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"Either or. Its all about the face really.
Can have an absolutely amazing figure, but if I don't find them facially appealing- body doesn't matter."
This for me too. Definitely face for me don’t matter how gorgeous the body is. |
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"Either or. Its all about the face really.
Can have an absolutely amazing figure, but if I don't find them facially appealing- body doesn't matter.
This for me too. Definitely face for me don’t matter how gorgeous the body is. "
Yep, and a beautiful personality makes the face more attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"51 and still got my 6 pack.
Work hard,play hard  "
Lol fair play, but you can still work hard and not have one, it’s body fat % and as stated above, I like pie too much ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Either or. Its all about the face really.
Can have an absolutely amazing figure, but if I don't find them facially appealing- body doesn't matter.
This for me too. Definitely face for me don’t matter how gorgeous the body is. "
Fair one, could have the body of a Greek god and the face of a chewed up jelly baby! |
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over a year ago
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"Seen a lot of polls on this over recent years, is the dad bod the new 6 pack and are we all wasting our time going to the gym?? "
Both are good…however your body is yours and going to the gym should be something you do for yourself…not others  |
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over a year ago
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"I will be honest I prefer a softer non 6 pack body but I'm a sucker for strong muscles in the arms "
This is kind of what I strive for. Although I seem to have better luck with my legs than arms. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bold of you to assume that I train for anyone other than myself 
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Lol touché, no assumptions made though, I train purely for myself as I like to keep fit but I wondered about the opinions surrounding physiques on a site like this and if it plays a major role in initial attraction, obviously it plays a role, just to what extent |
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"I will be honest I prefer a softer non 6 pack body but I'm a sucker for strong muscles in the arms
This is kind of what I strive for. Although I seem to have better luck with my legs than arms. "
Legs grow far faster than anything else, I just think most guys go bi and trunk because they know women love it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Either or. Its all about the face really.
Can have an absolutely amazing figure, but if I don't find them facially appealing- body doesn't matter.
This for me too. Definitely face for me don’t matter how gorgeous the body is.
Yep, and a beautiful personality makes the face more attractive. "
Exactly. And the better the chemistry, I'm pretty sure their all over attractiveness just increases |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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The thing is we're all attracted to different things, whether it be six packs or Dad bods, hairy or shaven, big or small boobs, blonde, brunette or redhead etc or the many many other things that play a part in attraction - there is no one thing that wins the day in any subjective thing that comes down to personal taste.
So personally I stick to what I am comfortable with and able to realistically achieve for me - if people find that attractive then great, if they don't then equally great - there will be others that do. |
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By *AM2214Man
over a year ago
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"Recent years? More like thrice weekly 
The general consensus is, much like dick size, the fellas care FAR more than women do."
made me laugh as much as your profile ....
To answer OP Surely a connection is more important ..ive had severe six pack and out of date full barrel belly ...still same person inside ... |
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"Seen a lot of polls on this over recent years, is the dad bod the new 6 pack and are we all wasting our time going to the gym??
Both are good…however your body is yours and going to the gym should be something you do for yourself…not others "
I agree, although we live in a society currently which is very vocal about health and fitness and the optimal physical appearance, I wonder if actual real people support that theory or if the health and fitness industry exploit our wants and needs to look more appealing to the opposite sex (or the same sex) or if it is in fact irrelevant to the every day person |
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"Either or. Its all about the face really.
Can have an absolutely amazing figure, but if I don't find them facially appealing- body doesn't matter.
This for me too. Definitely face for me don’t matter how gorgeous the body is.
Yep, and a beautiful personality makes the face more attractive.
Exactly. And the better the chemistry, I'm pretty sure their all over attractiveness just increases"
Yep.
Then they do something shitty and instantly look like the love child of Skeletor and Hitler |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Body image is way too much of a focus in people's mind.
Some people love that gym look, other's don't. Some people want rock hard abs, other's want a cuddly belly. It's all about preference.
We all need to stop polling against each other and love our bodies, no matter what shape or size. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Seen a lot of polls on this over recent years, is the dad bod the new 6 pack and are we all wasting our time going to the gym??
