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Into the psyche of a dejected male…
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By *lla_east OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”. 
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just pointing out that you can be both a stupid cunt and a goddess. Neither is contradictory to the other.
Not saying you are. Just saying  "
Ice. Thin. |
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
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This is why I now delete and block now if I’m not interested. Much less hassle. I don’t even answer x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just pointing out that you can be both a stupid cunt and a goddess. Neither is contradictory to the other.
Not saying you are. Just saying
Ice. Thin.
I like to live dangerously"
Yup... glad you do, sweetheart!!
And the blue touch paper has been lit....!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just an ego thing, when you dent someone's, their instant reaction is to lash out. They want to make you feel as small as they did.
Just block, move on and don't worry about it OP  |
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By *lla_east OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
This is why I now delete and block now if I’m not interested. Much less hassle. I don’t even answer x"
I think I’m going to resort back to this. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Liverpool |
Oh, are we on this one again?
Women folk, we get it. Some of the men folk are utter arseholes to you, especially after you reject them.
Men folk, we get it. You can't get meets and you think the women folk are stuck up!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
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Think most women on here at one stage has had one of those reply.
I usually get
Fat cxxt
Who would feck you, you fat whale
Etc
I just block and move on now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh, are we on this one again?
Women folk, we get it. Some of the men folk are utter arseholes to you, especially after you reject them.
Men folk, we get it. You can't get meets and you think the women folk are stuck up!
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Yep, we get daily “why can’t I get a meet” threads from the men and daily “the men on here are cunts” threads from the ladies.
Maybe admin can just pin a couple of threads to the top of the forum and remove the 175 limit and let everyone fill their boots? |
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By *lla_east OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Oh, are we on this one again?
Women folk, we get it. Some of the men folk are utter arseholes to you, especially after you reject them.
Men folk, we get it. You can't get meets and you think the women folk are stuck up!
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Ah, I don’t live and breathe fab forums so I didn’t realise my personal experience was such old news. Next time I’ll ensure to read through all past forum pages in existence to ensure we don’t cover the same topic again.
Please accept my sincere apologies. Maybe I am a stupid c*nt after all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh, are we on this one again?
Women folk, we get it. Some of the men folk are utter arseholes to you, especially after you reject them.
Men folk, we get it. You can't get meets and you think the women folk are stuck up!
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Just cause you’ve read it many times before, doesn’t mean the OP knows what it’s like for women on here with regards to some messages and she has every right to vent. |
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"Oh, are we on this one again?
Women folk, we get it. Some of the men folk are utter arseholes to you, especially after you reject them.
Men folk, we get it. You can't get meets and you think the women folk are stuck up!
Ah, I don’t live and breathe fab forums so I didn’t realise my personal experience was such old news. Next time I’ll ensure to read through all past forum pages in existence to ensure we don’t cover the same topic again.
Please accept my sincere apologies. Maybe I am a stupid c*nt after all! "
Take no notice. People often do this when new people post things from the forum. Post what you want |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before "
True |
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before
True "
What do you suggest the site does then? |
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
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I am still to get anything other than thanks for the reply. But i am sorry you have met some assholes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It actually pisses me right off when I hear about females who are subjected to abuse after rejecting advances from random men.
As much as that abuse is absolutely horrible, please remember that it is not a reflection on you but says everything you need to know about the guy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before "
Is there not a difference between man bashing and calling out bad behaviour? |
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before "
I really will never understand why men get upset about threads like this.
If you're not the kind of man who would behave like this, you're not being attacked or criticised.
There's no need to attach yourself so firmly to the category of 'man' that you get upset whenever anyone talks about men behaving badly. |
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before
I really will never understand why men get upset about threads like this.
If you're not the kind of man who would behave like this, you're not being attacked or criticised.
There's no need to attach yourself so firmly to the category of 'man' that you get upset whenever anyone talks about men behaving badly. "
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By *lla_east OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"Oh, are we on this one again?
Women folk, we get it. Some of the men folk are utter arseholes to you, especially after you reject them.
Men folk, we get it. You can't get meets and you think the women folk are stuck up!
Ah, I don’t live and breathe fab forums so I didn’t realise my personal experience was such old news. Next time I’ll ensure to read through all past forum pages in existence to ensure we don’t cover the same topic again.
Please accept my sincere apologies. Maybe I am a stupid c*nt after all!
Take no notice. People often do this when new people post things from the forum. Post what you want "
Thanks. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t! X  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before "
How is it man bashing? She hasn’t said ‘every man I’ve said no thanks to called me a stupid c unt’
She’s telling us about her experience with one.
Should she just be quiet and accept it? She has every right to post on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We sent a polite no thank you not for us and got reported for sending an abusive message admin obviously didn’t look into the allegation just sent us a message saying what we’d done was wrong and against policy’s |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before
I really will never understand why men get upset about threads like this.
If you're not the kind of man who would behave like this, you're not being attacked or criticised.
There's no need to attach yourself so firmly to the category of 'man' that you get upset whenever anyone talks about men behaving badly. "
It’s truly bizarre, why some men take threads like this so personally. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before "
What can the site do to protect us from abusive messages? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before
How is it man bashing? She hasn’t said ‘every man I’ve said no thanks to called me a stupid c unt’
She’s telling us about her experience with one.
Should she just be quiet and accept it? She has every right to post on here "
And I get tired of the 'just block them' suggestion. Unfortunately it is the only option but its addressing the symptom not the illness. |
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By *lla_east OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"It actually pisses me right off when I hear about females who are subjected to abuse after rejecting advances from random men.
As much as that abuse is absolutely horrible, please remember that it is not a reflection on you but says everything you need to know about the guy.
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Thanks for your reply. As mentioned, a few times since I’ve visited this forum I’ve noticed men pleading a response, they should know it’s often not personal at all, instead just a cautionary measure to avoid ^this^ kind of situation. |
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before "
Its not all men of course. And of course there are also horrible women and couples. But some women are damned if they don't respond and damned if they do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before
True
What do you suggest the site does then?"
Everyone who joins pays so no one can send a free message then hide |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think we've all been through that. As Nora said, it's one of the reasons a lot of messages get deleted rather than having the conversation."
I get this all the time. “Limp dick, no Good loser!” Is the usual retort when I reject their advances. Meh. When I say @all the time” I obviously mean never. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
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Welcome to are world ha
don’t get to worked up
sure look at you just move on to shifting throw the other 100 dudes on here that would do anything to crack on to you !
Move on 2 mins you be chatting to someone that has a fully functioning brain |
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before
True
What do you suggest the site does then?
Everyone who joins pays so no one can send a free message then hide"
Most are site supporters so doesn’t matter.
I just ignore and delete, and give it no second thought. Simplest way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before
How is it man bashing? She hasn’t said ‘every man I’ve said no thanks to called me a stupid c unt’
She’s telling us about her experience with one.
