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 it's really putting me off. Which is a shame...  | |||
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"For me tinder is a much nicer place" Really, wow... thats sad to hear. I was honestly expecting it to be different! | |||
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"I do filter and block but even that doesn't stop the dickheads slipping through. I think I'll stick to the forums for a while I reckon! " I think sticking with the forums and doing your own searching, is often the least stressful way to use Fab for single ladies. | |||
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"I do filter and block but even that doesn't stop the dickheads slipping through. I think I'll stick to the forums for a while I reckon! I think sticking with the forums and doing your own searching, is often the least stressful way to use Fab for single ladies." You're probably right, yeah! I'll stick to that! Thanks | |||
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"For me tinder is a much nicer place Really, wow... thats sad to hear. I was honestly expecting it to be different! " well on tinder I can actually talk to some ladies and even meet now and then | |||
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"I thought this place would have been full of likeminded people, not just men who want to use women's body for an easy wank. It's almost as bad as tinder I'm finding. A lot of the forumers are lovely but Jesus, the disrespect here is unreal!! it's really putting me off. Which is a shame... "Sorry you feel this way op | |||
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"I thought this place would have been full of likeminded people, not just men who want to use women's body for an easy wank. It's almost as bad as tinder I'm finding. A lot of the forumers are lovely but Jesus, the disrespect here is unreal!! it's really putting me off. Which is a shame... "Aaawwww!!!chin up...dont take it too personally everything. Just try to enjoy a bit of laugh. 
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"I thought this place would have been full of likeminded people, not just men who want to use women's body for an easy wank. It's almost as bad as tinder I'm finding. A lot of the forumers are lovely but Jesus, the disrespect here is unreal!! it's really putting me off. Which is a shame... "What were your expectations coming onto fab? Have you made it out to socials or clubs? | |||
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"I do filter and block but even that doesn't stop the dickheads slipping through. I think I'll stick to the forums for a while I reckon! I think sticking with the forums and doing your own searching, is often the least stressful way to use Fab for single ladies. You're probably right, yeah! I'll stick to that! Thanks " No worries. Take care and if it gets too much, just take a break. Sadly, there's no dickhead filter  | |||
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All sections of society are here - good and bad
Hooefully you'll meet some people with your values who you like x | |||
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"I thought this place would have been full of likeminded people, not just men who want to use women's body for an easy wank. It's almost as bad as tinder I'm finding. A lot of the forumers are lovely but Jesus, the disrespect here is unreal!! it's really putting me off. Which is a shame... "Once you have your filters set and use the block features it becomes more enjoyable and setting up your search criteria by age groups gives you options to shuffle a experience good or bad can always be created to suit what you want with a little bit of work x | |||
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"I think the site can be unfriendly and unwelcoming to new people. You definitely have to grow a thick skin. I was and still am disappointed with how judgemental and unkind a lot of people were / are. Ive learnt that swingers are not all liberal minded and easy going - that was my preconcieved idea of the site All sections of society are here - good and bad
Hooefully you'll meet some people with your values who you like x"This was certainly my preconceived idea!! | |||
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"Hi Foxy, you’ve joined while I’ve been on a break but I’ve noticed you in Forum and you already seem to be fitting in. I think for everyone the Fab experience is one of finding what you want and need and focussing time and energy there. A belated welcome and don’t go yet ! "Thanks! I think I'm gonna stick to the forums for the time being! People do seem much nicer on here. Its a shame you just have to block people as they get arsey even if you don't reply!! | |||
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"And remember you have better control when you hide your profile this way can save you receiving unwanted messages which gives you full control who you message as they are unable to "That's a really good idea!! | |||
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"I think the site can be unfriendly and unwelcoming to new people. You definitely have to grow a thick skin. I was and still am disappointed with how judgemental and unkind a lot of people were / are. Ive learnt that swingers are not all liberal minded and easy going - that was my preconcieved idea of the site All sections of society are here - good and bad
Hooefully you'll meet some people with your values who you like x
This was certainly my preconceived idea!! "Not everyone on here is a swinger. If you go to events, socials, parties or clubs you will find yourself in the company of like minded people who share your general outlook on sex and maybe even life. I can count on one hand the number of pests we have met socially. The site is great for finding clubs, or events, finding people you like, but it's also a feeding frenzy. | |||
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"And remember you have better control when you hide your profile this way can save you receiving unwanted messages which gives you full control who you message as they are unable to
That's a really good idea!! "It's a great way to start darling, as everyone is here for themselves just like yourself. | |||
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"And remember you have better control when you hide your profile this way can save you receiving unwanted messages which gives you full control who you message as they are unable to
That's a really good idea!!
