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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
I'm 37 and I never have, and I don't plan on doing so.
I don't consider it sad, and even if it is, eh fuck it. It is my way of doing things and I'm not going to change it for such a piss poor prefer pressure reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Outside of fab I havent either.
I always put it down to not having a face for pulling randoms 
Hope this thread has made you realise it is ok not to have had ONS OP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see how it's sad not to have had one. I had a couple when I was younger and it was not great, but then I need connection to have satisfactory sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven’t had one nor any ‘casual’ sex lasting a little more than one night.
All were my girlfriends lasting at least 4 years.
I haven’t even kissed someone who wasn’t my girlfriend in a long term relationship.
How are you looking now, OP. Not quite as sad, right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven’t even kissed someone who wasn’t my girlfriend in a long term relationship
I have done that. I'm not completely sad "
You’re smiling far too much nowadays. What happened to the real P6545???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven’t even kissed someone who wasn’t my girlfriend in a long term relationship
I have done that. I'm not completely sad
You’re smiling far too much nowadays. What happened to the real P6545??? "
He's in the basement  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven’t even kissed someone who wasn’t my girlfriend in a long term relationship
I have done that. I'm not completely sad
You’re smiling far too much nowadays. What happened to the real P6545???
He's in the basement "
Is he in a pod or merely shackled?  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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I had several before joining fab. Looking back it seemed enjoyable at the time to scratch an itch but don't consider it to be the type of thing to engage in frequently even if the opportunities are there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven’t even kissed someone who wasn’t my girlfriend in a long term relationship
I have done that. I'm not completely sad
You’re smiling far too much nowadays. What happened to the real P6545???
He's in the basement
Is he in a pod or merely shackled? "
A small wooden box. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I haven’t even kissed someone who wasn’t my girlfriend in a long term relationship
I have done that. I'm not completely sad
You’re smiling far too much nowadays. What happened to the real P6545???
He's in the basement
Is he in a pod or merely shackled?
A small wooden box."
Did he bring the soil from his native land? I’m seeing things a little more clearly now. |
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No its not sad at all x
People have different lifestyles and wants out of their sexual needs x
Oh and yes I have In the past and intend on doing so in the future, as distance often means one night pleasure playtimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't make you sad. I had a few in my early 20's and ill be honest had them cause I had no self worth, did I enjoy them, I enjoyed the intimacy, usually got the guy off quick enough.
I've since learned from joining here that sex is supposed to be enjoyed, I prefer sex with someone I'm attracted to and get to know what makes them tick, what turns them on, what makes them weak at the knees.
Than again if Tom Hardy or Daniel Craig offered me a hot one night stand I wouldn't say no.
Ive never cum or orgasmed with a guy or on my own it doesn't make me sad |
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By *d2k14Man
over a year ago
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Not sad at all. Lots of people haven't. I've has a few over the years - in fact way more so than actual serious relationships so you could argue that's sad! One nighters are pot luck, some were amazing and others weren't that good. It's horses for courses as they say. I guess in the current climate and how meeting people has changed they will probably be much less common now. |
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No, it's not sad...nobody on the planet has experienced every single thing there is to experience. I've had one night stands when I was younger...they were fun, but it's not something that I would do nowadays. |
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When I was younger yes I had one night stands. I reached a point where there has to be an intellectual connection, chemistry and physical attraction. Not to say that I won't find that for a one night stand it's just less likely.
As I am in a new city for the next few days, meeting new friends this view may go on temporary pause
Ultimately for me one night stands depends on how I want to respect myself at any given time. It's my body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never had a ONS either. I'm only 27 so I guess there is still plenty of time but it's not something that hugely appeals to me. I do like the idea of it as a fantasy, but in reality I much prefer something more meaningful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s not sad at all.
I got through a few in my 20s and they were fun, but I wouldn’t say you’ve missed out as such; if you didn’t have any, there’s probably a good reason why….they’re not everyone’s thing, maybe subconsciously you never put yourself in the right place for it? |
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In my youth a few times. Thats kind of how it was, go out down town, have a good night with you mates and meet women. Next week the same. Plus in my job at the time I would travel a lot and end up drinking and flirting in different parts of the country/world. It was fun flirting with women from different places. Plus I think when you only visiting a place this helps for a one night stand for both parties. Because its a limited opportunity (now or never), there's something fun about someone from somewhere else and you both know you'll be out of each others lives in the next couple of days nice and clean (especially if they have complications where they would want people around them to know about it). Then in my early 20s I got married to my ex wife and that was then end of it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes xx would you like to elaborate Jessica
Oh god, I've had loads  xx from some of your forum posts, that is actually one of your preferences though isn't it"
I like a mix tbh, but I've got no problem with one offs, they're great fun and I like the thrill of getting my hands on someone new xx |
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Best thing ever. Going out with the lads, having drinks, meeting a girl, more drinks and a laugh and then back somewhere together for sex all night. Hands down best times/nights of my life have been one night stands, even better when on a hot and sunny lads holiday!!  |
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It's not sad not to have had any outside of clubs and it's not sad to have had loads either
Both of us had loads in our youth and in swinging.
I don't see the difference between a one night stand in a swinger's club or anywhere else.
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We were discussing this after reading this thread
We used have a lot of ons before we knew each other. We'd spend an evening with a group of people probably chatting to one in particular, exchanging banter, flirting, then go home with them. We might date them for a bit or never see them again or in our case still be together 40 years later.
It's just sex, an enjoyable way of getting to know someone a bit better for an hour or two or a lifetime. |
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"I can’t remember most of them until I walk past someone in the street and it memories flood back. No regrets we can only change what is in the future."
Exactly and I don't know why anybody would regret an hour or two spent in someone's company |
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