Should she just be quiet and accept it? She has every right to post on here "
I fully support the notion to call anyone a “cunt” who is abusive after a polite rejection. Man or woman. Just no need! Show some love and make friends  |
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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago
Nottingham |
"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
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He got one thing right anyway. Goddess is a fair assessment |
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Could you imagine if this was played out in the real world and a bloke reverts to type when he is rejected, he would get something of a severe talking to by other blokes.
They are keyboard warriors and chancers at best and as others have said, it means you dodged a bullet anyway. It seems a no-win situation for a lot of women, so blocking is the best advice when not interested in someone. |
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By *lla_east OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
Welcome to are world ha
don’t get to worked up
sure look at you just move on to shifting throw the other 100 dudes on here that would do anything to crack on to you !
Move on 2 mins you be chatting to someone that has a fully functioning brain "
It makes me laugh now more than anything, maybe because I am a c*nt. But I’d love a day in their shoes, I wonder how they feel afterward. Surely you can’t feel fantastic about yourself after hurling abuse at a stranger… I wonder… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It actually pisses me right off when I hear about females who are subjected to abuse after rejecting advances from random men.
As much as that abuse is absolutely horrible, please remember that it is not a reflection on you but says everything you need to know about the guy.
Thanks for your reply. As mentioned, a few times since I’ve visited this forum I’ve noticed men pleading a response, they should know it’s often not personal at all, instead just a cautionary measure to avoid ^this^ kind of situation. "
YW.
Most decent folk realise that women have a ridiculous amount of Mail and that a response isn't always guaranteed.
Their responses should serve as a relief that you've managed to out some pond life without too much effort. Lol |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
As a single male, I am really sorry you have had to go through that experience.
It doesn't exactly shine the best possible light on the single males.
But there is no reason you have to put up with someone being rude or abusive because you have rejected them.
Yes as a single male I do sometimes become dejected by the either the lack of or frequency of a negative reply, but I would never lower myself to being abusive.
Best thing to do is not respond in the first place if you are not interested, doesn't stop their ego from being bruised, but stops you getting any more abuse, if it continues, use the block button |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before "
How can they stop abuse before it happens !
It’s fabs probably every one of us has a similar story about some lunatic talking madness !!
I really don’t think twice but I get some people take it differently !
I just raise there crazy talk and there the ones who end up blocking me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
Welcome to are world ha
don’t get to worked up
sure look at you just move on to shifting throw the other 100 dudes on here that would do anything to crack on to you !
Move on 2 mins you be chatting to someone that has a fully functioning brain
It makes me laugh now more than anything, maybe because I am a c*nt. But I’d love a day in their shoes, I wonder how they feel afterward. Surely you can’t feel fantastic about yourself after hurling abuse at a stranger… I wonder… "
Yeah you do !
Only if they start throwing abuse at you ! Hate bullying on here got banned twice for sticking up for people on the threads but they definitely knew what it felt like to get bullied for once |
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By *lla_east OP Woman
over a year ago
Manchester |
"As a single male, I am really sorry you have had to go through that experience.
It doesn't exactly shine the best possible light on the single males.
But there is no reason you have to put up with someone being rude or abusive because you have rejected them.
Yes as a single male I do sometimes become dejected by the either the lack of or frequency of a negative reply, but I would never lower myself to being abusive.
Best thing to do is not respond in the first place if you are not interested, doesn't stop their ego from being bruised, but stops you getting any more abuse, if it continues, use the block button"
Thanks! It was the first time in a while I bothered with the response, I’m going back to blanking, it’s safer that way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
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I never understand the mentality of being aggressive after a rejection.
Sure a little deflated and disheartened. I always bid a rejected reply with a positive have fun times and move on.
Kinda shows peoples true colours when they are rejected? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single male, I am really sorry you have had to go through that experience.
It doesn't exactly shine the best possible light on the single males.
But there is no reason you have to put up with someone being rude or abusive because you have rejected them.
Yes as a single male I do sometimes become dejected by the either the lack of or frequency of a negative reply, but I would never lower myself to being abusive.
Best thing to do is not respond in the first place if you are not interested, doesn't stop their ego from being bruised, but stops you getting any more abuse, if it continues, use the block button
Thanks! It was the first time in a while I bothered with the response, I’m going back to blanking, it’s safer that way "
They all say that ! Till I say hello ! Ha
Scrap that I’m only kidding honestly just lightning the mood ! |
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
This is why I now delete and block now if I’m not interested. Much less hassle. I don’t even answer x"
I wish more people did this. Anything unread or no reply that I’ve sent I just block them now. They’re either too busy to open the message or not interested and it just helps thin out the search results |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
Hey, for what it is worth: there are arseholes in this world. And there are lovely sexy people in this world, too.
For the sake of finding the latter, sometimes we have to encounter the former.
As somebody said earlier on this thread, I really feel that the arsehole variety will have shown their true colours before we consider meeting them - so we never have to face them in real life.
Result!
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By *C7995XCouple
over a year ago
London |
"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
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Nope it’s very common |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No happens alot I go from u are a sexy milf to a I wouldn't touch u! U old hag! x"
Candy that was nearly a year ago now ! I had a few I thought we where past this no ?
Your never gonna let me live that mistake down !
Told you it was the gin talking haha |
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I just don’t reply. Much easier all round
Plus I know guys on here to have similar responses from women/couples when they have turned them down so it’s not just the men that can act like giant cockwombles on here |
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"No happens alot I go from u are a sexy milf to a I wouldn't touch u! U old hag! x
Candy that was nearly a year ago now ! I had a few I thought we where past this no ?
Your never gonna let me live that mistake down !
Told you it was the gin talking haha "
Nope! No forgiveness for u! Pmsl! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No happens alot I go from u are a sexy milf to a I wouldn't touch u! U old hag! x
Candy that was nearly a year ago now ! I had a few I thought we where past this no ?
Your never gonna let me live that mistake down !
Told you it was the gin talking haha
Nope! No forgiveness for u! Pmsl! X"
I’ll buy you that 16 speed you want ? |
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"No happens alot I go from u are a sexy milf to a I wouldn't touch u! U old hag! x
Candy that was nearly a year ago now ! I had a few I thought we where past this no ?
Your never gonna let me live that mistake down !
Told you it was the gin talking haha
Nope! No forgiveness for u! Pmsl! X
I’ll buy you that 16 speed you want ? "
Hmmm and baskets front and back?? x |
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Guys have to remember that just because they think they are gods gift...they just cant be every ladies cup a tea....yes it sinks the ego some what...but how they handle things may cause a woman to think twice...if not move on lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No happens alot I go from u are a sexy milf to a I wouldn't touch u! U old hag! x
Candy that was nearly a year ago now ! I had a few I thought we where past this no ?
Your never gonna let me live that mistake down !