It's a great way to start darling, as everyone is here for themselves just like yourself."Yep! Thanks | |||
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"I think the site can be unfriendly and unwelcoming to new people. You definitely have to grow a thick skin. I was and still am disappointed with how judgemental and unkind a lot of people were / are. Ive learnt that swingers are not all liberal minded and easy going - that was my preconcieved idea of the site All sections of society are here - good and bad
Hooefully you'll meet some people with your values who you like x
This was certainly my preconceived idea!!
Not everyone on here is a swinger.
If you go to events, socials, parties or clubs you will find yourself in the company of like minded people who share your general outlook on sex and maybe even life.
I can count on one hand the number of pests we have met socially.
The site is great for finding clubs, or events, finding people you like, but it's also a feeding frenzy. "Yeah I'm local to townhouse and would love to go just worried about seeing someone I know haha | |||
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"I think the site can be unfriendly and unwelcoming to new people. You definitely have to grow a thick skin. I was and still am disappointed with how judgemental and unkind a lot of people were / are. Ive learnt that swingers are not all liberal minded and easy going - that was my preconcieved idea of the site All sections of society are here - good and bad
Hooefully you'll meet some people with your values who you like x
This was certainly my preconceived idea!!
Not everyone on here is a swinger.
If you go to events, socials, parties or clubs you will find yourself in the company of like minded people who share your general outlook on sex and maybe even life.
I can count on one hand the number of pests we have met socially.
The site is great for finding clubs, or events, finding people you like, but it's also a feeding frenzy.
Yeah I'm local to townhouse and would love to go just worried about seeing someone I know haha "they there for same reason you are. | |||
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"I thought this place would have been full of likeminded people, not just men who want to use women's body for an easy wank. It's almost as bad as tinder I'm finding. A lot of the forumers are lovely but Jesus, the disrespect here is unreal!! it's really putting me off. Which is a shame... "Only way to deal with it going by the mods and admins themselves is to.use the message filters and co tact people who catch your eye directly. Unfortunately you cant know what a person is like until you talk to that person. | |||
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"I think the site can be unfriendly and unwelcoming to new people. You definitely have to grow a thick skin. I was and still am disappointed with how judgemental and unkind a lot of people were / are. Ive learnt that swingers are not all liberal minded and easy going - that was my preconcieved idea of the site All sections of society are here - good and bad
Hooefully you'll meet some people with your values who you like x
This was certainly my preconceived idea!!
Not everyone on here is a swinger.
If you go to events, socials, parties or clubs you will find yourself in the company of like minded people who share your general outlook on sex and maybe even life.
I can count on one hand the number of pests we have met socially.
The site is great for finding clubs, or events, finding people you like, but it's also a feeding frenzy.