Both are good…however your body is yours and going to the gym should be something you do for yourself…not others
I agree, although we live in a society currently which is very vocal about health and fitness and the optimal physical appearance, I wonder if actual real people support that theory or if the health and fitness industry exploit our wants and needs to look more appealing to the opposite sex (or the same sex) or if it is in fact irrelevant to the every day person "
Health and fitness I can buy into - they go hand in hand and are important, or should be, for each and every one of us.
The obsession with optimal physical appearance is to an extent a by-product of that which I don't - so long as I am healthy and fit, I'll decide, for me, how I look best and feel most comfortable, not have it dictated to me by society. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Recent years? More like thrice weekly
The general consensus is, much like dick size, the fellas care FAR more than women do.made me laugh as much as your profile ....
To answer OP Surely a connection is more important ..ive had severe six pack and out of date full barrel belly ...still same person inside ..."
Oh I don’t disagree, a connection is definitely more important but is the world as fickle as it is made out to be, say two people sent the exact same message and their pictures were that of a six pack and that of a dad bod, I’d be inclined to say the six pack would receive probably the more replies, yet from a lot of polls many now say the dad bod is more for them, I was just interested to hear opinions from people on here that are most likely to be replying to profiles with those exact pictures lol |
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"To be honest I think the stomach is the last part of a man I would be looking at....
What’s the first bit?
Eyes/smile/face
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Then around the thighs area? |
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"Seen a lot of polls on this over recent years, is the dad bod the new 6 pack and are we all wasting our time going to the gym??
Both are good…however your body is yours and going to the gym should be something you do for yourself…not others
I agree, although we live in a society currently which is very vocal about health and fitness and the optimal physical appearance, I wonder if actual real people support that theory or if the health and fitness industry exploit our wants and needs to look more appealing to the opposite sex (or the same sex) or if it is in fact irrelevant to the every day person
Health and fitness I can buy into - they go hand in hand and are important, or should be, for each and every one of us.
The obsession with optimal physical appearance is to an extent a by-product of that which I don't - so long as I am healthy and fit, I'll decide, for me, how I look best and feel most comfortable, not have it dictated to me by society. "
Exactly.
For the most part it's about making money. If it really was ALL about health we'd be encouraged to grow our own produce, we wouldn't be working flat out to pay basic bills. But no, we're here to pay pay pay any and every way conceivable. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Recent years? More like thrice weekly
The general consensus is, much like dick size, the fellas care FAR more than women do.made me laugh as much as your profile ....
To answer OP Surely a connection is more important ..ive had severe six pack and out of date full barrel belly ...still same person inside ...
Oh I don’t disagree, a connection is definitely more important but is the world as fickle as it is made out to be, say two people sent the exact same message and their pictures were that of a six pack and that of a dad bod, I’d be inclined to say the six pack would receive probably the more replies, yet from a lot of polls many now say the dad bod is more for them, I was just interested to hear opinions from people on here that are most likely to be replying to profiles with those exact pictures lol "
I think this thread alone has proven that perception wrong though - in fact I've seen just as many gym fit guys bemoaning their lack of responses 9n here as I have Dad bod types, and to a degree I think it does the ladies a slight disservice to suggest they would be so shallow as to always go for the gym fit - much the same as it would be if it was suggested us guys always go for a Barbie doll type. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Recent years? More like thrice weekly
The general consensus is, much like dick size, the fellas care FAR more than women do.made me laugh as much as your profile ....
To answer OP Surely a connection is more important ..ive had severe six pack and out of date full barrel belly ...still same person inside ...
Oh I don’t disagree, a connection is definitely more important but is the world as fickle as it is made out to be, say two people sent the exact same message and their pictures were that of a six pack and that of a dad bod, I’d be inclined to say the six pack would receive probably the more replies, yet from a lot of polls many now say the dad bod is more for them, I was just interested to hear opinions from people on here that are most likely to be replying to profiles with those exact pictures lol
I think this thread alone has proven that perception wrong though - in fact I've seen just as many gym fit guys bemoaning their lack of responses 9n here as I have Dad bod types, and to a degree I think it does the ladies a slight disservice to suggest they would be so shallow as to always go for the gym fit - much the same as it would be if it was suggested us guys always go for a Barbie doll type."
I was in no way suggesting women are shallow, you’ve taken that out of context, maybe my post was lost in translation, my point was with the exact same message but two different pictures then the reply would solely fall down to appearance, hence my initial question of are people more likely to go for a six pack or dad bod, more hypothetical than insinuating anybody is shallow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest I think the stomach is the last part of a man I would be looking at....