Told you it was the gin talking haha
Nope! No forgiveness for u! Pmsl! X
I’ll buy you that 16 speed you want ?
Hmmm and baskets front and back?? x"
Don’t push it candy ! You can have One basket ! Give you an inch you take a mile !
Fucking Chancer you are |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before
True
What do you suggest the site does then?
Everyone who joins pays so no one can send a free message then hide"
You think making everyone pay to join will stop people sending abusive messages?
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over a year ago
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before
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What do you suggest the site does then?
Everyone who joins pays so no one can send a free message then hide
You think making everyone pay to join will stop people sending abusive messages?
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I think it would act as a deterrent....if you were to go and spit in a stranger's face but someone said I need your name and address first...you would think twice....? I dont have all the answers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before
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What do you suggest the site does then?
Everyone who joins pays so no one can send a free message then hide
You think making everyone pay to join will stop people sending abusive messages?
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I’ll probably get more annoyed if I have to pay more and give people aggressive compliments ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
This is why I now delete and block now if I’m not interested. Much less hassle. I don’t even answer x"
I Do exactly the same! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
This is why I now delete and block now if I’m not interested. Much less hassle. I don’t even answer x
I Do exactly the same! "
So cause this place is obviously rampant with complete knob heads that don’t have the first clue how to treat or talk to a women
we all get painted with that brush ? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before
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What do you suggest the site does then?
Everyone who joins pays so no one can send a free message then hide
You think making everyone pay to join will stop people sending abusive messages?
I think it would act as a deterrent....if you were to go and spit in a stranger's face but someone said I need your name and address first...you would think twice....? I dont have all the answers "
From all I've heard about other sites where payment is required it actually has the opposite effect to being a deterrent - people feel even more entitled *because* they've paid and you get comments like "I've paid good money to join therefore deserve a reply/meet".
There is no answer to the issue other than people accepting rejection gracefully and not getting butt hurt when it happens or using abusive comments to try and deflect blame for their failed approach to the recipient, and while they shouldn't *have* to, the recipients applying filters and using the block button and reporting. |
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"No happens alot I go from u are a sexy milf to a I wouldn't touch u! U old hag! x
Candy that was nearly a year ago now ! I had a few I thought we where past this no ?
Your never gonna let me live that mistake down !
Told you it was the gin talking haha
Nope! No forgiveness for u! Pmsl! X
I’ll buy you that 16 speed you want ?
Hmmm and baskets front and back?? x
Don’t push it candy ! You can have One basket ! Give you an inch you take a mile !
Fucking Chancer you are "
Pmsl! Cant blame me for wanting more than a inch! x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh, are we on this one again?
Women folk, we get it. Some of the men folk are utter arseholes to you, especially after you reject them.
Men folk, we get it. You can't get meets and you think the women folk are stuck up!
Ah, I don’t live and breathe fab forums so I didn’t realise my personal experience was such old news. Next time I’ll ensure to read through all past forum pages in existence to ensure we don’t cover the same topic again.
Please accept my sincere apologies. Maybe I am a stupid c*nt after all!
Take no notice. People often do this when new people post things from the forum. Post what you want
Thanks. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t! X "
Pretty much sums it up! Let's be honest, pretty much every new post on here is a repeat of ones that have gone before; but we like the debate, the laugh, the support, so keep em coming otherwise there'd be none and we'd all have to go start arguments in the virus forum instead!
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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It has happened to me before it doesn't bother me just proved I made the right choice to start with.
I've also seen where women have gotten just as abusive to men when they have been told no thanks so it's not just men who do it .
I don't understand why people get upset over the abuse tho. Yes it's not nice but at the end of the day it's just a random person on the internet talking crap delete block and forget about it is the easiest way to deal with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No happens alot I go from u are a sexy milf to a I wouldn't touch u! U old hag! x
Candy that was nearly a year ago now ! I had a few I thought we where past this no ?
Your never gonna let me live that mistake down !
Told you it was the gin talking haha
Nope! No forgiveness for u! Pmsl! X
I’ll buy you that 16 speed you want ?
Hmmm and baskets front and back?? x
Don’t push it candy ! You can have One basket ! Give you an inch you take a mile !
Fucking Chancer you are
Pmsl! Cant blame me for wanting more than a inch! x"
Your getting a bike and be grateful you crazy woman you !! |
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Even better when its a guy messaging someone whos listed as straight and still confused when they get rejected. Got called a jumped up rent boy the other day because i told a guy i werent interested when im clearly listed as straight lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It has happened to me before it doesn't bother me just proved I made the right choice to start with.
I've also seen where women have gotten just as abusive to men when they have been told no thanks so it's not just men who do it .
I don't understand why people get upset over the abuse tho. Yes it's not nice but at the end of the day it's just a random person on the internet talking crap delete block and forget about it is the easiest way to deal with it. "
Or don’t block them and just mind fuck them cause anyone that acts like that sounds like easy work ! And deserves some backlash !
This has usually got me in trouble but some people on here it’s hard to bite your lip
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even better when its a guy messaging someone whos listed as straight and still confused when they get rejected. Got called a jumped up rent boy the other day because i told a guy i werent interested when im clearly listed as straight lol"
Block them mate on ur options there relentless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I’ve never had any nasty responses ever in 11 years of being here and I’ve rejected thousands of people. Maybe it’s in the way you reject, how do you do it? I always say I’m flattered you’ve asked to meet me but I don’t feel an attraction sorry.
I’ve always just had replies thanking me for my response or complimenting me or agreeing with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I’ve never had any nasty responses ever in 11 years of being here and I’ve rejected thousands of people. Maybe it’s in the way you reject, how do you do it? I always say I’m flattered you’ve asked to meet me but I don’t feel an attraction sorry.
I’ve always just had replies thanking me for my response or complimenting me or agreeing with me. "
Always the height of decorum Annie ! Good to see you awake ? You getting a Tattoo today right ? Make sure to rock on a pic and Giza look how my face looks on your ass !
I’m sure it’s gonna look the bollox !
Can’t believe your going through with it you crazy bitch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Those who don’t wish to see something repeatedly can always pass on by without comment and let those who wish to voice their concern and their opinions partake as they see fit.
I’m a man and I don’t think the OP is ‘bashing’ me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I’ve never had any nasty responses ever in 11 years of being here and I’ve rejected thousands of people. Maybe it’s in the way you reject, how do you do it? I always say I’m flattered you’ve asked to meet me but I don’t feel an attraction sorry.
I’ve always just had replies thanking me for my response or complimenting me or agreeing with me.
Always the height of decorum Annie ! Good to see you awake ? You getting a Tattoo today right ? Make sure to rock on a pic and Giza look how my face looks on your ass !
I’m sure it’s gonna look the bollox !