Yeah I'm local to townhouse and would love to go just worried about seeing someone I know haha "We were worried about that too but once you are in the doors it's different. It really feels like you are with your people. Also ... hormones ... woof. Once they kick in you won't care if your aunty mable is upstairs in a group. | |||
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" We were worried about that too but once you are in the doors it's different. It really feels like you are with your people. Also ... hormones ... woof. Once they kick in you won't care if your aunty mable is upstairs in a group. " Hahaha yeah that's probably true. Good point! I'll head there one day! | |||
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"Sorry to hear that. It’s not easy being a man on here either. Ignore the dickheads and use your filters and block button. " Persevere it does get easier has went down hill a bit but use the filters. Yes you'll always get the odd asshole. Just block that's what it's there for | |||
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"I've chatted to a couple of guys and even on the phone with one. Was meant to meet today but chat was sparce so didn't really want to meet up with someone who clearly wasn't that interested in me... " Not surprised given you have such a negative view of men... | |||
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"I've chatted to a couple of guys and even on the phone with one. Was meant to meet today but chat was sparce so didn't really want to meet up with someone who clearly wasn't that interested in me... Not surprised given you have such a negative view of men..." Where did you get the idea that I have a negative view of men? Is that because I told you the friend zone doesn't exist? I even told you that I wasn't being rude to you in saying that, it was just a conversation. | |||
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"I've chatted to a couple of guys and even on the phone with one. Was meant to meet today but chat was sparce so didn't really want to meet up with someone who clearly wasn't that interested in me... Not surprised given you have such a negative view of men... Where did you get the idea that I have a negative view of men? Is that because I told you the friend zone doesn't exist? I even told you that I wasn't being rude to you in saying that, it was just a conversation. " We’re all ‘entitled’ to an opinion. Or is that just ‘entitled’ full stop according to you? | |||
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" We’re all ‘entitled’ to an opinion. Or is that just ‘entitled’ full stop according to you? " Oh darling, you block me from messaging you and then continue to behave like an idiot afterwards. As people have suggested on this thread, perhaps you need to develop a thicker skin. You're acting like the people I was primarily speaking about on here! This could be why you feel you're always stuck in the 'friend zone'. Only being polite to women you want to fuck means you don't actually respect women, by the way. | |||
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"I've chatted to a couple of guys and even on the phone with one. Was meant to meet today but chat was sparce so didn't really want to meet up with someone who clearly wasn't that interested in me... Not surprised given you have such a negative view of men... Where did you get the idea that I have a negative view of men? Is that because I told you the friend zone doesn't exist? I even told you that I wasn't being rude to you in saying that, it was just a conversation. We’re all ‘entitled’ to an opinion. Or is that just ‘entitled’ full stop according to you? " Your opinion doesn't count at all, I can point you to a couple of people on here who are always right, boris calls them for info on the virus.... True | |||
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"There are some great guys here. Just delete and block the idiots and don't lose hope. " This really  | |||
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"I thought this place would have been full of likeminded people, not just men who want to use women's body for an easy wank. It's almost as bad as tinder I'm finding. A lot of the forumers are lovely but Jesus, the disrespect here is unreal!! it's really putting me off. Which is a shame... "Yes there are a lot of idiots - especially if you are “fresh meat”. One thing I have found that stops a lot of the idiot messages it to have very bland profile pics and keep the more interesting ones for friends only. There are some good people on here but a smaller percentage. Lots of the idiots are on all the websites. | |||
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" We’re all ‘entitled’ to an opinion. Or is that just ‘entitled’ full stop according to you? Oh darling, you block me from messaging you and then continue to behave like an idiot afterwards. As people have suggested on this thread, perhaps you need to develop a thicker skin. You're acting like the people I was primarily speaking about on here! This could be why you feel you're always stuck in the 'friend zone'. Only being polite to women you want to fuck means you don't actually respect women, by the way. " Oh please, I wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole. Before slagging men off for the way they treat women, look at your own negative view of men | |||
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" Oh please, I wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole. Before slagging men off for the way they treat women, look at your own negative view of men" Case in point you keep proving that I'm right, puddin'
Crack on though.
I love men who know how to treat women well.
Treat me well, and I'll treat you eveb better, that's how it works love. | |||
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" We’re all ‘entitled’ to an opinion. Or is that just ‘entitled’ full stop according to you? Oh darling, you block me from messaging you and then continue to behave like an idiot afterwards. As people have suggested on this thread, perhaps you need to develop a thicker skin. You're acting like the people I was primarily speaking about on here! This could be why you feel you're always stuck in the 'friend zone'. Only being polite to women you want to fuck means you don't actually respect women, by the way. Oh please, I wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole. Before slagging men off for the way they treat women, look at your own negative view of men" Rude! Also if you wouldn’t touch her with a bargepole why did you message her? | |||
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"I thought this place would have been full of likeminded people, not just men who want to use women's body for an easy wank. It's almost as bad as tinder I'm finding. A lot of the forumers are lovely but Jesus, the disrespect here is unreal!! it's really putting me off. Which is a shame...
