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By *cot611 OP Man
over a year ago
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Might be a stupid thought but here goes. If you've gone to the bother of writing sentences in the queens English language. Included humour and excluded penis portraits. Put the code word in the subject and more or less won a Nobel peace prise for literature for the message content. Then attach a new photo to the message.....
Is there anything else you can do to try and prevent your message and effort and will to live slipping through the message system, something that could let the recipient know that it's not spam a cock pic or a mass copied lazy attempt.
Thanks in advance for your help beautiful swingers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes just don’t look at any first message with a pic attached to it as I do
Your profile pics should be anuff for me to just glance and your profile and see if I want to message you back if I want to see more I will ask easy filter |
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Truthfully? All of the above is irrelevant if the message doesn't pique the recipients interest and/or the recipient doesn't find you desirable unfortunately....sucks, but that's the way it is.
Hopefully you're actually tailoring your mails to the profiles you're sending them to? But even then, the above still applies
Best thing you can do, is send it, and forget about it. And keep plugging away, if you're being interesting and respectful then one day you'll get a bite, but until then it is really out of your hands. As long as your profile is up to scratch (see numerous threads on profile advice) then it is literally a patience and thick skin game....all the good spelling and humour in the world will rarely work unless YOU appeal to the profile you're sending to
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. By being what the recipient is actually looking for.
Not being funny OP, but regardless of how much time and effort and how well crafted your message is, the recipient is going to check out your profile before even thinking if reading it.
If on doing so they figure you're not what they're looking for, dislike something in your bio or your status or simply don't fancy you, there's nothing much you can do about it.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
The only other thing you can do OP is accept that it *may* get a reply or it *may* not - if it does, then great, if it doesn't then take it on the chin gracefully.
There are no guarantees on here regardless of your gender - ultimately as others have said you could write the most eloquently worded message and be George Clooney's doppelganger and still not get a reply - if the recipient doesn't find you attractive then they don't find you attractive - it really is that simple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Might be a stupid thought but here goes. If you've gone to the bother of writing sentences in the queens English language. Included humour and excluded penis portraits. Put the code word in the subject and more or less won a Nobel peace prise for literature for the message content. Then attach a new photo to the message.....
Is there anything else you can do to try and prevent your message and effort and will to live slipping through the message system, something that could let the recipient know that it's not spam a cock pic or a mass copied lazy attempt.
Thanks in advance for your help beautiful swingers."
No
Missy x |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Meet people, go to clubs.
Anybody can be what they want on the forums, a figment of unfulfilled wants.
Face to face there is no pretence, just people who want to explore their fantasy.
Everybody has the right to dream, we prefer those who want to make them real. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Might be a stupid thought but here goes. If you've gone to the bother of writing sentences in the queens English language. Included humour and excluded penis portraits. Put the code word in the subject and more or less won a Nobel peace prise for literature for the message content. Then attach a new photo to the message.....
Is there anything else you can do to try and prevent your message and effort and will to live slipping through the message system, something that could let the recipient know that it's not spam a cock pic or a mass copied lazy attempt.
Thanks in advance for your help beautiful swingers."
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Women don’t know what the photo attachment is before opening a message so I would say don’t attach any photos to a message - there’s little point anyway as your face and dick are on public show anyway.
There’s a typo in your profile
You say what you like to do sexually (basically everything) but don’t say anything about what you are looking for in terms of age, shape, etc
If your profile is too generic then it will not register with your ideal women - same as any marketing for businesses to be honest
Keep your messages specific to your location unless there’s a good reason not too. Anyone who messages me from an unrealistic distance is a fast delete with their message unread
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