Can’t believe your going through with it you crazy bitch "
As if. I’m having an existing one coloured in you fool. I am shattered, hoping I fall asleep in the chair. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I’ve never had any nasty responses ever in 11 years of being here and I’ve rejected thousands of people. Maybe it’s in the way you reject, how do you do it? I always say I’m flattered you’ve asked to meet me but I don’t feel an attraction sorry.
I’ve always just had replies thanking me for my response or complimenting me or agreeing with me.
Always the height of decorum Annie ! Good to see you awake ? You getting a Tattoo today right ? Make sure to rock on a pic and Giza look how my face looks on your ass !
I’m sure it’s gonna look the bollox !
Can’t believe your going through with it you crazy bitch "
Oi you….where have you been? I am in need of a good hi-jacking raid!! |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
This is why I now delete and block now if I’m not interested. Much less hassle. I don’t even answer x"
I woukd rather women. Did that then I can block them in turn. Not out of unpleasantness but so I don't waste their or my time messaging them again.
I can understand some.mens frustration. Getting mo thanks or deleted can be demoralising and it takes a while to get used to it.
Now I.am more shocked if I get a response at all. |
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By *lla_east OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Personally I’ve never had any nasty responses ever in 11 years of being here and I’ve rejected thousands of people. Maybe it’s in the way you reject, how do you do it? I always say I’m flattered you’ve asked to meet me but I don’t feel an attraction sorry.
I’ve always just had replies thanking me for my response or complimenting me or agreeing with me. "
Or maybe you and I attract a different type of person? Or I’m just someone that has a look / vibe people want to rage at. Who knows! 
I’ve tried various different approaches, from tailored explanations (quickly realised that was not sustainable time wise), to “Sorry, just not for me. All the best” (was my usual go-to). And all other variations in between.
Another one just added himself to the list and I didn’t even get around to reading his messages. Gave me a load of abuse for…. seemingly not keeping on top of my inbox quick enough 
Im glad you haven’t been given given this kind of shit though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I’ve never had any nasty responses ever in 11 years of being here and I’ve rejected thousands of people. Maybe it’s in the way you reject, how do you do it? I always say I’m flattered you’ve asked to meet me but I don’t feel an attraction sorry.
I’ve always just had replies thanking me for my response or complimenting me or agreeing with me.
Always the height of decorum Annie ! Good to see you awake ? You getting a Tattoo today right ? Make sure to rock on a pic and Giza look how my face looks on your ass !
I’m sure it’s gonna look the bollox !
Can’t believe your going through with it you crazy bitch
As if. I’m having an existing one coloured in you fool. I am shattered, hoping I fall asleep in the chair. "
I’ll try twist your arm some day nothing would surprise me ! Na kidding !
You ain’t falling asleep ! Color is shit to get done ! Looking forward to seen it tho how long you reckon ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
This is why I now delete and block now if I’m not interested. Much less hassle. I don’t even answer x
I Do exactly the same!
So cause this place is obviously rampant with complete knob heads that don’t have the first clue how to treat or talk to a women
we all get painted with that brush ? "
Eh? I don't think either of us said it was all men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
This is why I now delete and block now if I’m not interested. Much less hassle. I don’t even answer x
I Do exactly the same!
So cause this place is obviously rampant with complete knob heads that don’t have the first clue how to treat or talk to a women
we all get painted with that brush ?
Eh? I don't think either of us said it was all men? "
Was only talking to you ! Anyway I thought you just referenced men in your post ! honestly makes no odds to me and I wasn’t coming at you just to be clear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I’ve never had any nasty responses ever in 11 years of being here and I’ve rejected thousands of people. Maybe it’s in the way you reject, how do you do it? I always say I’m flattered you’ve asked to meet me but I don’t feel an attraction sorry.
I’ve always just had replies thanking me for my response or complimenting me or agreeing with me.
Or maybe you and I attract a different type of person? Or I’m just someone that has a look / vibe people want to rage at. Who knows!
I’ve tried various different approaches, from tailored explanations (quickly realised that was not sustainable time wise), to “Sorry, just not for me. All the best” (was my usual go-to). And all other variations in between.
Another one just added himself to the list and I didn’t even get around to reading his messages. Gave me a load of abuse for…. seemingly not keeping on top of my inbox quick enough
Im glad you haven’t been given given this kind of shit though "
Your pictures are more sexy than mine but dunno how that would attract abuse. Normally when you’ve got good attributes it gives people a reason to say you’re up your own arse or words to that effect. Just try not to let it bother you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I’ve never had any nasty responses ever in 11 years of being here and I’ve rejected thousands of people. Maybe it’s in the way you reject, how do you do it? I always say I’m flattered you’ve asked to meet me but I don’t feel an attraction sorry.
I’ve always just had replies thanking me for my response or complimenting me or agreeing with me.
Always the height of decorum Annie ! Good to see you awake ? You getting a Tattoo today right ? Make sure to rock on a pic and Giza look how my face looks on your ass !
I’m sure it’s gonna look the bollox !
Can’t believe your going through with it you crazy bitch
As if. I’m having an existing one coloured in you fool. I am shattered, hoping I fall asleep in the chair. I’ll try twist your arm some day nothing would surprise me ! Na kidding !
You ain’t falling asleep ! Color is shit to get done ! Looking forward to seen it tho how long you reckon ? "
No idea how long. I’ll try and be brave! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately when you post these threads your forgetting that probably 99% of men on the forums wouldn't send abusive messages..I would guess most men who do are just here for the fancy a fuck? Aspect of the site.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I’ve never had any nasty responses ever in 11 years of being here and I’ve rejected thousands of people. Maybe it’s in the way you reject, how do you do it? I always say I’m flattered you’ve asked to meet me but I don’t feel an attraction sorry.
I’ve always just had replies thanking me for my response or complimenting me or agreeing with me.
Always the height of decorum Annie ! Good to see you awake ? You getting a Tattoo today right ? Make sure to rock on a pic and Giza look how my face looks on your ass !
I’m sure it’s gonna look the bollox !
Can’t believe your going through with it you crazy bitch
As if. I’m having an existing one coloured in you fool. I am shattered, hoping I fall asleep in the chair. I’ll try twist your arm some day nothing would surprise me ! Na kidding !
You ain’t falling asleep ! Color is shit to get done ! Looking forward to seen it tho how long you reckon ?
No idea how long. I’ll try and be brave!"
Fist pump ha !! You be grand think unpleasant thoughts ha works a treat x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
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It can be frustrating getting a no reply but looking at your pics me personally I wouldn't message someone like yourself because you just look way too far out of my league (their are leagues before anyone says there isnt) ....I've also never sent a nasty message but whenever I send a message I either delete it and forget about it or just block the person if they don't reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
This is why I now delete and block now if I’m not interested. Much less hassle. I don’t even answer x"
This is what I do....if I look at a random profile and I don't find that person attractive I'll just block the person so they don't appear on my search or if they describe the guy they are looking for needs to be a certain type of adonis I'll block because I'm never going to be up to their standard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always think that for every ‘no’ I’m closer to a ‘yes’.
