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Social first? Or chica chica
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So when you arrange to see that person is it all about the social 1st? I've always said I would prefer social before any cheeky cheeky happens I always prefer to have someone 1 I feel compatible with I know that may sound a little bit stupid but that's just the way I am I can't go put my willy in a woman that I don't physically like  |
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Single women - it is up to them (they are in control unless they don’t want to be)
Couples - separate social then arrange a play
Single men - a separate social with Mr C only
(pick the bones out of that) |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Always prefer spending some time socially with someone before anything else, regardless of it being a first meet or something more regular - aside from the obvious reason, I find it a bit too clinical when it's just sex.
That said I have had meets that are a "social with a view to more" where we're pretty sure it will go further and have a room booked on the express understanding that if either of us has any doubts the lady keeps the room and I come home.
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3 socials
First just a social nothing more
Second social kissing etc
Third is a social and then get down to do the deed
No social means no sex it’s that simple
I need to get to know someone and make a connection with them before I jump between the sheets with them |
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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago
Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire |
"So when you arrange to see that person is it all about the social 1st? I've always said I would prefer social before any cheeky cheeky happens I always prefer to have someone 1 I feel compatible with I know that may sound a little bit stupid but that's just the way I am I can't go put my willy in a woman that I don't physically like "
Happy with either. Most common experiences tend to be social then meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think saying you social first and acting like anything other then that is derogatory or distasteful is low-key slut shaming and puts other people off been honest and saying yeah I get straight to the fuck and ride the Polony pony like a rabbit cowgirl on a packet of pro plus
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the meet, if I'm comfortable with the person I'm happy to have the social in the hotel room. Easy access to the bed if things progress that way.. worked for me so far! |
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"I think saying you social first and acting like anything other then that is derogatory or distasteful is low-key slut shaming and puts other people off been honest and saying yeah I get straight to the fuck and ride the Polony pony like a rabbit cowgirl on a packet of pro plus
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I don’t see anyone that has inferred that on this thread. Where did that come from? |
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I like to arrange a social first but I’m always open to that becoming more if I’m comfortable with the guy I’ve met. I’ve usually chatted here then WhatsApp first anyway as I can’t meet instantly so have a good feeling before I’ve agreed to the social meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think saying you social first and acting like anything other then that is derogatory or distasteful is low-key slut shaming and puts other people off been honest and saying yeah I get straight to the fuck and ride the Polony pony like a rabbit cowgirl on a packet of pro plus
I don’t see anyone that has inferred that on this thread. Where did that come from?"
No one really or I'd of likely straight posted a reply to the said post, just something I could see happening easily, as there was a post about slut shaming yesterday or the day before. Don't mind me  |
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I have no set rules regarding social/play, I've always taken each person and set of circumstances individually...the one constant is a mutual understanding that if either of us aren't 100% happy then we say so and go our separate ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I arranged all my meets as straight down to business. We had pretty much worked out if we fancied each other beforehand with messages and pictures. And obviously, either was free to scream and run away upon meeting, but it was a straight up to the room type of affair. Feels really bizarre looking back on it now, but fun.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bow Bow….
To be fair, it just depends on the situation, I’ve ended up hooking up same night with people who I haven’t intentionally been meeting for that.
So either or |
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