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What’s the best content for an opening message?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Asking on behalf of someone who doesn’t get many responses…ok, ok…me! Lol!
Don’t want to be intrusive but also want to show some level of interest…
All tips gratefully received! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Meli (or name of other less impressive woman)
I think you're the most beautiful woman on this site. Not only that but you also have the most beautiful speaking voice ever (obviously a lie if not about me).
^ that's all you need OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wow, never seen anyone ask this question before 
If you're looking for a magic template OP, I have news for you.
There isn't one.
Firstly, people don't like receiving a message that you've very clearly copied and pasted to all and sundry.
The best piece of advice I can give you is to READ THEIR PROFILE
Once you have done that, you should be able to craft a message that is specific to that person - or couple - and that appeals to their interests.
However.....
Be aware that before even thinking about opening a message from you, the recipient will usually take a look at your profile first, and if they either don't like it or don't think that you're a good match for them, they will likely ignore or delete your message.
So, going back to my comment about READING THEIR PROFILE, you need to make sure that you're likely to be a good fit for what they're looking for before you even message them.
I mean, if you were to message a Domminatrix, claiming to be a sub in your message, you had better be sure that your profile doesn't contradict you by stating that you're a Dom - just as an example |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ll echo what others have posted.
Definitely show you’ve read a profile and are actually interested in the person/couple.
It gets a bit tedious when you get a message which clearly shows the sender hasn’t been arsed to read a profile.
As tempting as it might be definitely avoid the good ‘ol copy and paste.
As for content we’re all different. Some will appreciate a dick pic, some appreciate humour and others appreciate straight to the point.
But that’s the beauty of this place. If we were all the same it would be dull!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This one never fails;
Good morning/ evening non specific woman or couple, I have totally read your profile and I think it’s great, I have also studied your photos and videos (if you have no photos or videos ignore this) they are also up to standard, as you will see I have put the word or words in the box you asked for, (if you didn’t ask, ignore that) As you can see from my profile I have a penis, attached to my penis is me, hi, *waves* Anywho I digress, if you would like to get a kharmic chi love thang going on then let me know, if not then happy Fabbing and all the best you/ both.
Yours sincerely
A genuine/ hygienic bloke on Fab X  |
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By *rad670Man
over a year ago
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Make it personal not copy and pasted like already mentioned. Be non presumptions that it will lead to getting laid even though it's a swinging site, be mature and respectful at least to start with and you judge how far you can open up, and of course be prepared to send at least 20 messages for every one reply. |
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