I always appreciate a response, even if it’s a no thanks - once I get a ‘no’ I block the sender so that I don’t inadvertently message them again.
If you can’t take a rejection then you’re on the wrong site, and personally, I just view it as their loss. X |
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
This is why I now delete and block now if I’m not interested. Much less hassle. I don’t even answer x
I Do exactly the same!
So cause this place is obviously rampant with complete knob heads that don’t have the first clue how to treat or talk to a women
we all get painted with that brush ? "
How on earth have you got that from my comment? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
This is why I now delete and block now if I’m not interested. Much less hassle. I don’t even answer x
I Do exactly the same!
So cause this place is obviously rampant with complete knob heads that don’t have the first clue how to treat or talk to a women
we all get painted with that brush ?
How on earth have you got that from my comment?"
Nora didn’t even look at your comment ! |
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
This is why I now delete and block now if I’m not interested. Much less hassle. I don’t even answer x
I Do exactly the same!
So cause this place is obviously rampant with complete knob heads that don’t have the first clue how to treat or talk to a women
we all get painted with that brush ?
How on earth have you got that from my comment?
Nora didn’t even look at your comment ! "
That was the one you replied to though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve just gone from “goddess” to “stupid c*nt” after a simple “no thanks”.
So often I see posts on here where men plead a response, “even if it’s a no thanks”.
I wonder if I’m the only woman / person who has encountered this sort of response. If not, feel free to share.
This is why I now delete and block now if I’m not interested. Much less hassle. I don’t even answer x
I Do exactly the same!
So cause this place is obviously rampant with complete knob heads that don’t have the first clue how to treat or talk to a women
we all get painted with that brush ?
How on earth have you got that from my comment?
Nora didn’t even look at your comment !
That was the one you replied to though. "
read up I meant to reply to a different comment I explained it up above my mistake |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before
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What do you suggest the site does then?
Everyone who joins pays so no one can send a free message then hide
You think making everyone pay to join will stop people sending abusive messages?
I think it would act as a deterrent....if you were to go and spit in a stranger's face but someone said I need your name and address first...you would think twice....? I dont have all the answers "
I don't think being a subscriber or paying to play will deter anyone. In fact, it may make people feel more entitled.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some guys can’t handle rejection at all and resort to being cunts. I appreciate a message even if it a no thanks as I think it’s pretty polite to be honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before
True
What do you suggest the site does then?
Everyone who joins pays so no one can send a free message then hide
You think making everyone pay to join will stop people sending abusive messages?
I think it would act as a deterrent....if you were to go and spit in a stranger's face but someone said I need your name and address first...you would think twice....? I dont have all the answers
I don't think being a subscriber or paying to play will deter anyone. In fact, it may make people feel more entitled.
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Somebody else said the same....I dont know what the answer is then |
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To be fair most of the men who do this probably won’t even see this thread. In all my time here I’ve never had abuse/nastiness from forum men. I don’t block forum people either even if I don’t like them. |
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By *tew008Man
over a year ago
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"To be fair most of the men who do this probably won’t even see this thread. In all my time here I’ve never had abuse/nastiness from forum men. I don’t block forum people either even if I don’t like them. "
Yup I’d guess they’d send abuse whatever method you took to say no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Awesome response ..if your not interested , block them . Out of sight out of mind . Would save a load of abuse .
I think the fact the message part says if it's read and deleted gets some men's back up . I personally just float around , send a message , no response , block n bobble on lol :0) |
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"To be fair most of the men who do this probably won’t even see this thread. In all my time here I’ve never had abuse/nastiness from forum men. I don’t block forum people either even if I don’t like them.
Yup I’d guess they’d send abuse whatever method you took to say no."
It depends if you’re the kind of person to take it to heart. I guess it can really hurt if someone is feeling down. No need for it. Luckily I can let it go over my head but I do the same with most of the compliments too really. There’s always going to be nasty people trying to fill their sad days unfortunately x |
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I often get a polite “no thank you”. A simple “thank you for taking the time to reply, it shows your character that you took the time to respond” type message from me to show appreciation.
I wouldn’t dream of sending some abuse after I’ve received rejection. What’s the point? You’re not going to change their mind by calling them a “stupid c*nt” or anything else. And to be honest, I’ve responded politely, and ended up meeting one or two of them later lol |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before
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What do you suggest the site does then?
Everyone who joins pays so no one can send a free message then hide
You think making everyone pay to join will stop people sending abusive messages?
I think it would act as a deterrent....if you were to go and spit in a stranger's face but someone said I need your name and address first...you would think twice....? I dont have all the answers
I don't think being a subscriber or paying to play will deter anyone. In fact, it may make people feel more entitled.
Somebody else said the same....I dont know what the answer is then"
The only thing anyone can do is to either reply no ta, and block, or block without a reply.
If they can't message they can't send abuse.
For the record, I've been here 10 years, rejected thousands of unsuitable men and only had 4, maybe 5 shitty responses, and 2 of them were because it was late at night, I was tired and sent a sarcastic response.
Maybe it's my location. |
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I’m sorry guys but this is exactly the reason I’ve ended up blocking single guys from messaging me. I hate feeling like I have to do it as I really do like chatting to many of you but I never know what kind of reaction I’m going to get and no matter how thick my skin, it does bother me when this inevitably happens. So now I only reach out when I want to
It really is a case of the few spoiling it for the many and I feel sorry for the genuinely nice chaps who are here |
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before
True
What do you suggest the site does then?
Everyone who joins pays so no one can send a free message then hide
You think making everyone pay to join will stop people sending abusive messages?
I think it would act as a deterrent....if you were to go and spit in a stranger's face but someone said I need your name and address first...you would think twice....? I dont have all the answers
I don't think being a subscriber or paying to play will deter anyone. In fact, it may make people feel more entitled.
Somebody else said the same....I dont know what the answer is then
The only thing anyone can do is to either reply no ta, and block, or block without a reply.
If they can't message they can't send abuse.
For the record, I've been here 10 years, rejected thousands of unsuitable men and only had 4, maybe 5 shitty responses, and 2 of them were because it was late at night, I was tired and sent a sarcastic response.
Maybe it's my location. "
.I think the block without reply is the way |
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"I’m sorry guys but this is exactly the reason I’ve ended up blocking single guys from messaging me. I hate feeling like I have to do it as I really do like chatting to many of you but I never know what kind of reaction I’m going to get and no matter how thick my skin, it does bother me when this inevitably happens. So now I only reach out when I want to
It really is a case of the few spoiling it for the many and I feel sorry for the genuinely nice chaps who are here "
Do what I do. If you’re not interested delete and block. It’s so much easier honestly. When I was looking I put it on my profile that I did this and that it wasn’t personal it’s just how I do it. It’s impossible for you to get nasty messages. x |
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"No happens alot I go from u are a sexy milf to a I wouldn't touch u! U old hag! x
Candy that was nearly a year ago now ! I had a few I thought we where past this no ?
