't take it seriously. |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"For the people saying they’re always logged on and never log out, if you’ve been inactive it shows you as offline, so that ain’t washing. "
That’s certainly true for the mobile version. Is it the same for the desktop version? Although who would choose that version unless they wanted to use the chat rooms! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Got told the other day by someone I met before “I always see you online”
I bet he was thinking I’m on here constantly fishing for dicks when in fact majority of the time I spend on fab is actually on the forum and having a lovely time with y’all
U ever get told that? "
I always think that's an odd thing to say because I have visions of Creepy sat there watching profiles just constantly refreshing to see if your there....And they must be on Fab constantly too to know this.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you’re enjoying it, it shouldn’t matter what they think. To me, the Forum, as befits its name, is a constant mass gathering where I can find conversation and distraction when I feel the need for it. It doesn’t matter to me that it isn’t face-to-face or that I’ve never met these people.
It does not mean you ‘have no life’ simply because this is online. You are amongst strangers and friends alike, interacting, perhaps more freely than offline. I do. I am more open, honest and free with those I’ve met through the Forum than any others in ‘real World’. There, I may not have even had a conversation in the first place as I tend to shy away from them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For the people saying they’re always logged on and never log out, if you’ve been inactive it shows you as offline, so that ain’t washing.
That’s certainly true for the mobile version. Is it the same for the desktop version? Although who would choose that version unless they wanted to use the chat rooms! "
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I use both, depending on where in the house I am. Kitchen? Mobile is easier. Lazing on the sofa? Desktop version is easier to use.
The desktop version does show me as offline even when it’s on my screen. As long as there is no activity, it shows that after about 5 minutes because I’ve had people ask me to log in to read a thread when I’m already logged in. They even took a screenshot to show I’d been offline for 20 minutes when I know I’m still logged in. I had just not been active. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you’re enjoying it, it shouldn’t matter what they think. To me, the Forum, as befits its name, is a constant mass gathering where I can find conversation and distraction when I feel the need for it. It doesn’t matter to me that it isn’t face-to-face or that I’ve never met these people.
It does not mean you ‘have no life’ simply because this is online. You are amongst strangers and friends alike, interacting, perhaps more freely than offline. I do. I am more open, honest and free with those I’ve met through the Forum than any others in ‘real World’. There, I may not have even had a conversation in the first place as I tend to shy away from them."
Agreed.
Good to see you back! |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"For the people saying they’re always logged on and never log out, if you’ve been inactive it shows you as offline, so that ain’t washing.
That’s certainly true for the mobile version. Is it the same for the desktop version? Although who would choose that version unless they wanted to use the chat rooms!
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I use both, depending on where in the house I am. Kitchen? Mobile is easier. Lazing on the sofa? Desktop version is easier to use.
The desktop version does show me as offline even when it’s on my screen. As long as there is no activity, it shows that after about 5 minutes because I’ve had people ask me to log in to read a thread when I’m already logged in. They even took a screenshot to show I’d been offline for 20 minutes when I know I’m still logged in. I had just not been active."
Lol! So it’s bollocks when people say they appear online because they haven’t logged off. . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you’re enjoying it, it shouldn’t matter what they think. To me, the Forum, as befits its name, is a constant mass gathering where I can find conversation and distraction when I feel the need for it. It doesn’t matter to me that it isn’t face-to-face or that I’ve never met these people.
It does not mean you ‘have no life’ simply because this is online. You are amongst strangers and friends alike, interacting, perhaps more freely than offline. I do. I am more open, honest and free with those I’ve met through the Forum than any others in ‘real World’. There, I may not have even had a conversation in the first place as I tend to shy away from them.
Agreed.
Good to see you back! "
Thank you. Very happy to be back. School holidays are such busy times!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For the people saying they’re always logged on and never log out, if you’ve been inactive it shows you as offline, so that ain’t washing.
That’s certainly true for the mobile version. Is it the same for the desktop version? Although who would choose that version unless they wanted to use the chat rooms!
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I use both, depending on where in the house I am. Kitchen? Mobile is easier. Lazing on the sofa? Desktop version is easier to use.
The desktop version does show me as offline even when it’s on my screen. As long as there is no activity, it shows that after about 5 minutes because I’ve had people ask me to log in to read a thread when I’m already logged in. They even took a screenshot to show I’d been offline for 20 minutes when I know I’m still logged in. I had just not been active.
Lol! So it’s bollocks when people say they appear online because they haven’t logged off. . "
I can only speak for myself, I’m afraid. They may have some function in their browser that may auto-refresh a page, which would make it seem like they’re actively using it. |
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