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Sigh...its been one of those night's
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lots if talk then a no show...I really thoughy this was a place you could be honeay and authentic sexualy.
Think I'll stck to the forums, they're the main reason I'm still here.
Just makes me sad really. It really paints men in a bad light. I just refuse to believe all men are the same, but maybe I'm too optimistic  |
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"Lots if talk then a no show...I really thoughy this was a place you could be honeay and authentic sexualy.
Think I'll stck to the forums, they're the main reason I'm still here.
Just makes me sad really. It really paints men in a bad light. I just refuse to believe all men are the same, but maybe I'm too optimistic "
Does it paint men in a bad light, surely it just paints the man who didn’t turn up in a bad light? |
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"Lots if talk then a no show...I really thoughy this was a place you could be honeay and authentic sexualy.
Think I'll stck to the forums, they're the main reason I'm still here.
Just makes me sad really. It really paints men in a bad light. I just refuse to believe all men are the same, but maybe I'm too optimistic
Does it paint men in a bad light, surely it just paints the man who didn’t turn up in a bad light? "
Sadly when it happens too often it tends to leave a person with a jaded view of men in general I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aw gutted for you. Horrible when that happens, there are lots of guys who would love the opportunities to meet you I bet
And agree with the above, not all men are like that believe me  |
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"Lots if talk then a no show...I really thoughy this was a place you could be honeay and authentic sexualy.
Think I'll stck to the forums, they're the main reason I'm still here.
Just makes me sad really. It really paints men in a bad light. I just refuse to believe all men are the same, but maybe I'm too optimistic
Does it paint men in a bad light, surely it just paints the man who didn’t turn up in a bad light? "
What he said 
The dreamers and fantasists just show themselves up  |
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"Lots if talk then a no show...I really thoughy this was a place you could be honeay and authentic sexualy.
Think I'll stck to the forums, they're the main reason I'm still here.
Just makes me sad really. It really paints men in a bad light. I just refuse to believe all men are the same, but maybe I'm too optimistic "
It's not just men.
Women and couples do this as well. All talk then radio silence when it comes to a meet.
Happens on our couples account, happens on our singles account and it's worse than ever on fab currently.
Ergo, doing a social event so we can at least meet some real people again.
Seems socials and clubs are the best way to meet as we dont have to much faith in fab at the moment.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots if talk then a no show...I really thoughy this was a place you could be honeay and authentic sexualy.
Think I'll stck to the forums, they're the main reason I'm still here.
Just makes me sad really. It really paints men in a bad light. I just refuse to believe all men are the same, but maybe I'm too optimistic "
Please don’t let one fool dull your optimism … it’s entirely his loss xx |
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Sorry this happened OP.
With experience you get to spot the reg flags.
Endless sex talk? Generally after a wank with no intention of meeting.
Ditto asking for endless pix.
Were they verified?
Part of a couple but no sign of the other half? Dodgy wanker.
Goes quiet before the meet? Aint going to happen.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lots if talk then a no show...I really thoughy this was a place you could be honeay and authentic sexualy.
Think I'll stck to the forums, they're the main reason I'm still here.
Just makes me sad really. It really paints men in a bad light. I just refuse to believe all men are the same, but maybe I'm too optimistic "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots if talk then a no show...I really thoughy this was a place you could be honeay and authentic sexualy.
Think I'll stck to the forums, they're the main reason I'm still here.
Just makes me sad really. It really paints men in a bad light. I just refuse to believe all men are the same, but maybe I'm too optimistic
Does it paint men in a bad light, surely it just paints the man who didn’t turn up in a bad light? "
It does if this had produced a qaulitive and quantitative pie chart!
I wouldn't post if it was a one off
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"Lots if talk then a no show...I really thoughy this was a place you could be honeay and authentic sexualy.
Think I'll stck to the forums, they're the main reason I'm still here.
Just makes me sad really. It really paints men in a bad light. I just refuse to believe all men are the same, but maybe I'm too optimistic
Does it paint men in a bad light, surely it just paints the man who didn’t turn up in a bad light?
It does if this had produced a qaulitive and quantitative pie chart!
I wouldn't post if it was a one off
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Fair enough! Glad you had a reserve.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe there's a genuine reason? Has there been an explanation or has all gone silent?
My first ever meet on here fell through at the last moment (I was already en route) but they did message with an explanation the following day and we did meet the next week. But while I didn't know that evening, I was thinking the same as you OP.
As everyone has said, there ARE diamonds on here, good times CAN be had, it's juat a shame there's a pile o crap to accompany them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Aw gutted for you. Horrible when that happens, there are lots of guys who would love the opportunities to meet you I bet
And agree with the above, not all men are like that believe me "
Cheers hun, I'm more dissapointed re time and effort, I could have used it far more wisely! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Honestly being in forums is okay.......
But honestly just keep your head up and don’t let it get you down, people on here can be annoying. But hey that’s life"
I am loving yhe forums!
People in general can be annoying! Haha!
I'm just one of those painfully honest no bull people so it baffles me when others aren't. Hey ho... I'll just comfort eat lol |
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"Lots if talk then a no show...I really thoughy this was a place you could be honeay and authentic sexualy.
Think I'll stck to the forums, they're the main reason I'm still here.