Your never gonna let me live that mistake down !
Told you it was the gin talking haha
Nope! No forgiveness for u! Pmsl! X
I’ll buy you that 16 speed you want ?
Hmmm and baskets front and back?? x
Don’t push it candy ! You can have One basket ! Give you an inch you take a mile !
Fucking Chancer you are
Pmsl! Cant blame me for wanting more than a inch! x
Your getting a bike and be grateful you crazy woman you !! "
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Maybe a zero tolerance angle towards abisive messages is needed, where one would report the sender, mods look at the abusive message, sender gets BANNED. It might make a few think before they type. Blocking only stops abuse between individuals, the abuser is still left on the site to spit out their dummy and have further tantrums towards other members.
Just my opinion. |
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If it was the other way around and the guys were getting loads of messages I think we'd do the same but this is the way I would handle it
You send me a hi message your not getting a reply and blocked unless you look like meghan fox
If you send something slightly longer in your message but it isn't catered to my profile I'll just have a copy & paste message saved that will say thanks for the message but I'm not interested thanks
If you sent a long message which detailed a lot of things in my profile and you could tell they had spent a lot of time reading my profile but I wasn't attracted to them I would send them an equally long appreciative reply due to the effort they put In.
After each reply I would block that person because what's the point if we're being honest.....
.....now I would be left with the messages of profiles that sent messages that were well thought out and I and find there pictures appealing
.....all this is irrelevant if you've got the personality of a brick and you're up your own arse
I make some great points but no doubt my post will get bypassed as I'm either invisible, don't have any abs to show or I've heard rumours there is a clique (don't shoot the messenger)
So all in all I can understand were women are coming from x
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before "
With good reason!!! We get this on a daily basis. It's not pleasant. |
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over a year ago
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Awesome response ..if your not interested , block them . Out of sight out of mind . Would save a load of abuse .
I think the fact the message part says if it's read and deleted gets some men's back up . I personally just float around , send a message , no response , block n bobble on lol :0 |
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"No happens alot I go from u are a sexy milf to a I wouldn't touch u! U old hag! x
Candy that was nearly a year ago now ! I had a few I thought we where past this no ?
Your never gonna let me live that mistake down !
Told you it was the gin talking haha
Nope! No forgiveness for u! Pmsl! X
I’ll buy you that 16 speed you want ?
Hmmm and baskets front and back?? x
Don’t push it candy ! You can have One basket ! Give you an inch you take a mile !
Fucking Chancer you are
Pmsl! Cant blame me for wanting more than a inch! x
Your getting a bike and be grateful you crazy woman you !!
Ok my bad! x"
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"Maybe a zero tolerance angle towards abisive messages is needed, where one would report the sender, mods look at the abusive message, sender gets BANNED. It might make a few think before they type. Blocking only stops abuse between individuals, the abuser is still left on the site to spit out their dummy and have further tantrums towards other members.
Just my opinion."
Then they set up a new account and carry on like before. Also you’d have loads of messages to admin on a daily basis, who’d have to decide if the message is abusive enough to warrant a ban.
Unfortunately there’s no easy answer to this perennial problem. |
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"Maybe a zero tolerance angle towards abisive messages is needed, where one would report the sender, mods look at the abusive message, sender gets BANNED. It might make a few think before they type. Blocking only stops abuse between individuals, the abuser is still left on the site to spit out their dummy and have further tantrums towards other members.
Just my opinion.
Then they set up a new account and carry on like before. Also you’d have loads of messages to admin on a daily basis, who’d have to decide if the message is abusive enough to warrant a ban.
Unfortunately there’s no easy answer to this perennial problem. "
 
Banning by ip address wouldn't be hard. Of course some might use vpn's but most probably don't, so unless they went out to buy a new phone, laptop or pc each time they got banned they wouldn't be back. It's not hard to see if a message is abussive, especially in cases that OP mentions. Get rid of these s for good, the whole site would be a better place for everyone. |
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"No happens alot I go from u are a sexy milf to a I wouldn't touch u! U old hag! x
Candy that was nearly a year ago now ! I had a few I thought we where past this no ?
Your never gonna let me live that mistake down !
Told you it was the gin talking haha
Nope! No forgiveness for u! Pmsl! X
I’ll buy you that 16 speed you want ?
Hmmm and baskets front and back?? x
Don’t push it candy ! You can have One basket ! Give you an inch you take a mile !
Fucking Chancer you are
Pmsl! Cant blame me for wanting more than a inch! x
Your getting a bike and be grateful you crazy woman you !!
Ok my bad! x
Don’t be silly it’s my nap time I’m just been grumpy "
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over a year ago
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"I’m sorry guys but this is exactly the reason I’ve ended up blocking single guys from messaging me. I hate feeling like I have to do it as I really do like chatting to many of you but I never know what kind of reaction I’m going to get and no matter how thick my skin, it does bother me when this inevitably happens. So now I only reach out when I want to
It really is a case of the few spoiling it for the many and I feel sorry for the genuinely nice chaps who are here "
I dont have any message filters. I just take men off my Looking For list and it takes me off their searches. They seem to leave me alone. But then you have great pics and sound nice.... the opposite of me.
There's lots of really nice men on here. |
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"If it was the other way around and the guys were getting loads of messages I think we'd do the same but this is the way I would handle it
You send me a hi message your not getting a reply and blocked unless you look like meghan fox
If you send something slightly longer in your message but it isn't catered to my profile I'll just have a copy & paste message saved that will say thanks for the message but I'm not interested thanks
If you sent a long message which detailed a lot of things in my profile and you could tell they had spent a lot of time reading my profile but I wasn't attracted to them I would send them an equally long appreciative reply due to the effort they put In.
After each reply I would block that person because what's the point if we're being honest.....
.....now I would be left with the messages of profiles that sent messages that were well thought out and I and find there pictures appealing
.....all this is irrelevant if you've got the personality of a brick and you're up your own arse
I make some great points but no doubt my post will get bypassed as I'm either invisible, don't have any abs to show or I've heard rumours there is a clique (don't shoot the messenger)
So all in all I can understand were women are coming from x
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Write this big post with good points for it to totally be bypassed....you try and get yourself involved in convos on here and just get ignored.