What’s the first bit?
Eyes/smile/face
Then around the thighs area? "
You have me sussed completely ha ha
Don't forget those neck muscles and broad shoulders as well |
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"51 and still got my 6 pack.
Work hard,play hard
Lol fair play, but you can still work hard and not have one, it’s body fat % and as stated above, I like pie too much ha"
I one of "those" people who can eat what they want and not put weight on...
Sometimes I wish I could just mess about with 2 stone just to put it where I want it  |
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"51 and still got my 6 pack.
Work hard,play hard
Lol fair play, but you can still work hard and not have one, it’s body fat % and as stated above, I like pie too much ha
I one of "those" people who can eat what they want and not put weight on...
Sometimes I wish I could just mess about with 2 stone just to put it where I want it "
Quitting smoking ruined that for me, I can just look at a digestive and put a stone on! |
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over a year ago
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"I have a 6pack body and I like the look and yes, you have to diet harder than the last time to have one. I like the challenge "
That’s what does it for me, the dieting lol too much of a foodie |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would always favour an athletic body over a dad bod, but if an owner of a dad bod had a handsome face and nice tackle, then I would still meet "
That’s fair enough ha |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Recent years? More like thrice weekly
The general consensus is, much like dick size, the fellas care FAR more than women do.made me laugh as much as your profile ....
To answer OP Surely a connection is more important ..ive had severe six pack and out of date full barrel belly ...still same person inside ...
Oh I don’t disagree, a connection is definitely more important but is the world as fickle as it is made out to be, say two people sent the exact same message and their pictures were that of a six pack and that of a dad bod, I’d be inclined to say the six pack would receive probably the more replies, yet from a lot of polls many now say the dad bod is more for them, I was just interested to hear opinions from people on here that are most likely to be replying to profiles with those exact pictures lol
I think this thread alone has proven that perception wrong though - in fact I've seen just as many gym fit guys bemoaning their lack of responses 9n here as I have Dad bod types, and to a degree I think it does the ladies a slight disservice to suggest they would be so shallow as to always go for the gym fit - much the same as it would be if it was suggested us guys always go for a Barbie doll type.
I was in no way suggesting women are shallow, you’ve taken that out of context, maybe my post was lost in translation, my point was with the exact same message but two different pictures then the reply would solely fall down to appearance, hence my initial question of are people more likely to go for a six pack or dad bod, more hypothetical than insinuating anybody is shallow"
Apologies, I probably wasn't clear and didn't take it that you were suggesting that per se - was more making an observation about the general perception that the six pack would receive more replies.
You quite often see guys on here saying things like "I don't stand a chance as I don't have a six pack" and it was perceptions like that I was commenting on more than anything |
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"I have a 6pack body and I like the look and yes, you have to diet harder than the last time to have one. I like the challenge
That’s what does it for me, the dieting lol too much of a foodie "
I almost had proper 6 pack couple times over the years but it is a hassle for sure. As long as tummy is flat and looks reasonably toned I am happy with that on myself personally |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Recent years? More like thrice weekly
The general consensus is, much like dick size, the fellas care FAR more than women do.made me laugh as much as your profile ....
To answer OP Surely a connection is more important ..ive had severe six pack and out of date full barrel belly ...still same person inside ...
Oh I don’t disagree, a connection is definitely more important but is the world as fickle as it is made out to be, say two people sent the exact same message and their pictures were that of a six pack and that of a dad bod, I’d be inclined to say the six pack would receive probably the more replies, yet from a lot of polls many now say the dad bod is more for them, I was just interested to hear opinions from people on here that are most likely to be replying to profiles with those exact pictures lol
I think this thread alone has proven that perception wrong though - in fact I've seen just as many gym fit guys bemoaning their lack of responses 9n here as I have Dad bod types, and to a degree I think it does the ladies a slight disservice to suggest they would be so shallow as to always go for the gym fit - much the same as it would be if it was suggested us guys always go for a Barbie doll type.
I was in no way suggesting women are shallow, you’ve taken that out of context, maybe my post was lost in translation, my point was with the exact same message but two different pictures then the reply would solely fall down to appearance, hence my initial question of are people more likely to go for a six pack or dad bod, more hypothetical than insinuating anybody is shallow
Apologies, I probably wasn't clear and didn't take it that you were suggesting that per se - was more making an observation about the general perception that the six pack would receive more replies.