Yes there are a lot of idiots - especially if you are “fresh meat”. One thing I have found that stops a lot of the idiot messages it to have very bland profile pics and keep the more interesting ones for friends only. There are some good people on here but a smaller percentage. Lots of the idiots are on all the websites."Yeah, I think I'll give that a go too, thank you! | |||
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" Oh please, I wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole. Before slagging men off for the way they treat women, look at your own negative view of men Case in point you keep proving that I'm right, puddin'
Crack on though.
I love men who know how to treat women well.
Treat me well, and I'll treat you eveb better, that's how it works love. "Hahahahaha | |||
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" We’re all ‘entitled’ to an opinion. Or is that just ‘entitled’ full stop according to you? Oh darling, you block me from messaging you and then continue to behave like an idiot afterwards. As people have suggested on this thread, perhaps you need to develop a thicker skin. You're acting like the people I was primarily speaking about on here! This could be why you feel you're always stuck in the 'friend zone'. Only being polite to women you want to fuck means you don't actually respect women, by the way. Oh please, I wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole. Before slagging men off for the way they treat women, look at your own negative view of men Rude! Also if you wouldn’t touch her with a bargepole why did you message her? " Felt sorry for her. Silly me | |||
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"Interesting way things develop" Yep lol alls I did was politely explain to him why the friend zone wasn't real and this happened haha bless him. | |||
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"Interesting way things develop Yep lol alls I did was politely explain to him why the friend zone wasn't real and this happened haha bless him." | |||
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" We’re all ‘entitled’ to an opinion. Or is that just ‘entitled’ full stop according to you? Oh darling, you block me from messaging you and then continue to behave like an idiot afterwards. As people have suggested on this thread, perhaps you need to develop a thicker skin. You're acting like the people I was primarily speaking about on here! This could be why you feel you're always stuck in the 'friend zone'. Only being polite to women you want to fuck means you don't actually respect women, by the way. Oh please, I wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole. Before slagging men off for the way they treat women, look at your own negative view of men"  . Are we at school? Are you one of the ones that thinks someone’s stunning then when she politely says no she becomes a fat slag you wouldn’t touch with a barge pole? | |||
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"I've chatted to a couple of guys and even on the phone with one. Was meant to meet today but chat was sparce so didn't really want to meet up with someone who clearly wasn't that interested in me... Not surprised given you have such a negative view of men..." wow did she turn you down, get that chip off your shoulder dude, there is only one person you are making look stupid, and it isnt her | |||
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" We’re all ‘entitled’ to an opinion. Or is that just ‘entitled’ full stop according to you? Oh darling, you block me from messaging you and then continue to behave like an idiot afterwards. As people have suggested on this thread, perhaps you need to develop a thicker skin. You're acting like the people I was primarily speaking about on here! This could be why you feel you're always stuck in the 'friend zone'. Only being polite to women you want to fuck means you don't actually respect women, by the way. Oh please, I wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole. Before slagging men off for the way they treat women, look at your own negative view of men . Are we at school? Are you one of the ones that thinks someone’s stunning then when she politely says no she becomes a fat slag you wouldn’t touch with a barge pole?"Haha make me laugh | |||