I wouldn't do it personally because I'm a nice guy but no wonder some guys change their tune on here and show a hint of bitterness |
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"If it was the other way around and the guys were getting loads of messages I think we'd do the same but this is the way I would handle it
You send me a hi message your not getting a reply and blocked unless you look like meghan fox
If you send something slightly longer in your message but it isn't catered to my profile I'll just have a copy & paste message saved that will say thanks for the message but I'm not interested thanks
If you sent a long message which detailed a lot of things in my profile and you could tell they had spent a lot of time reading my profile but I wasn't attracted to them I would send them an equally long appreciative reply due to the effort they put In.
After each reply I would block that person because what's the point if we're being honest.....
.....now I would be left with the messages of profiles that sent messages that were well thought out and I and find there pictures appealing
.....all this is irrelevant if you've got the personality of a brick and you're up your own arse
I make some great points but no doubt my post will get bypassed as I'm either invisible, don't have any abs to show or I've heard rumours there is a clique (don't shoot the messenger)
So all in all I can understand were women are coming from x
Write this big post with good points for it to totally be bypassed....you try and get yourself involved in convos on here and just get ignored.
I wouldn't do it personally because I'm a nice guy but no wonder some guys change their tune on here and show a hint of bitterness "
Because the grand sum of three women who’ve posted since you posted haven’t fawned over your reply you can see why guys get abusive (and it’s not bitter - it’s abusive)?
That says a lot |
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It happens all the time OP
I either ignore and don’t reply. Or if I do and they send shit back I either ignore and block or send them a score out of 10 for their originality in the insult.
Especially as so many who “loved” my profile and would love to meet resort to “fat bitch/cunt” after I politely say no. 1/10 for that effort... |
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"If it was the other way around and the guys were getting loads of messages I think we'd do the same but this is the way I would handle it
You send me a hi message your not getting a reply and blocked unless you look like meghan fox
If you send something slightly longer in your message but it isn't catered to my profile I'll just have a copy & paste message saved that will say thanks for the message but I'm not interested thanks
If you sent a long message which detailed a lot of things in my profile and you could tell they had spent a lot of time reading my profile but I wasn't attracted to them I would send them an equally long appreciative reply due to the effort they put In.
After each reply I would block that person because what's the point if we're being honest.....
.....now I would be left with the messages of profiles that sent messages that were well thought out and I and find there pictures appealing
.....all this is irrelevant if you've got the personality of a brick and you're up your own arse
I make some great points but no doubt my post will get bypassed as I'm either invisible, don't have any abs to show or I've heard rumours there is a clique (don't shoot the messenger)
So all in all I can understand were women are coming from x
Write this big post with good points for it to totally be bypassed....you try and get yourself involved in convos on here and just get ignored.
I wouldn't do it personally because I'm a nice guy but no wonder some guys change their tune on here and show a hint of bitterness
Because the grand sum of three women who’ve posted since you posted haven’t fawned over your reply you can see why guys get abusive (and it’s not bitter - it’s abusive)?
That says a lot "
Yup, hung yourself with your own rope there dude!  |
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"If it was the other way around and the guys were getting loads of messages I think we'd do the same but this is the way I would handle it
You send me a hi message your not getting a reply and blocked unless you look like meghan fox
If you send something slightly longer in your message but it isn't catered to my profile I'll just have a copy & paste message saved that will say thanks for the message but I'm not interested thanks
If you sent a long message which detailed a lot of things in my profile and you could tell they had spent a lot of time reading my profile but I wasn't attracted to them I would send them an equally long appreciative reply due to the effort they put In.
After each reply I would block that person because what's the point if we're being honest.....
.....now I would be left with the messages of profiles that sent messages that were well thought out and I and find there pictures appealing
.....all this is irrelevant if you've got the personality of a brick and you're up your own arse
I make some great points but no doubt my post will get bypassed as I'm either invisible, don't have any abs to show or I've heard rumours there is a clique (don't shoot the messenger)
So all in all I can understand were women are coming from x
Write this big post with good points for it to totally be bypassed....you try and get yourself involved in convos on here and just get ignored.
I wouldn't do it personally because I'm a nice guy but no wonder some guys change their tune on here and show a hint of bitterness
Because the grand sum of three women who’ve posted since you posted haven’t fawned over your reply you can see why guys get abusive (and it’s not bitter - it’s abusive)?
That says a lot "
Like I say I'm a nice...me myself I'm not abusive but I've been abused by plenty of women on here..very negative comments.
I was just looking for some feedback comments on a well thought out message that had some excellent points...think positive |
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"If it was the other way around and the guys were getting loads of messages I think we'd do the same but this is the way I would handle it
You send me a hi message your not getting a reply and blocked unless you look like meghan fox
If you send something slightly longer in your message but it isn't catered to my profile I'll just have a copy & paste message saved that will say thanks for the message but I'm not interested thanks
If you sent a long message which detailed a lot of things in my profile and you could tell they had spent a lot of time reading my profile but I wasn't attracted to them I would send them an equally long appreciative reply due to the effort they put In.
After each reply I would block that person because what's the point if we're being honest.....
.....now I would be left with the messages of profiles that sent messages that were well thought out and I and find there pictures appealing
.....all this is irrelevant if you've got the personality of a brick and you're up your own arse
I make some great points but no doubt my post will get bypassed as I'm either invisible, don't have any abs to show or I've heard rumours there is a clique (don't shoot the messenger)
So all in all I can understand were women are coming from x
Write this big post with good points for it to totally be bypassed....you try and get yourself involved in convos on here and just get ignored.
I wouldn't do it personally because I'm a nice guy but no wonder some guys change their tune on here and show a hint of bitterness
Because the grand sum of three women who’ve posted since you posted haven’t fawned over your reply you can see why guys get abusive (and it’s not bitter - it’s abusive)?
That says a lot
Like I say I'm a nice...me myself I'm not abusive but I've been abused by plenty of women on here..very negative comments.
I was just looking for some feedback comments on a well thought out message that had some excellent points...think positive "
I’ve hardly been abused at all mate !
at least you get some dialogue !
Women eh !
No pleasing them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get it all the time
At first I am the most stunning on this side and the next I am just a guy in a dress who want to shag me
Or I am all classy at first say no
And now I just a slut or a whore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I said no to someone today after the 2nd message of him saying he isn’t like other guys to be told I wouldn’t want to meet you anyway then blocked me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I haven’t been around for a while, what have I missed?
Oh, nothing I see!
So Stop sneaking off to watch countdown !
I’m trying to learn how to do the county thing?  "
Haha
Yeah Once I figure out what continent and vowels are I reckon I might grasp that program |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I haven’t been around for a while, what have I missed?
Oh, nothing I see!
Yes, men are still shits
Aren’t they though! "
Your alright mate !
I’m definitely debatable tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had 9 messages (unread) off a guy then one that said you’re obviously a robot just read my message. So I read and deleted them all. He replied saying well played. |
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"So I haven’t been around for a while, what have I missed?
Oh, nothing I see!
So Stop sneaking off to watch countdown !
I’m trying to learn how to do the county thing?