You quite often see guys on here saying things like "I don't stand a chance as I don't have a six pack" and it was perceptions like that I was commenting on more than anything "
Cool, I’m with you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have a 6pack body and I like the look and yes, you have to diet harder than the last time to have one. I like the challenge
That’s what does it for me, the dieting lol too much of a foodie
I almost had proper 6 pack couple times over the years but it is a hassle for sure. As long as tummy is flat and looks reasonably toned I am happy with that on myself personally "
Yeah I don’t have a health diet at all, just have to breast myself in the gym that little extra to burn off all the shit food lol |
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"I have a 6pack body and I like the look and yes, you have to diet harder than the last time to have one. I like the challenge
That’s what does it for me, the dieting lol too much of a foodie
I almost had proper 6 pack couple times over the years but it is a hassle for sure. As long as tummy is flat and looks reasonably toned I am happy with that on myself personally
Yeah I don’t have a health diet at all, just have to breast myself in the gym that little extra to burn off all the shit food lol "
Beast!!  lol |
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"I have a 6pack body and I like the look and yes, you have to diet harder than the last time to have one. I like the challenge
That’s what does it for me, the dieting lol too much of a foodie
I almost had proper 6 pack couple times over the years but it is a hassle for sure. As long as tummy is flat and looks reasonably toned I am happy with that on myself personally
Yeah I don’t have a health diet at all, just have to breast myself in the gym that little extra to burn off all the shit food lol
Beast!! lol "
Thought you were promoting your disco tits until you clarified  |
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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago
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"I have a 6pack body and I like the look and yes, you have to diet harder than the last time to have one. I like the challenge
That’s what does it for me, the dieting lol too much of a foodie "
Yes and it is also the knowing that only few people can achieve it and take it to the next level, by the way. I like to listen to greg doucette, he have alot info about it as well and yes I am a foodie as well lol, but I eat in controlled portions. |
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"I have a 6pack body and I like the look and yes, you have to diet harder than the last time to have one. I like the challenge
That’s what does it for me, the dieting lol too much of a foodie
I almost had proper 6 pack couple times over the years but it is a hassle for sure. As long as tummy is flat and looks reasonably toned I am happy with that on myself personally
Yeah I don’t have a health diet at all, just have to breast myself in the gym that little extra to burn off all the shit food lol
Beast!! lol
Thought you were promoting your disco tits until you clarified "
Lol fucksake… better get back in the gym |
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"I have a 6pack body and I like the look and yes, you have to diet harder than the last time to have one. I like the challenge
That’s what does it for me, the dieting lol too much of a foodie Yes and it is also the knowing that only few people can achieve it and take it to the next level, by the way. I like to listen to greg doucette, he have alot info about it as well and yes I am a foodie as well lol, but I eat in controlled portions."
I eat out of a trough haha |
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Remember when Zac Efron did that documentary and everyone said he had a dad bod despite that fact he was fucking jacked with a 4 pack still?
People’s ideas of what a dad bod is are very different.
I think I can say with some confidence that most woman what a guy that looks like he works out but also enjoys his food.
Big arms, slight belly or slight 6 pack doesn’t matter, just nothing to extreme either way, big legs, muscular back
They don’t want a slob
They equally don’t want a guy with veins everywhere that refuses to eat a carb
Perfect scenario? They want a hard working carpenter with big arms and legs that works hard all day then comes home for a few beers and a big tasty dinner. A worker type body
Or a rugby player build |
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"Remember when Zac Efron did that documentary and everyone said he had a dad bod despite that fact he was fucking jacked with a 4 pack still?
People’s ideas of what a dad bod is are very different.
I think I can say with some confidence that most woman what a guy that looks like he works out but also enjoys his food.
Big arms, slight belly or slight 6 pack doesn’t matter, just nothing to extreme either way, big legs, muscular back
They don’t want a slob
They equally don’t want a guy with veins everywhere that refuses to eat a carb
Perfect scenario? They want a hard working carpenter with big arms and legs that works hard all day then comes home for a few beers and a big tasty dinner. A worker type body
Or a rugby player build "
Agreed, and well put |
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"I think I quite like an in between bod thinking about it. I like big men, broad shoulders, strong arms, big chests . More rugby player type I supposed.