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" We’re all ‘entitled’ to an opinion. Or is that just ‘entitled’ full stop according to you? Oh darling, you block me from messaging you and then continue to behave like an idiot afterwards. As people have suggested on this thread, perhaps you need to develop a thicker skin. You're acting like the people I was primarily speaking about on here! This could be why you feel you're always stuck in the 'friend zone'. Only being polite to women you want to fuck means you don't actually respect women, by the way. Oh please, I wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole. Before slagging men off for the way they treat women, look at your own negative view of men Rude! Also if you wouldn’t touch her with a bargepole why did you message her? Felt sorry for her. Silly me" Oh no... Come on, that's really not on at all.  | |||
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"I've chatted to a couple of guys and even on the phone with one. Was meant to meet today but chat was sparce so didn't really want to meet up with someone who clearly wasn't that interested in me... Not surprised given you have such a negative view of men... wow did she turn you down, get that chip off your shoulder dude, there is only one person you are making look stupid, and it isnt her" If you’re going to dish it out, expect it back | |||
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"I think he's probably heading for a ban at this rate "Oh don’t worry; that won’t be me | |||
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"I think he's probably heading for a ban at this rate
Oh don’t worry; that won’t be me"Did you message her? | |||
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"I've chatted to a couple of guys and even on the phone with one. Was meant to meet today but chat was sparce so didn't really want to meet up with someone who clearly wasn't that interested in me... Not surprised given you have such a negative view of men... wow did she turn you down, get that chip off your shoulder dude, there is only one person you are making look stupid, and it isnt her If you’re going to dish it out, expect it back" what are you, 12? | |||
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"I've chatted to a couple of guys and even on the phone with one. Was meant to meet today but chat was sparce so didn't really want to meet up with someone who clearly wasn't that interested in me... Not surprised given you have such a negative view of men... wow did she turn you down, get that chip off your shoulder dude, there is only one person you are making look stupid, and it isnt her If you’re going to dish it out, expect it back what are you, 12?" | |||
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"I think he's probably heading for a ban at this rate "We can only hope. Hes one of.the exact reasons this site is going to the dogs but hes the victim in this story right? | |||
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"What were you expecting on a swinging sex site?" Less of the "meet up for a fuck now" and more of the Liberal minded chat and see how it goes sort of thing. Less abuse and more fun. Y'know? | |||
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"Let's end this yeah. Agree to disagree. Move on" I offered that first up, still got the abuse | |||
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"What were you expecting on a swinging sex site? Less of the "meet up for a fuck now" and more of the Liberal minded chat and see how it goes sort of thing. Less abuse and more fun. Y'know?" | |||
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"I think he's probably heading for a ban at this rate
Oh don’t worry; that won’t be me
Did you message her? "Yes, naively thinking we actually agreed about how this site can go sometimes, and got a load of ‘entitled’ crap thrown at me | |||
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"Let's end this yeah. Agree to disagree. Move on I offered that first up, still got the abuse" Again, where did I abuse you? | |||
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"Sadly, there are idiots everywhere. There are also many truly lovely folk here, too. You can afford to be picky, so park the wankers to one side and don't give up!" Good advice. Well and truly parked her | |||
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"I do filter and block but even that doesn't stop the dickheads slipping through. I think I'll stick to the forums for a while I reckon! " Good idea
Yea I'm getting to have enough of the rude & crude 1st msgs & 1 sentence ones & 1 liners
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"I think he's probably heading for a ban at this rate
Oh don’t worry; that won’t be me
Did you message her?
Yes, naively thinking we actually agreed about how this site can go sometimes, and got a load of ‘entitled’ crap thrown at me"Neither of you should really discuss private messages. You’ll both get a ban | |||
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"I think he's probably heading for a ban at this rate
Oh don’t worry; that won’t be me
Did you message her?