Haha
Yeah Once I figure out what continent and vowels are I reckon I might grasp that program "
Aren’t vowels the things you shit out of? |
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"So I haven’t been around for a while, what have I missed?
Oh, nothing I see!
So Stop sneaking off to watch countdown !
I’m trying to learn how to do the county thing?
Haha
Yeah Once I figure out what continent and vowels are I reckon I might grasp that program
Aren’t vowels the things you shit out of? "
now you can see my dilemma I can’t even fucking spell them correct ffs !
I’ll never make it on that show |
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"I had 9 messages (unread) off a guy then one that said you’re obviously a robot just read my message. So I read and deleted them all. He replied saying well played. "
Some washer called you a robot !
Witty bastard I’ll give him that much ! Haha
God love him he probably believes it |
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"If it was the other way around and the guys were getting loads of messages I think we'd do the same but this is the way I would handle it
You send me a hi message your not getting a reply and blocked unless you look like meghan fox
If you send something slightly longer in your message but it isn't catered to my profile I'll just have a copy & paste message saved that will say thanks for the message but I'm not interested thanks
If you sent a long message which detailed a lot of things in my profile and you could tell they had spent a lot of time reading my profile but I wasn't attracted to them I would send them an equally long appreciative reply due to the effort they put In.
After each reply I would block that person because what's the point if we're being honest.....
.....now I would be left with the messages of profiles that sent messages that were well thought out and I and find there pictures appealing
.....all this is irrelevant if you've got the personality of a brick and you're up your own arse
I make some great points but no doubt my post will get bypassed as I'm either invisible, don't have any abs to show or I've heard rumours there is a clique (don't shoot the messenger)
So all in all I can understand were women are coming from x
Write this big post with good points for it to totally be bypassed....you try and get yourself involved in convos on here and just get ignored.
I wouldn't do it personally because I'm a nice guy but no wonder some guys change their tune on here and show a hint of bitterness
Because the grand sum of three women who’ve posted since you posted haven’t fawned over your reply you can see why guys get abusive (and it’s not bitter - it’s abusive)?
That says a lot
Like I say I'm a nice...me myself I'm not abusive but I've been abused by plenty of women on here..very negative comments.
I was just looking for some feedback comments on a well thought out message that had some excellent points...think positive "
It’s amazing the number of nice guys who are driven to be abusive, or to defend, it on here purely by women choosing not to converse with them.
You wanted and you got bitter because you didn’t get what you wanted. Exactly the same reasoning as the abusive message senders use...
People are, and should be, free to ignore or reply to whatever they want. That includes messages from nice guys who might get bitter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So me and a girl had been seeing eachother, we met on here.
We finished last week.
She finished it. She said she had been the subject of abuse in the past.
When she told me by message we were finished sure I was dissapointed but would never think of giving her abuse.
There are good guys out there but we seem to be tarred with the generalists brush that all men are Twats.
On the flip side after a local couple messaged me, then pestered for photos (which I sent) I was blocked because I wasn't their cup of tea.
That angered me as we had chatted long enough for them to know I wasn't a nasty or abusive sort.
I guess some folks just like the power of the block button too. |
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over a year ago
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"If it was the other way around and the guys were getting loads of messages I think we'd do the same but this is the way I would handle it
You send me a hi message your not getting a reply and blocked unless you look like meghan fox
If you send something slightly longer in your message but it isn't catered to my profile I'll just have a copy & paste message saved that will say thanks for the message but I'm not interested thanks
If you sent a long message which detailed a lot of things in my profile and you could tell they had spent a lot of time reading my profile but I wasn't attracted to them I would send them an equally long appreciative reply due to the effort they put In.
After each reply I would block that person because what's the point if we're being honest.....
.....now I would be left with the messages of profiles that sent messages that were well thought out and I and find there pictures appealing
.....all this is irrelevant if you've got the personality of a brick and you're up your own arse
I make some great points but no doubt my post will get bypassed as I'm either invisible, don't have any abs to show or I've heard rumours there is a clique (don't shoot the messenger)
So all in all I can understand were women are coming from x
Write this big post with good points for it to totally be bypassed....you try and get yourself involved in convos on here and just get ignored.
I wouldn't do it personally because I'm a nice guy but no wonder some guys change their tune on here and show a hint of bitterness
Because the grand sum of three women who’ve posted since you posted haven’t fawned over your reply you can see why guys get abusive (and it’s not bitter - it’s abusive)?
That says a lot
Like I say I'm a nice...me myself I'm not abusive but I've been abused by plenty of women on here..very negative comments.
I was just looking for some feedback comments on a well thought out message that had some excellent points...think positive
It’s amazing the number of nice guys who are driven to be abusive, or to defend, it on here purely by women choosing not to converse with them.
You wanted and you got bitter because you didn’t get what you wanted. Exactly the same reasoning as the abusive message senders use...
People are, and should be, free to ignore or reply to whatever they want. That includes messages from nice guys who might get bitter."
Get off your high horse....you don't know me so to say I'm bitter is invalid
Give me an example of when I have been abusive please?
Thanks
From a nice guy not a bitter guy x |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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Nope not alone.
I’m Sure I’ve told this before but usual story …. Can’t live without me/best profile ever to fat dried up old witch in 5 (not replied to) messages.
So I replied. Apologised profusely. Said I felt awful upsetting him so when he obviously was so hurt and really wanted to get to know me. I suggested I join him at the hotel he was at to buy him a drink. He instantly switched to absolute adoration. Until
I didn’t turn up of course. Did he actually think I would. The mind of some people is quite amazing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More man bashing....yes we get it...there are horrible men on this site.....and trust me there are some nasty women on here
The site needs to step up and start protecting its users a bit better....blocking is ok but you still have the abuse before
I really will never understand why men get upset about threads like this.
If you're not the kind of man who would behave like this, you're not being attacked or criticised.
There's no need to attach yourself so firmly to the category of 'man' that you get upset whenever anyone talks about men behaving badly. "
well said...
the guys that take offence i guess are the guys not getting meets and the guys being abusive i guess..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are good guys out there but we seem to be tarred with the generalists brush that all men are Twats."
utter crap the abusive guys ruin it for themselves nobody else .. fed up with guys saying this ... your responsible for yourselves nobody else if you cant get meets thats down to you own it or change it..
i see it on statuses all the time guys moaning all the time about bad guy ruining it for good guys ...great filter for me i just block them now ... |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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"There are good guys out there but we seem to be tarred with the generalists brush that all men are Twats.
utter crap the abusive guys ruin it for themselves nobody else .. fed up with guys saying this ... your responsible for yourselves nobody else if you cant get meets thats down to you own it or change it..
i see it on statuses all the time guys moaning all the time about bad guy ruining it for good guys ...great filter for me i just block them now ... "
Absolutely this. Funnily enough some of us are smart enough to make our own decisions.
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