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Am I a prude or does anyone else find it a massive turn off?
Fave or body picture - yes.
Dick pic - rather not bur I'm not going to shit the bed about it.
But balls deep in a woman's arse or forcing a woman's head down onto your cock? It's a massive no from me.
It's crude and smacks of a porn style "Look Ma, no hands!" Yeah I get it, you've had sex before, allow me to swoon in the presence of your virility. |
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over a year ago
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"Am I a prude or does anyone else find it a massive turn off?
Fave or body picture - yes.
Dick pic - rather not bur I'm not going to shit the bed about it.
But balls deep in a woman's arse or forcing a woman's head down onto your cock? It's a massive no from me.
It's crude and smacks of a porn style "Look Ma, no hands!" Yeah I get it, you've had sex before, allow me to swoon in the presence of your virility."
I agree totally, I'd rather see the goods, and not how its being used  |
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"Am I a prude or does anyone else find it a massive turn off?
Fave or body picture - yes.
Dick pic - rather not bur I'm not going to shit the bed about it.
But balls deep in a woman's arse or forcing a woman's head down onto your cock? It's a massive no from me.
It's crude and smacks of a porn style "Look Ma, no hands!" Yeah I get it, you've had sex before, allow me to swoon in the presence of your virility."
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Not for me at all. I wouldn't say I get offended by it, but I do think "do ya mind?! If I wanted to see people engaging, I'd watch some porn or look at pictures I chose to look at"
Don't assume I wanna see it.
If it's a couple, okay cool whatever. When it ain't, why the fuck do I wanna see someone who has nothing to do with anything? |
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To be honest, I never want to see them. We've all had sex, why would I want to see past sexual partners? Sometimes, though not always, it makes me wonder if the other person has given their consent for the image to be shared on here. |
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I prefer my butler to proffer a ladies card from a silver tray, then one can consult ones calendar and arrange a suitable luncheon date.
Should said lady allow me a glimpse of ankle, I know my luck is in. |
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In the first message that’s a massive no no from me… However, I’ve seen a similar post of this nature with people berating single men for having action shots on their profile… how comes nobody gets into any hooha when single women have them on their profile?? Just asking out of curiousity…. |
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"To be honest, I never want to see them. We've all had sex, why would I want to see past sexual partners? Sometimes, though not always, it makes me wonder if the other person has given their consent for the image to be shared on here."
I do wonder with some accounts - clearly different partners in action shot selfies. I've certainly questioned the consent, or lack of. |
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"Not for me at all. I wouldn't say I get offended by it, but I do think "do ya mind?! If I wanted to see people engaging, I'd watch some porn or look at pictures I chose to look at"
Don't assume I wanna see it.
If it's a couple, okay cool whatever. When it ain't, why the fuck do I wanna see someone who has nothing to do with anything?"
Pretty much exactly how I feel. Not really sure what the thinking is behind it, other than a supposed display of virility. |
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over a year ago
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Yeah I’m not a fan, we get it ladies, you can take him balls deep, I’d rather you try to entice with your brain not your dick taking ability, send me a photo of your IQ score. |
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"Not for me at all. I wouldn't say I get offended by it, but I do think "do ya mind?! If I wanted to see people engaging, I'd watch some porn or look at pictures I chose to look at"
Don't assume I wanna see it.
If it's a couple, okay cool whatever. When it ain't, why the fuck do I wanna see someone who has nothing to do with anything?
Pretty much exactly how I feel. Not really sure what the thinking is behind it, other than a supposed display of virility."
You know what though, if they were well taken, thought out pictures that showed sensuality or personality, or something that made me think "now that's a fine picture" I would probably feel differently as my head would perceive it as art as the focus is on the content as a finished article. But no.
That's FAR from the case. |
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"Not for me at all. I wouldn't say I get offended by it, but I do think "do ya mind?! If I wanted to see people engaging, I'd watch some porn or look at pictures I chose to look at"
Don't assume I wanna see it.
If it's a couple, okay cool whatever. When it ain't, why the fuck do I wanna see someone who has nothing to do with anything?"
. Instant delete for me. Don’t understand why people do it. |
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"Not for me at all. I wouldn't say I get offended by it, but I do think "do ya mind?! If I wanted to see people engaging, I'd watch some porn or look at pictures I chose to look at"
Don't assume I wanna see it.
If it's a couple, okay cool whatever. When it ain't, why the fuck do I wanna see someone who has nothing to do with anything?
Pretty much exactly how I feel. Not really sure what the thinking is behind it, other than a supposed display of virility.
You know what though, if they were well taken, thought out pictures that showed sensuality or personality, or something that made me think "now that's a fine picture" I would probably feel differently as my head would perceive it as art as the focus is on the content as a finished article. But no.
That's FAR from the case."
I've seen a couple that were nice. Missionary position and only upper body included, exciding heads. His arm and chest muscles were popping and I appreciated it as a visual but also as something I could imagine wanting to experience myself.
The ones I get sent are just crass. |
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"Absolutely with you
Though admittedly there are a few action shots on our profile though not particularly crude 
Jo x"
Yes, but you're a couple and your action shots show part of your partnership, not some random nobody will have any involvement with. And you don't send them in a first message.
I have some action shots on mine too. They're ones that I look at and think "I'd have that on my wall" not just smash pics.
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over a year ago
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Absolute no for me….I feel the men approach us with a mans frame of mind, make profiles that appeals to men and not women….can’t stand the action shots x |
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"Absolute no for me….I feel the men approach us with a mans frame of mind, make profiles that appeals to men and not women….can’t stand the action shots x"
Maybe this is where I'm going wrong - writing my profile with a woman's frame of mind.
*makes note to edit to remove most text and add splayed vag and sucking cock photos* |
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"Absolute no for me….I feel the men approach us with a mans frame of mind, make profiles that appeals to men and not women….can’t stand the action shots x
Maybe this is where I'm going wrong - writing my profile with a woman's frame of mind.
*makes note to edit to remove most text and add splayed vag and sucking cock photos*"
Can't wait. |
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I wish some single guys would read some of these forums threads. They might learn a thing or two about what appeals to us ladies on here 
I’m totally with you OP. I don’t quite understand the thinking and I query if all the women have given consent and if they know their bits are being sent to goodness knows how many others.
This tack might work with some but it’s a delete from me. |
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How naive must they be to think that women would swoon over that. I don't know what I'd find more disappointing; them thinking it would impress women, or that it has impressed women which is why they do it  |
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I've said for years, explicit photos are a double edged sword, some people want proof, while others despise them. As an experiment, I took mine down, and put them in private gallery, then I replaced the public ones with edited face photos, and private parts covered. I can't say that I've had any more, or any less contact or enquiries. That leads me to believe that it's what you say in your profile, and the feedback you get form other sites users in the form of verifications that determines the response that you get, and not what pictures you have on display. |
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I have a ton of action pics… sadly the action is gardening, painting, drinking & I do agree sending pics balls deep in someone else isn’t going to make the object of your desire feel very special. |
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To reiterate? I'm not taking about profiles (although nor a fan of them there either...) I'm talking about that first message - "Hello, my name is xxxxxxxx, here's me up to my guts in a couple of random women". |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"To reiterate? I'm not taking about profiles (although nor a fan of them there either...) I'm talking about that first message - "Hello, my name is xxxxxxxx, here's me up to my guts in a couple of random women"."
And they say romance is dead.  |
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