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over a year ago
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Hey guys and gals,
Been on this sight before and have heard a lot about males chatting arranging to attend meets and socials and then don't show. I cant understand this, I have to hustle my boxers off to get a meet in the first place. Happy fabbing guys! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say it's about 50/50 change of a guy will turn up, and out of the 50% that doesn't turn up only 10% will say that they can't make it, in my experience over the last 10 years x |
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"Hey guys and gals,
Been on this sight before and have heard a lot about males chatting arranging to attend meets and socials and then don't show. I cant understand this, I have to hustle my boxers off to get a meet in the first place. Happy fabbing guys!"
Happens alot to me in the past... just given up trying now ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve never had a no show, by the time I meet someone we have chatted so long that it’s never been an issue
That said I only meet for coffee initially so it’s a chilled out relaxed social, nothing for either of us to get nervous or uptight about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been lucky to not have someone not show. But I've been ghosted very, very often after chatting with guys. They just want to flirt and talk dirty but not actually meet. That drives me insane!
Xx |
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It has always been like that on Fab. I started on Fab first 8 years ago in a couple. We were innundated by guys wanting to meet but when it came to meeting only about 1 in 4 wanted to meet and 1 in 10 turned up. Never had a couple not meet.
I figured out the reasons as follows - what do others think?
1. they were sexual trolls just looking to piss off swingers ha ha ha!
2. they were just looking for a fantasy as a masturbatory aid with no intention to meet
3. They had a fantasy vision of who and what they would do sexually and reality never lived up to it so they bailed out
4. they wanted a meet and simply got cold feet
5. they were not free and could not get away. |
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"I've been lucky to not have someone not show. But I've been ghosted very, very often after chatting with guys. They just want to flirt and talk dirty but not actually meet. That drives me insane!
Xx"
You're Kidding? I would love to meet you. |
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Do your homework.
I Organise and host GangBangs here in Manchester.
I check the Couple or Fems profile to see if they are genuine and reliable.
Never had a no show.
Same with the guys, check their profile.
I have regular, and reliable guys, very few no shows, without good reason.
Any no shows who don't contact me within 3/4 days, get blocked.
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