So much fruit hahaha
Ours has always been pineapple
The traffic light system is a great tool too, means you can wind it back a touch with orange (more fruit lol) before needing a complete stop with red. |
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"Yellow and red. There is no green.
The traffic light system should be everyone's go-to. Tried and tested."
as a communication system, absolutely. But it doesn't have to be the words specifically does it? I had a regular who'm I met for D/s play and the traffic light words were as random as you like, but we knew which was which!!! |
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"I have always used the traficlight system for safe words but always watch for body language aswel as sometime that can be a tell just before someone safe words"
This definitely. I never needed to safe word for this reason. |
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"I have always used the traficlight system for safe words but always watch for body language aswel as sometime that can be a tell just before someone safe words
This definitely. I never needed to safe word for this reason. "
Especially useful with people that become non verble when they space aswell |
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"I have always used the traficlight system for safe words but always watch for body language aswel as sometime that can be a tell just before someone safe words
This definitely. I never needed to safe word for this reason.
Especially useful with people that become non verble when they space aswell"
Agreed. I lose the ability to speak. I've not had a partner go non verbal on me yet but also not had one safeword. |
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"I have always used the traficlight system for safe words but always watch for body language aswel as sometime that can be a tell just before someone safe words
This definitely. I never needed to safe word for this reason.
Especially useful with people that become non verble when they space aswell
Agreed. I lose the ability to speak. I've not had a partner go non verbal on me yet but also not had one safeword. "
an ex play partner of mine used to become non verbal and almost non responsive the only tell was a change in muscle reaction when being whipped, first time she stopped responding I stopped and she sulked because she didn't want to stop and it dragged her out of sub space so I learnt to watch for the chance in how her muscles reacted instead |
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"So much fruit hahaha
Ours has always been pineapple
The traffic light system is a great tool too, means you can wind it back a touch with orange (more fruit lol) before needing a complete stop with red. "
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We use the traffic lights system, but I’ve only had to use yellow once (you try taking 65 of the best   )
He knows and reads me so well, and he listens, so rare I’ll even get close to it. |
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