Just makes me sad really. It really paints men in a bad light. I just refuse to believe all men are the same, but maybe I'm too optimistic
It's not just men.
Women and couples do this as well. All talk then radio silence when it comes to a meet.
Happens on our couples account, happens on our singles account and it's worse than ever on fab currently.
Ergo, doing a social event so we can at least meet some real people again.
Seems socials and clubs are the best way to meet as we dont have to much faith in fab at the moment.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots if talk then a no show...I really thoughy this was a place you could be honeay and authentic sexualy.
Think I'll stck to the forums, they're the main reason I'm still here.
Just makes me sad really. It really paints men in a bad light. I just refuse to believe all men are the same, but maybe I'm too optimistic
Does it paint men in a bad light, surely it just paints the man who didn’t turn up in a bad light?
What he said
The dreamers and fantasists just show themselves up "
Maybe I'm a dreamer |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry this happened OP.
With experience you get to spot the reg flags.
Endless sex talk? Generally after a wank with no intention of meeting.
Ditto asking for endless pix.
Were they verified?
Part of a couple but no sign of the other half? Dodgy wanker.
Goes quiet before the meet? Aint going to happen.
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I usually spot them! And my profile is generally hidden I have a pretty good bullshit radar, but sometimes I think maybe I'm being to judgemental!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lots if talk then a no show...I really thoughy this was a place you could be honeay and authentic sexualy.
Think I'll stck to the forums, they're the main reason I'm still here.
Just makes me sad really. It really paints men in a bad light. I just refuse to believe all men are the same, but maybe I'm too optimistic
Does it paint men in a bad light, surely it just paints the man who didn’t turn up in a bad light?
What he said
The dreamers and fantasists just show themselves up
Maybe I'm a dreamer "
But you're not the only one
Sorry  |
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Timewasters making it difficult for everyone I had a few on here understandable if theres a promblem or emergency but just not to turn up is out of order especially when you spent time getting ready or booking days off best to be is honest with people not to say anything is out of order I be glad to get meets with woman on here and I know how long it can take to get ready as my mrs spends a while |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Report
Wasting ppls time is a really annoying thing "
Nooo people change their mind, besides I've allready reported someone tonight for abuse and black mail hehe! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lots if talk then a no show...I really thoughy this was a place you could be honeay and authentic sexualy.
Think I'll stck to the forums, they're the main reason I'm still here.
Just makes me sad really. It really paints men in a bad light. I just refuse to believe all men are the same, but maybe I'm too optimistic
It's not just men.
Women and couples do this as well. All talk then radio silence when it comes to a meet.
Happens on our couples account, happens on our singles account and it's worse than ever on fab currently.
Ergo, doing a social event so we can at least meet some real people again.
Seems socials and clubs are the best way to meet as we dont have to much faith in fab at the moment.
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I got the im at petrol station down the rd, at least with radio silence before hand i could save time lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You’re great on the Forums OP but stick with it in the real world. Plenty of us do turn up, I hope. "
Eh? I'm pretty new with speaking out on the forums. To be fair though you can be more of yourself on the forums.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lots if talk then a no show...I really thoughy this was a place you could be honeay and authentic sexualy.
Think I'll stck to the forums, they're the main reason I'm still here.
Just makes me sad really. It really paints men in a bad light. I just refuse to believe all men are the same, but maybe I'm too optimistic
Does it paint men in a bad light, surely it just paints the man who didn’t turn up in a bad light?
What he said
The dreamers and fantasists just show themselves up
Maybe I'm a dreamer
But you're not the only one
Sorry "
Got to dream! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cheers you lot, I'm alright, I'm not much of a dweller more a rant and move on.
Things like this baffle me, its the humanitarian in me. And the painfully honest no filters! Ha!
One day my hopes and dreams may come up fruition.  |
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Just dont give not everyone is like that there our some genuine people and dont be afraid to speak out after we in england and of free speech dont give up on your dreams neither you never know what's round the corner |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just dont give not everyone is like that there our some genuine people and dont be afraid to speak out after we in england and of free speech dont give up on your dreams neither you never know what's round the corner "
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots if talk then a no show...I really thoughy this was a place you could be honeay and authentic sexualy.
Think I'll stck to the forums, they're the main reason I'm still here.
Just makes me sad really. It really paints men in a bad light. I just refuse to believe all men are the same, but maybe I'm too optimistic "
Basic coffee meets are rare to find. Lots talk the talk, once they find out where you are. All of a sudden they remember a delivery on its way!
Maybe they would feel better if we met at a place they couldn't get to..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots if talk then a no show...I really thoughy this was a place you could be honeay and authentic sexualy.
Think I'll stck to the forums, they're the main reason I'm still here.
Just makes me sad really. It really paints men in a bad light. I just refuse to believe all men are the same, but maybe I'm too optimistic
Basic coffee meets are rare to find. Lots talk the talk, once they find out where you are. All of a sudden they remember a delivery on its way!
Maybe they would feel better if we met at a place they couldn't get to..... "
A woman once told me we would meet in Mars....
I bought shares in SpaceX that day!
Come on Elon!
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sorry it was a let down.
Hopefully the next one will be better 
we still like you anyway 