Fancy a scum? "
I hate rugby and even I know it’s a scrum .
Isn’t it? |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I think I quite like an in between bod thinking about it. I like big men, broad shoulders, strong arms, big chests . More rugby player type I supposed.
Fancy a scum?
I hate rugby and even I know it’s a scrum .
Isn’t it?"
I'll learn to read my typing - one day. |
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"I think I quite like an in between bod thinking about it. I like big men, broad shoulders, strong arms, big chests . More rugby player type I supposed.
Fancy a scum?
I hate rugby and even I know it’s a scrum .
Isn’t it?
I'll learn to read my typing - one day. "
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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"Seen a lot of polls on this over recent years, is the dad bod the new 6 pack and are we all wasting our time going to the gym?? "
Wasting time? You really think 6 pack abs are the only reason people go to the gym? What if I told you that some of us have totally different objectives for going to the gym (that have minimum to do with aesthetics)...and the way our bodies look is just the byproduct of how we train and we eat?
To think that some of us are not obsessed with "perfect" bodies...mind blowing, right? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Seen a lot of polls on this over recent years, is the dad bod the new 6 pack and are we all wasting our time going to the gym??
Wasting time? You really think 6 pack abs are the only reason people go to the gym? What if I told you that some of us have totally different objectives for going to the gym (that have minimum to do with aesthetics)...and the way our bodies look is just the byproduct of how we train and we eat?
To think that some of us are not obsessed with "perfect" bodies...mind blowing, right?"
It was more rhetorical with a hint of sarcasm, I wasn’t attempting to dig anybody out, I know through experience how hard it is to have and maintain a six pack and over recent years I’ve relaxed a lot with my training, I still train and am physically fit for the job I have etc but I don’t watch my diet half as much as I did in my younger years, again wasn’t a post to dig anybody out or criticise training/diet regimes |
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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago
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"I have a 6pack body and I like the look and yes, you have to diet harder than the last time to have one. I like the challenge
That’s what does it for me, the dieting lol too much of a foodie
I almost had proper 6 pack couple times over the years but it is a hassle for sure. As long as tummy is flat and looks reasonably toned I am happy with that on myself personally "
That is good and yes, sometimes to lose that last bit, would mean to keep the dieting going for few more months, but yes, it is hard to maintain it and one always have to make sure to stay within the calorie limit the person have. |
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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago
From the land of haribos. |
"I have a 6pack body and I like the look and yes, you have to diet harder than the last time to have one. I like the challenge
That’s what does it for me, the dieting lol too much of a foodie Yes and it is also the knowing that only few people can achieve it and take it to the next level, by the way. I like to listen to greg doucette, he have alot info about it as well and yes I am a foodie as well lol, but I eat in controlled portions.
I eat out of a trough haha"
That is also good to do lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to admit though that someone with the package of the nice face with the gym bod scare me a little.
I'm far from gym bod and I just would always question why they would go for me. I'd feel threatened lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have to admit though that someone with the package of the nice face with the gym bod scare me a little.
I'm far from gym bod and I just would always question why they would go for me. I'd feel threatened lol"
I don’t think you have any reason at all to feel threatened! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm attracted to strength (mind and body) therefore if I see a man who looks like he could compete in the world's strongest man, I'm instantly attracted as his physique speaks volumes for his strength of mind and self discipline. However, that's my initial 'would I wouldn't I' thought; regardless of body type, it's the conversation that follows which ultimately decides on how sexually attracted I am to them...or not  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This was interesting I used to be a gym rat and lived it but now moved on to other hobbies and no longer eat like a monk , due to sporting the “dad bod” I have to say it will stop me from sometimes messaging some one I like the look of if they have been with guys who all look gym fit , I just assume I’m not there cuppa tea |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I'm attracted to strength (mind and body) therefore if I see a man who looks like he could compete in the world's strongest man, I'm instantly attracted as his physique speaks volumes for his strength of mind and self discipline. However, that's my initial 'would I wouldn't I' thought; regardless of body type, it's the conversation that follows which ultimately decides on how sexually attracted I am to them...or not "
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Something in the middle for me please I love strong/muscly arms, good looking hands and broad shoulders but still want to be able to cuddle so a solid hard 6pack would be too much… "
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is there a drool emoji? Haha! 