Yes, naively thinking we actually agreed about how this site can go sometimes, and got a load of ‘entitled’ crap thrown at me
Neither of you should really discuss private messages. You’ll both get a ban
"Let her, I don’t care. I’ll be leaving this place soon anyway. Doesn’t bother me | |||
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"Let's end this yeah. Agree to disagree. Move on I offered that first up, still got the abuse" But obvs you need to flex your opinions and keep having the last word. And acting like a true gentleman | |||
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"After a year or so it becomes amusing. Oh, and there are dickheads on the forum to, so beware of someone or other bearing gifts- or whatever the saying is "Greeks? | |||
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"I empathise with people who have been treated without respect, male and female. In all fairness I am not sure if it helps to wash the dirty linen between two people on the forum though? In the nice possible way, I would suggest to block whoever is upsetting and move on.xx" I did block her - that’s why she put it out there on here | |||
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"What were you expecting on a swinging sex site? Less of the "meet up for a fuck now" and more of the Liberal minded chat and see how it goes sort of thing. Less abuse and more fun. Y'know?" That's how we operate. Social.first, everything else second and that's how all the real swingers do it in our opinion (who you'll find at socials and clubs when normal service resumes). | |||
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"If you had already experienced tinder then why did you think it was going to be any different on another online dating/swingers site? As others have said, block everybody from contacting you and forge your own communication with people who are respectful and polite. " | |||
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"I think he's probably heading for a ban at this rate
Oh don’t worry; that won’t be me
Did you message her?
Yes, naively thinking we actually agreed about how this site can go sometimes, and got a load of ‘entitled’ crap thrown at me
Neither of you should really discuss private messages. You’ll both get a ban
Let her, I don’t care. I’ll be leaving this place soon anyway. Doesn’t bother me"dont let the door hit you on the way out, im already crying with sadness at you going | |||
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"I empathise with people who have been treated without respect, male and female. In all fairness I am not sure if it helps to wash the dirty linen between two people on the forum though? In the nice possible way, I would suggest to block whoever is upsetting and move on.xx I did block her - that’s why she put it out there on here "But the evidence is here that you brought your issues into this thread... you blocked me but then started a fight here... Give your head a wobble mate. The conversation was civil, you took things the wrong way... I even said I wasn't being mean to you with what I was saying, it's just the way it is... then you replied and blocked me which was surprising as there wasn't any malice in what was said. Don't come and ruin my thread because you don't like somebody offering a different way of looking at things | |||
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"What were you expecting on a swinging sex site? Less of the "meet up for a fuck now" and more of the Liberal minded chat and see how it goes sort of thing. Less abuse and more fun. Y'know? That's how we operate. Social.first, everything else second and that's how all the real swingers do it in our opinion (who you'll find at socials and clubs when normal service resumes)." Yeah, I think I was hoping for more of that. As others have said, it's going to be better once the clubs are open properly again! | |||
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"If you had already experienced tinder then why did you think it was going to be any different on another online dating/swingers site? As others have said, block everybody from contacting you and forge your own communication with people who are respectful and polite. " Because swinging isn't just about meeting up for a fuck... as a few people have said throughout this. Tinder isn't a swinging site. Tinder is a dating app that people have hijacked for hooking up. | |||
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"For me tinder is a much nicer place Really, wow... thats sad to hear. I was honestly expecting it to be different! " fab can be brutal. I'm on here for the forums... I tend to only meet through clubs when they are open. Gives a much nicer overall experience x | |||
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"For me tinder is a much nicer place Really, wow... thats sad to hear. I was honestly expecting it to be different! fab can be brutal. I'm on here for the forums... I tend to only meet through clubs when they are open. Gives a much nicer overall experience x" Yeah, thats what I'm hearing. Think I'll probably take this route too! | |||
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" We’re all ‘entitled’ to an opinion. Or is that just ‘entitled’ full stop according to you? Oh darling, you block me from messaging you and then continue to behave like an idiot afterwards. As people have suggested on this thread, perhaps you need to develop a thicker skin. You're acting like the people I was primarily speaking about on here! This could be why you feel you're always stuck in the 'friend zone'. Only being polite to women you want to fuck means you don't actually respect women, by the way. Oh please, I wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole. Before slagging men off for the way they treat women, look at your own negative view of men . Are we at school? Are you one of the ones that thinks someone’s stunning then when she politely says no she becomes a fat slag you wouldn’t touch with a barge pole?"Of course he is! | |||
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"Now now, kids....play nice or i shall be forced to dish out some smacky leggies and sent to bed without any dinner! "I'll take two | |||
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" We’re all ‘entitled’ to an opinion. Or is that just ‘entitled’ full stop according to you? Oh darling, you block me from messaging you and then continue to behave like an idiot afterwards. As people have suggested on this thread, perhaps you need to develop a thicker skin. You're acting like the people I was primarily speaking about on here! This could be why you feel you're always stuck in the 'friend zone'. Only being polite to women you want to fuck means you don't actually respect women, by the way. Oh please, I wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole. Before slagging men off for the way they treat women, look at your own negative view of men Rude! Also if you wouldn’t touch her with a bargepole why did you message her? Felt sorry for her. Silly me" Mate you’re from South Wales, represent and stop making us look bad. Saying shit like you only messaged her because you felt sorry for her makes you look like the dick for dropping your standards in the first place. Also makes you look bitter. Now why she said about there being no such thing as the friend zone is bollocks, there is a friend zone that very much exists, so don’t think I’m being mean to men and nice to the single woman cos that’s not how I roll. I don’t give a fuck for anyone. | |||
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Is that a promise?? "You've pulled a right one, haven't you!!  | |||
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" We’re all ‘entitled’ to an opinion. Or is that just ‘entitled’ full stop according to you? Oh darling, you block me from messaging you and then continue to behave like an idiot afterwards. As people have suggested on this thread, perhaps you need to develop a thicker skin. You're acting like the people I was primarily speaking about on here! This could be why you feel you're always stuck in the 'friend zone'. Only being polite to women you want to fuck means you don't actually respect women, by the way. Oh please, I wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole. Before slagging men off for the way they treat women, look at your own negative view of men Rude! Also if you wouldn’t touch her with a bargepole why did you message her? Felt sorry for her. Silly me Mate you’re from South Wales, represent and stop making us look bad. Saying shit like you only messaged her because you felt sorry for her makes you look like the dick for dropping your standards in the first place. Also makes you look bitter. Now why she said about there being no such thing as the friend zone is bollocks, there is a friend zone that very much exists, so don’t think I’m being mean to men and nice to the single woman cos that’s not how I roll. I don’t give a fuck for anyone. " Haha that's fair. I don't believe the friend zone exists because I think it was "made up" by nice guys who think that if they're nice to a woman then they're owed something in return... usually sex or a relationship. I think people can and should be nice just because they're nice people, not because they're getting something out of it! | |||
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"Now now, kids....play nice or i shall be forced to dish out some smacky leggies and sent to bed without any dinner!
Is that a promise??
You've pulled a right one, haven't you!! "I just want smacky legs now it's been mentioned | |||
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" We’re all ‘entitled’ to an opinion. Or is that just ‘entitled’ full stop according to you? Oh darling, you block me from messaging you and then continue to behave like an idiot afterwards. As people have suggested on this thread, perhaps you need to develop a thicker skin. You're acting like the people I was primarily speaking about on here! This could be why you feel you're always stuck in the 'friend zone'. Only being polite to women you want to fuck means you don't actually respect women, by the way. Oh please, I wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole. Before slagging men off for the way they treat women, look at your own negative view of men Rude! Also if you wouldn’t touch her with a bargepole why did you message her? Felt sorry for her. Silly me Mate you’re from South Wales, represent and stop making us look bad. Saying shit like you only messaged her because you felt sorry for her makes you look like the dick for dropping your standards in the first place. Also makes you look bitter. Now why she said about there being no such thing as the friend zone is bollocks, there is a friend zone that very much exists, so don’t think I’m being mean to men and nice to the single woman cos that’s not how I roll. I don’t give a fuck for anyone. Haha that's fair. I don't believe the friend zone exists because I think it was "made up" by nice guys who think that if they're nice to a woman then they're owed something in return... usually sex or a relationship. I think people can and should be nice just because they're nice people, not because they're getting something out of it! " That subject kind of needs a whole thread of it’s own, do it, I’ve started loads of threads today, fuck it I’ll do it now. Get involved! But honestly don’t worry about guys on here, don’t take anything to heart or let it ruin your experience. | |||
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" We’re all ‘entitled’ to an opinion. Or is that just ‘entitled’ full stop according to you? Oh darling, you block me from messaging you and then continue to behave like an idiot afterwards. As people have suggested on this thread, perhaps you need to develop a thicker skin. You're acting like the people I was primarily speaking about on here! This could be why you feel you're always stuck in the 'friend zone'. Only being polite to women you want to fuck means you don't actually respect women, by the way. Oh please, I wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole. Before slagging men off for the way they treat women, look at your own negative view of men Rude! Also if you wouldn’t touch her with a bargepole why did you message her? Felt sorry for her. Silly me Mate you’re from South Wales, represent and stop making us look bad. Saying shit like you only messaged her because you felt sorry for her makes you look like the dick for dropping your standards in the first place. Also makes you look bitter. Now why she said about there being no such thing as the friend zone is bollocks, there is a friend zone that very much exists, so don’t think I’m being mean to men and nice to the single woman cos that’s not how I roll. I don’t give a fuck for anyone. Haha that's fair. I don't believe the friend zone exists because I think it was "made up" by nice guys who think that if they're nice to a woman then they're owed something in return... usually sex or a relationship. I think people can and should be nice just because they're nice people, not because they're getting something out of it! That subject kind of needs a whole thread of it’s own, do it, I’ve started loads of threads today, fuck it I’ll do it now. Get involved! But honestly don’t worry about guys on here, don’t take anything to heart or let it ruin your experience. " See you on there! And thank you, this thread has proved there's lots of lovely folk on the forums x | |||
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"I empathise with people who have been treated without respect, male and female. In all fairness I am not sure if it helps to wash the dirty linen between two people on the forum though? In the nice possible way, I would suggest to block whoever is upsetting and move on.xx I did block her - that’s why she put it out there on here
But the evidence is here that you brought your issues into this thread... you blocked me but then started a fight here...
Give your head a wobble mate.
The conversation was civil, you took things the wrong way... I even said I wasn't being mean to you with what I was saying, it's just the way it is... then you replied and blocked me which was surprising as there wasn't any malice in what was said.
Don't come and ruin my thread because you don't like somebody offering a different way of looking at things
Don’t do the same in my inbox then please. We disagreed, move on. Don’t start with your ‘entitled’ crap when you know nothing about me and other guys on here. I didn’t judge you or all women so don’t do the same to me or all guys. Maybe when your view of men changes you might actually answer your own original post. Like I said, I emphasised agree to disagree but that wasn’t acceptable to you. Just move on "Take your differences and childish squabbles to a private chat or block each other! Don’t involve everyone else in your playground spat  | |||
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"I empathise with people who have been treated without respect, male and female. In all fairness I am not sure if it helps to wash the dirty linen between two people on the forum though? In the nice possible way, I would suggest to block whoever is upsetting and move on.xx I did block her - that’s why she put it out there on here
But the evidence is here that you brought your issues into this thread... you blocked me but then started a fight here...
Give your head a wobble mate.
The conversation was civil, you took things the wrong way... I even said I wasn't being mean to you with what I was saying, it's just the way it is... then you replied and blocked me which was surprising as there wasn't any malice in what was said.
Don't come and ruin my thread because you don't like somebody offering a different way of looking at things
Don’t do the same in my inbox then please. We disagreed, move on. Don’t start with your ‘entitled’ crap when you know nothing about me and other guys on here. I didn’t judge you or all women so don’t do the same to me or all guys. Maybe when your view of men changes you might actually answer your own original post. Like I said, I emphasised agree to disagree but that wasn’t acceptable to you. Just move on
Take your differences and childish squabbles to a private chat or block each other! Don’t involve everyone else in your playground spat "You involved yourself? You didn't have to come in here or post a comment? | |||
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"I think he's probably heading for a ban at this rate
Oh don’t worry; that won’t be me
Did you message her?
Yes, naively thinking we actually agreed about how this site can go sometimes, and got a load of ‘entitled’ crap thrown at me
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